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As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.
I get your point mate and the truth  be told that most times as a person,  there have been some cases that at some point, we tend to regret our losses and which we made another option rather than the very own that was chosen.
Whatever the case might be, mkst gamblers if not all already know that we are solely  responsible  for all our actions but there are cases when we wish we can blame anyone  for our losses.
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Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.
Actually this kind of thing is something that we find very often, as you say they realize they have lost money and they make scenarios as if they are victims of irresponsible people or the casino itself. One of their goals is to hope the story they're telling will make their money back, or they want a particular casino to become defamed. The second reason doesn't make much more sense to me, and therefore the reason they want their money back is the most compelling reason. This kind of thing is what desperate fools do. lol
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I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.
We can totally understand it. When everything goes well, no one feels sad or angry, no one hates good things. But once they encounter difficulties, losses, they lose money, they start to feel regret and regret. But in the meantime, that regret is too bad and they can't accept that they themselves were wrong, they need someone to blame, right? And if you are there, or you join them, you will be a target, a trash can for them to vent their emotions.

It's best not to work with people like that, they're bad  Roll Eyes
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Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.
Yes, usually people who don't want to experience big losses will usually do the same thing, even though he consciously knows that playing gambling is full of risks, but people like this always underestimate the risk. It's clear that whenever playing gambling, there will definitely be risks that must be accepted. whether it's losing money or losing assets, so you better not play gambling if you don't want to play risk it's better to work or become an entrepreneur to earn money.

I also see it strange and funny why people can do and say that casinos are committing fraud even though there have been many warnings that playing gambling cannot make people rich, so play wisely don't play greedy so that when you lose you don't make it as told by OP in this thread.  Cheesy
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I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.
That person can be said to be stupid and maybe his stupidity is the result of thinking that gambling is an activity that will always be able to benefit, that person does not understand how gambling works in any type of game there is no certainty of profit because when we start betting it is the same as taking the risk of losing , in gambling that we think is the safest, we can still lose, betting at the smallest odds because we will definitely win, it turns out to be the other way around, using the martinagle strategy, you can still lose all your balance. So when we start gambling, don't ever think about winning and always do what we believe in so we won't blame other people when it turns out to be wrong.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.
No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.
I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.
First of all, it is very improper to take someone advice while gambling because the person advising you is also a human like you and is likely to predict wrongly even more than yours. I personal believe that gambling on online casino should be done at your own convenient at your own quite time because you definitely need a quite and clear to focus your energy to predict or the correct game while gambling any distraction during this time can lead to series of loss and then you may likely blame another person for this while in the first place you caused everything.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.
No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.
I have seen several people who gamble on the advice of others and are very happy when they win. If suddenly they lose, they blame the person whose advice they gambled on. Never get hot while gambling if you lose your head.  If you make a rash decision then you will lose all your money. If you can gamble with your thoughts then it will be very good for you. But I think those who are totally involved with Joya have no peace in their life and are always depressed.
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No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.
That's right, friends, because blaming other people for losing at gambling will only make us covered in emotional upset and also disappointment. After all, blaming other people will only cause hostility so that in the future it can have a negative impact on ourselves.
It's better to really blame yourself and always introspect which ones must be corrected so that when gambling can minimize the number of losses.
Seeing that matches other people's predictions with your own is good because it can provide learning and more ways to be able to make more accurate predictions.
I see a lot of people selling their predictions but this group of people are just stupid people who can harm other gamblers by selling fake predictions that have no guarantees.
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Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.
Only they can change themselves for the better. I also believe that if they want to change for the better, they have to be strong-willed, not complain, and always try because the temptation to go back to gambling will be even more intense at that time. This is why they have to take it seriously and realize that what they did was wrong. And maybe there's nothing wrong with asking for help from other people, including our family members, because they know us better.
And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.
Well, they shouldn't deny their mistakes and instead, turn around to make amends by changing for the better. That's what they have to do so that the punishment they will receive will not be too severe.

