Topic: I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!! - page 8. (Read 1129 times)

I think when you are a young kid your parents are very strict and they wanted you to get high grades or else you get punish I think that sinks into your mind that is why you are scared of you mum. For me i never experience that kind of strictness to my parents they let me study and do not force me to get high grades they do wanted me to enjoy my studies and they did not set any grades to reach because they do know how stressful is studying. I am thankful to my parents i did not feel scare about them if i did not excel in school instead they are more supportive what ever grade i got. You can try to do the same to your kids so that your kids will not be afraid just let them study and do not set any standard grades.

For you to be able to earn a lot of money you have to work hard and find a side job that can boost your income so that you will not be scared that your salary will be cut if you have other source of income. If you have extra money you can invest it or try to put up a business that you think would be profitable to be able to increase your income. Never think an unlawful and unethical means because your life would be miserable. Think of a source of income that is legal.

Many people go through this while still a child because  parents are not always pleased with their children when they failed to perform well in school, and as a result of their attitudes toward us are usually what terrifies us whenever we don't perform well. Every child is constantly thinking about how to make their parents happy always , which is why when a child fail, it always creat fear in them because they believe they parents will be angry with them.
Since the majority of family responsibilities fall on the shoulders of men, they are especially terrified of returning home without the funds they need to provide for their family, especially when it comes to food. No responsible parent would be happy to neglect their family.
There are numerous legitimate businesses you might start that could earn you more money, but if you lack the funds to get started, it will be challenging for you to do so. But Op, why do you put yourself under additional stress because you want to be wealthy?Let me tell you that worrying yourself out over making a lot of money won't make you rich without doing anything but it will simply make your life miserable. Infact even you get money to invest, if you have the mentality of becoming rich quickly you it may lead you to wrong investments direction.

You don’t want to anything that will jeopardize your reputation and your relationship with your family. I understand it’s not easy to be the provider of the home, it’s a huge responsibility and can be frustrating when you don’t have the means to  cover the daily needs of the home. Whatever challenges you may be facing now, it’s better than doing something illegal and going to jail and it’s impossible to take care of your loved ones from a prison cell.

I believe you have a job currently, what you should do right now is to find means to diversify your income. It could mean working more hours, starting a small business on the side, or investing in startups.

Is just all about planning and setting out goals, most times money don't always locates those that uses red eyes to look for it, you must not look for money by all means rather you have to be a problem solver to word or to community at large by then you would start making money from the knowledge you have passed through.

Sometimes when I hear or sees some people complained about money quickly something in me keeps telling me is lack of planning because as man or woman you need a proper planning or structuring before you could venture into some certain things in life.

I don't know the country of your origins but I would advise you to look for mini business to run maybe as a supplier or something very good in other not to run out of money  and to be able to take good care of yourself and family, because what I know as a family man whenever you moves out going to work its assumed that your children and wife knows that Dad gonna come home with something good for them to use either for dinner or breakfast for the next day.

Therefore, as a Man that have all these responsibilities in you what you need is to buckle up and be creative enough to let inflow of cash to reduce some tension in you from your wife and children.

Well I don't blame you as money is sweet when in your possession but its also the root of all evil. I would like to go religious and advice you here mate, please making money should not be your major priority but making money that will guarantees you peace of mind should always come to your thinking. Making money through unlawful way isn't advisable for anyone because no one actually escapes the repercussions that follows this type of means because no one actually cheats nature and kamar will eventually meet you and by then a feeling of regret will be your only companion.

So calm down and do what is right and just be serious and focus in what you are doing and the money will eventually come your way.

I don't know your current state financially, but you are too desperate for money, and decisions you make when desperate lead to endings that are usually regretted. If you decide to involve yourself in anything illegal and you are arrested by the authorities, you will be made to face the law, and if you are guilty, you will be jailed and you will do time in jail away from your family, the family that you will be ashamed to return to without money. Your home should be a resting place, and a place to strategize from when life kicks you down, do not run from home because of money.

