I think you should only have a small amount for gambling you should focus more on your family specially if you have kids.
Try to save as much as you can for their future for all of their needs.
We should control our greed or gambling habits to give them more time and spoil them.
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November 30, 2019, 02:57:30 PM
November 30, 2019, 12:12:30 PM
Well ,a truly meaningful story, I hope it's not based on the OP's life story.
Btw , about it.
Mostly the gamblers has have high temper emotions to win the game, just a few people wich have consistent think for gambling , even if he lose.
So that why , before u play a gamble , i guess u need to try to control emotion .
consistent when losing is difficult thing, You will gamble again and again until everything is completely gone.
Btw , about it.
Mostly the gamblers has have high temper emotions to win the game, just a few people wich have consistent think for gambling , even if he lose.
So that why , before u play a gamble , i guess u need to try to control emotion .
consistent when losing is difficult thing, You will gamble again and again until everything is completely gone.
November 30, 2019, 11:42:23 AM
the word Discipline in gambling was mentioned almost everyday but the truth?only few can do it.
So true, somehow people forget it when they're enjoying and winning and don't bother to think that they should control their bet and will just realized it when they are almost empty. Easy to say than done.Quote
but even chronic rich gambler is concerned about losing because they spent a lot that can be huge amount so if they will just let losing streak comes then surely they will be poor by the next months or year.
But they seem just thinking about their selves and not their family. Like they just worried that if they lose they don't have something to spend the next time they gamble.
November 30, 2019, 11:35:30 AM
~snp~
Who cares about all that, you are too careless in betting, you have to separate gambling money from your family, don't be greedy.I gamble as mere entertainment, do not give gambling results to the families of children, your wife to eat, too ridiculous for me.
I have a salary in the government, and I do not hold at all my wife and child who manage all that for their needs for food and school.
I use money in gambling bets with income elsewhere and the results are not to be eaten, but to be purchased items such as clothes, cars and other non-edible items.
November 30, 2019, 11:09:08 AM
Why it is very important to always have control when gambling and its the number one we should have
OP avoid using unnecessary spaces,better construct OP before telling something.- Many people gamble without thinking and spend all his/her money remember that you spend hours earning that money for your family and also for yourself but our responsibility is bigger
than anything else, because there are times that we for about this things, and forget that we have a family to feed for me its okay to spend some money for gambling but there are rules you
need to control your emotions because i saw people who spend all their money while their children have nothing to eat, bills not settle and at the end of the day they spend their times in the
streets ending is the commit crimes children don't go to school i hope everyone will remember this and be able to help everyone here , what im saying is its okay to gamble but don't compromise
your families
You are not supposed to gamble with the money which is needed to feed your family or pay fee for you children or any other things you can only spend on gambling if you have excess of funds after done your primary things.
November 30, 2019, 11:15:05 AM
There are also some people who know this but still end up losing all.
It all starts with small winnings where they are not able to control themselves and keep on betting until luck runs out and they lose a lot.
That self-control is way more important than anything out there while gambling and to know when to stop and cash out rather than just keep on betting again and again.
It all starts with small winnings where they are not able to control themselves and keep on betting until luck runs out and they lose a lot.
That self-control is way more important than anything out there while gambling and to know when to stop and cash out rather than just keep on betting again and again.
November 30, 2019, 10:35:29 AM
I am still a student though but somehow I feel what the OP said. The responsibility is bigger than what we play, than what we gamble. In addition, some of chronic gamblers are rich that is why they are not worrying on what is about to happen because of overspending. Such thing may imply for gambler who are not that wealthy to disregard such issues. That is why disciplined must always be in their heads.
but even chronic rich gambler is concerned about losing because they spent a lot that can be huge amount so if they will just let losing streak comes then surely they will be poor by the next months or year.the word Discipline in gambling was mentioned almost everyday but the truth?only few can do it.
November 30, 2019, 10:35:19 AM
It's like a rule for smart gambling... If you have money, don't spend all. Learn to allocate for the most important first. You have to make sure you can manage all of your daily expenses, the basic needs. Then save some money for future and emergency uses before doing what you want with the remaining mondy. You can use it for gambling if you want. But always remember what you need to prioritize before spending it on gambling.
November 30, 2019, 10:29:28 AM
I see a lot of comments really positive, i think people for now already know how to control their gambling activity. Maybe not for who aim for the win and money from gambling, it is all depends on it. Because they will keep play and play although they are lose much because maybe they have no choice beside gambling to earn money. Nothing that other people can do to make them control it except keep warn them so they are not out of control
Gamblers should need to know what they are doing if they have families or children that are studying. I know people who limit themselves even how the are influenced to play more but they have child that needs to pay tuition that next day so even he wanted to play all he just do is watched. I know the feeling of limiting yourself especially if you're in the area we're everyone we're gambling too. This is during our break time at work. Not how much it should be on what situations. 
