Topic: He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet - page 8. (Read 3855 times)

Dont make up any decision on which it would really be leading up into that lifetime regret. This is where some people do really messed up their lives on the moment that they will really be trying out to make decisions on which its not rational or something not worth to take up the risks. Spending up the fund or budget on which it is really that allocated for your wedding on your wife to be then on the time or moment that you do make use of those funds in gambling then this do indicates that the gambler is really that giving out more importance into gambling than with his.her spouse to be on which if this thing happens to you then you would really be having those thinking on what if things turns out to  get more worst as they would really be able to be married? It would really be that up to a person whether they would be pursuing things or not.
Its really that important that you should really be that only make use of the amount on which you can afford to lose and never ever tend to make use into those funds on which are really that intended into something
events which are special specially on wedding on which we know that this is really that something which is really that far more important than gambling. Dont make yourself making up decisions that you would
be ending up on regret like forever.

That is why we must control when playing gambling and know how to use the money properly. If we really have an interest for something such as marriage, we must manage the money and not  used it for gambling just because we want to double our money.

No guarantee for us to wins in gambling so we don't have to risk that money in gambling. We must remember that we really needs that money for our wedding and we must be wise using that money. Maybe there is more stories like that we don't know because the stories is not publish.

Playing gambling doesn't need to use too big money and make sure that we only use the money that we don't used for anything. We must avoids the problem that can happens so we must use the money that we can affords to lose.

In situations like this I believe no amount of self control can help, mere reading at the story the person in question is beyond an addict. This is stupidity from another dimension using gambling as a means to build more money or what exactly to such extend. What’s more common about an addict they always feel they can dominate due to the level of boldness they display or else why will anyone act in such manner.

I feel really sorry especially for the bride because i could picture what would have been going through her mind and how women do fantasize days as this and so its usually addressed mostly as her day and less of a day for the man(lol) on the other hand if the husband had won this bet they would have had a bigger wedding probably and the story would have been an entirely different one but then the groom was some sort of irresponsible in this case as he could have known and done better.

There are many ways to measure love bro and every man has his own principles. I love the idea that they both saved for their wedding but saving the money in one account is what I can not do. If the man had saved his own part of the money separately, I believe it would have only been his own potion that he would use to bet and seeing how irresponsible the man is in gambling, it will just be better the woman have a rethink  about the marriage.  Ok, come to think of it, what if it was the woman that portrayed such action, how does the man get back his money?

I felt the agony of this lady behind what her man did on her, that's one of the example how gambling ruins a relationship of every couple. Everybody should be responsible for whatever financials they had, because it turns out to be like this I think that's really devastating to someone who struggles saving money. Without self control and valuing sacrifices, this results to this worst situation and without knowing the consequences may bring I believed that the man who used up the money without the woman's permission lost everything.

Yes, he was.

That's what I am thinking that if he's genuinely want to increase their budget for their wedding, he should made himself ways of acquiring more sources and hustles.

There are a lot of ways to do it if you want to but he chose the short cut route and then fate wasn't with him when he did that.

I don't know why this thread get bumped recently because the discussion is all the way from 2023 which is somewhat a long time for this discussion to be completely ended by now, but then I see that we are here with our various fresh analysis on what really went wrong with the guy that gambled with his wedding savings, the fact is that, only when if he lost the money and couldn't preceed with the wedding that is when we can say that his decision have affected his spouse in a negative ways.


But from not reading entirely the whole message I can deduct already that having to use a project money to gamble is somewhat too risky and at that it should be discharged at all cost.

To be honest the man went too far, gambling with their life savings that's meant for their wedding, what was he even thinking. That he can hit the jackpot easily and double the money , still even if the game prediction is crystal clear is still not advisable to take such risk because in gambling there isn't no guarantees and once you lose you lose . Even when you try chasing after that losses you might end up making things worst.

Always gamble with what you can afford and not the other way round, this one is too clear that the money is not something the man could afford to lose but still he went ahead with gambling with the money.

This is really sad, I feel so bad for the lady. The worst thing that can happen to someone is to get addicted to something bad. If a woman yet to be married to can make such sacrifice for you then I think it only right to act right for her. If she can go to the extent of contributing at least 60% of the money then she is the committed type.

When someone is addicted to gambling, they don't even think right in as far as they can get their hand on money it doesn't really matter what the money is saved for they will use it to gamble. I was staying with a friend who is addicted to gambling once and he also messed up my life because I sent him my part of the house rent and he used it gamble and I was left to be sleeping in school mosque for that semester and I made up my mind that I will hardly have anything to do with someone who is addicted to gambling.

If the girl can she should end things with him because gamblers who are addicted can barely change no matter how messed they are if they can get out of the situation they will still go back and gamble, so there is a probability that the guy can still use their money to gamble again.

