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Quote from: quarkfx on February 29, 2020, 05:55:22 AM

first we should not be addicted to gambling

But that is not easy! I was addicted in the past so I know how hard it is. I just cried every night at that time since I don't want my wife to leave me. I can't stop gambling, in fact until now I am still gambling despite the fact that I am addicted in the past. I just can't stop though I can control myself the thing is that I can't remove gambling that easily in my life, that is how hard it is.

I hope your wife is still with you.

I feel the pain you must have gone through but I am really puzzled how despite knowing all the negatives about gambling why are you still gambling, I mean you know the pain and the suffering caused but you cannot just leave it? If such is the case I strongly recommend you to visit a psychologist as soon as possible please.

I cannot imagine how additive gambling has become now days that despite knowing the true facts we cannot detach ourselves from it, I too was a gambling addict but never too serious and never had to take too much stress for it.

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Quote from: evilgreed on March 03, 2020, 01:35:12 AM

Usually gamblers want to be praised that is also why sometimes they show off most specially girls to prove or show that they are the real deal, but if you think about it logically there is no point showing off while gambling of you cannot controll your mental state

It all depends on particular circumstances

You may love to show off quite a lot, but it doesn't necessarily prevent you from being extremely focused at the poker table without paying attention to anything or anyone (nice girls included) other than the game itself, In fact, if you are that type of person and can completely detach yourself from anything irrelevant and unimportant, you can even tip girls to distract the attention of other gamblers and take advantage of their momentary loss of focus. But outside the gambling table, you can still impress people as much as you like, even more than your less fortunate fellow gamblers

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Quote from: Smartprofit on March 02, 2020, 07:36:29 PM

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I think it depends on the gambler, there are many gambler who are a showy type of person especially on girls, when a gambler is playing gambling and the gambler for example wants to impress the girl, there are a high possibility that the gambler will act on the gamble game based on his emotion and not using his head because of the girl he want to impress.

There are different gamblers who can react on a situation like that and I think playing on that kind of environment is bad for me and to other gamblers.

Yes, they can ask the girl to come with them to the gambling table, and watch them playing the games. I don't think that is a good idea to ask that girl to show the games because they can not think clearly and perhaps, they only want to make that girl get impressed. The gambler will have the possibility to spend more money because the girl will seduce him to join in the games more and more.

At those situations, we must have control for ourselves and not let them possess us both the gambling and the girl because the girl will always ask you to try to win the games. So when something wrong happens, leaving the games will be the best way for him to prevent the losses.

Usually gamblers want to be praised that is also why sometimes they show off most specially girls to prove or show that they are the real deal, but if you think about it logically there is no point showing off while gambling of you cannot controll your mental state.
Often times it is also true that there is a tendency that gamblers overspend their money just to impress a woman or a girl.

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Quote from: abel1337 on March 02, 2020, 09:35:29 PM

Quote from: maydna on March 02, 2020, 09:16:33 PM

Quote from: Smartprofit on March 02, 2020, 07:36:29 PM

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I think it depends on the gambler, there are many gambler who are a showy type of person especially on girls, when a gambler is playing gambling and the gambler for example wants to impress the girl, there are a high possibility that the gambler will act on the gamble game based on his emotion and not using his head because of the girl he want to impress.

There are different gamblers who can react on a situation like that and I think playing on that kind of environment is bad for me and to other gamblers.

Yes, they can ask the girl to come with them to the gambling table, and watch them playing the games. I don't think that is a good idea to ask that girl to show the games because they can not think clearly and perhaps, they only want to make that girl get impressed. The gambler will have the possibility to spend more money because the girl will seduce him to join in the games more and more.

At those situations, we must have control for ourselves and not let them possess us both the gambling and the girl because the girl will always ask you to try to win the games. So when something wrong happens, leaving the games will be the best way for him to prevent the losses.

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Quote from: maydna on March 02, 2020, 09:16:33 PM

Quote from: Smartprofit on March 02, 2020, 07:36:29 PM

I had a different situation. I loved going to a nightclub. There are a lot of girls in the night club, and that's great! But on the second floor of the club there was a casino ... At the entrance to the club, when I bought the entrance ticket, I received free chips in the casino. And then I won at the casino! And I forgot about the girls and started playing all the time. I stopped dating girls. I had money. I often won at the casino. But I had no more sex. That was bad.

After all, the casino made a good promotion Grin

When people come to the nightclub, they can also get free chips to play gambling. I think many people would love to try their luck in gambling games. It seems you have the good luck to win in the casino, but I remind you, that is just a beginning, sooner or later, you will spend more times in the casino to win more money.

If you cannot control yourself, that will be your time to lose the money. But so far, you have good control to stop gambling. I hope you can keep doing that so that you can leave without difficulty.

