Topic: I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!! - page 9. (Read 1128 times)

When we were kids we didn't realize how hard it was to earn money. If I could have guessed it then, I think I would have studied to the point of memorizing a book in a day. and this time we could do big jobs which would keep us less physically stressed.
But if we think about it on the other side, it can be seen that without hard work no one can be established in life. the more diligent the person is, the more established the person is.

I think you're begging... pity, understanding, etc. You have a profile full of addresses, maybe it's just my insight, but I sense that you want some money, tip by your story.

I think that the best thing you can do is never lower your head, give up or try tricks like this very post, really is not the answer to your economic ills; no, it is not easy... on a day-to-day basis, but you work on it today so that tomorrow not be so complicated or simply allow you to live with your face up and without begging.

By the way, there is a very big difference between asking for support and begging, understanding this is the key.

Life is indeed full of challenges, when we were small we wanted to grow up soon, when we were adults we realized that the challenges of small children were easier than adults. I think you live in fear, free yourself and start enjoying life

Enjoying life is certainly not a relax over a cup of coffee without working. Start organizing your life and setting logical goals according to your abilities. If your target is to get rich, then the best way is to become an entrepreneur, it will make you rich quickly. You can start by creating a side business after work

Don't forget to invest. If you don't have enough money to invest, then invest in your skills and knowledge. Taking courses or training may be good for improving your skills and can increase your income. Most people forget that our abilities and knowledge must always be improved so that we can always survive in any situation

Do not let you want to get money at all costs let alone it is against the law, and we live in an era of so many job vacancies that we can get maximum results and can meet the needs of life for our families, the important thing is that you are sure in doing a job then all will get maximum results, if discussing the issue in this forum then you can invest in some coins and I believe this can help You are to provide for your family.

Such times come in everyone's life. And people have to deal with these bad times. There are many who are unable to cope with these difficult times and as a result take many bad decisions. Good and bad times are human life together. Once you earned a lot of money you should have planned for the future at that time. At that time, if you had saved some money thinking about your future and invested some money, maybe you would have received a good support in life from your saved money and your invested money in this difficult time. After losing your job, those funds could have served as capital for your business. But since you didn't save or invest, it will be a bit difficult for you to turn the wheel of life again. But since you already have work experience, it will be relatively easy for you to find and join jobs. Keep working hard and try to find your job. Hope you find your job soon.

I love it when you accidentally tell us that you are a real man who takes responsibility for your children and wife. But some things about your mindset just don't make sense to me. But your mindset about money seems to have ruined a lot of your life.

To be honest, I don't know what your family and personal life is like in the real world, but I'm sure when you think too much about money and how you can keep on making it, there are a lot of other things that you've been neglecting. In fact, you no longer enjoy your days without thinking about money, it's a mindset that actually makes you carried away by money. Keep working, meet your and your family's needs and save the rest for other needs in the future. If you can save, then you can also try to invest instead of doing something illegal.

From your statements, I can say you are facing some kind of depression or stress. it would be from many things like mostly it could be triggered by social media and society. So, try to avoid them for a while and be with your family, ask your wife about her plans and what she has to suggest to you. Do not lose hope in your morality.

This world is an exam and it is not 100% sure that we could answer all the questions asked in this world exam. This means we can not be perfect so do not push yourself that hard and do not make targets for yourselves that we all know are impossible to complete.

If you are facing stress, then you should talk with someone because sharing the problems with loved ones will make you comfortable. I hope my words will make you comfortable. And coming to the earning point, I recommend you, not to erase the line that differentiates you from the morality and immorality work. So keep on the morality side and keep growing. I pray to Allah, that he makes your life easier. Ameen.

No one is going to suggest you any illegal work here so do not invite problems in your life to tackle the problem which do not really exist but only in your mind. Because of you are doing a job and earning money and feeding your family then giving thoughts to bad events that could occur to you like a pay cut or getting fired then these are all nothing but bad thoughts and make you more pessimistic but you should become a model for your children and family not do something stupid which could make some bad impression on your children.

OP. Your story seems a bit jumpy here and there, but it's okay. I'm trying to understand. Yes. about Life is indeed a variety of styles and looking for more income is also a variety of styles too. Of course, with your current condition, as you have given birth to a feeling of insecurity, of course, due to financial deficiencies. But I'm sure you have also been above before.

The solution is in you now. Your position is working or being fired? If you are in a bad condition, for example when you get terminated from your boss, what you examine is why were you fired? if you have found the answer, then convey this to your family first and then to your friends who are listening, at least they have good info for you. If you just keep quiet and blame yourself is not a solution.

I know your situation but I don't know your condition in this case, can you have an age that can still be classified as productive age or maybe under 30 years? If you have an age under 30, you still have a chance with a healthy body and open thinking to see opportunities, you need to see what your abilities you feel you can develop in it, if you have it you must increase your talent or ability to be Better in the field you have today, you also support by increasing reading knowledge that supports your talents so you don't have just one understanding. Maybe this will be difficult because it will take a lot of time and energy because you have to work and continue to train yourself in two different patterns, but if you feel quite capable, doing it is the best choice, and deleting of behavior that waste time and does not have usefulness.

Silly, we are dizzy counting zero in mathematics in elementary school, and today we are dizzy to increase the number of zero to the amount of money in our wallet.
Spirit and don't give up.

Hi Buddy, why do you want to destroy your life just to impress your family and friends that you’re also making money like others do. Life is not all about competition on who has it and who doesn’t have it, life itself is all about contentment. If you’re not contended with the one you have, greed and aspirations will make you useless your life and end up regretting your actions.

I know how it feels if you don’t have it all, but with patient and hardwork you’ll be able to make a difference no matter how long it’ll take to achieve that. Are you family complaining on the little you can afford for them? Or are you been influenced by others that are doing better than you. Their wealth should be a way to motivate you and work harder and not to involve yourself in unlawful or unethical activities that will tarnish your image and destroy your life completely. Think twice, there’s more to life than this you intend to do buddy.

In life there will always be bitter and sweet, because that's how the wheel of life turns. Likewise with the name of making a living or making money. There will always be tests and challenges that must be lived, and these are not just bullshit tests, but it is certain that there will always be a silver lining. So if you are in a depressed position like that, it's better to calm down first, so that your mind is clear again. Because thinking when the mind is uncomfortable or under stress, it is certain that something that comes out of the mind will not be good.
There are many things you can do to earn money, whether it's working, trading, doing business, or investing. The most important thing is to find a job that can make money, but the job is according to your heart's desire. Because that way you will grow faster in the job and will not feel burdened at all. Because when I start a job or open a business, the first thing I instill in myself is, I have to be able to love that business or job. So what you have to do now is, have to think carefully, think about what type of work you like, or what type of business you want to run. If you have found the answer, try to start it.

And one piece of advice for you, never get involved in things that break the law, even if it's profitable and makes you rich quickly. But you need to remember, there will always be big risks that will haunt you and make your life uneasy. So it's better to make money in a straight line, in accordance with the law.

There are many unimaginable sufferings in this world, especially for those who have no money. Their feeling is that they are cautiously walking on thin ice, which makes them exhausted, but they dare not stop.

Only someone who is short on money will truly understand that lack of money often means lack of confidence and lack of choice, and that we are not children who can crouch in front of our parents and act awkwardly.

If you lack money once, you will understand that, although money is not everything, at least money can make people less miserable.

that is a child mentality for you, which many people went through in the child days and it has become an history today.
Calm down Op, there are some wealth you will get in unlawful and unethical way you will not live to enjoy it ,if you doubt me you can go to the street and see some mad people in the environment who try to get wealth by all means before they ended up madness in the street. But not all mad people in the streets got mad because of money, there are some who failed to treat themselves in the hospital that lead to madness. I will advise you to follow due process to get rich so that you can live long to fulfill your destiny, and since you are still young to hustle, it will help you to save some money and invest it in BTC or crypto so that you will have hope of a better future.

