Topic: He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet - page 4. (Read 3840 times)

Yes, that's true, I also admit that addiction means when a gambler can't ignore any time without gambling, or I mean when they can't get away from the activity, but I think it's a fact that addiction always starts with a gambler's obsession with the goal of winning, because usually when a gambler has felt the joy of winning, that's where his desires and hopes will be even higher so that he continues to play.

So there are several levels of addiction, first someone can't get away because of his desire to find lots of wins, second the desire to recover the amount of loss and third the worst is when a gambler no longer cares about winning and losing which what they want is to keep playing non-stop.

That is a good point and I cant deny the fact that things went as you have described. But on the other hand, a woman planned wedding, she has been living with that man for some period already. She must have been familiar with his habits or be ready to what that man can do. Look on following angle: that man has made only 1 mistake, and she takes a decision to cancel wedding, split and cross out all those months or years they were together. This isnt right also. 1 mistake can not have such a cost. Their situation was not a matter of death or life kind of situation.

The fact that the gambler that gamble more frequently may be viewed and seen as an addict, it doesn't still mean that if some few gamblers can gamble with limits and control but more frequently they also are addict, the thing there is that a gambling addict have a way the exhibit the character that point to the weakness aside from the frequently gambling habits, such habits like.
1: borrowing of money to continue gambling.
2: staying in gambling even when they are losing or winning all for the money.
3: always having a reason to gamble without control.

All the above mentioned points are differently from the fact that is quoted above if you look at them closely, because because in such there is nothing like dependency in the gamblers that gamble frequently, but with his or her limits control, now that the rate of cryptocurrency casinos are increasing, it makes a lot of senses to know how to control our gambling habits because it is in doing that that we avoided the tendency of addictions.

Such mistakes are not unique to gambling. This is exactly what beginners in trading do when they buy an unknown coin, hoping that they can quickly earn a big profit and as a result lose their deposit.

From what he hopes that a bet can turn himself into having a lot of money by betting money on gambling, then he doesn't know what he knows so he causes excessive betting, using money that shouldn't be used to bet is a stupid act in gambling, but what makes them do that? Yes, the hope of winning, the imagination that doesn't make sense by thinking he can get a win to get a pile of money by trying to predict the future in one beat, that thought will bury the realization that the risks taken are very large to lose money.

I just thought, maybe the man who thought of gambling the savings that they will use for their wedding has a history of gambling and maybe experienced a big winning in playing gambling, and because of that he thought that maybe their savings could be doubled and he was lucky so there was no doubt that he used it for gambling.

But his mistake was that he didn't think that if he was unlucky, they would only lose and it would be a bigger problem. So that's what happened in their experience.

Players are simply immersed in the whirlpool of the game, they cannot let go or self-exclude and the casino just like that. They remember the huge amounts they lost and it weighs on them, they want to win back even after years. A plan is built in the brain to at least return what they lost, but I am 100% sure that even if the player wins exactly the amount he lost, he will not stop and decide to play a little more. This will be the beginning of the next huge losses.

Sometimes I think that almost nothing can help addicted people, as if the player is either given from above to be independent from the game or addicted. However, there are good stories of getting rid of it, but this does not mean that you can relax forever. Any micro-advertisement on social networks can become a trigger for unbridled gambling.

Making mistakes at the beginning of the involvement can still be said as a fairly reasonable mistake but it does not mean that it will always be reasonable if the action is done continuously. On the other hand, gambling and trading can not actually be equated, meaning how much you lose money while learning will only seem reasonable if we are talking about trading and not gambling, because it is clear from the beginning that gambling is an activity that cannot be learned, understanding what and how gambling really is does not have to sacrifice a certain amount of money if from the beginning you can use common sense and rational thinking.

That's strong and I think you are right. In addiction it's mostly just wanting to play which is the same with drugs and other substances, it became a habit that was unable to stop. Because there are winners in gambling that still won't stop after a win which means they are on the way to addiction too.

Before, I found it hard to believe that someone could get addicted to gambling but when saw a few friends who had been playing over and over and eating their whole day in front of their smartphones just to keep on gambling, I believed it could happen. What I don't believe now is gambling addicts saying it's not easy to stop it. It can be stopped, it just needs that discipline, and many online casinos today especially the reputable ones are offering the self-exclusion option to help out those who are trying to quit.

Okay, let's say he did it for the best of reasons, not because he's an addicted gambler. But why did he take the money without consulting the bride? Especially since most of the money belonged to her? These doubts refute the version of his good intention. In general, I got the impression that he just really wanted to play. It's like an alcoholic who drinks any alcohol-containing liquid. And he took the money secretly. And this means that he actually stole it. That's how much of a gambling addiction he has. And then you can come up with a lot of excuses, such as, for example: "I wanted to double the money..."

The thing is that it showed how irresponsible the future groom is and that you shouldn't marry him because she shouldn't forgive such things. I may be wrong, but I think that this marriage was doomed to divorce because such a future husband would gamble away all the things in the house, which could endanger the child, who would have nothing to feed and who would not have enough for toys or other necessary things.