And after they have served their sentence and are free, they must try to prevent all the mistakes they have made before. That way, people will see if they really want to change for the better.
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Sad to hear what happened here. But yeah, there are people that would blame others if they lose their money when gambling. And then there are people that would claim that lost they money "by mistake' or someone stole their money (which actually happened in this story that you posted), but it was actually them. When they lost, they realized what has happened, and now they somehow wants to get their money back. Happens more at online casino where players claim that they account was hacked, the game was bugged or straight blaming the casino saying their games are rigged. Not something very unsual.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.
No one should be blamed others for gambling. First you have to gamble by your own research. But you can take other people's thought and find what is the difference from your research and them. If your criteria and the criteria of a gambling expert match, you can accept it. Gambling should never be blindly influenced by other people's decisions. Also, one thing that is often observed is that many gamblers blame themselves when they lose bets based on someone else's suggestion and do not blame when they win. It is inconsistent. So it is best to manage gambling based on your own experience.
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~snip~

Acceptance is the start of being a better person. If they can embrace and accept those mistakes, then they've got a good chance
to learn more about it and start working on it to become a better person.

But like how you describe it, if they can't accept those failures and they are not willing to accept those bad things that they've done, they're hard-headed
will continue to grow to do worse.

It will be depending on how they will take this matter and how they will arrange to settle this problem that they've created.
Hopefully, we get some update news about what happened to them and if they're able to say something about this. Other wise, all of those things that everyone has said counts and they'll have to spend the jail time that has been the verdict upon them.

~snip~

As per the OP's shared article, both the mother and son was convicted for a total 7 years jailtime after they pleaded guilty to the crimes they did and the article also said that they got a fine of 150,000 Naira each ($324). Seems little enough, right? But for a third world country like Nigeria, these money is large enough for them to start reflecting from their sins.

Hopefully, after what happened to them, they will renew themselves and start doing things legally instead of gambling and then blaming somebody for the losses.
That's why if there could be some follow up news or updates about them, that would be good but then. If they're already inside the jail, none will be interesting anymore to them to the media there.

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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
There is a kind of bet I would make and I would blame the person that ask me to make that particular bet especially when I am forced or compelled with the assurance of winning the bet. I had made multiple bets on boxing and other friend sport bets that gave me bad luck and I never bother to accuse anyone of my loses because I knew that sometimes, luck might not fall on your side that's why I would never blame anyone of my gambling loses depending on whether they are the one that initial the gaming or gambling activity or not.
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At some point the mom an son have accepted what they've done. Atleast for that jail sentence could've been reduced, and it is upto the law of the country. They shouldn't have done it. It is the country where the politicians even after getting caught on corruption continues on the power. People are equal before the law is no more. I don't say the mom and son is right, out of emotions they would've planned and executed it to get back what they've lost. People doesn't have the mind to accept loss, as well as they're spend beyond their ability. When one is able to overcome these things gambling will be enjoyable.
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The case of the mother and child is a very funny one and what should be asked is, who then gambled the money that was transferred from their account to the casino  and who gave them access to the casino  that the funds  was transferred  to?
Most times the news and stories from the forum has always helped me make better gambling  decisions  so as to stay out of trouble and stay more in profits and I hope that we also try as much as possible  to learn from all these stories.
Well on the long run, I think the judgement of the law against  them was fair enough as they were trying to get someone  else involved in their mess rather than staying remorseful.
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Winding down.
Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.
Only they can change themselves for the better. I also believe that if they want to change for the better, they have to be strong-willed, not complain, and always try because the temptation to go back to gambling will be even more intense at that time. This is why they have to take it seriously and realize that what they did was wrong. And maybe there's nothing wrong with asking for help from other people, including our family members, because they know us better.
And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.