The woman's fate was very unlucky, she put her trust in the wrong person, perhaps there are many more sad stories because of gambling victims, this is why it is important for us to always be able to control ourselves in gambling and allocate a budget for gambling

Its a great lesson and a slap in the face to gamblers like us to always remember not to get too carried away with the game and obsessed with gambling because it will eventually destroy our dreams like it did for this couple.

The story is a year old now but in the end this is just one of the many similar cases where when someone gambles without control and cannot be responsible for their gambling then things like this always happen.

Even though I am a gambler myself, I will continue to remind myself that we should not let what we do in gambling ruin our good intentions and desire to get a dream by sacrificing all the wealth or money we have for a false ambition. Therefore, control the gambling that is done so that we do not sacrifice anything including happiness just because of the gambling that is done.

I also feel sorry for the lady because it's a heartbreaking situation. My only advise is that the lady should try and console herself so that she wouldn't be depressed by the situation caused my her fiance. She should try and watch closely to anyone that she would try to settle down with.
The fiance toke big risk by betting with all the money they wanted to use for their wedding. This is also the kind of thing that made many gamblers to take loans, because anytime they lost the money they were supposed to use for important things, they consider taking loans as their next move.

Why would you not feel sorry for the lady?, She was betrayed by her fiance, she trusted him with her finance and he spent all of it on gambling without her intention. She was planning for their future and he used their collective funds for gambling activity. He should be arrested for that honestly. He chose gambling over his marriage . If I was the lady, I would really feel very bad and might end up calling off the marriage because that man it's never to be trusted. His irrationality is just too much.

If you want to take risks, then be sure to take it with your money and not somebody's funds. What he did is totally wrong and shouldn't be encouraged at all.

It's a simple fact of life that sometimes people cannot control themselves and will get whisked away by an addiction. They get a seed planted in their mind, in this case it was - I can make a lot more money by risking this big amount of money and nobody will be any the wiser. This gambler did not appreciate the simple fact that the house always wins and essentially stole a large amount of money from the person that he was meant to spend the rest of his life with. I do wonder if this was an arranged type of manage or a marriage based on love, but the situation can happen in both - although perhaps if they were both strangers before they met and were forced together, there is less of a bond between these strangers.

It is really just that normal that people or everyone would really be focusing into the negative side of things and never ever tend to go or mind off about into that main objective on a certain person but actually
its really that that too risky for you to do such act on which considering that you are risking your marriage funds then it will really be that suicide on making use of it just because you are really that hoping that you could double or triple it and having or thinking about happy ending? Its never been that easy and thats not how things that supposed to be. There would really be those individuals who cant think off well just because of those kind of hopes and wishes up into their minds on which it is really just that too wrong that they will really be making out such act without minding about the risks involved.

As for that dudes actions then he didnt think off and make out that more importance into gambling rather than on minding about their marriage. If we do really think up that well then there's really that
too dumb for someone to make use of those funds into something which isnt really that worth on risking into.

Just because the man used their wedding savings, I don't think it can be assumed that the man is poor or the woman has better finances than the man. Because after all, it was basically their savings which means they did save the money to get married, which means the man could also have good finances. But unfortunately, there might be something  wrong and his addiction to gambling, so the man used the savings to gamble.

But yeah, I'm not defending the man because it's clearly a mistake, I just want to say that using money in a case like this doesn't guarantee that the  man has worse finances than the woman.  But clearly,  with an incident like this, it was right for the woman to cancel the wedding, because it's hard to get away from gambling, moreover the man also has  a bad attitude by using the money to gamble, that's not good at all.

I wouldn't see it as a negative thing at all because when gambling people win they don't share their success stories but when they lose they don't hesitate to publicize it. Maybe the man shouldn't have bet the money he needed on the marriage but he wanted to make his wish come true if he could win. It was certainly a highly risky bet that the gambler should not have placed. But if you don't take risk, there is no chance of getting anything good in betting. Of course risk must be taken but within control. The gambler should be aware of the possible losing situation before placing the bet.

I pray she doesn’t marry this man. He’s a walking red flag, she should have seen the signs when they were dating. From the story, the woman seems to be doing better than the man financially and is probably feels her biological clock is ticking, that’s the only reason a woman in my country would be keen on contributing 60% of the money for her own wedding. She better call the wedding off now while she can. A failed wedding is better than a failed marriage.

Yes, of course. That is a lesson for us not to risk our money especially if we really need that money. There is no guarantee we can win from gambling but we will have a big chance to lose that money. We don't have to be stupid to think winning more money from gambling but we need to find out other ways to have more money.

Married is important especially if we already found a right person to be besides us. So when we already have the money, we should not use that for other things especially for playing gambling. We can not make our couple disappointed by losing the money in gambling and make everything ruins.