Topic: Have you ever had the feeling that someone is controlling your life? - page 8. (Read 1436 times)
September 27, 2017, 10:50:10 AM
I never experienced it. my principle, this is my life, this is my nature, this is my body. cuman me who knows where I want to go. indeed many in this world are controlled by others, but first seen the intent and purpose of the person. whether for good or evil. life is difficult, but first look at the meaning of the person who controls us.like a boss controlling you in a company, surely it's for a better job, and for the betterment of the company. but if someone else controls you by passing the limit, then you should leave. remember this is your life, you who have to decide it is not someone else who determines you. indeed the reality is difficult, but all must be full of struggle
September 27, 2017, 10:39:30 AM
I try as much as i can to control my own life that i dont leave to anyone to decide for me because i want the consequences of my own action be blamed on me, me alone and nobody else so i control my own life. People might have some influence on me at some point like my parents, siblings, boss, colleagues and the guy who i bust into conservation with at the soccer stadium but they dont control me.
September 27, 2017, 08:36:06 AM
yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair LIFE is.
Not at times, but often feel that his life is controlled by others. When you work for salaries, that is inevitable. You are subject to strict regulations where you work. Only with bitcoin you will not be controlled but will be mastered and become rich. September 26, 2017, 11:12:17 PM
yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair LIFE is.
Agree its our parents and for me not just them its my God aswell but He do not control the way we pick our path it is we who will let walk through the path we pick. Why its because God give us our own mind and not to forget our parents who will guide me and you as we grow.
September 26, 2017, 09:31:35 PM
We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.
To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
Well, I think I am lucky to not experience that abusive relationship even if I have a multiple failed relationship I can still enjoying my own life. People around me can advise me what to do, what is wrong for me, and what is right for me to do but still the decisions is in ourselves and no one can control us.
September 26, 2017, 08:41:49 PM
Nope. I have never felt anything like that. I am enjoying my life like I want, and no one is controlling me. Whatever the consequences I am facing are a direct result of my own actions and therefore I don't have any regret. Sometimes I take advice from my friends and relatives. But that doesn't mean that they are controlling me. I am the sole person who is controlling my life.
September 26, 2017, 07:37:30 PM
We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.
To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
I think you need to seek therapy for this but if you don't have the money to see a psychiatrist, Group therapy is also a wonderful idea, sharing your problems with the group will help you to get over it . To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
September 26, 2017, 07:32:20 PM
yes, even though they didn't say beforehand I know that they are controlling my life why, because they always want to be followed, they didn't only guide but they say what they wanted to happen and your a good daughter and a son. then you will never say No to them because you love them. That's how unfair LIFE is.
September 26, 2017, 06:35:09 PM
We learn from our past, they say. I've been through an abusive relationship. That often blurs the lines that define my space even today.
To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
To know this helps me not to repeat my past mistakes but the lesson has come with a price.
I have anxiety almost everyday during conversations with friends when simple questions like “where are you right now?”, “did you end up meeting that old friend on the weekend?” end up worrying me.
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