Kids responsibility for their parents is to study well which is sounds easy to others. But if we were on their age it might be tiring and too hard for us. As we grow older, we realized that being a kid is much better than being adult since it's not only about yourself anymore that you'll have to study, but you already have a family to feed for you to do that you'll have to meet up the expectations in the workplace or even in this industry. Still let's be real it can't be helped to get fired or have some salary deductions sine were humans we all make mistakes, I think op you don't need to be scared to your family if this case happens. They are your safe place, they are your home, For any reason for sure they would understand you and they would still support you to find a way to provide for their needs. That's what is family for, by supporting each other. Still financially is something you really need to think if you have a family.

A good number of us had such experience growing and this was due to the appetite from our parents on us to be the very best among our peers. That's a lot of pressure am never going to lay on my own kids, it's doesn't bring out the best in a child only fear.
There are millions of patriarchs in the society that ain't earning from any good job, yet they're living happily with their family under a contentment lifestyle. A lot of money doesn't guarantee a happy family. So after making the lot of money, then what?

If I should tell you something you need to do to make a lot of money. I'll say learn to be contented first cause without contentment there's no amount of money you will make that will seem a lot enough to you. Going unlawful could only send you to serve time in jail ruining your life and those  of your kids. What more fear can there be to that?

It is said that money is the root of all evil and that people become bad as soon as they have money, but to be honest, I see bad people because money is still in the minority; people without money, leading to misery, are innumerable.

Once you lack money, you will see the cruelty of the world; once you are short of money, you will truly understand that being rich means having many choices, but if there is no money, there is only one way to go: work hard to earn money.

I understand what you are thinking right now, because most people will definitely experience the same thing. But that doesn't mean we can do anything including things that break the law, that's a form of despair that you are showing here. Now logically, who would believe a desperate person? I think there is no.
Surely you will say talking will be easier than experiencing it directly, but we have to look from the positive side. We never know the people who give you input may have experienced the same thing or even more terrible than that.

Maybe now we only think about money, because that's what we really need. But can we be sure if we have a lot of money it will give peace? no guarantees about any of that. If that's your problem, I think talking about it with the little family will help a lot, they will definitely understand and believe me we will definitely get enthusiasm that will make us even more excited.

The love of money is the root of all evil. Don't love money at the expense of people.
Cursed money not worth it, my friend . It's going to make you lose alot, miserable, depressed, foolish, etc. Simply get yourself the Word of GOD( Matthew, Proverbs, etc) and read... Believe in it and do what it says and you will prosper.

The secret to prosperity is to sow good seed or do good work in any good business you can find, preferably business you are passionate/talented in...it doesn't matter if it's owed by others. Use the business to solve problems for others... Then, ask the CREATOR to reward you through the business or through any other means, believe HE will answer your prayers and you will be rewarded. The more you sow (or the more good work you do) the more you reap. You don't need to be employed by anyone to benefit from this. Just look for any good business and begin to contribute.
Blessings.

Unlawful and unethical? Sorry man I don't have an advice for someone who is ready to go this path to get money..

Have you ever ask yourself what will happen after you get that money? When you don't have money defines yourself and your life and if that changes and people start coming your way that means they are attracted to you because you now have money, it's fake all along.

You need love more than money mate, enjoy what you have, think about your kids and your wife, unlawful way of making money will crash all your dreams and hopes for freedom and you will probably end up locked up in a cell.

The solution to your problem is YOU..

Work on yourself and the way you think, be positive, and start looking for legal ways of making money, you will have peace of mind in life and your kids will thank you for that, if you ruin your name for money, it will affect your children and they have all right to curse you.

In this case you're comparing your childhood and household matters, your position is different because now you're the head of the family. But at this point I'm describing your mother as a horrible woman, and the mistake is then you represent that in a financial situation. It's a wonder you can't control what you lead.
Sorry if I said a bit harshly, actually your mental coward since childhood. Dude, you'll never run away from the realities of life however you avoid them. Now you're asking us for a solution no matter if it will result in another bigger problem. The question is, if a new problem occurs, where will you avoid? Well, just wait for a villain here to give you a solution.