Not only so. We accountable for our families and they accountable for us. We can`t do everything we want easily. If you can gamble for fun, can stop any moment and even don`t think about it - it isn`t a problem. But some gamblers can`t stop and lose all the money and time in casino. As result they lose their family.
Well, only a fool will place gambling over his or her family, a friend of mine from way back lost his family and son, that is, the woman could no longer take the man spending every dime he earns on gambling, and when the woman herself tries to save money on her own for the need of the family, the man will use the money to gamble if he eventually stumbled and discovered where his wife hid money.
This thing did continued to happen for several times on several occasions, I personally have settled the both of them many times, but one day, the woman packed her belongings, took the son and they went away while the man was at work, she did not tell anybody where she was going, this thing happened in 2018 and till date, no body knows the where about of the woman and my friends son, my friend have lived in regrets all this years, and it's all what addiction to gambling cost him.
Family is very important, we are supposed to give more attention and commit more resources to our family and their welfare, than we do for gambling.
The problem is that we don`t think about it until it is too late. For the main part of the gamblers it isn`t a problem and they don`t think about it.
I think that your friend wasn`t a fool, but as the result he lost everything. And we must remember that such situation is possible. I can`t say that i spend much time in casino, but i asks sometimes my wife is it ok. She understand that it helps me to relax and i don`t lose much money or time and every time answers that it`s ok.
If a gambler can control his emotions and have a discipline then one thing for sure It is A very good. Because we are all know that gambler don't spend too much time and money like you mate, cause what's in your mind is you will gamble for fun only and you don't mind if you will lose or win cause you gamble what you afford to lose and that is a very good example. But still it depends on the gambler itself if he will have a discipline or not cause if not then addiction will come for sure.
I have always said that when it comes to gambling, it's important for gamblers to know exactly what they want to avoid conflict of interest.
For example, some gamblers say that they are just gambling for fun, but when they lose money, we see them making more and more depositing in a bid to try to recover that which they have lost, in such a situation, the gambler have shifted from his or her main interest in gambling, which is to just have fun, to chasing after wins, which is money.
Most of gamblers in this category most times end up in regrets because first, their inability to stick to their gambling interest shows lack of discipline and will power to sticking to his or her decisions.
So, for me, this is one area I also think gambler need to watch it.
Yes, it is always good to have an idea that there are people who are very Particular about things in order to have money, and of course, there are Many who Always go to the casino with those excuses, to have fun, enjoy and do any type of thing , They may feel better playing any type of game, but what they don't have is order in their weekends, if there is no order in our money for a casino, things become like an ant, because without self-knowledge things can go down quickly, for example. That's when we are looking for ways to clearly have a correct perspective on the casinos and know how to play so we don't get discouraged, in this order of ideas we must have the calm so that when we sit down to play, we don't lose our patience. In each game session we can determine how we can work , if we are not Clear about how we are going to play things can Translate into many Losses.
That is why I have Always said that the best strategy for these Things will always be for us to do things Better , that is, to allocate our money Willing to lose , not to go over that Money and try to enjoy, if you lose what you have to and assume that If you lose and if you win, well, you have to withdraw, you don't have to think about it, it's simple, you just have to make the right decision and do the right thing, but with the money, there is no other way, if we do things well with our Money Well, we will not have problems at all, however without money in a casino things will always go Wrong , this is something logical, for this we have to assume that we must be very aware that when we are in a casino things must be treated in a way different , I personally will always say that if we don't take care of the Money in the casino , no one will take care of it for us, and that we are the owners of our actions.