It's still good that such topics for discussion appear, probably it will stop at least 1 player who could do something similar or from other similar actions.

If i were on the womans shoes then i cant be sure if i would be able to forgive him on what he had done specially on spending up the money which is really that intended for the wedding and having no consent about spending it on gambling then it will really be something that could cause possible break up. Its true that it will really be basing up into someones tolerance level in terms of mistakes of other people but this one really involves about the love of your life on which it is really that hard to make out decisions whether you should forgive him or not on what he had done.

If the said amounts was been long time been saved up and you have done your very best to make it big and reach out those target amounts to make that marriage possible, and it turned out that it was spent
for few hours after how many years of savings. Who wouldnt really be getting pissed with that?

And with that great disappointment on which it might really be leading up with that break up or postponed wedding because of the thing happened. If it do happens to me then i would hardly be able to give out that forgiveness. This do already shows that that kind of irresponsible act made by your wife or husband to be on which you would really be getting along for the rest of your life.
If he had made out such decision on doing gambling on which its a sign of addiction because he cant be able to think up well whether its worth or not on doing so or not minding about on the
consequences does it have then you could be able to say that judgement isnt really that too well.

Dependence is manifested not in the player's desire to win, but in the fact that the player needs to continue playing, i.e. without playing, he cannot continue to fully live. And such an excessive desire to play, as a rule, leads to the loss of the deposit.

Totally depends on the woman if she would forgive him or not. Actually this is really a serious issue or something that will really be that so hard to forgive kind of mistake since we are talking about wedding funds on here on which this is something that cant really be easily forgotten in speaking about the special day of your life and the funds which are allocated or budget into it has been used to gambling.

No matter what your intent on why you have made used such fund then it wont really be that still valid or something which is considerable. We are talking wedding funds on here
and its something that a very irresponsible act made by someone. If you are the guy and on the right mind then you wont really be doing such action. This could really be lead to breaking up
considering that your partner and you which is really that preparing for this kind of special occasion but now everything is delayed through because of that you have tolerated your greed.

There is no difference in the case of addiction, a gambler who gambles with the intention of seeking entertainment cannot be said to be an addicted gambler, they gamble with the right purpose and what we always recommend is seeking entertainment while addiction means a gambler who dedicates himself to seeking income and who always pursues recovery.

Basically one of the reasons why gambling is always recommended to only be used as a place to seek entertainment is because it is very unlikely if you come with the intention of seeking money, there are no significant results with just a little effort, gambling is created to only benefit the bookie in the long run, and that is why gamblers who come with the intention of earning most of them experience a slump and instead lose a lot of money.

Or, this person cares a lot about his future family, and felt himself bad because his future wife has donated more to their potential wedding. It my country it is common for men to pay for the wedding. And it looks strange when women supports family financially more than men. I am here to protect this guy from the story, until or because we dont know whole story behind his actions. If he is addicted or simply wanted to spend money, that is one thing, but if he wanted to double those ~$5000 to make wedding better that is another. It is sad, if that potential wife did not even give him opportunity to explain why he has gambled the money, or earn them back.

If you lose once in Yes Gambling, you can't stop betting as long as you have a balance. For those who can't control their gambling, once they lose a bet, they keep betting until the lost money is recovered, eventually leading to bankruptcy as well as bankruptcy. However, this addiction is different for different people, especially those who take gambling only for pleasure, i.e. as fun, they do not wait for recovery after losing, but they know how to control themselves. But in those who gamble for profit, the greed becomes so intense that they continue to gamble until the former recovery is complete.

Initially, the risk was not justified since these funds belonged to two people and the groom decided that he could manage them independently and that could possibly lead to collapse. If these were his personal finances then there would be no problem, let the player do what he wants and deal with the consequences himself. But definitely not in this case.Putting everything on the line in the hope of doubling your finances and solving all your problems is not a wise decision.

In any business, the most mistakes will be made at the beginning, but it seems to me that the player will not play for big money from the very beginning. When he will only understand what gambling is and whether it is possible to earn here. As in trading, so in gambling, while you are learning, you will lose, and the difference will be in how much you lost while learning, and whether you continue to lose when you decide that you know enough to play for big money, because the really big losses will be precisely starting from playing for big money.

Most cases of inability to accept the fact of the situation of losing a lot of money are none other than the result of themselves who from the beginning did not understand or realize the risks involved in the activity so that instead of betting with a minimal amount and being very careful, they bet without setting any limits so that the amount of loss is quite significant and of course the inability to accept the fact of the defeat will certainly make it difficult for a gambler to stop before all his money runs out.

Therefore, in any activity, regardless of whether it is gambling or trading, the point is that activities involving money, opportunities and risks, a person must really understand and be aware of the possible risks involved, because it is unlikely for them to make the wrong decision when they understand what they are facing.