Topic: How to self exclude from anonymous gambling sites - page 12. (Read 6573 times)

Am still wondering why there is a need to buy an account when you can just create your own ? is it the status of the account that you are after? because I also believe that new account has bigger possibilities of winning from that beginners luck,.
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Self exclusion needs self control as well because what is the sense of you excluding yourself today but tomorrow you will just create an new account in other site that you can enjoy playing again.

The primary thing that we do have in mind is on the time that we would really be having that kind of mindset and beliefs that we can do all we want since its our money that we are using. Its none others business on how we would really be gonna using it up because it would really be just that a common approach on which you would really be thinking up that you could really be a winner in gambling.
Self exclusions is something pointless or useless if you are that an individual whose really that having that kind of positive views towards gambling and believing that you could really make money into it.
Exclusions are useless just because you do believe that you could really take up that kind of advantage but on the time that you are already getting addicted then this is where you would really be trying out to find up on the time that you do struggle on quitting or stopping gambling. You wouldnt really be able to see its importance until its not there.

You are right on that point, because basically they will say that the game is the Right one and What they are doing is with their own money , and they have the right to spend their money as they see fit, regardless of the fact that they are also doing themselves great harm, That's why when we focus on doing things better we can do things by Minimizing these gaming habits, I think a player should play 1 or twice a week, but I have seen testimonies where people play every day of the week and that It seems like an exaggeration to me, so when we look for Something to improve we have to comply with our own rules and I think the best rule is not about spending so much money and controlling ourselves, but as an addicted player, I think the best way to help them is not with advice, but Occupying them with other activities.

Some individuals ĺive a very carefree lifestyle, they don't even care about the effect of their lifestyle on others, so far the satisfy their desire. And if the person is a very addicted gambler most times it's very difficult for them to listen to advise. And that why it's been advised on a regular that people should minimise their gambling habits so as not to get addicted because active participation in gambling equals more trouble.

 It's almost very difficult to advise an addicted gambler, especially those individuals who live such a carefree lifestyle because to them, everything they're doing is perfectly okay and they don't care what the next person thinks or feels and the fact that they've made gambling their passion makes it more difficult to quit, those are the type of individual that would take loans to go into gambling or even sale valuable properties.

There are quite a lot of people who are completely unable to do what is called “think ahead.” 
Such people often live one day at a time and do not think at all about what will happen to them or their families or their children tomorrow, in a week or in a month.  It is precisely from such people that real gambling addicts at the stage of the disease can most likely emerge, and this process of very active participation in gambling for such people can generally end tragically for the player and for his family.  But I think that most gamblers still have some idea about planning their finances and can decide on the question of how much money they can afford to lose. 
Moreover, with the expectation of several days in advance or even, for example, a month in advance.  Of course, this is much more correct behavior of a person who is really and strongly passionate about his participation in gambling. 
I think that the overwhelming number of players are precisely these types of people.  And for them, gambling is practically safe and enjoyable.

Yes, risking money that is basically for other purposes or interests in your life is a very careless or even stupid decision, such as a family budget as you said which is clear that this action can cause quite fatal problems which most likely in the end your family will experience financial balance problems, or even worse, maybe your family relationship will be destroyed if this action is not stopped immediately, because there are enough cases that we can make as examples and lessons.

Basically, discipline or having the ability to manage and control will only be able to be done by gamblers who really understand the dangers and adverse effects that gambling can cause, because clearly suggesting these things to gamblers who have the intention and purpose to produce it is like nonsense, they will not listen to it because what we suggest is contrary to their wishes, they want to continue gambling based on beliefs and dreams that are actually nothing more than illusions, therefore this can also be the reason why gambling addiction is difficult to overcome.

Many times I have get disappointed before because of the outcome of a bet I thought it will be a win for me, because I have the mentality that gambling is for profits and not fun, most of this times I bet along that line of thoughts that I am going to win certain amount or even go as far as making plans on how I am going to spend the winnings when it comes, this made me dissatisfied alot of times.