November 30, 2019, 10:25:36 AM
If you put a priority on your family when it comes to their basic needs you will have no problem at all, but if you prioritize your gambling more than your family, this will cause so much stress to your family and will end up your family losing respect to you, so whatever you do however tempting to put more on gambling, prioritize your family.
November 30, 2019, 10:18:37 AM
I see a lot of comments really positive, i think people for now already know how to control their gambling activity. Maybe not for who aim for the win and money from gambling, it is all depends on it. Because they will keep play and play although they are lose much because maybe they have no choice beside gambling to earn money. Nothing that other people can do to make them control it except keep warn them so they are not out of control
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November 30, 2019, 09:33:42 AM
Just like investing, the same advice "Invest with your spare money" should also apply in gambling. If I understood your thread title currently, i would say the idea of reserving your gamble money before that of family, should never become a habit assuming you're an average gambling but supposedly you're a professional gambler and it's your source of income then it's understand to allocation for your investment (in this case gambling) before anything else.
The idea of not fueling your gambling capital before anything else is mainly for the average gambling as such act can become addictive, mostly costing you all your funds.
The idea of not fueling your gambling capital before anything else is mainly for the average gambling as such act can become addictive, mostly costing you all your funds.
November 30, 2019, 09:27:34 AM
I am still a student though but somehow I feel what the OP said. The responsibility is bigger than what we play, than what we gamble. In addition, some of chronic gamblers are rich that is why they are not worrying on what is about to happen because of overspending. Such thing may imply for gambler who are not that wealthy to disregard such issues. That is why disciplined must always be in their heads.
I hear some story about a person who won millions in the lottery but sad to hear that he easily spend all of it in less than a year and turning him back to a miserable life. I can't imagine how'd he spend all of it for a very short period of time. And I find out that because of his addiction to gambling cause him to suffer big losses and even his assets are already sold.How really bad it was when we are out in control. Everything will change and every member of the family will suffer this irresponsible act.
If you do think up for your families future then you wont really able to mind of on doing these things but rather you would be wise on how to allocate well those funds to the right usage.
November 30, 2019, 09:16:07 AM
I am still a student though but somehow I feel what the OP said. The responsibility is bigger than what we play, than what we gamble. In addition, some of chronic gamblers are rich that is why they are not worrying on what is about to happen because of overspending. Such thing may imply for gambler who are not that wealthy to disregard such issues. That is why disciplined must always be in their heads.
I hear some story about a person who won millions in the lottery but sad to hear that he easily spend all of it in less than a year and turning him back to a miserable life. I can't imagine how'd he spend all of it for a very short period of time. And I find out that because of his addiction to gambling cause him to suffer big losses and even his assets are already sold.How really bad it was when we are out in control. Everything will change and every member of the family will suffer this irresponsible act.
November 30, 2019, 09:08:00 AM
Why it is very important to always have control when gambling and its the number one we should have
I think we already know that gambling was a risky way to invest your money and at any time you could lose your money and either way you could easily win the money.- Many people gamble without thinking and spend all his/her money remember that you spend hours earning that money for your family and also for yourself but our responsibility is bigger
than anything else, because there are times that we for about this things, and forget that we have a family to feed for me its okay to spend some money for gambling but there are rules you
need to control your emotions because i saw people who spend all their money while their children have nothing to eat, bills not settle and at the end of the day they spend their times in the
streets ending is the commit crimes children don't go to school i hope everyone will remember this and be able to help everyone here , what im saying is its okay to gamble but don't compromise
your families
With that i think gambling need discipline making money in gambling was one of the best way to earn a profit especially in cryptocurrency I think earning a good amount of money daily was already enough a lot of times when we keep on winning we just wanted to play and play and keep on winning the game and in the end end up losing your money.
November 30, 2019, 08:14:25 AM
Why it is very important to always have control when gambling and its the number one we should have
Compromising those funds which are intended for your living responsibilities specially if you are a family man is a total bullsh*t for someone to commit on.- Many people gamble without thinking and spend all his/her money remember that you spend hours earning that money for your family and also for yourself but our responsibility is bigger
than anything else, because there are times that we for about this things, and forget that we have a family to feed for me its okay to spend some money for gambling but there are rules you
need to control your emotions because i saw people who spend all their money while their children have nothing to eat, bills not settle and at the end of the day they spend their times in the
streets ending is the commit crimes children don't go to school i hope everyone will remember this and be able to help everyone here , what im saying is its okay to gamble but don't compromise
your families
You know that you do have a family to feed then why would tend to lose it all in gambling? It do only shows on how irresponsible you are as a father/husband.
Dont ever try to compromise those funds if you dont like to mess up your entire life and ending up on committing suicide because your family leave you behind because of
being irresponsible.
November 30, 2019, 08:12:01 AM
my family is always been my priority and never been a gambling take any part of money if reserved for them.
but since i have some other option to gain money(aside from my investments here in crypto)so i can make some amount to spend in gambling.
i allocate at least 30-100 dollars weekly depend on my mood,sometimes not even a cent spent for week but sometimes it exceeds to my maximum budget when i am still enjoying.
