So when I logged in, someone close to me easily peep from my left hand side and noticed that I just opened my account monitoring my games, at this point what he said is "ahh you don join dem"? Meaning you have also belong to the groups of people that gambles?
On a lighter note, I just smile and asked him if there is anything wrong while gambling or while monitoring my games and he said nothing but just that few people he knew that are gambling almost turned useless.
This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?
Having come across this thread before but never commented, let me say that this is my very first comment here.
And to the concern you have raised, I did say that someone who is doing what he or she loves to do, should not care what people have to say about that thing, except what the person is doing is a crime in terms of the law, like someone stealing, kidnapping, doing illegal drugs and so on.
Gambimg generally is not a crime the last time I checked, and as such, I can gamble and boldly check my games anywhere without minding what people think or how they perceive me.
One thing that is very sure in life is that, what ever a man does, someone some where must talk, either in disapproval or approval, somebody must talk, and you know this thing that is often said about talk being cheap? That's a big lie, talk is not cheap, but free, yeah, talk is free, and this is why almost everybody can afford to comment on stuffs that is not their business or concern them in any way.