There are many ways to measure love bro and every man has his own principles. I love the idea that they both saved for their wedding but saving the money in one account is what I can not do. If the man had saved his own part of the money separately, I believe it would have only been his own potion that he would use to bet and seeing how irresponsible the man is in gambling, it will just be better the woman have a rethink about the marriage. Ok, come to think of it, what if it was the woman that portrayed such action, how does the man get back his money?
The woman trusted him that might be why they were saving it in a single account. It also shows that both of them have the same vision to get married. It is really rare to find such kind of woman who will want to support a man in paying some marriage expenses. In my location, it is the man who will pay for everything for the marriage. The man just betrayed the trust the lovely lady had in him, and I guess she would have to reconsider the marriage. It doesn't matter who behaved wrongly, such a disgraceful act should be condemned in strong terms. I really have pity on that lady according to her explanation and the money is huge as well finding such ladies this days is rare in my side it is never done the man will take responsibility of everything, I believe that lady is madly in love with that guy and probably in need of husband before she could take such risk for bringing more money more than the boyfriend.
As a gambler we really need to set aside a particular amount of money for gambling and it should also be an amount you can afford to loss because gambling is never sure.
If the girl really likes the guy and is thinking about reconsidering marriage, the best thing for her would be to wait for him to undergo treatment that can last months and wait for what time has in store for them, although it would be easier for her to find a new partner who provides security, stability and peace of mind, although it is difficult to find mentally stable partners these days.
