Topic: I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!! - page 7. (Read 1129 times)

I understand how you feel that you’re desperate to make more money. I felt the same way like you before.

But the hard reality is that there are no shortcuts to make a lot of money that easy and in a fast turnaround time.

When I was a broke, I took time to develop my skills despite being heavily criticized by my parents for not listening to their advice in being a traditional 9 to 5 employee.

I applied to various side gigs online like selling services on Fiverr or any similar platforms out there as an article writer, and do some paid guest postings in various niche websites as well while learning new skills at the same time.

I learned how to do vlogging on Youtube in which that time I was not confident yet and being shy on the camera. As I have seen the big opportunity, I’ve decided to do it slowly but surely and the rest is history.

Don’t give up. While learning new skills, get as much side gigs as you can. There are a lot out there depending on your area like Craigslist, Freelancer, Upwork, etc.

It's like a never-ending game of tag with the monster with no score. Still, did you happen to notice something? In this situation, money isn't the only savior. Let me tell you a story about the unusual skill of "money-making". Consider first that cash is like air: you can't live without it, but it's also easy to come by. No need to walk about breathing heavily like a pug on a leash.

The next step is to imagine yourself to be a magnet for good fortune, drawing in not only financial rewards but also favorable social connections and career breakthroughs. Having money isn't the only indicator of wealth. It's a life of happiness and pleasure, punctuated with nocturnal munchies that don't cause heartburn

I hope you'll reconsider that illegal and unethical component. Do you genuinely fancy yourself a cartoon villain? It takes a lot of energy to twirl a moustache, and you probably wouldn't enjoy the accompanying hysterical laughter. And, in the end, they are always exposed. Let me put it this way

Perhaps if you find yourself in a jail cell serving long them from unlawful act you won't be feeling too scared because there won't be any need to go home 
i hope this does not represent your present reality because if this is the case am sorry but you need a good spank to bring you back to earth. I don't know how being in jail will help you to make lots of money if you are ready to do unlawful things, you just need to keep yourself motivated and seek out for lawful jobs. i believe with such motivation you will be able to do more than 3 jobs per day and save every penny of it. 
Any wife or girlfriend who is always demanding for more than you can afford to give does not deserve to be around you, only keep people who understand your situation and encourage you positively.

Skills are very important in work I think the online job will give you a lot of advantages nothing here will be illegal and unethical. If you want to work in crypto then there is no role of government it is decentralized. Earning on the internet or working online has become popular nowadays. Many are now turning to freelancing for the opportunity to work independently rather than in a job. But before that, the most important thing is to define your goal. You should first decide what kind of freelancing work you want to do or what services you want to sell. The mistake most people make is to follow what others are doing. Choose the subject that you have experience or that you like your own experience is most useful.

Very helpful suggestions and if the OP follows the suggestion, he will improve his income and he can stop feeling as sad as he is now to be considered going into crime as an option. Online works are very lucrative but some individual still wants to work with their hands which is why only the smart ones are enjoying online jobs. I stopped manual jobs when I found the benefits that working online has, you get all the time to do other things and stay with your family.

Online jobs gives you an opportunity to do multiple jobs and been able to work without been noticed that you have multiple jobs. It also beings multiple sources of income which make your life better and if the OP can get an online job he can change his story in a short period.

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Even though life might be challenging at times, we shouldn't let it get to us. Instead, we should remain resilient and keep battling; if we do this, I think the course of events will eventually shift. If you are clever enough, you can join people here and participate in campaigns to earn a fee bucks and utilise the earnings to support your job so that, regardless of the pay cut you receive, you and your family will be able to live comfortably.



We have seen people go to jail for crimes they committed merely to have money, and some are even more unfortunate to die in the process, therefore I warn you to never engage in any unlawful acts. Illegal and immoral acts to gain money don't always have a pleasant ending. I am aware that it is difficult to have a family when you are unable to support them; the burden is simply too much for you to bear. Nevertheless, try not to allow it get to you. If anything terrible were to happen to you, what would you want your children to do and how would you want them to survive? God forbid, they look up to you. You are currently their only hope, so please don't let them down.

That's why there is a pressure if you're the breadwinner of the family and that's why you need to work hard as much as you can. Talk to your wife and arrange things because she's the first one that should know what you're feeling and not other people.

Everyone seems to be tough but we understand that there's weakness everywhere. It's about teamwork when you're in a family that you've built and your wife should also help you out if she can be.

We do want to earn a lot of money because that seems to solve everything but maybe on this case, all you need is to take a rest, take a vacation, a vacation that doesn't have to be expensive but just a way to breathe some fresh air.

That is the parenting style that is not quite right shown by our parents and I'm sure we are afraid to go home because the grades we get at school are so low. Generally, parents do this to their children and unknowingly it makes children feel depressed and less enthusiastic about going to school. If they want their children to be smart, then they have to give an assessment of their children's abilities and continue to teach in a more focused way, not conversely putting pressure on them because they get bad grades at the end of the school semester.

In contrast to the case you described above, when we are married our responsibilities will be much greater and providing for our family, providing a level of comfort is an obligation. The process will be much bigger because we have to do it very carefully and have to pay attention to as much detail as possible. The way we have to prepare for all possibilities, including when we experience dismissal at work, so that when these conditions occur we do not experience big problems.

Make a small business for the financial support process and you need to see what skills in the business can be developed properly and don't require too much capital. If financial resources are not prepared, working in other people's places will not guarantee our lives in the future. After your business is running well increase investment, for example trying to choose bitcoin as an investment that can maintain the value of your currency.

