Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 13. (Read 4188 times)

In as much as gambling is legal in your country, you don't need to worry about what people say or think about you especially if you are a responsible and mature gambler. One might have to be sensitive to what people are saying if gambling is illegal since they might report it to law enforcement agencies. Irresponsible gamblers might also be interested in people's perception of them because they need people's advice to overcome the habit. Underaged gamblers might also be mindful of people's views since they are gambling illegally. 

I don't care what they say about me if they know that I gamble but I don't publicize my gambling activities because some people see gamblers are irresponsible individuals. I visit physical casinos but I don't discuss gambling in public so that people will know that I gamble.

There is also a gambler who has been completely destroyed and wants to return to life like a normal person. He had worked as hard as he could to cover the debts caused by his gambling addiction, but after he managed to return to a normal life, his gambling desire was still there and he returned to the world of gambling.
That's normal because it's very difficult to get rid of excessive addiction. Moreover, after being able to return his finances to normal. but people like this should learn from their previous mistakes so they don't happen again.
It's okay to return to the world of gambling by implementing better financial management, not going all in on gambling and hoping to get rich quickly from there.

As said before, you need to ignore all the negativity around you. It’s your money, so I am sure that you know what to do with it. At the end of the day, you are risking your hard earned money for yourself only. Other people’s work is to criticise only, hence you need to just ignore them. Some also in jealousy advise you to stop gambling, as you were making profits and they are not. Hence don’t think about this now and continue what you are doing.

Not all criticism are bad, some can actually be constructive and could be out of love for you, maybe because your gambling habits are becoming a problem to you and also to them, then they can decide to step in and try to help you. This sort of criticism could often come from family and very close friends.

But if it's not this, but just side talks from people who won't stick their nose in their business, then there's absolutely no point getting one's self worked up over such a thing, especially when you're pretty sure that you gambling habit is in check and you're not suffering from a gambling problem.

I agree with you. If it’s a sensible word flowing along my own opinion I go along but anything aside that, it none of your business. I gamble with my own money not yours, you can’t teach me or say anything because I haven’t asked you for money to gamble before you focus on your business and leave interfering into other’s personal business and life.

People presume outcomes when they talk but a gambler should never afford themselves such a luxury or they will surely fail.    If others choose to presume then let them make that mistake in 'knowing' while being ignorant of the truth but never fall into the same mistake with anything of importance.    Most people who gossip know they are just exchanging lies that are self serving mostly and reflect their own character rather then the person who they do not know better of.

When I was young yeah i give value to what others may say in my gambling activities because its important that i do not look bad and a negative to the community but nowadays that gambling is rampant and even in all corner of streets we can see addicted gamblers betting online?
not sure if what others says is still important now.

I don't really think or care about what people say or not, as far as it's not their money and I'm not also wasting their time, so whatever thing I do with my time and money it's nobody business and if they keep saying or commenting behind our back, I will just limit my interactions with them because their opinions doesn't make me feel better or makes me to win but instead of trying to prove anything to anyone, we should just to focus on having fun and remember that the real value in gambling because our benefits does doesn't depends on whether we win or lose. So let's live the best life, and that's what really matters.

people out there only like to judge things that they have not experienced themselves, often other people's sentences are enough to weaken the strong intentions that someone has carried out, if you are already skilled at gambling and you have never incurred debts for gambling then don't listen to what other people say, just focus on remaining consistent in your gambling.

Even though one day or perhaps your country will legalize gambling, maybe playing in your room like you do now is the best choice. in addition to other pleasures that you might be able to get at a physical casino if perhaps there will be one in the future.
Actually, there is also a positive side to maintaining our privacy in gambling. There are also many negative impacts if more people know about your gambling activities. Even if there is resistance from family members, it is the most difficult thing that is not the influence of friends that can influence our game.

No need to think too much about what other people say because after all everyone has their own choices and preferences in any case, so don't get too carried away if people say something that makes you feel bad. Basically no one is perfect and everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages, if they don't like you because you are involved in gambling then let it go, as long as you don't harm others.

But maybe I will say that you must remember that this is gambling which has a level of risk that is sometimes very high which can destroy your life in a short time and we can see how the fate of gamblers who are addicted where they experience many problems and downturns in their lives due to treating gambling the wrong way, This is the reason why a gambler is always advised to apply caution and also a lot of restrictions on his gambling activities, none other than so that we can avoid various bad possibilities.