But ever since I found out how gambling works, and how unpredictable it is, I have become more at peace and I can gamble and be at peace with whatever the outcome may be.

if somebody wants to selfexclude from Fairlay, i could buy their old account from them (its anonymous anyways, only email and password, which can be changed).

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Self-exclusion can be also implemented by requesting from an online casino a to exclude you from playing for a determined period of time.

Just how fast you can make good habits, that's also the same speed you can integrate bad habits and practices in gambling. Using your family fund for your gambling may slide for the first time, but if that repeats for the second time or third time then it will be a bad practice already. Never gamble the money you are not willing to lose. That's just one of the many things that you may consider in gambling.

Many said it's about discipline but it's not all it is. It's about the intention of the gambler what are his beliefs that contradicts on the right way of gambling. Those can be corrected yet they need a lot of work for themselves.

Yes, the best way is that we must be able to be fair in gambling because how the final result is always about winning and losing where winning is nothing more than a chance while losing is a sure thing, and being neutral means that when you win then you will assume and assume that your luck comes at the right time and when you lose then you will admit that losing is part of gambling and being neutral means more towards having an equal responsibility in whatever the outcome of your decision is.

It's true that in terms of winning sometimes there like some gamblers who are too exaggerated in terms of responding to the winning situation, they are very happy that there are even some gamblers who think that the victory is generated because they are great at betting that in the end they try to continue the session with confidence, trust and higher expectations, but it turns out that the results at the end of the session slap them with defeat. It's only natural that this happens because this is a very wrong mindset in addressing gambling, meaning as you said that if we win then we should not be too excessive in responding to it and if we lose then we must be able to make peace with ourselves and recognize that gambling is always about winning or losing.

It's true, so actually the mistake or impact is made or shaped by the gamblers themselves who are wrong in treating their gambling activities, because on the other hand there are still quite a lot of gamblers who are still in a safe circle and do not experience the bad effects of gambling, it's because they treat gambling in the right way and mindset so that in the end they don't experience bad effects because they are able to balance it by having the right approach.

Firstly, having the right understanding thoroughly, especially about the adverse effects that exist in gambling which understanding will be able to make us put caution in treating gambling and of course I am sure that you will prioritize many precautions along with just making or seeing gambling as a place to have fun, you will not dare to put other goals on your gambling involvement such as the idea of earning if you already know and understand the dangers of gambling risks if done in the wrong way.

No doubt gambling sites are made to give us entertainment and fun but not every gambling site is made with the honest intention. Some sites are made with the intention to scam people's money and it is our responsibility to take steps to avoid the scam sites or the suspicious gambling sites.

In order to avoid scam from the gambling sites, we need to look for reviews and ratings from reputable sources and perform our researches and reviews at forums like bitcointalk and online communities including the feedback from other players. Also trusting our instincts will further help to avoid the scam sites as too big bonuses and unrealistic payouts should proceed with caution or avoid the site altogether.

Gambling is there available for us to enjoy, but we are the ones that give the wrong approach to how we can use it to have the best desired satisfaction in it, we have to be the kind of gambler that must be deliberate in every step we are taking, so that we cannot have something else outside the context of having fun from the way we are gambling, we must be able to control ourselves and the ways in which we gamble in other to have the best from it, just as these gambling platforms have offered us their service to our satisfaction, we shouldn't make it appear we are requesting for other things at the cause.

Absolutely mate in the world of gambling it's our choices if we gonna try and enter the world of gambling or we keept watching . In the end, those people who are made Their choice that they will enter into the world of gambling then they are also choosing thier path into addiction, maybe not all but some of the gamblers nowadys can't control their emotions and They don't have discipline  and that's the reason why they fall into addiction and once it is happen then a lot of circumstances ik Life that they must face.