We may have a big ambitious to make as much money as possible but never forget the future, we must think for the long term, do anything that will be beneficial in the future, I strongly disagree with the people who make all means to make money even with efforts that are not True, it will harm yourself in the future.
Do it consistently whatever and do, and entrust the process to be able to get maximum results.

I think it's very wrong of you to blame a person's insecurities on someone else. In his post, he didn't say his wife pressures him to do anything. He might be the one most likely putting himself under a lot of pressure. You do not know his wife or the kind of person she is.
When a man can't provide for his family the way he wants, it eats him up. It doesn't matter if the family is contented or not, he just keeps feeling like he's not man enough or he's not doing enough.

You have no idea the kind of person his wife is. You don't even know if she is ready to live happily with him, you just assumed it's all her fault that he thinks little of himself.
I'm not saying she's a good wife, neither am I saying she's a bad wife, but based on the information provided his wife has nothing to do with it.

Besides, he asked what he can do to make money, not point fingers at the reason he feels miserable. How are you sure his wife and kid are not the only reasons keeping him alive right now? Maybe they mean the world to him and without them, the world wouldn't have been worth living in.

When you have a job, there is always a need to save part of your earnings for emergencies. Emergency funds are important in times like this. But I don't need to blame you now because you need all the support and encouragement. First, you should be calm and don't blame yourself too much for the pay cut or job loss.  You should understand that you can always get a good job if you put in more effort. If you keep on troubling yourself, it will change nothing rather it can lead to sickness or even death. Do what you need to do by going out and seeking a job. Don't be desperate to get a high-paying job because it could be illegal work. Just ensure you do your best as you search for the job and leave the rest. But when you get a job, ensure you don't spend all your income. Open an account or wallet, where you can save some percentage of your income for future use.

I will advise you to research jobs that are highly needed and rewarding in your area. Identify the skills you need to get those jobs and acquire them. You can also look for means to diversify your income. Maybe by starting a business or a side job. You said you have children? Will you encourage your children to engage in criminal jobs like fraud, drug trafficking, or armed robbery because they want to make more money? As a father, you should be a good role model to your children, so don't engage in illegal activities.

Get jobs, get more jobs if you can, if you can't take another job on top of what you have right now, learn a skill or a craft, preferably one that is not as time consuming, not stressful, and not something as major as your current employment, look into baking, writing, tutoring, all that stuff. These crafts pay good and are not that much of a hassle (except baking as it requires you to have some sort of practical training). From there, hone your skill, master your craft, and build a clientelle. I actually suggest that you offer your services for free in the first few months of you opening your side hustle and only ask that these people recommend yourself to other people within their circle of acquaintances that is in need of your services.

This is what worked for me and I was able to get out of my dead-end job at a call center agency and find a better work-life balance that I enjoy till this day.

What I don't like here is that the OP is willing to do things that are unlawful and unethical just to get money.
It sounds like, he is in desperate times. He needs to sit down, and think about what he is actually thinking.
There's always a way out in  which where he might be now. Consider all his options and think why he actually need a lot of money.
Is he earning just enough for his family's basic needs or there are other big expenditures that he's considering of?
If he will do unlawful things, he will probably caught in the middle of it, and create more problems or get trouble with the authorities.
So it is better to have peaceful life even with less money, as long as you can live decently. And not worrying that someone is chasing you because of what you've done.

Are you fired from your job/ if yes then why were you fired?

