Pathetic people.
These are the people that you should avoid if you ever encounter one or two in real lives. They can't accept the reality that they've lost and trying to prove that it's not their fault that they've lost their money as they gamble.
Believe me, these people are no good and you don't want to be associated with them because they don't take things accountable for what they've done. Trying to run away and blame what they did to anyone that's just a fantasy, they should really get lost.
Topic: Do you blame someone for your gambling losses? - page 40. (Read 6087 times)
When you start employing the blaming games its already a sign that you are hooked on gambling, compulsive gamblers will try to hide their true character in gambling and they can do this by blaming others, based on the story OP provided she is not a good example to her son, I doubt if her son will respect her for being a compulsive gambler and for lying about the transferred funds.
She should make up to her son even if she is in prison and she can start repenting and asking for forgiveness to her son.
She should make up to her son even if she is in prison and she can start repenting and asking for forgiveness to her son.
Well let me tell ya what, I sure don't see her winning mother of the mother of the year award anytime soon. This is super trashy for a mom to be teaching her son these types of ways, even if this son is a fully grown man...just smells pathetic.
No, I never would blame anyone else for my gambling losses. The other person you have to blame for your own gambling losses is your own self! No two ways about it.
No, I never would blame anyone else for my gambling losses. The other person you have to blame for your own gambling losses is your own self! No two ways about it.
I don't really have to do so... Atleast not exactly like they lost on the game with my own bucks? Not so...
In this case, it's something different... This is act of wickedness, greed and desperation.. why would they wanna make someone suffer for what they outrightly knew wasn't the person's crime?.. addiction has caused alot of atrocities honestly... When I read articles like this, I'll simply wonder how it begone to get to that point.. how could they not control it when it was getting outta hand?? Could they have actually sourced for money somewhere to take the acclaimed person to court ?? (Cus, ofcourse you can't lay accusations off illegally.... that'll mean taking laws into your hands right??)?
Hmmm
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In this case, it's something different... This is act of wickedness, greed and desperation.. why would they wanna make someone suffer for what they outrightly knew wasn't the person's crime?.. addiction has caused alot of atrocities honestly... When I read articles like this, I'll simply wonder how it begone to get to that point.. how could they not control it when it was getting outta hand?? Could they have actually sourced for money somewhere to take the acclaimed person to court ?? (Cus, ofcourse you can't lay accusations off illegally.... that'll mean taking laws into your hands right??)?
Hmmm
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Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
Obviously kids do not belong to the casino in any way, shape or form. Actually, assuming the child would grow up to become a gambler with problems of addiction then sooner or later would blame his old father of all the money and misfortunes he had to suffer for many years.
And believe it or not, those kind of situations are more common than you think, unfortunately. Parents in this country do not allow children to do anything related to adulthood but still encourage them to learn card games, like poker or Truco.
when it comes on raising up your kids. If you do let them engage on their early years then for sure on what you would be expecting on which it would turn out for them to be a gambling addict. Problems and issues
been arisen basing up on the things that you had just neglected all over the years as a parent. For someone who arent really that mentally and emotionally prepared and you do find yourself to be engaging with
gambling then turns out to be a huge mess or negative then it would really be just a normal approach or reaction on which you would really be pointing out fingers into someone
or whatever you could be able to blame on which is really just a common behavior or reaction.
Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
Obviously kids do not belong to the casino in any way, shape or form. Actually, assuming the child would grow up to become a gambler with problems of addiction then sooner or later would blame his old father of all the money and misfortunes he had to suffer for many years.
And believe it or not, those kind of situations are more common than you think, unfortunately. Parents in this country do not allow children to do anything related to adulthood but still encourage them to learn card games, like poker or Truco.
Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
It is quite clear to me that people who lose money in one way or another are trying to outsmart the system (like this mother and son), but it is not clear to me that the punishment should be even 7 years in prison for such an act, and even less that the punishment can be replaced by a monetary one which is just a little more than $300 per person in this case.
For me, a fairer punishment would be to ban the mother and son from gambling, because they were found to be real addicts who have a serious problem. Such people should be helped to get rid of addiction, because punishment will not solve anything.
It is quite difficult to forbid them gambling, considering that gambling today is easier and can access gambling just by using a cellphone without anyone knowing, the penalty for gambling will never be effective.For me, a fairer punishment would be to ban the mother and son from gambling, because they were found to be real addicts who have a serious problem. Such people should be helped to get rid of addiction, because punishment will not solve anything.
I think it's better in prison and being fostered by officers so they can feel deterrent with the actions they have taken.
Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
I don't think that a mother with such an evil soul and mind who can easily put the blame on her own gambling addiction and losses to someone else would really care about what her child learns from her as she will most probably be happy to teach him her evil tactics. She is probably not a good parent if we see it that way.You can barely find a parent who will involve their children in things like these unless there is a single mother who shares or does almost everything with her only son but still, things like these aren't to be told or taught to young people, she probably doesn't care if her child spends the rest of his life in prison.
If I remember correctly, almost all gambling is banned in Japan (or Korea?)
No, Japan is okay, I don't know if Korea is. I recently play Pachinko in Japan 5 years ago. and, I think almost casino in Japan is open to everyone, except age. So, Pachinko in Japan is dominated by aged players but I have never seen a player under 17 years play with his mom like the post above. This situation makes me think that the more advanced that country, then have high the moral standards to do not invite his son to gamble.And, the government should not jail both (mom and son) at the same time ( 7 years), because the child doesn't knows anything, and better that son is get treated in a child protection home.
To answer the question mentioned above, South Korea is not really a gambling-friendly type of country and here's their rule about gambling:
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Gambling by Korean citizens is prohibited both inside and outside of the nation.
However, In Korea, there are roughly 18 actual casinos that are designed only for foreign tourists, and any citizen belonging to Korea caught gambling faces harsh penalties. Only foreign tourists visiting the country can indulge in gambling activities and games.
SourceHowever, In Korea, there are roughly 18 actual casinos that are designed only for foreign tourists, and any citizen belonging to Korea caught gambling faces harsh penalties. Only foreign tourists visiting the country can indulge in gambling activities and games.
Japan is different, the country is almost open to all types of gambling activities as long as it's deemed legal by the government and given that the gambler is above 20 years old. Back to the topic, I don't think that the mother is in the right mind because she drags her own son into her mess instead of setting a good role model to her son and I strongly agree about the judge's verdict because they are much better inside the prison as they literally need some help especially the son so that his life won't be totally destroyed and will be given another chance to straighten up his life when his jail time are over.
It's sad to say that the Parents that should be the role model and the one who knows best for their children is the one who makes him at his worst, the addiction to gambling really makes your life miserable, if you are weak and you know to yourself that you are not mentally stable do not try to gamble, you dont know what you can do if you already addicted to it. They should not only fined, they should also get into rehabilitazion, that should be the best consequence for their action but hopefully they've learned their lessons,
There is no one to blame about your gambling losses but only yourself because you are the one who decide to gamble and you are the one who risk your money so why need to blame anyone if only consists yourself.
There is no one to blame about your gambling losses but only yourself because you are the one who decide to gamble and you are the one who risk your money so why need to blame anyone if only consists yourself.
Yeah right, supposedly the parent is the one who will prevent the child into this kind of activities it's unusual act of putting your own kids to this kind of messed instead of saving them from the worse things that may happen to their lives, parents are the one who are in-charge to assure that they will be given a good life for their kids not to drag them any kind of illegal things.
No one can be blame but the person itself, with what happens it should be a lesson that needs to learn to avoid certain things to happen to anyone.
love your kids and don't bring them to any kind of act that will lead them to suffer.
It is quite clear to me that people who lose money in one way or another are trying to outsmart the system (like this mother and son), but it is not clear to me that the punishment should be even 7 years in prison for such an act, and even less that the punishment can be replaced by a monetary one which is just a little more than $300 per person in this case.
For me, a fairer punishment would be to ban the mother and son from gambling, because they were found to be real addicts who have a serious problem. Such people should be helped to get rid of addiction, because punishment will not solve anything.
For me, a fairer punishment would be to ban the mother and son from gambling, because they were found to be real addicts who have a serious problem. Such people should be helped to get rid of addiction, because punishment will not solve anything.
Someone an undeveloped mind will always find a way to not blame himself but save face and blame someone else for their failure. It could be just an excuse but then there is just quit a lot to say when you as a parent teaching your kid to gamble together without care in losing it all. Not a good model indeed.
It's sad to say that the Parents that should be the role model and the one who knows best for their children is the one who makes him at his worst, the addiction to gambling really makes your life miserable, if you are weak and you know to yourself that you are not mentally stable do not try to gamble, you dont know what you can do if you already addicted to it. They should not only fined, they should also get into rehabilitazion, that should be the best consequence for their action but hopefully they've learned their lessons,
There is no one to blame about your gambling losses but only yourself because you are the one who decide to gamble and you are the one who risk your money so why need to blame anyone if only consists yourself.
There is no one to blame about your gambling losses but only yourself because you are the one who decide to gamble and you are the one who risk your money so why need to blame anyone if only consists yourself.
I don't really point fingers to anyone because I know to myself that the last decision is still on me. Blaming someone for your own doing is just purely stupid, heartless, and selfish act. If you want to do something, you should always think many times before doing so to avoid regrets and to avoid putting the blame on other people who suggested or even advised you.