It's happening to me too, sometime I allot only such amount then without me noticing it already exceeded, or when I'm think I'm lucky I tend to deposit more. Even in time when I say only a hour I sometimes spend whole day when it's day off. We really need to be discipline in gambling but there just some cheat days we consider. but since i have some other option to gain money(aside from my investments here in crypto)so i can make some amount to spend in gambling.
i allocate at least 30-100 dollars weekly depend on my mood,sometimes not even a cent spent for week but sometimes it exceeds to my maximum budget when i am still enjoying.
allocating right amount is indeed and exceeding is always normal but to the point that you said 1 hour and stays whole day?that is not normal because the time deficit is too far from the original plan.
You cheat because you can't stop yourself from spending more than the allocated money to gamble. It only shows how much you are addicted into playing.
It is not normal, it means that you can't stop yourself even after having a limited amount to spend. Also, it is correct that spending a day is not normal because instead of spending your free day with your family, you choose to gamble.
Actually those who play gambling always say that they will keep life balance with family too, but infact they do not. They also say that they will spent only a certain amount of money in gambling but in reality when they start losing they spend a lot more than they initially planned to spend. When gamblers start giving priority to gambling and start ignoring their family responsibilities, that is where the trouble starts.
November 30, 2019, 08:01:38 AM
my family is always been my priority and never been a gambling take any part of money if reserved for them.
but since i have some other option to gain money(aside from my investments here in crypto)so i can make some amount to spend in gambling.
i allocate at least 30-100 dollars weekly depend on my mood,sometimes not even a cent spent for week but sometimes it exceeds to my maximum budget when i am still enjoying.
It's happening to me too, sometime I allot only such amount then without me noticing it already exceeded, or when I'm think I'm lucky I tend to deposit more. Even in time when I say only a hour I sometimes spend whole day when it's day off. We really need to be discipline in gambling but there just some cheat days we consider. but since i have some other option to gain money(aside from my investments here in crypto)so i can make some amount to spend in gambling.
i allocate at least 30-100 dollars weekly depend on my mood,sometimes not even a cent spent for week but sometimes it exceeds to my maximum budget when i am still enjoying.
allocating right amount is indeed and exceeding is always normal but to the point that you said 1 hour and stays whole day?that is not normal because the time deficit is too far from the original plan.
You cheat because you can't stop yourself from spending more than the allocated money to gamble. It only shows how much you are addicted into playing.
It is not normal, it means that you can't stop yourself even after having a limited amount to spend. Also, it is correct that spending a day is not normal because instead of spending your free day with your family, you choose to gamble.
Actually those who play gambling always say that they will keep life balance with family too, but infact they do not. They also say that they will spent only a certain amount of money in gambling but in reality when they start losing they spend a lot more than they initially planned to spend. When gamblers start giving priority to gambling and start ignoring their family responsibilities, that is where the trouble starts.
November 30, 2019, 07:50:43 AM
my family is always been my priority and never been a gambling take any part of money if reserved for them.
but since i have some other option to gain money(aside from my investments here in crypto)so i can make some amount to spend in gambling.
i allocate at least 30-100 dollars weekly depend on my mood,sometimes not even a cent spent for week but sometimes it exceeds to my maximum budget when i am still enjoying.
It's happening to me too, sometime I allot only such amount then without me noticing it already exceeded, or when I'm think I'm lucky I tend to deposit more. Even in time when I say only a hour I sometimes spend whole day when it's day off. We really need to be discipline in gambling but there just some cheat days we consider. but since i have some other option to gain money(aside from my investments here in crypto)so i can make some amount to spend in gambling.
i allocate at least 30-100 dollars weekly depend on my mood,sometimes not even a cent spent for week but sometimes it exceeds to my maximum budget when i am still enjoying.
allocating right amount is indeed and exceeding is always normal but to the point that you said 1 hour and stays whole day?that is not normal because the time deficit is too far from the original plan.
You cheat because you can't stop yourself from spending more than the allocated money to gamble. It only shows how much you are addicted into playing.
It is not normal, it means that you can't stop yourself even after having a limited amount to spend. Also, it is correct that spending a day is not normal because instead of spending your free day with your family, you choose to gamble.
November 30, 2019, 06:55:09 AM
I am still a student though but somehow I feel what the OP said. The responsibility is bigger than what we play, than what we gamble.
if you think you can gamble with full responsibility why not ? many students that also play gambling but they can divide thier time and money verry well .Quote
In addition, some of chronic gamblers are rich that is why they are not worrying on what is about to happen because of overspending. Such thing may imply for gambler who are not that wealthy to disregard such issues. That is why disciplined must always be in their heads.
they dont have to problem thier losses because they have boatloads of money but what about thier time and the attention that their family needs ? this is the only problem that commonly seen on wealthy people . Jump to: