Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 25. (Read 4700 times)

Not really and if they ever really have something to say about me and my habit, I'll just do a rebuttal about how I have the money to waste because I have the money and that they don't have the money to waste because they don't have it and that we're different when it comes to financial standing, a little berating and trashtalk about their financials actually makes these types of people shut up because the people that's richer than you don't really care about what you do with your money, it's the people that have less fortune than you that talks a lot. Thankfully, this only happened to me one time so it's not that big of a deal for me, most of the time when they voice out their opinion about my gambling, I just tell them that it's my money, I can do what I want with it right? And if that doesn't work, then I'll just ignore them until it becomes unbearable and then I tell that shit that I don't really like spewing out of my mouth but they made me do it.

This actually depends on where each person lives. If you are in a country where gambling is legal, of course talking to other people about the gambling you do will definitely feel like normal. However, if you live in a place where the majority of people reject gambling activities, of course, silence is better. At least you don't harm other people with your gambling activities.

Many people think that gambling is bad because they have seen the impact it will have on people who gamble and the people around the gambler. But gambling should be neutral and doesn't need to be played for a long time, let alone using a lot of money, but that's what we are. We still forget these two things, money and time, so we continue to gamble even though we have lost a lot of money or have been gambling for a long time. And that's what makes many people still choose to hide their gambling activities because they don't want people to call them irresponsible gamblers. But some openly gamble and don't want to listen to what other people say because that is their business, and they still want to gamble.

Everyone is living his personal life, even though we tend to relate or have friends or even consult people about a thing or two, it doesn't change the fact that we all are living our independent lives. You should care less about what people say when you are gambling as long as you have your thinking cap intact and not having to be living wrecked as a result.

Gambling can either been seen as negative or positive activity, it depends on a person's point of view. Gambling is an open activity in which anyone can participate without any pressure from others. Besides, this is a free world, and I've worked hard enough to pay my bills, so I won't tolerate any type of abuse from anyone; after all, I'm not looking for an entitlement post in either religion or where I work. We are citizens who work sufficiently forceful to ensure that we create our primary income for ourselves and our families, and we do so while simultaneously creating change for pockets.

That's right, besides, if they comment well with the intention of giving directions or advice then there's nothing wrong with what they do, and it could also make us aware and reduce our gambling. but on the other hand, when someone has a habit of gambling and they can be said to be addicted, it is likely that they will not be able to take the advice well. because people who are addicted to gambling, in my opinion, tend to be stubborn individuals so they won't listen to advice from other people.

Generally, family or relatives will of course provide comments in the form of advice or something else, but if you are with friends who are equally fond of gambling, they will comment to give you a good way to gamble which is actually good in their opinion. In my opinion, what they mean by criticizing us is that there are two possibilities, to raise awareness and to continue to push deeper into gambling, and after that all control is with us who decide whether the comments should be listened to and considered, or maybe just let it go without paying attention.

Sometimes, we don't need to listen to what other people say because their comments to you will become your basis in yourself,it's hard to listen and trust what other people say because we don't know what their intentions are when criticizing you, their judgement may be good or bad but at It's better if you will listen to your family and closest one who knows you better and wants to improve yourself in life, for real.

No, I don't care anymore what people that I don't know well or don't have much contact with think about me. If it's a family member or a good friend, then things are different and I value  their opinion much more. Your situation is understandable and when I was younger I probably would have similar reaction. It was really important for me what strangers thought of me and I would spend a lot of time and money trying to fit in. But once you get older you realize how many different people there are in the world and everybody has its own ideas. There will always be people who dislike our actions and we shouldn't give too much value to them. Something I always myself when hearing other people giving their opinion about my action is what do I have to gain from listening to them? The people don't really know me and only have a very small insight into my life. Worst case and you feel like you can't blend out other people's opinion, you can always try and be more secretative about your gambling. For example, I only gamble at home in the evenings at home and if I would tell other people about by hobby, they would never find out. Only share personal things with people where you feel like not getting judged.

actually it is quite important to listen to what someone says about us. but it would be better if only the closest people know about our gambling activities such as family, relatives, and friends. other than that I will not tell you more about my gambling activities. because it will only make noise.
if those who say to stop are family, it's also good to listen to what they say, but not to stop completely, just limit our movements when playing gambling so as not to overdo it. maybe that's all.

It is a difficult thing to not care what people say about us, they will continue to weaken mentally until dawn, I agree with you,  you are ignorant and don't care about what people say. this needs to be imitated and learned how to not care about what people say. I've tried, but I always think about what people say until I stop playing gambling a few years ago. That made me no longer excited to watch or sit on a bet chair. But, it's no longer, I finally decided to start again after my friend support me.

Without being told each and everyone of us knows that betting is not the type of business that in the one should glory about. Gambling is not a noble profession and it is not even a profession, it is unethical and in most societies it is prohibited. Having this in mind is what makes some gamblers pretend as if they do not gamble but in their secret places they do. If you look around your neighborhood you will also understand that there are people who have already useless themselves because of gambling. There are people who do not have single type of project year inn year out because of gambling and yet they work and earn. If you have also observant you will understand that there are some people who are very much addicted to gambling and they appear poor in the society. The number of the people who are disadvantaged by gambling is higher than the number of people who became successful through gambling. You therefore have no reasons to be sad if someone already categorized you as someone who is not going to be successful in the future because they saw you gambling. It is now at your own court to prove the people wrong by gambling with difference. Tell them that you are civilized and strive to be even better and not to become what they think of you. With such a criticism, it will serve as a watch word to you in case you are going extreme in gambling. In a nutshell, you need to consider what more than one person had said about you.