Gambling is a game of chance. It is combination of skills and luck which is really a risk on your end if you will play and bet. To avoid such, you must set limitations for yourself. Time, effort, and time are usually the most common things sacrificed in gambling. If you aren't ready for the consequences then set boundaries or just don't play or bet at all.
Though I'm not sure what they had in mind when they made that accusation, my guess is that they planned to put the blame on someone else and maybe they will get their money back if the court gives a verdict in their favor which didn't happen fortunately or someone innocent would get punished for nothing they did in the first place.Gambling is a game of chance. It is combination of skills and luck which is really a risk on your end if you will play and bet. To avoid such, you must set limitations for yourself. Time, effort, and time are usually the most common things sacrificed in gambling. If you aren't ready for the consequences then set boundaries or just don't play or bet at all.
They probably tried to win some money with that amount and unexpectedly lost it and were probably stunned because of that and didn't know what they should do and at the end, they decided they will try something different, so the mother-son duo tried this, lol.
I personally don't blame my own mistakes or unlucky moments to people around me. What happens to you 'was gonna happen', you had nothing to do to change result. Sometimes this destiny mentality can help you cope with losses. You can never change something that already happened anyways. You could try to avoid. Its all up to you.
I saw weird people that blame others. I think its really annoying behavior. People should think that friendships are more important than money.
I saw weird people that blame others. I think its really annoying behavior. People should think that friendships are more important than money.
I don't blame others but when I am playing slots I don't want anyone to talk to me,not even my closest family members as when I see bad runs and bonus rounds giving me empty spins my level of rage is at the highest.This way I would start yelling if my wife talks to me for anything she may need,she knows that I gamble but she also knows that I have recovered addiction in 2020 and is still with me,I would yell and tell her that you are the most unlucky person in the world as I am in rage at those moments and she knows and does not say anything.
That is why I play most of the time when I am alone rather than with people around me as bad situations will be created then.
Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do? Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment
The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.
Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
if the son is gullible, it is expected that his mother should be more sensible or responsible and vice versa, but in a situation as this where both are hungry to the extent of doing away with such amount in the name of gambling, $8000, that's way too much, could be their entire life savings. The mother and the son after gambling away 5.6 million naira, that is about $8,000. When the reality dawned on them, they gave false information in petition, accusing someone of fraudulently transferring the fund from their Opay account to the sport betting account without their authorization.
Could this be a case of making someone pay for what they didn't eat or a case of double standard.
Bet as you can sustain and not allow your emotions have a better part of you.
I personally don't blame my own mistakes or unlucky moments to people around me. What happens to you 'was gonna happen', you had nothing to do to change result. Sometimes this destiny mentality can help you cope with losses. You can never change something that already happened anyways. You could try to avoid. Its all up to you. Or you may try to focus on fun part of gambling.
I saw weird people that blame others. I think its really annoying behavior. People should think that friendships are more important than money.
I saw weird people that blame others. I think its really annoying behavior. People should think that friendships are more important than money.
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If they blame each other for losing at gambling, it could end in a fight because each will stand by his stance and don't want to be blamed. This will also make them emotional and could damage their friendship. For this reason, maturity is needed to accept all the risks that arise from gambling so that they will not blame each other and can still have fun. Or should they not need to play gambling together rather than blaming each other if they lose.
maturity when gambling is necessary and maybe the person goes to gambling at the same time and the two people are mature in age but we must know that maturity will disappear when it comes to money lost or lost in gambling which causes blaming each other.therefore I am very skeptical about gambling with friends or inviting other people to go gambling with me choosing to gamble in an introverted manner so as not to blame anyone when I lose.
and I agree with you it would be better to reduce gambling or avoid gambling if you can't be mature in gambling.
It's better for us to play gambling alone without friends than later blaming each other. Or even if we go gambling with friends, we have to know each other's character so we won't blame it, especially if we experience a gambling loss.
As far as gambling is concern nobody is to be blamed in losses of an individual bettor take for instance if you play sports bet you know when choosing an odd nobody directs you on what to do first of all you consider to choose the team that is in their peak at the moment, when the fail to deliver are you to blame anybody when you know that you personally make your selection.
Court sentences mother, son to 7 years imprisonment and what did they do?
The fact that the mother and son have been jailed for seven years is significant because the mother and son gave wrong information in gambling betting and following that wrong information someone suffered a loss of 7 million Nigerian currency Nairo. I can't blame mother and son in this case because if someone gave me wrong information or signal then I should have observed well before I followed that signal. I can't support this seven-year jail of mother and son in any way.In my personal life I spend some of my time gambling but in this case if someone gives me a signal from an outside source I do not act on the signal until I verify it myself. There are certainly risks involved in gambling but I don't think it's fair to put the blame for that risk on someone else.
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