I also felt very sorry for the woman because she had struggled to save money for her wedding with her fiancé. Still, her fiancé instead used the money to gamble, hoping that he could double his money quickly so that they no longer had to save for their wedding costs. The man was foolish. He had disappointed his fiancé because he was willing to make sacrifices for his wedding plans and instead thought he wanted to gamble with that money.
We don't know what happened to them. But hopefully, the man will come to his senses and can cancel his plan to bet. For their wedding, they could still have a simple wedding attended by only their close family. That would save him money if he still had it. But if the money is no longer there, the woman must postpone her marriage for certain reasons. And the worst thing was canceling the wedding because he couldn't be with his fiancé anymore. But the woman had to be able to remind her fiancé not to gamble for anything because they were risking his money.
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Betting with savings money is wrong I agree with it.
But every story has two different sides we we can't come to any conclusion about whether her choice is right or wrong with her partner but he may have his reasons for such actions too is there any information about the results of the bet or its assumption of complete loss that is why she did this?
But every story has two different sides we we can't come to any conclusion about whether her choice is right or wrong with her partner but he may have his reasons for such actions too is there any information about the results of the bet or its assumption of complete loss that is why she did this?
It can be a blessing in disguise for that lady that the nature of the guy has been exposed because of gambling. If she didn't called off the wedding and continued because of how desperate she is and loves the guy truly, she'll be the one to suffer with both of them living on the same roof. With that attitude and addiction in gambling, the money that they agreed to save for their wedding won't just be like that if they do plan another saving for some of their needs or plans together. It's possible that the guy will spend the money and will just carefree as if nothing has happened.
It's sad to see that a dream wedding has been called off because of such incidents but the woman will eventually realize that it's okay but, the pain is there at the beginning and she had to accept and endure that until it's finally gone. The final decision of leaving the guy and moving on is what she need to do to have a brand new start. Finding the new love of her life might not be easy as it may be but that's what should happen if ever the guy will never change. The guy is also going to be a lucky one if the woman will give him another chance but the question is, is she going to give another shot for that guy that's been the major reason why their wedding has been canceled?
It's sad to see that a dream wedding has been called off because of such incidents but the woman will eventually realize that it's okay but, the pain is there at the beginning and she had to accept and endure that until it's finally gone. The final decision of leaving the guy and moving on is what she need to do to have a brand new start. Finding the new love of her life might not be easy as it may be but that's what should happen if ever the guy will never change. The guy is also going to be a lucky one if the woman will give him another chance but the question is, is she going to give another shot for that guy that's been the major reason why their wedding has been canceled?
Her life will be in total misery if he marries this guy, this guy is a compulsive gambler, he doesn't care about his bride's feelings, and it's better for the lady to cool off the wedding and only talk about the wedding if he is totally cured.
Maybe or maybe not. What he did is stupidity. Some people can think they can still give such a person second chance. But if it is me that I am the girl, I will not only call off the wedding but also call of the relationship. If the girl did not also call off the relationship, maybe she is stupid. But maybe not, becuase some people can think of second chance, I noticye my friends that were addicted left gambling after they had huge losses that severely affected them just like this, sometimes, there can be second chance. 
Her life will be in total misery if he marries this guy, this guy is a compulsive gambler, he doesn't care about his bride's feelings, and it's better for the lady to cool off the wedding and only talk about the wedding if he is totally cured.
Compulsive gamblers like the guy in the description should not have a family, they will spend more time in casinos and spend all their money betting, if that lady is a friend I will ask her to just break the guy, and if he wants her back he must show first that he is totally cured from his addiction.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a compulsive gambler, the marriage will eventually end in divorce and he will continue to hurt her feelings, there are many straight and clean guys so it is better to look for a man who take care of her and not spend her money or love gambling more than he loves her.
Compulsive gamblers like the guy in the description should not have a family, they will spend more time in casinos and spend all their money betting, if that lady is a friend I will ask her to just break the guy, and if he wants her back he must show first that he is totally cured from his addiction.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a compulsive gambler, the marriage will eventually end in divorce and he will continue to hurt her feelings, there are many straight and clean guys so it is better to look for a man who take care of her and not spend her money or love gambling more than he loves her.
