Topic: I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!! (Read 1128 times)

I don't object to what you two are saying. But the problem is when we are at that age, we never think about our career or our future, we get carried away with friends, the pleasures of youth. I believe that when we were young, our parents used to give such advice, but how many people will listen and follow? That is the instinct of youth and almost all of us have to go through it. It seems easy to say, but few people do it, or most only realize the mistake when everything is over.

I somehow agree with your point. Some may see this as a bad thing when it is actually beneficial for both men and women. You cannot just jump into something that you are not ready for. If you are a man in your early 20s and you let your desires get the best of you, and you "accidentally" start a family, you and your whole family will only suffer the consequences financially. Hence, it is better to be smart and avoid situations that will lead you there. Instead, be smart and focus on getting financial freedom first before any of that.

As a man, the first rule to take very serious is to avoid kids and female, in your early 20s set your mind of financial freedom, this will get you somewhere even if your life goals haven't become a reality, they way you think will be different.

I see most men starting to regret only after they have two kids and a wife at home, that's when they will start feeling like they messed up, the job they do won't be enough to do something good for themselves because of the responsibility, I have seen some men living the rest of life in this same shame as they don't have any other way out.

There are some things we need to have done before having family, to make our journey a lot easier, if I have a son I will keep advising him to think more about financial goals instead of planning to start a family, this is one of the reasons why.

I think ignorance of digital technology is the main reason why a common man does not understand the potential of Bitcoin.If you come from a very privileged place, your frustration is perfectly justified.However,the number of investors in Bitcoin is still not small.People who know about Bitcoin and have capital,are investing in Bitcoin,because they know that Bitcoin has the potential to give them the best returns in the future.I myself came to know about Bitcoin a year ago now I am thinking if I had known about Bitcoin ten years ago I would have made a great return on my investment.I hope that many people will invest in Bitcoin in the future but the need is to try to attract them in a good way about Bitcoin.

You need help man, your problem is not just money, you are scared about life and you need to see a therapist to help you out, the forum cannot help you out on that aspect. You have been scared right from kid and that trauma has affected you in facing the reality of life, men are build up by society to challenge life and live with it comfortably no matter how difficult it is, they always learn to adapt any difficulty but you seem to be attached to your kid life that has happened more 15 years ago if I'm right since you said you are married, please do see a therapist, book an appointment and have a one on one discussion about this fear, they will help you out.


You should never think about doing anything illegal, it will land you in jail and you will become a bad dad to your kid and embarrassment to your family and people that look up to you. If you have an academic results, apply for jobs you studied in school or start a business if you have the means to start anyone, you can also improve and rank your account and joined any available signature promotion on the forum, you can engage in the Forum to earn some sats to support your physical husle and with that, you should be fine and happy with your family.

Psychologically, when a man encounters a problem, he tends to conceal it and tries to solve it on his own. On the other hand, a woman, when faced with an issue, seeks solace and shares it with others.

For OP, if you wish to lead a good and enjoyable life, pursue it through righteous and delightful means. No one justifies that criminal actions will resolve all problems.

Everyone had some struggling for affordable life some of them went successfully through planning and some of them remains in same phase for years because of lacking planning and wise thoughts.

There are lots of parents who worked in some other cities or even in other countries and the reason of living away from there families is only providing stable life to their children and its one of the appreciable approach for one's family.

Your life become easy but surely you would have faced some troubles and difficulties in life which you would have overcome so everything become easy after hardship.

Unlawful and unethical? Why? I know the pressure your family gives you but earning money in a negative way still gives you zero. What if the job you will having will lead you to harm or might also danger to your family? Better to have a good communication with your family and try to think  on how you can help each other.

People are usually busy earning money because they are happy with their family and when their means of earning money is stopped while earning money, that person realizes how difficult it is for him to manage his family. Here OP mentions that he used to earn a lot of money with which he used to live well with his family but suddenly his money income stopped due to which now he is looking for ways to earn money like before and he says he will not return home until he can earn good amount of money ie he is now desperate for money income. As you have said that he should not seek the opportunity of earning money in any illegal way because he is addicted to earning money because there are risks involved in earning money in illegal ways. OP needs to find a legitimate means of income even if it takes a little more time.

Earning money to support yourself and your family (if you have a family) is great, but you don't need to be overly ambitious by doing everything you can to win.
We need to be mindful of this so that we don't cross the line into things that violate the rules.

Indeed, in this case there may be many reasons such as compulsion or whatever it is but I think it will only be a silly reason so do not let it be because we are only focused on money as one of the things aimed at supporting us and our families, we become uncontrolled and violate all existing rules because precisely by doing so it will harm yourself and the original intention of seeking a life for the family will actually further torment the family.

