I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!! - page 4.

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Quote from: Slow death on July 06, 2023, 01:11:08 PM

your wife will be suffering and will probably get another husband and your son will be taken care of by another man and because of your bad behavior of stealing money your son will also be stealing money and will be arrested or murdered, so this is what you want for the future? in this world it is better to earn little money but earn it honestly than to earn millions dishonestly, the money that comes dishonestly it always harms, so stay on the right path, do not steal, do not lie and value your family and not to money. don't keep doing things wrong

The things we do today are likely going to be repeated by those we give birth to or we foster. It is not proper to allow the children to learn negative vices because children learn fast and seeing or observing what the adult life is, they can start living such life ignorantly thinking is right. Focus on the jobs you do and gradually you will get there and not to start stealing or involve in illegal business because if you are caught, you will be punished and the extent of the punishment is what you don't know now

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Yes, totally missed your suggestion of doing "not legitimate business." I don't know how to put this lightly. By taking this "slippery slope," you will most likely become a hostage to your actions. And very soon you will turn from a person suffering from a SOLVED problem (which you want to solve in a "simple" way), to a person who has tainted himself with a crime and lost his name. The road from here is only to the bottom of society. Believe me, even Al Capone, in the "perfect situation for lawlessness" ended badly, even though he was very cunning and indescribably rich. Don't choose this path, it's almost 100% a "lost life forever" option. And just ask the question - will your family be happy that you are a criminal and your money is dirty and smelly ?

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If you do any unlawful or unethical thing, it will definitely lead you to commit two or more crimes, which can land you In jail or even cause you other harm right before you even obtain the money that you sought.
Even if you lose your job, that's not enough reason to do some bad things just for the sake of making money. Definitely, you will still get another job if you work hard, but for the main time, your family (wife) should understand that you are not working and you guys can just manage what you have till you get another job. It's better to have a good reputation than to tarnish it.

Cheers 🥂, Dr.Bitcoin_Strange 👺👺

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I think the OP can't forget his childhood stories and it's because of overly strict parents who put a lot of pressure on his childhood, and when new or current stories have something in common that makes his past come back to him.
and at this time the OP's condition is married and has a wife and children which I think will definitely be tested with financial problems or other things that are very concerning and I understand what the OP feels and what the OP said because that situation made him think too far, and all that only for beloved family. And I've experienced this, it's very difficult and there will definitely be negative thoughts just to get money.

and my advice, face everything patiently and chase as much money as you need but don't exceed your ability. And don't forget to always pray to God and ask for what you need, especially asking for your health. And believe me your problem will definitely end as long as you are patient and keep working hard there will definitely be a way out to make everyone you care about happy.

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Quote from: Razmirraz on July 05, 2023, 11:01:50 AM

Previously, did your mother demand that you always get good scores in a math test? If not, why should you be afraid. Excessive fear will make you more trapped in nightmares, you will find it difficult to be creative if you cannot get rid of fear. Regarding the money you have to take home depending on your job, normally in one line of work you can bring home $10 or $15 each day. Don't be too pressured to bring home $20 because you have to work overtime to get more benefits.
Remember, Money can be found, health cannot be bought. Your health is more important than having to make more money to take home.

Well I agree with you. it seems OP is always depressed and doesn't prioritize his own situation. I wish OP could be more open with his family in all situations. And I think they'll understand with every situation the OP is in. And I think what happened to OP may be caused by trauma in childhood that can be embedded into adulthood. That is when parents always demand that their children always get perfect scores. i have a friend who has parents like that. and my friend sometimes looks depressed with his life at that time. But now he is already successful.

I don't think he was influenced by his childhood, maybe he was in a situation where he was forced to have a lot of money that he didn't explicitly tell us about. We all know that health is important and we shouldn't overwork, but it depends on our circumstances. If you need money for surgery for your child or loved one, you have to do more and will not dare to go home without enough money, which is normal. Can you sleep when your child's life or death depends on you? I believe the knitting OP is in such a predicament.

You are absolutely right. I forgot and have no thought until the possibility of the problem. Yes, a situation like that might also happen. but I hope the OP is not in such a situation. I hope he is not in a painful enough situation like that. but thanks guys for letting me see things from a perspective that I didn't think about before.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

this is a very dangerous thought and that makes people go blind, for example if you stole 1 million dollars today thinking that you are helping your family, you arrive at your house with 1 million dollars, your wife and children are very happy with that, you don't tell them the truth about the source of the money, they keep thinking that you earned the money honestly, but after some time the police knock on your door and take you to jail, you are arrested and convicted spending many years in jail. with this tragedy you stay away from your wife, children and parents and other relatives, you will be watching time go by without being able to touch your son and wife

your wife will be suffering and will probably get another husband and your son will be taken care of by another man and because of your bad behavior of stealing money your son will also be stealing money and will be arrested or murdered, so this is what you want for the future? in this world it is better to earn little money but earn it honestly than to earn millions dishonestly, the money that comes dishonestly it always harms, so stay on the right path, do not steal, do not lie and value your family and not to money. don't keep doing things wrong

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Quote from: kro55 on July 05, 2023, 10:41:32 PM

I don't think he was influenced by his childhood, maybe he was in a situation where he was forced to have a lot of money that he didn't explicitly tell us about. We all know that health is important and we shouldn't overwork, but it depends on our circumstances. If you need money for surgery for your child or loved one, you have to do more and will not dare to go home without enough money, which is normal. Can you sleep when your child's life or death depends on you? I believe the knitting OP is in such a predicament.

