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Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
Bad behavior indeed and it is not worth the example of a parent to behave, who knows what he thinks to bring his child to play gambling and throw stones and then hide hand.


Obviously kids do not belong to the casino in any way, shape or form. Actually, assuming the child would grow up to become a gambler with problems of addiction then sooner or later would blame his old father of all the money and misfortunes he had to suffer for many years.

And believe it or not, those kind of situations are more common than you think, unfortunately. Parents in this country do not allow children to do anything related to adulthood but still encourage them to learn card games, like poker or Truco.  Roll Eyes
Well there are really indeed corners in the world on which it is really that turning out that gambling is really that main thing that they could be able to deal with. We know that parenting does really play a huge role
when it comes on raising up your kids. If you do let them engage on their early years then for sure on what you would be expecting on which it would turn out for them to be a gambling addict.

I have got a good example of bad parenting and has to do with that "corners of the world" explanation.
There was a time here in my country when people were struggling economically because massive inflation and reckless political moves by out leaders and out of no where, electronic roulette houses started to appear in every corner.

People started to partake on it, adults and even children, the operators really did never care, they wanted people to buy tickets on the animal and they think could appear the next time. 

Parents saw that completely normal, almost like an innocent thing, that children were gambling a few dollars at the time with the hope of bringing 10$ back home...
When you are on the verge or economic difficulty or simply speaking about having not much money then this is where desperation would kicks in on which us parents would really be definitely be just agreeing
on what they are seeing.We cant know if those decisions are really against into their principle or just simply accepting it because there's nothing they can do and they would be needing to gamble
for them to earn more. Yes, its a bad mindset to have but when you are on such situation then you wont really be following your pride and principles in life.

These people are pretty much aware about on how do gambling work and it is really just no sense on why the heck they are doing gambling if they do know that they could lost up money instead of earning.
We cant really dictate on how parents should be raising up their kids on which i do agree on what said that even how hard you to train and tell them about the good ways, but due
to some external factor there's always a chance that they would lost off track which is something thats inevitable.
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Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
Bad behavior indeed and it is not worth the example of a parent to behave, who knows what he thinks to bring his child to play gambling and throw stones and then hide hand.


Obviously kids do not belong to the casino in any way, shape or form. Actually, assuming the child would grow up to become a gambler with problems of addiction then sooner or later would blame his old father of all the money and misfortunes he had to suffer for many years.

And believe it or not, those kind of situations are more common than you think, unfortunately. Parents in this country do not allow children to do anything related to adulthood but still encourage them to learn card games, like poker or Truco.  Roll Eyes
Well there are really indeed corners in the world on which it is really that turning out that gambling is really that main thing that they could be able to deal with. We know that parenting does really play a huge role
when it comes on raising up your kids. If you do let them engage on their early years then for sure on what you would be expecting on which it would turn out for them to be a gambling addict.

I have got a good example of bad parenting and has to do with that "corners of the world" explanation.
There was a time here in my country when people were struggling economically because massive inflation and reckless political moves by out leaders and out of no where, electronic roulette houses started to appear in every corner.

People started to partake on it, adults and even children, the operators really did never care, they wanted people to buy tickets on the animal and they think could appear the next time. 

Parents saw that completely normal, almost like an innocent thing, that children were gambling a few dollars at the time with the hope of bringing 10$ back home...
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Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.

It literally depends if they are sincere about the acceptance and not just a passive way of accepting the mistake, because if it's the latter, they might able to find themselves again in the very same position where they will blame somebody or anybody in-case they will experience another heart breaking loss. But yes, there are some people who are truly sincere and had a wake up call about what they have done.
Yes, we do know that there goes those that change entirely and feeling truly sorry for the mistake they've committed. But not all are found with that sincerity.

As for these gamblers that have done it, I guess that they've known this or prepared that if things didn't go well after they gamble. They'll finally come up to the idea that they've come up with and that's about blaming others or pretending that they were hacked and someone accessed their accounts without their permission.

Easy way out, right? But if there will be people that will believe them, could be a few.
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Pathetic people.

These are the people that you should avoid if you ever encounter one or two in real lives. They can't accept the reality that they've lost and trying to prove that it's not their fault that they've lost their money as they gamble.

