I cannot go home if I don't make a lot of money now!! - page 10.

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Quote from: Jawhead999 on July 03, 2023, 10:36:31 AM

I think you married wrong person, a royal wife can accept anything bad happen on her husband like got a pay cut or fired, most people only complain why her husband got that, but they forgot if there's no one in this world want to get a pay cut or fired!

Money isn't the only thing what's every people want to achieve in this world, but obviously most people choose to become rich than being poor. If your wife is a good person, even you're poor, you both would still able to live happily.

I also noticed he is under high pressure, especially regards the marriage.

As he already has a job I think he should be thankful for that, because there are many people struggling to find one. And to give up on a certain job nowadays for something uncertain, unlawful and unethical is a risky deal that doesn't worth in my opinion.

A reasonable solution for now would be his wife to find a job for herself as well, even a freelance, so she can help him carrying the burden of sustaining a house and a family during harsh times where money and opportunities are scarce.

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i have heard of this from a comedian i think.
a man is loved with a condition. if you don't have a job and money, your wife may keep nagging you all day and eventually throw you out of the house for good. but if you have a job and money, you will be loved.

this I think is actually wrong because you are a man and you have responsibilities to your family. a man has to provide for the family. so consider very well to chose a woman that will help you and understand when you go home with less money.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

Money is only objects and paper that still has an exchange value and there is a time of circulation. The real thing that is stressful is when we are enslaved by money where income is less than expenses. In fact, money will always be lacking as long as we don't have a sense of gratitude, where happiness is not always worth money. how many assets do we have in our bodies, would we exchange one eye for one billion, try to count, so basically money is not a measure of happiness, even though in a materialistic world we always need money, but if we can use the gift of reason, money will come.

If it's hard to make money, don't make money. because when you have a hard time making money it means you have lost the competition with people who are also looking for money but they are given 'better' opportunities than you. Don't look for money but seek sustenance from God, because God's sustenance has no limit. What you need to do now, don't feel pressured by your wife, and don't force yourself because that will frustrate and stress you out. Keep trying and stay confident, I'm sure your wife will understand your situation and she will even support and encourage you to keep trying so you don't give up easily.

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I think you married wrong person, a royal wife can accept anything bad happen on her husband like got a pay cut or fired, most people only complain why her husband got that, but they forgot if there's no one in this world want to get a pay cut or fired!

Money isn't the only thing what's every people want to achieve in this world, but obviously most people choose to become rich than being poor. If your wife is a good person, even you're poor, you both would still able to live happily.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

First, it's not right to do something wrong just to have a lot of money, someone as determined will do everything just to earn a living even though he's not used to it just for the sake of the people who depend on him he will do it even if it is difficult.
Rather than doing something illegal that can harm you, if something bad happens to you, what if the people who depend on you are a bigger problem if you leave them. That's why it's still good to do good so you can reap good results.

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Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

It's not about the money, but about you not having self-confidence. You are too afraid of quantitative values but override how the process. Your mentality has not really formed to be responsible for yourself and even always feel the burden of other people is becoming more in control of your mind. If you are able to be confident in your abilities, and don't complain about what you have produced, the family will accept it as it is.

What you feel is just excessive fear, lack of self-confidence, always comparing life with the lives of higher people and the result is as if you are blaming yourself. Get rid of that habit, always think optimistically, and don't expect uncertain results. Do what you have to and produce what you can produce.

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What I can advise is that, instead of stressing about those things on your own, open up your problems or worries to your wife. Your wife is your support, and she would probably understand your situation. You can't solve things by running away or hiding from it. You need to face it and find a solution to it. I understand that it can be too stressful, especially if you grew up in an environment where you get scared of failing. But you have your own family now, and you as a husband need to be strong mentally.

You don't have to put yourself in the situation where you will do wrong things for money. How would your family feel if they find out about it? You can still start over again. Apply and find another job (but not something unethical or unlawful), maybe it would give you a bigger opportunity and higher salary than your previous job. Be positive and everything will be fine.

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You can do many things to earn a lot of money. You say business but you say hard work to do your job then you must work hard to do business. If you want to do something you must work hard. Based on your words it is understood that you want to get rich in a short time. But you are not alone you must take care that your family responsibility is still on you. I would say to fix your mind and then you will be able to take right decision. Many times many people take wrong decision in haste hope you are like that. Don't You can buy Bitcoin, Ethereum, etc on various crypto platforms so that you can sell them at a good price in the future. If you lighten your pressure you will be able to solve all the problems very easily.

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Never pressure yourself to provide to your family, it will only stress you out. Having such kind of contented in life makes a good and happy life for you and your family. Never put money first in all things in life because it will only make you more pressure in life and you will forget how to be happy of what you have right now. Focused on happiness instead rather than thinking about the money, not all happiness can be bought by money.

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When one feels uncomfortable for not having a good grade in school, it means the person is open to learning more, trying to figure out the reasons for the failure, and at the same time looking for ways to perform better in the next exam. The same thing is applicable to labor; if one gets a low pay on his job, he will definitely want to know the reason for that in order to avoid such a thing happening next time. The same is applicable to being sacked; I know most times the fault might not actually be from the person but come from the employer; they might have one or two reasons to reduce and sack someone.

Quote from: Broly46 on July 03, 2023, 08:01:00 AM

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

This statement to me is bad. In a situation like this, you might likely get yourself involved in things that might endanger the very family and kids that you want to do those things for and earn money for in order for them to feed and live comfortably. You just have to change that mindset of being ready to do anything just to make money before the evil teachings of some unlawful and inhuman acts take control over you.

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when i was kids, i need to study very hard, to get a lot of score in the test. if i got a zero mark in a math test, i am very scare to go home and show the test paper to my mum.

when i am grown up, i have kids and wife now, i need to work very hard, to get a lot of money in the job. if i got a paycut, or i got fired, i am very scared to go home, i can't sleep well, my head is sweating, the memory of getting zero mark in a test keep haunting me like the nightmare, i need to go out and make a lot of money!!

tell me anything i need to do to make a lot of money. doesn't matter what, i would do anything to get all the money, even if it mean unlawful and unethical!

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