The process may be long and not as easy as I suggest, but when you are consistent and keep trying, I'm sure you will go through it all slowly. Life in this world is not easy and it is we who decide which way to go, because other people will not make us grow if we don't want to start it ourselves.

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Lack of money reveals those who truly love and respect you but in today's world, people only respect you if you have money, I always feel disgusted when I think about this, because it means that everything is fake, those who look down on you when you are nobody will now start coming to you, how is that not a fake love? Those who say that more money more problem nailed it hard, money is a tool that we need to use right, I don't show mercy to those who look down on me, my money is going to those who stand by me when I was nobody, because that's true love in my own little world.

The expression from OP makes me believe that he is a lazy ass fellow, you don't need anyone to tell you to work hard this days if you want to make money, before you can work smarter you need money first, you can't escape working to earn some money and after a while, what you plan onward is what will determine your future.

I can feel the desperation towards your post OP. You're desperate right now that you would do something unlawful just to have money, eh? That's very bad of yours.

Go find a job. Master a skill that would help you. This is the reason why I don't have a family yet until now. It's because I want to settle everything financially so that I will not see myself having a hard time in terms of money once I have a family. What am I doing? As I graduated in College a few years ago, I already started investing. My extra money is being invested, and I also save for emergency funds. I know why you are this desperate OP. It's because you didn't prepare yourself earlier.

You said you have a family right? Talk with your partner, and help each other in that problem. Don't resort to something unlawful just to have money. There are many ways to earn money. Your problems are just a part of your journey of life, and life would be boring if you don't have any problems. Go learn a skill with your partner. With the help of the internet, and a mentor (if you have one), you can learn a skill that would help you earn more money for life. Invest in long term as well, and save for emergency funds, so that you will have something to use if the worst thing happens to you.

You make money everything in life, so you are willing to do anything to get it, it is too risky for you and your family, think carefully before you do anything, when we are adults there are many demands that must be met but that does not mean we have to do everything.
Enough with working hard you will be able to earn money, I'm sure it will if you want but if you expect a lot of money without doing anything then it's all nonsense that will end in disappointment.

Regardless of how desperate you are you should never cross that line that separates what is right and what is wrong, now if you are in dire need of money this can be a difficult thing to do, but it must be done.

And this is because once you cross that line then there are no limits to what you can do and eventually you will make use of those dishonest ways of making money more and more until you cannot stop, and it does not matter how skillful you think you are, eventually you will be caught and getting any regular job will become even harder for you.

Your fear is too much so that you always have a phobia of failure. Actually, if you outline it bigger, failure is delayed success, today you failed to bring home money for your children and wife, tomorrow you will try even harder so that yesterday's failure does not happen again. Don't make life difficult, friends, just enjoy whatever conditions you are experiencing, you don't need to be obsessed, which seems to force yourself to make more money. do according to the limits of your ability, even the engine can be damaged if it is on for too long, let alone the human body which is very easily tired and weak.

I have some questions for you. How many times can you get fired from a job? How many times do you get a pay cut in a month? If you get pay cuts multiple times in a month, you are an irresponsible person. If you know you may get a pay cut for doing something, you should avoid doing such things instead of asking others what you can do to earn money.

This is bullshit. I will leave a neutral tag on your account because of your this statement. You should not do unlawful or unethical things to make money. Since you already stated that you can do anything to make money, you cannot be trusted. You can scam forum members to make money as well.

Change this mindset because if you struggle and have problems at work like getting fired or a low salary, your wife should be the first to know about it so that she is aware, and that could ease your feelings, 100% guaranteed, unless you are a battered husband, which is why you are scared. As a family man, that is really the bad news and word that I don't want to hear ever coming from my job, but we can't really stop it. That is why we should be prepared, and your wife is beside you to support you, so keep your emotions high and find another job if necessary. What I only suggest to make more money is to find a job right now that has a high salary or upskill overtime so that you can find another job outside your current skill and earn more money, and then after that, start investing because, for sure, you still don't have money right now.

I get your point, but it's not as easy as it sounds. This may be someone who barely makes enough to take care of his family, so where will the money for saving and investing come from?
On the other hand, he may be someone who makes an adequate amount of money, but an idea of others is what he wants. If he makes a fairly good amount and is unable to take care of his family with that, then the problem is on him.

He needs to reevaluate his decisions and make sure he's not spending the money recklessly, or at the very least without planning.
Two people with same amount of responsibilities can make the same amount of money each month, at the end of the month, one is without debt, while the other is deep  in a massive debt.

It's true there's no mentioned if @OP's wife pressured him, but @OP said he's scared when he want to go home. No one will feel scared if his wife can respect with anything happen on him, he will only felt miserable, sad etc. That's why I said it looks high likely @OP's wife was pressured him, if not he will not feel scared after get pay cut or fired.

Getting a pay cut or fired isn't the end of his journey though, if he's always save his money and invest it, he can still survive except he's the one who live from paycheck to paycheck.

With current developments we can see that there are many digital platforms that we can use to make money,
if we don't have skills we have to try to learn,
the skills we have must be channeled appropriately and that is important.

looks like you've given up in your life and must immediately rise in various ways. dude, If I were you I won't go far for here, because you can find any job and service which you can do with your expertise. you must find out soon your abilities and show it immediately to the world. There is many ways to make money now, we can easy without move on chair by create visual video, animation or picture and upload it on youtube. some people can even live with only sit on the laptop. Just think it again, and use your brain.