Marriage is off then. There is no good for this man to marry her as it is already a problem from the beginning. Give it a year after the wedding the guy will be spending money he didn't earn. Regardless of what his motive is. Let's say he meant to grow the money to impress this woman that he is a good provider but look at how it turned out.
Not gonna be great if she continues their plan. So people in Nigeria are actually no very traditional where only the men spend money for their girl?
Honestly, she might be better off calling off the wedding. They've been scrimping and saving for the big day, so it's clear they're not rolling in money. But then her fiancé goes and gambles it away? Talk about a wild risktaker, but it's not exactly a smart gamble. Wedding funds shouldn't go into a bet as that's just asking for trouble. If he'd won, folks might call him daring, the 'all-in' kind of guy. But since he lost, it's all on him.
Seriously, marrying a guy like that is a recipe for disaster. Making big decisions without consulting the wife? Hey, lady, maybe you should look for a different fella, someone who's not all about the high-stakes gambling. No hate on gamblers, I mean, some of us enjoy a little risk, but this is just too much.
Seriously, marrying a guy like that is a recipe for disaster. Making big decisions without consulting the wife? Hey, lady, maybe you should look for a different fella, someone who's not all about the high-stakes gambling. No hate on gamblers, I mean, some of us enjoy a little risk, but this is just too much.
I feel bad for the lady. If she decides to leave the relationship, I think it would more than just about money.
The man is either a gambler already who knowingly risk their wedding money for gambling or a first time gambler who genuinely hope that he could double the money. If it is the former, it would be unforgivable fir me. He shouldnt have made the decision at all right from the beginning. If it is the former, I think they can try to talk to each other and sort it out. Whatever the lady decides, I think it is valid. She was lied to, regardless of the reason and that something that a partner should refrain from doing
The man is either a gambler already who knowingly risk their wedding money for gambling or a first time gambler who genuinely hope that he could double the money. If it is the former, it would be unforgivable fir me. He shouldnt have made the decision at all right from the beginning. If it is the former, I think they can try to talk to each other and sort it out. Whatever the lady decides, I think it is valid. She was lied to, regardless of the reason and that something that a partner should refrain from doing
Her life will be in total misery if he marries this guy, this guy is a compulsive gambler, he doesn't care about his bride's feelings, and it's better for the lady to cool off the wedding and only talk about the wedding if he is totally cured.
Compulsive gamblers like the guy in the description should not have a family, they will spend more time in casinos and spend all their money betting, if that lady is a friend I will ask her to just break the guy, and if he wants her back he must show first that he is totally cured from his addiction.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a compulsive gambler, the marriage will eventually end in divorce and he will continue to hurt her feelings, there are many straight and clean guys so it is better to look for a man who take care of her and not spend her money or love gambling more than he loves her.
Compulsive gamblers like the guy in the description should not have a family, they will spend more time in casinos and spend all their money betting, if that lady is a friend I will ask her to just break the guy, and if he wants her back he must show first that he is totally cured from his addiction.
The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a compulsive gambler, the marriage will eventually end in divorce and he will continue to hurt her feelings, there are many straight and clean guys so it is better to look for a man who take care of her and not spend her money or love gambling more than he loves her.
Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..
Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?
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My fiancee and I have been making arrangements for wedding, we are both contributing (saving) money because i know about his financial condition, in fact, i will say that i have contributed to about 60% of the total money in our savings, just for him to use nearly all the 5 million naira (approximately $5000) we saved to play betting and when i asked him about it, he said he was trying not to put all the wedding burden on me, that he thought he would be able to double the money.
I am really speechless and confused, and i think it's best for me to call the wedding off, what will i even tell people that already know about our wedding plans? this is the most disgraceful thing that has ever happened to me.
I am really speechless and confused, and i think it's best for me to call the wedding off, what will i even tell people that already know about our wedding plans? this is the most disgraceful thing that has ever happened to me.
Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?
What kind of stupid story is this...? There are so many stories about someone whose family had to be destroyed where the child became the victim of a divorce caused by reckless and irresponsible gambling carried out by the head of the family. And now there is a story of someone who failed to continue their marriage and this was again caused by reckless and irresponsible gambling.. STUPID.. how is it possible that in such an urgent situation they still think that by gambling they can double their money.
