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August 18, 2023, 04:53:12 AM
#7
A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

Without wasting of much time the mother should relocate the environment they live in and block every means of having access to gambling by her son, a teenager needs to focus in his studies and not gambling, advise her to discipline the child now before things got escalated out of hands, if he have no money to use for gambling and he's not working to earn money, he will definitely begin to think on stealing for has access to gambling.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble.

What if he's lying, how sure are you about what he's telling you, children of nowadays are very smart in doing wrong things, yours is to better advise him to face his life career ambition and study hard to turn whom he would always wanted to be in life, advise his as a brother.

And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family.

Even if this be the case, it's not still good enough, he can have savings and have plans for himself than using his money on gambling at his age.
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August 18, 2023, 04:37:57 AM
#6
The mother is that kind of mum that sees nothing good in gambling and that is why she is worried. Speaking with him alone won't guarantee that he is a responsible gambler because he might just be seeing little money for now, because if he has the chance and money, you may not conclude that anymore. You can know a responsible gambler by experience. Some one who has no experience may not be responsible in such adventure. However my advise to the boy first is to listen to the mum and concentrate in his education, after education he could choose to continue or stop. Again, he should not allow friends to deceive him into what he will do against his parents because it appears the parents don't like gambling and are not teaching him that way. So for the mum, she has to understand he is a young person capable of being influenced by friends and what he see around. She has to keep cautioning and talking to him, watch his friends and guide him more. Young people have tendency of exhibiting different habit until they are stable and hopefully, he may listen to the mother one day.
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August 18, 2023, 04:24:20 AM
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She's a skeptical mother, it was her mistake about misplacing her money, why she need to blame her son? she need to start to fix her problem first and then look how her son's activity after that.

There's a chance her son might be lying, but there's no proof and it's not good to pointing out if he's the one who took the money. If I were her son, I would be angry and might likely don't have a good relationship ship with her.
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August 18, 2023, 04:14:27 AM
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A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?
to enter the world of gambling, in my opinion, 18 years old is a sufficient age. But besides that, it must also be accompanied by good self-control and sufficient knowledge about how gambling works and winning strategies.

If you are still relying on gifts from your parents to survive, you should stop gambling. because you risk losing your parents' trust and generosity towards you.

and one more thing, to enter the world of gambling requires ability and finances. It is wise to refrain from these activities until one is able to do so. If a person has engaged in such activities, it is extremely important to stop them before any harm is done to the child. For now, focus on mastering the basics of gambling and strategy, including the art of winning, so that when someone re-enters the world of gambling, they have enough self-control to increase their chances of winning.
owever, it would be even better if the child forgot about gambling and focused on learning and pursuing their dreams.
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August 18, 2023, 03:41:05 AM
#3
From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?
From just talking with him, you can not conclude that he is a responsible gambler, people that can know him as a responsible gambler are his friends that also gamble with him. Father, mother, Uncle or aunty may not know that until certain things like him stealing their money.

His mother needs to advice him. He is more than 18 years, let him choose the path he wants to choose, but tell her to give him good advice and to be on the good path. She should let her know how gambling is very dangerous and give him examples of irresponsible gambler's real life stories. I have heard many of such events. You can let him know how gambling is not a way to earn, it is not a way to earn but to have fun.
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August 18, 2023, 03:31:35 AM
#2
A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?

Gambling is like a drug.The addiction grows most times unconsciously and that inevitably leads to all kind of irresponsible behaviors when the person who becomes addicted to gambling remains without money.If he only plays sport betting I would not be that worried for him as I am sure with a small balance the guy can go a long way but I would be worry sick if starts playing slot machines which are a super fast money drainer most of the time,that would be really dangerous and stealing money for him would be right behind the door.
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August 18, 2023, 03:17:53 AM
#1
A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.

I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?
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