Believe me, these people are no good and you don't want to be associated with them because they don't take things accountable for what they've done. Trying to run away and blame what they did to anyone that's just a fantasy, they should really get lost.
You are right. They will only blame other people if something is not the way they want and in this case, after playing gambling and losing, they will blame other people or even the gambling machine. Among our many friends, there must be friends like that and we shouldn't need to get too close to them so we don't get into trouble either.

They will never grow up if they only blame others and don't want to introspect themselves. Yet by introspection, they will see whether their actions are right or wrong. And if it goes wrong, they can fix it so it doesn't happen again.
Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.

It literally depends if they are sincere about the acceptance and not just a passive way of accepting the mistake, because if it's the latter, they might able to find themselves again in the very same position where they will blame somebody or anybody in-case they will experience another heart breaking loss. But yes, there are some people who are truly sincere and had a wake up call about what they have done.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.
It's reasonable; the victim's mother did what any caring mother would do; being protective of her kid is every woman's top duty. Unfortunately, they were tracked down and apprehended with enough evidence to lock them up for a long time. Gambling, depending on how we use it, can be a positive or harmful supplementary side hustle. I've seen countless examples where gamblers sell their properties simply to pay off their debts or because they are confident in placing bets. However, a large sum of money was lost, and the victims were unable to bear their losses; rather, they were desperate to replace their money, and accusing an innocent person is completely inappropriate. They will served the necessary jail term, they would only wished for a fair judgement for their crimes.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

You're exactly not alone with having that kind of feeling and that is how normal people react, of course, it is kind of embarrassing if people around us especially the ones who knows us that we lost big time in gambling and they will start to think that we're addicts because we let those situations to get ahead of us, or happened to us without realizing the consequences first.

But for this mom and son, the investigation was already halted because there is no need to go on further as they already pleaded guilty for their own crime and they are even lucky enough because the jail time that was given to them was not that extreme and even the fines are not that high after blaming somebody for their own losses.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.

You said it right, if possible, just stay away from those kinds of gamblers. People who can't accept mistakes and failures are always looking for someone to blame. You might just have a fight if you will not avoid those people. We can't tell what's in their mind when they are blaming someone when they lose their bets.

Acceptance is something that is missing from those gamblers. They just can't believe that they mistakenly analyze the outcome and they continue to find someone to point their fingers and blame.
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I don't blame others but when I am playing slots I don't want anyone to talk to me,not even my closest family members as when I see bad runs and bonus rounds giving me empty spins my level of rage is at the highest.This way I would start yelling if my wife talks to me for anything she may need,she knows that I gamble but she also knows that I have recovered addiction in 2020 and is still with me,I would yell and tell her that you are the most unlucky person in the world as I am in rage at those moments and she knows and does not say anything.

That is why I play most of the time when I am alone rather than with people around me as bad situations will be created then.
Good thing online gambling is invented. It is perfect for the people like you who have that mental condition. I'm like that actually, not that I will blame people around me but because I am afraid that people in my network will judge me and I also don't want these people to be influenced by my hobby because if they lose I know that I am the one who will be blamed for this.

I'm fine playing in real casinos because I don't personally know the people playing there. All I know is we all have the same interest and that makes me feel happy especially when I see their positive reactions, and the cheerful crowd around me. That is the best feeling that can't be experienced when playing online.
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Nope, I never blame anyone for my gambling losses because I always responsible with all of my bet.

I think this mother and son are looking a loophole how to get their money back, so he choose to create a fake story. I have seen such kind case in my country where an employee create a fake story where he got robbed when he want to go to bank for distributing the salary to every employees in his company. The truth is he store those money in his house lol.
This particular case of the OP is pathetic, such people should be severely sentenced as they are evil and should not be appreciated in society. How can someone be so callous and dubious blaming a financial institution for the money they actually spent themselves? Well, it's still difficult for me to believe such a story despite being a practical case as they pleaded guilty.

People are just evil, this is beyond gambling blames to me.
I agree with you that it is way beyond gambling blame in my opinion, it's simply a big crime since the money in question is not small. If the person who is being blamed for this actually is considered guilty but in reality he/she is innocent, how would that mother and her son live their life in peace knowing that they've made someone spend their life in prison while they are roaming free when the other person wasn't guilty at all.

But, I don't think that they have any souls or any feelings of regret since they already tried to put the blame for losing their own money on someone else only in the hope that they might get their money back.
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Pathetic people.

These are the people that you should avoid if you ever encounter one or two in real lives. They can't accept the reality that they've lost and trying to prove that it's not their fault that they've lost their money as they gamble.