Heyy, marriage is simple, it's just that our egos are too high, which makes us like those who, when we want to have a wedding, have to have a lot of money so we can hold a luxurious wedding party because we have friends we invite, so if we don't have a party, it becomes embarrassing. What we need to think about is not about the wedding party but about life after marriage where we as men must have a steady income that can be relied upon to meet the needs of the family. It's ridiculous, we struggle to hold a wedding but after getting married we become confused because we run out of money. LOL.
But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man?
Should have shared the link to this tweet on X, but unfortunately, i have lost the tweet, i was kind of high on alcohol last night while going through the tweet
, didn't even know I saved the screenshot i shared here; on my phone, i was going through my gallery this morning, saw the shot, then remembered and decided to share the story here.
Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..
The story is really heartbreaking since imagine that you are really expecting that there's a wedding will gonna happen but suddenly his supposed to be husband made a wrong decision and use the money for just like that then for sure this creates a lot of stress from the girl side especially with the man if he realize that he made a big mistake of his life.
Since this is already happened maybe its better for girl to decide to end up their relationship since that action is very irresponsible and he might do this again especially if the girl tolerate what the guy did. And he should not supposed to use that money since that is intended for important event in their life, but the guy decide to gamble all so I guess that tells all that he can't handle his self very well and might the girl will suffer from his wrong decisions in life in future.
In life, we make decisions based on our needs placed in order of importance. If the man sees marriage as a cardinal need he wouldn't have risked such an amount on gambling. Greed played an important role in this senseless bet. His excuse that wanted to make more money so that the burden of the wedding expenses would not be on the lady is silly. He would have worked harder or taken another job to achieve that. The simple reason for his behavior is he is very greedy or suffering from gambling addiction. The lady should be careful of him because he might sell their belongings to gamble. He should seek help that will enable him to control his gambling drive. The bride-to-be should also check if he is not addicted to something else like hard drugs.
If case like this really happens then it is mutual mistake because why the man can take full control of the money that has been collected because when he has committed to saving with his partner with the aim of being means of marriage and continuing to fulfill his family.
But here the person who is most guilty is the man because he is the future head of the family who has full responsibility and should have thought better before using the money as betting capital.
I sure the woman was devastated by this incident and she must have been very disappointed because what had been targeted and planned in such way had to fall apart because of the man mistake.
However, we can learn from things like this and add to our experience that we must always be able to control ourselves and be smarter in using or managing our finances for gambling.
But here the person who is most guilty is the man because he is the future head of the family who has full responsibility and should have thought better before using the money as betting capital.
I sure the woman was devastated by this incident and she must have been very disappointed because what had been targeted and planned in such way had to fall apart because of the man mistake.
However, we can learn from things like this and add to our experience that we must always be able to control ourselves and be smarter in using or managing our finances for gambling.
Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heartbreaking than this?
Marriage is not something that you will just get in and get out of, divorce and separation are very costly much more so when you already have children, you will marry an irresponsible guy, she doesn't deserve you, there are more good guys than will come to you that will not cheat you of your money.
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I also feel sorry for the lady but life goes on. If she called off the wedding, life goes on.
But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man? The finance may not be a gambler but just want to try his luck, but that is stupidity.
I have seen something like this before but I did not know who contributed the money. Men like some risky. Some of them were lucky but some were not lucky.
I believe the relationship may continue and what they mean by calling off the wedding may be to postpone the wedding till further notice until they can save up another money, but to me, the ladies were not wise to have held such cash, in a country that the currency is so weak and inflation is rising steadily, if anyone in her condition is wise is to always use any money that comes into the hand to buy the wedding materials pay for event centres ahead and do a whole lot that will make the money not to be physically available before any temptation like this will even happen. But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man? The finance may not be a gambler but just want to try his luck, but that is stupidity.
I have seen something like this before but I did not know who contributed the money. Men like some risky. Some of them were lucky but some were not lucky.
The guy really messed up, he lack value for money and had a wrong mentality about gambling, but then he did the wrong and at that, we have to move on regardless, but I feel for that lady she should be very disappointed right now.
So, there are people like that, not the lady's fault if you ask me, the man as well should have allowed the lady to keep the money if he knew that he would do such a thing, it's really heart recking and i can't just imagine the kind of trauma this act will through the lady into, for these days, it's kind of hard to find such ladies who trust their boyfriend good enough to save money with him, it's very rare, but all the same, i just hope she gets over it regardless of whether she continue with the man or not.