You are just ranting you need to make money; nothing comes free, which skill do you have that you want to exchange for money. i will advise you to first clear your head of this craving to make money at all cost because if you have this mind set you won't make it, clear your head first and ask the write questions, why are you in this present state, what skill do you have and what skill can you learn that will give you an edge etc. if you honestly answer this questions you will come good. The truth is that we all need money but the way you want to go about it is wrong

Be grateful for what God have given you. Atleast we were able to live within a shelter, have good food and meet our basic needs. If one have got all this, then he's rich according to me. Different people have difference of understanding and meaning for rich. Just try to make your family comfortable with what you earn. In the name of I'm living for my family never end up getting into unlawful and unethical jobs that could make you completely out of reach from your much loved family, close relations and friends.

you have a very sad childhood imo, as a result, your personality is formed and you become someone who is afraid if you do things that are not in accordance with other people's expectations. money will not make you happy, but being financially free will make you and your family happy.

you can start doing business, because 100% of the list of the richest people in the world are entrepreneurs, as much as possible to avoid unlawful acts, don't let you have a lot of money but have to end up in prison, think again about your family's pride in social life.

Just make yourself to be that contented on what you do have currently now and dont let yourself go into a point on doing unlawful or unethical things for  the sake of money because this would really be talking about

illegal things.If you do make yourself get caught or imprisoned,? then what would happen into your wife or simply with your kids? For sure they would be living on a miserable life even more.
Do the right thing man and make a slow and steady pace when it comes on finding some income and you should not make yourself into a desperate situation because you would really be putting yourself
in harm.Focus on what skills you do have and find that relevant job for that or even on other works which you could see that you would be able to do so.

Everything on this world might really be needing money for you to sustain but there are things which arent. Anything does need proper time and good decision making
when it comes to this matter.

We all deal with different aspects of life, and the majority of people in this forum are dealing with much more difficult circumstances than you are. You don't have to think of a bad way to make money. Do you want to risk your life solely for financial gain? You don't have to say something like that. You don't care where you can make money, even if it's unlawful. That is unnecessary talk. Since you have a family and I am aware that having money is the most important thing in life, I believe you two can work together to make decisions that will benefit your family. It would be preferable for you to approach the situation from a different perspective if you don't care about the outcome.


Just keep working hard so that you can continue to support your family. If you struggled in math as a child, that doesn't mean you will struggle later in life when it comes to supporting your family or earning a living. It will all come in due time; you must remain positive and continue to put ahead effort.

At some point in life we feel the same way because life isn't a smooth ride but we shouldn't results to crimes or make decisions that later in life we'll regret and wished we did something else instead of the decision we decided to take. We have so many legitimate things we can now do since the introduction of the internet and now blockchain technology so we have to choose from this legit things to do while looking for money, don't do crimes because you'll regret.

You have children and a wife that'll be watching you to learn from you so you have to teach them rightfully by making it legitimately as that won't only make your proud of yourself but also your family will be proud of you and that's one of the best feeling a man can ever feel.

Everyone has life problems, especially economic problems, but we should not do everything to make money, there are many ways to make money without having to break the law, especially we live in developed countries, all factories always need employees and many vacancies are always open, the important thing is that we have information at all times about job vacancies and I am sure you will easily earn money and be able to support your current family You need your help, so keep your spirits up and don't get discouraged.

Everyone face troubles in life but some people worked hard and go ahead whereas other people loss hope and cannot do anything for future. Getting money does not mean that you will do anything no matter how bad it is because in this way people choose wrong way of earning.

I know money is important for life and everyone wants to live a successful life so as you worked hard for getting good grades so I hope you will be brilliant guy and will be able to get a job. If unfortunately you don't get any job then there are large number of online ways like that of signature in which you can easily earn on monthly or weekly basis which needs your active mind. You can also buy some coins but try to first get knowledge before doing so because a signor mistake can destroy your whole profit.

 participate in signature campaign and then save some amount for investment so by doing these both things you will be a successful person one day but try to take every step by using experience and bright mind.

That’s now how it works when it comes to managing your finances. If you are afraid about the normal life that is lived by everyone then there must be something wrong with what you have been taught. Considering your childhood behaviour it seems you have been under the influence of strict family and restricted treatment. This is usually happening in the Asian region since they are very strict with their children in particular. I am not sure if that’s what caused you so frighten about the current situation but you should change it now.

Make your own new world now. Have your finances managed properly with your income sources and expenses budgeting. A very regular technique thats usually considered by westerns.