Believe me, these people are no good and you don't want to be associated with them because they don't take things accountable for what they've done. Trying to run away and blame what they did to anyone that's just a fantasy, they should really get lost.
No one is exempt of making mistakes, we all make them, the difference is how we react to them, someone that is willing to accept the responsibility for their mistakes and does what is necessary in order to never repeat them is a person that over the long run is going to develop a very strong character, but those that refuse to accept the responsibility for their actions are people that you do not want in your life, because you never know when they are going to make a mistake and blame you for it, even if you had nothing to do with it.
While it's true that we all make mistakes but for these folks, they don't want to take the responsibility for making that mistake and that's why they're pathetic.

I guess that these people's relative don't want to be associated with them anymore after knowing this incident.

Pathetic people.

These are the people that you should avoid if you ever encounter one or two in real lives. They can't accept the reality that they've lost and trying to prove that it's not their fault that they've lost their money as they gamble.

Believe me, these people are no good and you don't want to be associated with them because they don't take things accountable for what they've done. Trying to run away and blame what they did to anyone that's just a fantasy, they should really get lost.
You are right. They will only blame other people if something is not the way they want and in this case, after playing gambling and losing, they will blame other people or even the gambling machine. Among our many friends, there must be friends like that and we shouldn't need to get too close to them so we don't get into trouble either.

They will never grow up if they only blame others and don't want to introspect themselves. Yet by introspection, they will see whether their actions are right or wrong. And if it goes wrong, they can fix it so it doesn't happen again.
Although I believe that someone can change for better but it should start with them. And it can only happen if these mistakes they've made will be admitted by them.

They have to recognize that their actions were wrong and it's not going to do any better if they'll repeat it.
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I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
It's because people are really obsessed with money due to the current capitalism society.

We have seen many family have conflict about heritage or business which is money, people are want to get promoted on the company they work including destroying someone career, people like to corrupt more money as long as they have a chance etc.

The same happen like blaming someone for your gambling losses, this can pressuring him and feel wrong, this has a small chance to get your money back.
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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.

I really don't understand people who are blaming others in loses , i mean in the first place before you bet its your choice to do it and if you lose then you shouldn't blaming others as they are not the one who bet it. Those kind of people should be avoided as for sure it will lead to altercation or even a fight.  Even my self no matter what fault or loses that I've been through i wont be blaming others.
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I personally don't blame my own mistakes or unlucky moments to people around me. What happens to you 'was gonna happen', you had nothing to do to change result. Sometimes this destiny mentality can help you cope with losses. You can never change something that already happened anyways. You could try to avoid. Its all up to you.
I saw weird people that blame others. I think its really annoying behavior. People should think that friendships are more important than money.

I don't blame others but when I am playing slots I don't want anyone to talk to me,not even my closest family members as when I see bad runs and bonus rounds giving me empty spins my level of rage is at the highest.This way I would start yelling if my wife talks to me for anything she may need,she knows that I gamble but she also knows that I have recovered addiction in 2020 and is still with me,I would yell and tell her that you are the most unlucky person in the world as I am in rage at those moments and she knows and does not say anything.

That is why I play most of the time when I am alone rather than with people around me as bad situations will be created then.
I see that. I also have rage attacks sometimes mainly disturbed by family members. Some people just don't understand what gambler feels like. When you keep losing and get blamed suddenly because of a luck based game, its normal you get angry. People see this as "its nothing bro chill, i just joke". But its definitely time to not be mocked by anyone around you. If you could recover from your gambling addiction through enjoying lonely gambling runs I congratulate you. I guess its fine. Gambling when you are calm can work better even.
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Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment


The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.



From what I have seen, a lot of people like to blame, and especially make false accusations against the casinos once they lose a substantial amount of money. You can see this happening almost daily on this forum. But its all hotheads trying to exact revenge or cheat their way into getting their money back.

As far as the story of the mother and son goes, I think they totally deserve punishment for falsely accusing someone of a crime which could ruin that persons life, although 7 years seems a bit harsh, given the amount of money only being 8000 dollars worth of Naira- But that has absolutely nothing to do with gambling nor could it be blamed on gambling addiction since the crime here is false accusation. At most it could be seen as the result of gambling addiction.

Thats still no excuse to do something that disgusting, though.