As per the OP's shared article, both the mother and son was convicted for a total 7 years jailtime after they pleaded guilty to the crimes they did and the article also said that they got a fine of 150,000 Naira each ($324). Seems little enough, right? But for a third world country like Nigeria, these money is large enough for them to start reflecting from their sins.

Hopefully, after what happened to them, they will renew themselves and start doing things legally instead of gambling and then blaming somebody for the losses.
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I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
It's because people are really obsessed with money due to the current capitalism society.

We have seen many family have conflict about heritage or business which is money, people are want to get promoted on the company they work including destroying someone career, people like to corrupt more money as long as they have a chance etc.

The same happen like blaming someone for your gambling losses, this can pressuring him and feel wrong, this has a small chance to get your money back.
This is what they say that money is the root of all evil because people can do all sorts of bad things just to get more of it. Luckily some people values their morality more than the money. Like me for example, it does not really matter if I am earning small but as long as I am earning it the right way that I am not hurting other people. Doing good stuffs is the one that can make us happy and not totally the money.

@xSkylarx they already know it but blaming other is only their alibi because maybe they are too shy for the public to know that they gamble all their money but it is too late already. This is a lesson or a reminder for those who are planning to do an unwanted activity, that regrets are only experienced at the end.
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Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.
Only they can change themselves for the better. I also believe that if they want to change for the better, they have to be strong-willed, not complain, and always try because the temptation to go back to gambling will be even more intense at that time. This is why they have to take it seriously and realize that what they did was wrong. And maybe there's nothing wrong with asking for help from other people, including our family members, because they know us better.
And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.

Acceptance is the start of being a better person. If they can embrace and accept those mistakes, then they've got a good chance
to learn more about it and start working on it to become a better person.

But like how you describe it, if they can't accept those failures and they are not willing to accept those bad things that they've done, they're hard-headed
will continue to grow to do worse.

It will be depending on how they will take this matter and how they will arrange to settle this problem that they've created.
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Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.
Only they can change themselves for the better. I also believe that if they want to change for the better, they have to be strong-willed, not complain, and always try because the temptation to go back to gambling will be even more intense at that time. This is why they have to take it seriously and realize that what they did was wrong. And maybe there's nothing wrong with asking for help from other people, including our family members, because they know us better.
And before they do that, take the accountability first and pay for the penalty that's given to them whether it's jail time or fine that they need to pay.

That's the start that they're about to do better by doing those things. But with those and they still negate to their mistake, they're hard headed and that's not a good sign that they'll change for better.

Betterment will only come to them by doing the right thing of what should be done after they've been caught and admit they've lost and no one's to blame but them.
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I will only blame someone if they're the ones that talked me into placing a gamble that I knew wasn't likely to play out. Gambling platforms always warn their users to be up to a certain age to be able to use thier platform and if you proceed to accept the terms and conditions, you have no moral right to blame anyone for your losses. Just like Bitcoin trading and investment, any bettor should always stake an amount of money he or she can afford to lose.

Gambling addiction isn't an easy thing to overcome, it's better to stay away than fight the addiction. It's ideal to not give gambling predictions without proper analysis in order to avoid blames.
If the invitation does not easily persuade us of friends or other people, we will not have the problem of losing money at gambling. And so we don't get into trouble, we have to be able to say no to people who ask us and avoid them every time we meet them. This is to avoid blaming himself for inviting us to gamble and lose. But we should already know that playing gambling can result in defeat and for ordinary people, they also know that even though they may not know how the process works.

And before it's too late to become addicted to gambling, we must be able to avoid playing gambling too often. And to fight the desire to return to gambling, we must have other activities to keep thoughts of gambling away.

Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.
Only they can change themselves for the better. I also believe that if they want to change for the better, they have to be strong-willed, not complain, and always try because the temptation to go back to gambling will be even more intense at that time. This is why they have to take it seriously and realize that what they did was wrong. And maybe there's nothing wrong with asking for help from other people, including our family members, because they know us better.
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