I have an advise for you mate on this and it's on two opinions which i will like you to decide on what to do or which one to take, the first idea is that we need to be more prolific with your career, which means you can always get an alternative means of earnings money aside the job you're doing, you can try to empower your children as as well to learn and developed a skill, put your wife also busy with maybe a teaching job or any other thing she could easily learn and do to fetch in an additional income benefits, they must not totally depend on your earnings from the current job you do to live, if not your greatest fear of loosing the job will turn a reality one day, secondly i will advise you to learn a trade and personally develope a skill and be self employed, this will permanently solved your fear of getting sacked one day and you loose your job without anything to fall back to.

It's okay to work very hard but don't pressure yourself, you have a partner now. It's easy to solve if you have a support right? Don't do the bad things for money because your
family will be suffer on your action.

The primary purpose of making money is to feed, I sat down and consider a lot of things imaging having shelter and not having money to eat imagine what it will look like, I have done some research and have noticed that opportunities to earn have become very limited, which have even lead to the increase of crime rate in most capital cities everyone wants to make money by all means, the nature of how difficult things has become am still not justifying, the fact that it is wrong, sometimes when it comes to finance I become speechless, we have even gotten to the stage were calculation no longer work again, the money is never enough.

The pressure of ensuring that we have the money to provide for our family is truly difficult to deal with specially during times when we can't do much. I know OP is desperate to earn for their family but it will be more difficult to do something illegal and be held accountable for that as all opportunities to earn and make money for your family will all be gone. So the bottom line here is -- work hard.

Did you really just say illegal? What kind of money do you want that you don't even care how it will affect you in the end? We are all aware that people who are struggling will do anything to obtain what they need, but we don't hope to engage in any illegal activities in order to succeed in life. Happiness is the most important need for a family. Although I am aware that wealth can make a family happier, there are some joys that money simply cannot purchase. For you to act positively as a guy, you must be content in your life. You can't merely think negatively about a family issue without being happy.

Money is the source of all evil and can take you in directions you'll come to regret. What if, for example, a person you meet introduces you to a money ceremony and then asks you to bring a member of your family along for the ritual because you urgently need money? Money has both good and bad sides, and can help you get some of the things you need in life as well as bring about happiness, You can see that the family you are at odds with is still the one that expects you to become wealthy, therefore my recommendation to you is to stop arguing and find a better way to raise capital to launch a business, which is the best thing I believe you can do at this particular time.

money must be sought before it comes to us. but it's also not that extreme to make money, we have to know that our portion as human beings certainly has limited strength. what I mean here we have to be regular between making money with sufficient for our life needs. For example, many people work overtime and they forget to eat, and end up getting sick. it means he doesn't love himself. therefore we must be able to create intelligent work, so that everything becomes balanced in our lives

When someone does not have money it will become soft like fresh bread but immediately money touches the person it will be obvious tahr the person get rigid, money is power, I don't believe in anyone know because I know quite well that you can never know the character of a humans until its satisfied or its contented with what it have.

There are situations in our lives on which it is really that something that affects us totally or generally because we arent get used to things like this or like that. For some people then it wouldn't really be that much of

an issue but for those people who hadnt been able to experience those hardships would really be totally in panic on the time that they are really such on a certain condition which we cant really blame them. We dont know the story behind and this is why its not really that ideal to be judgemental specially on OP that he might seems to be totally scared on why he is really that pursuing on having money more.
If we do speak or talk about the present thing on which if he had been able to spend up the money which it should really be remitted into his wife then it would really be a sure problem.

If you are still that anticipating for possible problem due to lack of money then it would be wise that you should really be thriving on having other source of income so that you would be able to avoid such problem.

Life is sweet when we have family and life is more sweeter when money is involve but that does not mean we should hustle to kill our self, hunger for too much money can leed to danger or been at the wrong place at the wrong time. Most of this issues are caused by our parents talking about the rich one's they don't like other people children to be more better than theirs, they sometimes think about their own side and not thinking what the child wants, but OP all fingers are not equal and you can't be like others who has plenty of money, appreciate what you can afford and don't risk you self for money life is short and life is one, so enjoy the little you have and spend wisely.

First thing to say must be: never do anything unlawful. Life can be very worthwhile if you enough money. If you exploit your position you are making a mistake for sure. You can end up losing anything you own in life, reputation included. But I think I can understand OP when he says he is becoming anxious not making enough money. Many males in society are blamed a lot in society if they can't become richer somehow. Its like mandatory thing expected. Not everyone is this much lucky.