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In general I would not pay much attention to what people say about me gambling, but I would pay attention to what my family say about it. They are my backup plan, my insurance from going over the edge. I think, that it is no use to listen and pay much attention to what strange say about you in general. As they are not 100% familiar with me and situation I am in currently. And I hate when people put labels on others without being in their skin.
In simple terms, we don't need to worry about the stigma given to us by the people around us, except from our immediate family. I think everyone has an attitude of not caring to some extent, and only needs to listen to those closest to them, because they know us better. Meanwhile, in the case of gambling, I think it is better to hide these activities from other people, because it will give them the opportunity to comment on our gambling activities. But it all comes back to each individual in responding to the environment around where they live.

On the other hand, we must remain open to receiving some gambling advice, especially from the people closest to us, I think this is quite important to make us aware of how to act responsibly when gambling. Apart from that, to minimize someone knowing about our gambling activities, gambling online might be the best solution at this time. But for those who already enjoy land based gambling, perhaps gambling online becomes less attractive. Lastly, when you can no longer get pleasure from gambling, I think that is code for stopping.
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In general I would not pay much attention to what people say about me gambling, but I would pay attention to what my family say about it. They are my backup plan, my insurance from going over the edge. I think, that it is no use to listen and pay much attention to what strange say about you in general. As they are not 100% familiar with me and situation I am in currently. And I hate when people put labels on others without being in their skin.
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Yeah i do care but partially. Actually Gambling is still considered negatively in my society although younger people keep involving in it day by day. So there's no problem to check my gambling accounts in front of these Youngsters as we can have a friendly discussion about gambling or we can discuss about strategies or have a discussion about how to become responsible gambler. But when it comes to strangers or elder people or old people, i will feel embarrassing and irritating if they start advising me or say something unexpected to me. That's why its better to make my gambling secret. No need to tell the socity loaduly that, see I'm gambling, I'm a gambler lol. well this is how i think about gambling personally. Other people may have their different points of view about this matter
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If gambling is not prohibited in the country, then there is definitely no reason for concern, I absolutely don’t care what anyone thinks about gambling, I understand perfectly well that someone may not like it or it doesn’t fall within their beliefs. The best strategy is: don’t ask yourself yet don't say anything and think twice before answering.
Even in countries in which gambling may be legal, there could still be many people out there which have a very negative view of it, and if that is the case, it is better to not be very vocal about the fact that you like to gamble, besides now with online gambling being so accessible and widespread, the truth is that unless you go out of your way to tell people that you like to gamble, no one will ever know this is the case, as you can gamble from your home and do so privately.

The advancements of technology have made many things easy for us, including hiding your real identity because you can still be a gambler and no one will know unless you are the one who discloses the information. That is why I enjoy gambling in online casinos, then in casinos, because if you find yourself in a society that neglects and sees gambling as taboo, And the worst part is that if, as a gambler, you don’t know anything about online casinos or, let's say, you are not used to online casinos and believe more in casinos shops, then you will definitely not be able to gamble or you will definitely face neglect from society and be considered a negative person, but at online casinos, you are covered. 
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I will only care about what people say about bet when it's affecting me negatively or I see myself doing what I am not supposed to be doing cause of gamble.

But if what they are saying or what they always say is/are not affecting me negatively then I won't give a fuck about
what they said provided I am making money.

Let's assume I usually make $200 in a week or before every weekend and then I heard someone saying negative things about gambling do you think I will stop, never. Even the devil knows I won't stop.
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If gambling is not prohibited in the country, then there is definitely no reason for concern, I absolutely don’t care what anyone thinks about gambling, I understand perfectly well that someone may not like it or it doesn’t fall within their beliefs. The best strategy is: don’t ask yourself yet don't say anything and think twice before answering.
Even in countries in which gambling may be legal, there could still be many people out there which have a very negative view of it, and if that is the case, it is better to not be very vocal about the fact that you like to gamble, besides now with online gambling being so accessible and widespread, the truth is that unless you go out of your way to tell people that you like to gamble, no one will ever know this is the case, as you can gamble from your home and do so privately.
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Really, I do not see a reason why we should care about strangers, they are not known to us and neither do we know them, so it is better it stays like that, who cares? But to those who know me and I know them, fine, I can accord them some kind of familiarity and respect, but still, they should not go beyond their boundaries because they have their lives to live and I have mine to live as well. Don't forget that the moment you give people a chance to play or talk down on you and give them the chance to try to be the perfect one who knows the best way to behave, from that moment you are losing it and might be looking down on yourself as well.

What I do not support is irresponsibility, and if my lifestyle is responsible and I am gambling as well, who cares? I don't think anyone will even have the nerve to walk to me to condemn what I am doing. They will, of course, think twice, unless they are driving religion to it, which is also left for me to give it a listening ear.
I agree with your wise opinion, when someone reminds us well then we have to respond calmly without hatred, but if they force us to follow what they want then they have gone against our habits, I think they will not dare to take that action unless they are ready to accept the consequences, because no one can control individuals as long as we do not commit acts that cross the line and are criminal.