On the time that you had made out some bad assumptions or views towards gambling then this is the time that you would really be making yourself be prone into tons of mistakes on which it could really happen into you. Self exclusions arent something that a feature that could really be having always on a site on where there would really be those sites or platforms who dont offer but having that locked or delete account
which i do see to be far more better. If we do speak about quitting up gambling or having a break then you wont really be needing up these things if you are really just that sensible or having that good control towards self on where you would really be able to do it without having any issues because if you have then this do signifies that you are really that addicted to it.

This is why it would really be that better or would really be that best that you would really be wary about those stuffs. Stop in midway if youve seen that it has affected you too much
or simply have some break if you have noticed up something specially you do become that impulsive.

One of the issues with gamblers is that they do not often plan ahead for the worst, this is bad. If one would be fair, one should have been neutral about gambling as the outcome could be positive or negative, and when it is negative, one should not take it too personally, because it is all about your skills and luck depending on the aspect of gambling you are betting. You don't have the absolute control over anything here. This is more reason why gamblers must prepare themselves psychologically and get that budget calculated with the right management and plans so that when the loss is predominant, it will not cause any issues for them.

Also, in the case of winning, they can be happy, but the excitement should be minimal as well because no one knows what will be the outcome of the next bet. Can you imagine? Regardless, this is the right psychology of gambling, we should not relax, we should not believe anything, we should not blame anything or anyone, we should not be overconfident, and we should just be neutral with gambling and expect less. I am sure that the gambler who thinks and acts like this will never be affected no matter what, and they would have preplanned for the worst, so when it now comes, it will not be a big deal anymore. No better way to preserve our gambling psychology than this, as it enhances responsible gambling activities.

On the norm, any gambler who is placing a bet is naturally expecting to win, ive not come across a gambler who saw a game he or she is absolutely sure he or she will lose, and still went ahead to place money on that game by betting there, any gambler will risk money even if their winning chances is 1 percent, but not 0, so, in the nutshell, there is always some level of positive expections in the minds of gamblers whenever they are placing a bet on any game, what I would say often turn out as a surprise is when the gambler wins an amount of money he or she was never expecting, like for example, while playing slot game, I wasn't expecting to win anything above $500 to $1000 due to the fact that I am only betting with the minimum amount of money required to bet, but eventually, I end up wining let's say $800, that's gonna come as a shock to me for sure, because even though I was sure expecting to win something, I wasn't expecting to win such an amount.

One thing I've discovered as well is that, most of the times, we gamblers actually lie to ourselves to make us feel comfortable about our loses and not think about it at all, or too much about it, there have been many a time, after losing a game, I would say to myself, "I wasnt expecting to win anything afterall", and immediately, any form of regret over such lose immediately disappears, and in matter of minutes, I've completely forgotten about that lose and moved on in preparation for my next bet.

But then, there are also last minute or last seconds surprises though, and this is when we bet on a sports game, and in just a few minutes or seconds left for the game to end to our loss of the bet, our favorite team scores and wins the game, as well as we win our bet too, this I can say that, it's truly an expected wins, but it could happen the other round to our loss too..

Well that's obvious, I'm sure that someone who understands the whole concept of gambling and how winnings work would say the same thing that gambling is an activity that can never be predicted to result in a win, or that means you never know when you're going to win. However overall winning is always dependent on luck which means that when you are lucky then you will also win by itself, and maybe I would say that does not mean that when you try everything that you think can bring victory then you will lose, not like that because however if only at that time luck comes then you will definitely win.
Or it could be a scenario like what you said above that when we don't expect to win at all but the victory comes by itself, the point is luck applies to any situation.

being in gambling is a personal choice either being lured by others or on their own the thing is none is forcing one to gamble but it is a free choice so in all cases gambling cannot be blamed but themselves .
I myself once become an active gambler and almost become addicted but I manage to get out of that and now a healthy living and with small attitude of gambling.
agree, we can enjoy and do anything but never drag yourself into addiction .