On the one hand, maybe I feel sorry for the woman because she has a high commitment to marrying a gambling man who is like an addict, but on the other hand, I would also be very happy if she wanted to cancel her marriage because the man doesn't care about her marriage, because if the man cared, he would definitely looking for extra money and working fought for the woman's seriousness but she thought very short-sightedly choosing to spend money on gambling. it will never be good in the end
I would be grateful if the woman had to leave the man because in my opinion it is not appropriate and appropriate to keep a man who likes to gamble and is short-sighted like that because maybe after marriage things will be worse than now, the right decision is to leave him and let the man have fun with what he wants when gambling. the man is not a real man
I would be grateful if the woman had to leave the man because in my opinion it is not appropriate and appropriate to keep a man who likes to gamble and is short-sighted like that because maybe after marriage things will be worse than now, the right decision is to leave him and let the man have fun with what he wants when gambling. the man is not a real man
The girl in the story is really pitiful, and I think she was also quite lucky here to discover through this painful incident the bad behavior of the friend she intended to accompany her on the journey.
Through the story, I focused my attention on the man, what is his intention here? Is it another reason to find a better opportunity for the couple's life, or is it simply to satisfy his behavior. But it's not obvious what he's doing wrong when it's his girlfriend, and moreover this was money saved up for a big event, but he destroyed everything. Anyway, I feel sorry for both of them, one person suffers from the pain caused by another person and the other person turns himself into a person who brings pain.
Through the story, I focused my attention on the man, what is his intention here? Is it another reason to find a better opportunity for the couple's life, or is it simply to satisfy his behavior. But it's not obvious what he's doing wrong when it's his girlfriend, and moreover this was money saved up for a big event, but he destroyed everything. Anyway, I feel sorry for both of them, one person suffers from the pain caused by another person and the other person turns himself into a person who brings pain.
Yes, this is another sad story with regards to gambling and it's consequences especially if you don't have total control of your emotions. So imagine the burden of the lady here, as he put more than half of it for their once in a lifetime wedding that they will not forget as this is a very special day, thus he fiancee just play their money and obviously lost almost everyone.
Hard to give her advise, maybe the man is not meant to be for her. And maybe look for other guy and reset everything. But the emotional damage that has put a toll on her and the guy. I don't want to be in her shoe right now. But I guess she has to make that important decision in her life, whether to stay with that man, or broke the relationship and start all over again.
Hard to give her advise, maybe the man is not meant to be for her. And maybe look for other guy and reset everything. But the emotional damage that has put a toll on her and the guy. I don't want to be in her shoe right now. But I guess she has to make that important decision in her life, whether to stay with that man, or broke the relationship and start all over again.
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But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man?
Should have shared the link to this tweet on X, but unfortunately, i have lost the tweet, i was kind of high on alcohol last night while going through the tweet
, didn't even know I saved the screenshot i shared here; on my phone, i was going through my gallery this morning, saw the shot, then remembered and decided to share the story here. 
I also feel sorry for the lady but life goes on. If she called off the wedding, life goes on.
But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man? The finance may not be a gambler but just want to try his luck, but that is stupidity.
I have seen something like this before but I did not know who contributed the money. Men like some risky. Some of them were lucky but some were not lucky.
I believe the relationship may continue and what they mean by calling off the wedding may be to postpone the wedding till further notice until they can save up another money, but to me, the ladies were not wise to have held such cash, in a country that the currency is so weak and inflation is rising steadily, if anyone in her condition is wise is to always use any money that comes into the hand to buy the wedding materials pay for event centres ahead and do a whole lot that will make the money not to be physically available before any temptation like this will even happen. But I want to ask a question. The lady only called off the wedding and continue with the man or she also broke up with the man? The finance may not be a gambler but just want to try his luck, but that is stupidity.
I have seen something like this before but I did not know who contributed the money. Men like some risky. Some of them were lucky but some were not lucky.
The guy really messed up, he lack value for money and had a wrong mentality about gambling, but then he did the wrong and at that, we have to move on regardless, but I feel for that lady she should be very disappointed right now.
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