But when you are reminded by other people based on your understanding according to your religious beliefs, you must respond well by listening to reflect on what we have done so far, if according to your religion there are rules that are violated regarding gambling, then you improve yourself and get closer to the Almighty to ask for forgiveness.
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I do a little care. Cause if someone stranger saw me monitoring my games and then if he or she start giving me advice or start telling negative things about gambling, although I won't care but such things will make me uncomfortable and annoying. Although there's no problem if any of my friend saw that and tell me anything about gambling. But I don't like if someone stranger show his headache about my personal matter. Although I don't have problem but I'll feel a little awkward in that situation. That's why it's better to careful from beginning. Well nowadays Gamblers are increasing, what makes gambling a common thing in my country. But till now, i experience nobody cares what I'm doing or don't interfair in anyone'r personal thing
Honestly, I can't decipher what you mean actually, all I can say is that I was just reading "I care," I don't care," I don't even know the one to go for anymore Smiley

Really, I do not see a reason why we should care about strangers, they are not known to us and neither do we know them, so it is better it stays like that, who cares? But to those who know me and I know them, fine, I can accord them some kind of familiarity and respect, but still, they should not go beyond their boundaries because they have their lives to live and I have mine to live as well. Don't forget that the moment you give people a chance to play or talk down on you and give them the chance to try to be the perfect one who knows the best way to behave, from that moment you are losing it and might be looking down on yourself as well.

What I do not support is irresponsibility, and if my lifestyle is responsible and I am gambling as well, who cares? I don't think anyone will even have the nerve to walk to me to condemn what I am doing. They will, of course, think twice, unless they are driving religion to it, which is also left for me to give it a listening ear.
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Well for me, it’s not a problem it’s just a matter of understanding between you and the person in asking you all that Sometimes you can decide to ignore the person, and not even reply to the person action because of the act and also in the other hand, you can decide to attack the person because of that statement, but I just feel like ignoring the person is the best thing because the person is just surprised that he seen you gambling and what people talk about gambling to me is just for you to educate the person if the person doesn’t know about gambling and tell him or she does you can also gamble responsibly it’s not just how people look at gambling. That is the way it is .
We can say thank you to those people who say about gambling because they can't force us to follows what they say. They must understand that and lets us decides because we must responsible with what we do. But we can also ignore that person and not saying many things, just accept what they say because we don't wants to debates with them. That's a wise steps that we can do so we don't have a conflict with them and we can still manages our relationship with them. But most people who say about gambling or advices someone will bolded their saying that playing gambling is bad and will asks them to leave gambling forever. That will makes a debates that will never end because each person will defend their decision and will say that they are right among the other people.
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Well for me, it’s not a problem it’s just a matter of understanding between you and the person in asking you all that Sometimes you can decide to ignore the person, and not even reply to the person action because of the act and also in the other hand, you can decide to attack the person because of that statement, but I just feel like ignoring the person is the best thing because the person is just surprised that he seen you gambling and what people talk about gambling to me is just for you to educate the person if the person doesn’t know about gambling and tell him or she does you can also gamble responsibly it’s not just how people look at gambling. That is the way it is .
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I do a little care. Cause if someone stranger saw me monitoring my games and then if he or she start giving me advice or start telling negative things about gambling, although I won't care but such things will make me uncomfortable and annoying. Although there's no problem if any of my friend saw that and tell me anything about gambling. But I don't like if someone stranger show his headache about my personal matter. Although I don't have problem but I'll feel a little awkward in that situation. That's why it's better to careful from beginning. Well nowadays Gamblers are increasing, what makes gambling a common thing in my country. But till now, i experience nobody cares what I'm doing or don't interfair in anyone'r personal thing
If gambling is not prohibited in the country, then there is definitely no reason for concern, I absolutely don’t care what anyone thinks about gambling, I understand perfectly well that someone may not like it or it doesn’t fall within their beliefs. The best strategy is: don’t ask yourself yet don't say anything and think twice before answering.
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So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?

On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

Having come across this thread before but never commented, let me say that this is my very first comment here.
And to the concern you have raised, I did say that someone who is doing what he or she loves to do, should not care what people have to say about that thing, except what the person is doing is a crime in terms of the law, like someone stealing, kidnapping, doing illegal drugs and so on.

Gambimg generally is not a crime the last time I checked, and as such, I can gamble and boldly check my games anywhere without minding what people think or how they perceive me.
One thing that is very sure in life is that, what ever a man does, someone some where must talk, either in disapproval or approval, somebody must talk, and you know this thing that is often said about talk being cheap? That's a big lie, talk is not cheap, but free, yeah, talk is free, and this is why almost everybody can afford to comment on stuffs that is not their business or concern them in any way.
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I do a little care. Cause if someone stranger saw me monitoring my games and then if he or she start giving me advice or start telling negative things about gambling, although I won't care but such things will make me uncomfortable and annoying. Although there's no problem if any of my friend saw that and tell me anything about gambling. But I don't like if someone stranger show his headache about my personal matter. Although I don't have problem but I'll feel a little awkward in that situation. That's why it's better to careful from beginning. Well nowadays Gamblers are increasing, what makes gambling a common thing in my country. But till now, i experience nobody cares what I'm doing or don't interfair in anyone'r personal thing
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We may say what people say about us won't be a big problem, and it's up to me to do whatever I wish. In reality, we get worried when someone names us as gamblers. I personally felt it, and I'm not sure how others feel it. Days ago, I went to a relative's house and was just having a conversation. The aunt from the home asked what you were doing when the whole family was there. All of a sudden, I said I work online, and instantly she asked gambling right? I wasn't expecting it, and I managed the situation. If we're successful gamblers, then this might not be an issue. Being a failed gambler and people knowing it sounds bad.