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That's so wrong. Well, they will be investigated if what they say is true. But I doubt they are. Not taking responsibilities for her own mistake, that's not a good lesson for the kid and he might do this kind of trick too when he grows up, worse this will be like his job.
Gambling advertisements always tells us to gamble responsibly, and this is not how it is. It was said for a reason because we will end up like this case of the mother and son if we don't control out gambling habit. I don't blame anyone with all my losses, better, I actually keep it to myself because I am shy to let others find out that I lost my bet.
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You are right. They will only blame other people if something is not the way they want and in this case, after playing gambling and losing, they will blame other people or even the gambling machine. Among our many friends, there must be friends like that and we shouldn't need to get too close to them so we don't get into trouble either.

They will never grow up if they only blame others and don't want to introspect themselves. Yet by introspection, they will see whether their actions are right or wrong. And if it goes wrong, they can fix it so it doesn't happen again.

I will only blame someone if they're the ones that talked me into placing a gamble that I knew wasn't likely to play out. Gambling platforms always warn their users to be up to a certain age to be able to use thier platform and if you proceed to accept the terms and conditions, you have no moral right to blame anyone for your losses. Just like Bitcoin trading and investment, any bettor should always stake an amount of money he or she can afford to lose.

Gambling addiction isn't an easy thing to overcome, it's better to stay away than fight the addiction. It's ideal to not give gambling predictions without proper analysis in order to avoid blames.
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Pathetic people.

These are the people that you should avoid if you ever encounter one or two in real lives. They can't accept the reality that they've lost and trying to prove that it's not their fault that they've lost their money as they gamble.

Believe me, these people are no good and you don't want to be associated with them because they don't take things accountable for what they've done. Trying to run away and blame what they did to anyone that's just a fantasy, they should really get lost.
You are right. They will only blame other people if something is not the way they want and in this case, after playing gambling and losing, they will blame other people or even the gambling machine. Among our many friends, there must be friends like that and we shouldn't need to get too close to them so we don't get into trouble either.

They will never grow up if they only blame others and don't want to introspect themselves. Yet by introspection, they will see whether their actions are right or wrong. And if it goes wrong, they can fix it so it doesn't happen again.
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Pathetic people.

These are the people that you should avoid if you ever encounter one or two in real lives. They can't accept the reality that they've lost and trying to prove that it's not their fault that they've lost their money as they gamble.

Believe me, these people are no good and you don't want to be associated with them because they don't take things accountable for what they've done. Trying to run away and blame what they did to anyone that's just a fantasy, they should really get lost.
No one is exempt of making mistakes, we all make them, the difference is how we react to them, someone that is willing to accept the responsibility for their mistakes and does what is necessary in order to never repeat them is a person that over the long run is going to develop a very strong character, but those that refuse to accept the responsibility for their actions are people that you do not want in your life, because you never know when they are going to make a mistake and blame you for it, even if you had nothing to do with it.
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Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment


The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.

Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.

Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.


But I don't follow anyone's information in gambling, if someone has given me any information in sports betting, I must have checked it carefully before following it. As every gambling has ricks and these ricks will be borne only by the user himself. It would not be reasonable to impose this liability on anyone else in the event of a loss, and every gambler must be 18 plus years of age.
A gambler is responsible for everything related to his own account. Here he cannot blame others in any way. And it is true that one should never gamble on the words of others. Any bet should be well researched beforehand. Because there is no guarantee in gambling, the risk is always high. One should not lose one's wits and blame others. Rather, by doing this, both people will have to face various problems.
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Playing gambling is at individual risk, no one is to  be blamed if their is lose of money. Sueing someone for lose does not make any sense. Gambling is  meant for adults to make decisions to play or not, Gambling has rules which has never been stated that it is a crime to hold someone responsible for asking one to play gamble.
but this is what is happening mate, gamblers are looking for someone or something to blame so they will justify their addiction or losses.
there are many people I knew in the past that has this attitude .
but luckily ? i never become one because I took control of my gambling activity and
I am in full obligation in what would be the outcome.
When you start employing the blaming games its already a sign that you are hooked on gambling, compulsive gamblers will try to hide their true character in gambling and they can do this by blaming others, based on the story OP provided she is not a good example to her son, I doubt if her son will respect her for being a compulsive gambler and for lying about the transferred funds.
She should make up to her son even if she is in prison and she can start repenting and asking for forgiveness to her son.
when we are dealing in something not normal in which excessive gambling , then that proves one thing that respect must not be for ours .
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