That is what it should be.

We will mind what we do and we don't mind what others do and that's why we shouldn't let them affect our feelings in whichever we do. If they're too talkative and tells a lot of tales that we don't like, ignore them.

That's the best revenge that you can do to them and react nothing as if you are just doing nothing and actually ignoring them for real. Just think of those folks that don't have anything to do so they comment to you.

And to add to that, we don't need to meet or reach people's expectations. Who are they to begin with?

We are the one who knows ourselves. Even doing gambling, we still know being a proper person and not doing crappy things around.

If these people say bad things about us because we do gamble, let them be. It's their freedom after all. But if things got worse because of their wrong statement about us, it's time now to confront these people and put some argument against them,

Caring for what other people says about you for anything and not just gambling is an old mentality which people with complexes have.I don't care what other people say about me as I am living my life enjoying what I do and what other people say does not concern me at all.I may be happy gambling all day in a physical casino and people would perceive it differently,they will say he is a loser while I am enjoying myself so who cares what people say.

What I can say here is that gambling is not a crime, it is just a way of life, only that some people are doing it in an ugly way which is making people think that it is so bad. It is not bad itself if gambling is engaged correctly, the gambler will continue to enjoy it and get to even make money from it, but if they can't earn the money, they will still not lsoe much and will continue to try their luck if they need money from it which I do not advice in such in a way that will be linked to desperation. This can't be obvious to anybody until they see the gambling app on the gadget of the gambler or see them entering the gambling house.

Any which one, it is one's business and affair, it doesn't concern anybody or external people are less concerned about it. This standing of mine subsists as long as the gambler is responsible with his gambling, everybody can't have the same hobby or way of life, those who would complain about gambling, don't they have their own hobbies and their lives of interest in some things. But we should only be wise and smart about it, we should not be too engrossed with gambling so that the bad side of it will not affect us. Gambling can be enjoyed if one's mind is positioned towards the care and plan and if we moderate our activities with it, not friends or family will be worried to the point that they will start complaining about it.

Yes, that's why I don't like spending time with people like that because it can cause misunderstandings. I'd better leave it and go home or join other friends who don't like talking about other people. There are people like that in our environment so we really need to keep our distance from them because that's what they are like. After all, we can still gamble well because we can really use gambling as entertainment and never cross the boundaries that we have created. We also never use a lot of money to enjoy gambling as entertainment because we already know that excessive gambling can result in greater loss of money and we will not be able to bear the consequences. So it's better that we don't get too close to people like that than later arguments will arise between us and everyone will get involved even though they don't need to know about it.

I always don't care about what people say whether it's comments about my personal life or when I'm gambling because as long as I don't bother other people and don't ask them for money then I will remain indifferent and do whatever activities I like whether it's gambling in front of them, although sometimes gambling is considered bad, but it's me who does it and I also bear the losses while they are just busy making comments which I think are noisy

But if they advise me in a better direction, maybe I will listen to them as long as they don't offend me or don't advise me with harsh words because if they comment with harsh words of course I will ignore them and avoid them, because my gambling is more valuable than having to listen to their comments. which I think is useless and a waste of time to respond to it.

I like your tactic @ChiBitCTy, that's a nice counter for the judgmental people. As long as we are not stepping on someone else, we are not hurting anybody, and we are responsible enough that our family always has food on the table then I think we are good. Whatever they say, it won't matter to us because we know to ourselves that we are doing well and gambling is just part of our entertainment to avoid those gossipers. I mean, it's actually better, we are not outside doing nonsense or talking about other people, we stay at home in silence, we play our game, and we enjoy it.
You know what? I think they are just jealous that even if we stay at home we can still entertain ourselves, we don't need anything else, and yet outside it looks like we are too busy with something else.
Some people cannot swallow the fact that somebody is better than them which is why they will do everything in their mouthful power to undermine those types of people who are ignoring them.
I know it because I have neighbors who talk a lot, mostly the old women who think they are better or they just don't have anything else to do in their life that is why they are trying to pull down people using their gossip. That's why I don't share anything with anyone, it's scary because it's like a pandemic that would scatter fast.

The gambler should not skip any person opinion in the gambling,because every one will share their opinions based on the loss or winning.If the gambler was new to the field of gambling,he should ready to accept the words of the experienced gamblers.This was the only way to avoid of the gambler initially loss in the gambling.The gamblers who are get addicted to gambling will not accept the the advice from the experienced gambler or their friends.This was the bigger reason for the gambling addicted person to suffer a lot.The most of the gambling addiction cause due to the recovery of the old losses in the gambling site.

When it comes to family talks then it would really be that always the main priority on which if someone does really experiencing some problems then it would really be just that normal
that as a member then you should really be that trying out to help to those who are at trouble. You cant really just that make yourself that seeing them on a tough situation.
This is why it would really be that best that you should really be wary on whats happening around specially in the family on which potential problems could really
happen and this is why it would really be that important that you should be wary on the things that you are dealing with.