Those hard core gamblers, it seems that they're not making a big deal when people knew what situation they encounter most often times failing. If they care about what people said unto them, there's significant improvement shoudl be done. But I think their worst than ever, more times they've been failing once again. Addiction leads them to loss everything, even their property and dignity.
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We may say what people say about us won't be a big problem, and it's up to me to do whatever I wish. In reality, we get worried when someone names us as gamblers. I personally felt it, and I'm not sure how others feel it. Days ago, I went to a relative's house and was just having a conversation. The aunt from the home asked what you were doing when the whole family was there. All of a sudden, I said I work online, and instantly she asked gambling right? I wasn't expecting it, and I managed the situation. If we're successful gamblers, then this might not be an issue. Being a failed gambler and people knowing it sounds bad.
I don't get why being labelled as a gambler would worry me, it is just what you call someone who gambles and it doesn't define what kind of a person you are. I've been called a lot of names by religious relatives including their friends because of my gambling habits and I couldn't care less what they think of me. just curious, what is a "failed gambler"? if it is a gambler who keeps losing then I don't see any reason why it would be an issue if people know that you are a "failed gambler", The majority of gamblers in the world are on the losing side, it is the most common thing being a gambler. that being said, if you are a gambler who has a family but prioritizes gambling over your responsibility to your family, then you should be ashamed of yourself.
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We may say what people say about us won't be a big problem, and it's up to me to do whatever I wish. In reality, we get worried when someone names us as gamblers. I personally felt it, and I'm not sure how others feel it. Days ago, I went to a relative's house and was just having a conversation. The aunt from the home asked what you were doing when the whole family was there. All of a sudden, I said I work online, and instantly she asked gambling right? I wasn't expecting it, and I managed the situation. If we're successful gamblers, then this might not be an issue. Being a failed gambler and people knowing it sounds bad.
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Greetings everyone and happy new year all!

Okay, today I was actually out for a little business and it happens that I almost spent all my time wasted without me even having a smooth deal, but along the line I have few games that I have placed a bet and was wanting to view my games from my phone since gambling is now mobile, what I meant by mobile is that you can access your account at any place provided that you have an internet connectivity you will login to monitor your matches.

So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?

On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

Let's discuss amicably

You know, here in our country, when people find out that you gamble, most of them think that it's not really good. Either they think you're an addict or they tell you that gambling
is not good because it ruins a lot of lives. 

That's why if I'm the only one, it's better that I know that I'm gambling, and at least only myself and God know that I don't have other people giving them a reason to think
bad things about others.
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I feel like people around me or my family wouldn't take it well if people around me knew about my gambling

Are you 18+? Is gambling allowed in your country? Do you work? Do you have debts? If there are 3 yes and the last one is no, then I see no reason why would you bother about what other think about you gambling. What would change if everyone finds out about you gambling? Will family stop loving you? Will something change in the world? If the overall impression and your reputation is good, then there is nothing to worry about what people say about you gambling.
Yes, this is a valid question. remembering some of these things will definitely affect people's views regarding gambling, especially themselves. Well, the biggest problem is that if people are already used to viewing gambling as something negative and what's more, because there is real evidence of the negative effects of gambling around them, surely these people will view us negatively too. I myself am the same, it's better to avoid those views.

because, gambling is prohibited in my country, I have no debts, but gambling is also prohibited in my religion. So, if you are caught gambling, even by your own family, be prepared to be reprimanded and advised. That's why we must understand how people around us see gambling, if it's no mater, we can continue it as easy as we can. but, if there is certain condition, it's better to avoid it all or not telling others.
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Since we live in a society, we cannot really fully discard what other people think about us as they can have a huge effect on our lives, so if your neighbors thought that you were a suspicious person, one day you may find yourself having to deal with the police, even if you did not really did anything wrong, so some level of engagement must be maintained with society at large, which is why I do not reveal that I am gambler to others in real life, and if necessary I may lie about it.
It's annoying to say that not many other people want you to be better than them, but they certainly feel good when you are worse off especially financially. Your gambling habits will become the subject of ridicule or ridicule in social life where gambling is still considered deviant behavior, so don't reveal it to them if you don't want to argue.

Someone will even accuse you of gambling or earning money from other illegal activities when you are more successful than them. The social life of most people is still old-fashioned, especially in terms of their mindset, but of course this mindset will increasingly disappear if you live in urban areas.
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