We don't know his situation. It depends on person to person. I know some forum members create unnecessary topics all over the forum and tell lies in their every post. He can say that he needs money for his child or his loved ones. This is not confidential information. Instead, he says he is afraid to go home if he gets a salary cut. People usually don't get salary pay cuts if they are careful in their job.

Moreover, he is saying he can do anything for money. If he can do anything for money in real life, do you believe he will hesitate to scam forum members or other internet users while he is anonymous on the internet? I already left a neutral feedback to his profile just because of his explicit statement. Such people cannot be trusted.

We know that this forum does have those kind of situations which are really that truly unbelievable but we dont really know the story behind of these post which might true or not but this kind of case on which on the

time that you would really be having that salary cut would really be raising up that kind of question into your wife which it would really be just that normal that you would really be getting questioned on.
People or someone wouldn't really be able to experience such cut of salary if he hasnt done something whether having those cash advance or spending it on the time he/she recieves his pay
on that particular day.

If you dont really like to have some trouble and huge problem to be tackled on, then you should really be that avoiding this thing as much as possible, as you do know on what
would really be the next thing to happen on. If ever you have spend it out on something then there's no other way neither patching it up or you would really be just
simply telling the truth about on what happened.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

I was enjoying your story looking like it just the circle of life that when somebody is a child you are worried about some and you still get old, you still worried about something but I think you made comments at the end that doesn't end well for me. A good story but bad ending.

Life is about struggling for survival, winning and losing, climbing or falling but you can't say you want to make money by all means, unlawful and unethical. This does not show a good example and that allow fear of failure lead you into frustration, desperation and depression. Build your confidence and commit to what ever little way you are making money and God will bless you.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

So do you think that even if you have more difficulties, your family will always accompany you to solve all problems, I think the context of finding a job in the current society is not difficult, depending on each person. different places where they will be able to recruit the necessary positions and as long as you are qualified for the job.
Even the fact that you can sell newspapers, candy, or toys, on the street, ... it is all work that brings income, if you think it only brings a small amount of money, try harder to do it many different things, I do not support them you act in violation of morality and law to make money, think about what if your children or your wife were taken advantage of by bad guys, what would you think. So try harder, don't be too obsessed with the story of making money, but instead, maybe tomorrow, apply for jobs to many places or should find any business ideas, I believe one day you will find joy, good luck to you.

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Quote from: kro55 on July 05, 2023, 10:41:32 PM

I don't think he was influenced by his childhood, maybe he was in a situation where he was forced to have a lot of money that he didn't explicitly tell us about. We all know that health is important and we shouldn't overwork, but it depends on our circumstances. If you need money for surgery for your child or loved one, you have to do more and will not dare to go home without enough money, which is normal. Can you sleep when your child's life or death depends on you? I believe the knitting OP is in such a predicament.

We don't know his situation. It depends on person to person. I know some forum members create unnecessary topics all over the forum and tell lies in their every post. He can say that he needs money for his child or his loved ones. This is not confidential information. Instead, he says he is afraid to go home if he gets a salary cut. People usually don't get salary pay cuts if they are careful in their job.

Moreover, he is saying he can do anything for money. If he can do anything for money in real life, do you believe he will hesitate to scam forum members or other internet users while he is anonymous on the internet? I already left a neutral feedback to his profile just because of his explicit statement. Such people cannot be trusted.

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Quote from: AicecreaME on July 06, 2023, 09:37:11 AM

I wouldn't even dare to do unethical and unlawful things just to earn a lot of money to put food in the table for my family, I can't.

Even if you're earning just enough and your wife and kids are healthy, that's more than enough already. Having a low salary doesn't make you a bad husband or a bad father, you're just assuming bad things in your head that's why you're insecure to earn a lot before going home. Your home is a home no matter what, the point is, don't push yourself so hard, take things slowly and for sure you're gonna earn more money in the future.

Don't resort to any illegal jobs, think about your wife and your kids.

That's true but everyone thinks differently when they are in an urgent situation, sometimes people have to do everything they can to be able to bring home money otherwise their families can't eat anything, so indeed these things must be avoided from an early age to be able to build access as well as relations to the right job so that it will be a little easier when we are in dire need.
Huge losses will actually happen in the future to our families if we do illegal work, it's really not justified but we can't detain people when the situation is really precarious, everyone will do anything instead of dying of starvation .

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I wouldn't even dare to do unethical and unlawful things just to earn a lot of money to put food in the table for my family, I can't.