Of course, only we have the power to use our private money. But if management is not controlled it will definitely disappear quickly, from here we have to learn to correct the mistakes we make so that we can manage our money better in the future. such as allocating some of life's necessities, whether it's allocation for gambling, shopping, food, to ensure it doesn't fall apart.

As a gambler I don't need everybody's opinion about myself if they say that I am not good cause I am involve in gambling then that's Okay as long as I am happy on what ik doing then nothing wrongs about it. anyways nowadys there are many people around us that they will talk with us if we are not in thier side.  But we don't need them cause it's our choices then the outcome will be the effects of what we doing. And that's the reason why other gamblers fall into addiction cause they can't control themselves.

In fact, such a problem happens to me also because the prevailing doctrine of gambling is banned in my country, so i can't talk about it directly even if i want to. Privately i do all the gambling activities from my room because it is very important to maintain privacy from the game. But since that guy hasn't told you anything that means he's also involved in this game. But if your country has freedom of gambling then you can enjoy as much as you want. Here as loss or profit is taken from your pocket so no one's opinion can bother you.

Life is full of drama and anything can happen, sometimes even if for example we just keep quiet and don't do anything wrong but sometimes like there are some people who look for our mistakes or even slander us in any case which causes problems and can also make others have a bad point of view on us, and on the other hand I think we have to admit that gambling has a bad point of view in the eyes of most of society which is usually this bad point of view is created because many gamblers treat gambling in the wrong way which makes them experience bad effects so that society claims that gambling is a bad activity and people who are involved in this activity are usually seen as someone who has a bad personality. and basically it doesn't matter even if for example, gambling is a bad activity, and basically it doesn't matter even if for example you are a gambler who is able to control your gambling activities well without harming yourself but still sometimes people see it from another point of view that maybe they just stick to their own thoughts that think that you are someone who has a bad personality because you are involved in gambling, and the other thing is that I don't think you should listen too much to what other people say as long as you don't harm them.

Yes,  that's true, and I totally agree with you on how people's interference on our gambling life shouldn't be taken for granted or given much importance, inasmuch as our gambling lifestyle is not encroaching unto other people's privacy and finance. Because one thing I have come to understand is that people will always tend to speak good or give positive advice when you are gambling  on profit whereas speak bad when you are gambling on loses. So for me, I think it's high time responsible gamblers give a deaf hear to what people will say if discovered they are into gambling, because if you win a million dollars today, nobody will tell you to send such money back, simply because it came from gambling, but rather you will be celebrated for winning such a jackpot.

Hence, let's try to gamble with an amount we can always afford to lose, as that's the secret to responsible gambling.

Yeap, all those who try to "teach me" how to live my life should mind their own business. I never asked for their opinion or advice. If someone comes to me and starts to teach me that gambling is bad, I will get troubles because of gambling and etc, then such person will get a rude reply from me. Maybe I am rude caveman, but what how else should I reply if someone interferes in my private life?

Since people have a negative idea about gambling, many people do not accept gambling well, due to which others people suggestions will never be acceptable. I gamble and i am self-disciplined, so I would not like to do anything according to others advice only prioritize my policy. If someone gives me advice on my gambling if it is appropriate I take it but if it goes against me I never care. Because gamble with my own money, I will not change my gambling behavior depending on someone's word. After I get any suggestion I will definitely analyze it and if it is good then I will consider it.

We can lets those people saying anything about us because they don't sees what we did in gambling so they can says anything bad about us. But if our friends or family see that we are a wise and responsible gamblers, they will not thinks much about what other people say because they knows what we do and they believe us that we can take care of ourselves. Many times people outside in our environment say many things about us but they don't see or don't knows that we can take care of ourselves better than them. We must not affected with other people saying if we are not like what they imagine because they don't lived besides us so they don't knows what is really happen to us. We should focus to what we do and not thinks too much about that people because they will leave us like that when they can't do something to us.

If we take care of ourselves to gamble, we won't need to see what people are thinking. There are some gamblers who become so crazy about gambling that they are ready to do anything to gamble they are not aware of anything people say a lot about these gamblers. That's why gamblers don't have to worry about what people say if they are aware of gambling and not reckless.