Even if you're earning just enough and your wife and kids are healthy, that's more than enough already. Having a low salary doesn't make you a bad husband or a bad father, you're just assuming bad things in your head that's why you're insecure to earn a lot before going home. Your home is a home no matter what, the point is, don't push yourself so hard, take things slowly and for sure you're gonna earn more money in the future.

Don't resort to any illegal jobs, think about your wife and your kids.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

There is such a good word - diversification. It applies to many areas of our life. It also applies to income generation. I strongly recommend not to "cling to one job", but to look for additional options of income, from active (for example, outsourcing some tasks) to passive (investments, buying land, accumulation of cryptocurrencies). This has a lot of advantages - you develop your skills and knowledge much more extensively, you get rid of the fear of "getting laid off" or "getting a pay cut," and you become more free. And most importantly - solve the problem that you put in the title of the topic! I wish you luck in achieving your goals!

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Quote from: Questat on July 06, 2023, 07:18:02 AM

Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Sorry, but I feel greediness in you, and guess what, this will lead you from making illegal activities because what is in your mind is to make more and more money. In fact, it was impossible when you are just working unless you are owning a business as it can be unlimited. I understand that you are worried about what your partner can say to you. However, it was not right to keep thinking about it as it never gives you satisfaction and become happy anymore.

Maybe OP is just overthinking what will might happen if one day he went home got fired and no money. Of course if you already have a family there's a thought that you would do everything for them just to provide their needs and have foods in their plate.

But this line "tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!" which proves your thought that he might get greedy once he received some money even from illegal sources. Imagine your wife finding out that you are providing them their needs thru doing some illegal activities for example selling drug, what would be her reaction? Of course mostly they would not tolerate that, it will just worsen the situation so it would be better to stick to a legal activities that could help you to earn for your family.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

If your primary goal is to earn money, then you have failed in cryptocurrencies. You need to love to understand and look for ways and strategies that will work. It is necessary to be able to draw conclusions and try to make fewer mistakes. Of course, there can be no learning without mistakes.

For example, if you take trading, then it's generally dangerous to study here, because you can lose the entire deposit. But the game is worth the candle, and when you understand which graphical market prediction tools are suitable for you, you will be able to get a good profit.

But again, I repeat - you need to understand and not just want money.

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Why would you choose to do unlawful things to make money? It doesn't make sense.
There are lots of good jobs you can do or works you can take up online and make legit money. I won't say it's going to be easy, of course it's going to be difficult, but you just need to be dedicated to whatever you choose to do. The problem that most of us usually have is that we are not dedicated whenever we choose to do something; we start-up and along the line, we lose the motivation to keep going. There is no way of making money that is easy, you're going to have to work hard for it, and not just by working hard, try to be smart as well.
This forum/crypto community can as well be a good place to start; things like airdrops, signature campaign, and the rest of them.
You can also learn new skills and look for better jobs online. Skills like data analysis, UI/UX design, Machine learning (AI), and the rest of them has been the trends lately. You just need to get these skills and look for a new job that will pay you well.
Good luck.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

<...>i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

I understand that our life's problems have a lot of problems that make them face and overcome it, there are people who are willing to sell their own conscience to be able to maintain their desires, earn how money? This is a very broad question, look at your own capacity, what can you do? Or rather, what do you know, I understand that life works fairly, you need to know things in life, and you need to understand them, and then apply them. I think the immediate difficulty is just a small challenge, if you have the ability and try, you can completely look forward to the better future to come, namely that if you have health, then take advantage of it. jobs that need it, construction, transportation, ... or if you have knowledge in technology, science or, health, society, ... then I believe they absolutely always have the right positions. And never risk everything to make money, think positively to save money, don't abuse it to make you later.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Sorry, but I feel greediness in you, and guess what, this will lead you from making illegal activities because what is in your mind is to make more and more money. In fact, it was impossible when you are just working unless you are owning a business as it can be unlimited. I understand that you are worried about what your partner can say to you. However, it was not right to keep thinking about it as it never gives you satisfaction and become happy anymore.

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Money is very important in life. He who does not have money in his pocket understands how difficult the real world is for him. So to live a good life, you must earn money. People who have money say that money is not everything in life but if people who say this put themselves in the position of a person without money, they will say that their idea of money is wrong. If you earn a lot of money then you will get a lot of respect from the family and friends will give you a lot of importance but without money you will not get respect from the family and friends will give you a lot of importance. In terms of money income, you choose the subject which is easy for you as your profession. If a job is relatively difficult but the job has more money, you can try to choose a tougher job. Maybe at first it will be difficult for you but people can do anything if they try.

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Nothing comes easily in this life, you have to try really hard for things to work out for you, if you are the type that thinks about your hassle trying to work your way up you could feel weak, it's better to face your problem and if things aren't going your way it's better to find another thing to do, avoid doing any bad things for money because at the end you will still feel empty inside, you will lost your will to be happy because you know how you get your ill-gotten money.

It's better to work harder and smarter at the same time but do the right thing, take the right path so that both physically and spiritually you will be free of any condemnation.

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