I think it depends on the gambler, there are many gambler who are a showy type of person especially on girls, when a gambler is playing gambling and the gambler for example wants to impress the girl, there are a high possibility that the gambler will act on the gamble game based on his emotion and not using his head because of the girl he want to impress.

There are different gamblers who can react on a situation like that and I think playing on that kind of environment is bad for me and to other gamblers.

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Quote from: Smartprofit on March 02, 2020, 07:36:29 PM

I had a different situation. I loved going to a nightclub. There are a lot of girls in the night club, and that's great! But on the second floor of the club there was a casino ... At the entrance to the club, when I bought the entrance ticket, I received free chips in the casino. And then I won at the casino! And I forgot about the girls and started playing all the time. I stopped dating girls. I had money. I often won at the casino. But I had no more sex. That was bad.

After all, the casino made a good promotion Grin

When people come to the nightclub, they can also get free chips to play gambling. I think many people would love to try their luck in gambling games. It seems you have the good luck to win in the casino, but I remind you, that is just a beginning, sooner or later, you will spend more times in the casino to win more money.

If you cannot control yourself, that will be your time to lose the money. But so far, you have good control to stop gambling. I hope you can keep doing that so that you can leave without difficulty.

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Quote from: Smartprofit on March 02, 2020, 07:36:29 PM

I had a different situation. I loved going to a nightclub. There are a lot of girls in the night club, and that's great! But on the second floor of the club there was a casino ... At the entrance to the club, when I bought the entrance ticket, I received free chips in the casino. And then I won at the casino! And I forgot about the girls and started playing all the time. I stopped dating girls. I had money. I often won at the casino. But I had no more sex. That was bad.

Your story is funny though. Grin

You already have the money so it would be not a problem anymore to date girls. But in your case, it seems you found your happiness in gambling. But for those gamblers who really are in deep debt owed to gambling, I think they need to evaluate their situation and maybe, gambling is not for them. On my part, I gamble from time to time but only using my extra money, so gambling has no big impact on my financial situation. So far, it is not destroying me but rather providing means of entertainment whenever I have free time.

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I had a different situation. I loved going to a nightclub. There are a lot of girls in the night club, and that's great! But on the second floor of the club there was a casino ... At the entrance to the club, when I bought the entrance ticket, I received free chips in the casino. And then I won at the casino! And I forgot about the girls and started playing all the time. I stopped dating girls. I had money. I often won at the casino. But I had no more sex. That was bad.

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Quote from: Gotumoot on March 02, 2020, 10:38:36 AM

Gambling money is the easiest way to become rich and to become poor and most of the time is Poor because you will not win here especially if you are addicted already.
Like if you will win now tommorow not, and you need to find money again to gamble and this will ruined your life because of addiction you can sell your house, car, jewelry and many more which will not good because you already destroying your life and don't deny because this is already happen.

That's why gamble responsibly and don't make this as main source of money. Because you will never win here!

It's right no one become rich in gamble if they being addicted into it. Because of greediness they want to win big but they think that they will get all the money in gambling. I experienced that happen to me when I get addicted on gambling all my money got lose until all my jewelry cellphones are being sell because in that gambling. But I learned a lot that no one become rich in gamble. True gambling ruin my life.

It won't ruin lives if a person knows his/her boundaries, in which having self control is the best key factor to obtain good profit. Entertainment is a mindset for a person who used gambling for fund, but it's an income source for some addicted individuals which isn't appropriate to become a habit. Decisions of leaving gambling can be too hard, so it needs to be done slowly but surely.

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Quote from: Gotumoot on March 02, 2020, 10:38:36 AM

Gambling money is the easiest way to become rich and to become poor and most of the time is Poor because you will not win here especially if you are addicted already.
Like if you will win now tommorow not, and you need to find money again to gamble and this will ruined your life because of addiction you can sell your house, car, jewelry and many more which will not good because you already destroying your life and don't deny because this is already happen.

That's why gamble responsibly and don't make this as main source of money. Because you will never win here!

It's right no one become rich in gamble if they being addicted into it. Because of greediness they want to win big but they think that they will get all the money in gambling. I experienced that happen to me when I get addicted on gambling all my money got lose until all my jewelry cellphones are being sell because in that gambling. But I learned a lot that no one become rich in gamble. True gambling ruin my life.

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Quote from: Betwrong on March 01, 2020, 09:58:02 AM

If you don't want to give gambling a chance to destroy you, you should never, ever risk more money than you can earn in one day. And if you gamble frequently, your max bet should not exceed 10% of your daily income

As such, it is not losses that herald the destruction of your financial well-being (or just well-being)

It is losses that come after a win, probably a big win on its own, which make the lives of so many gamblers miserable. In this manner of reasoning, it is not so much about controlling your losses, like no more than 10% of your daily income (though it is indeed about losses too) as about controlling your wins, however ironic it may sound. It is actually wins that make gamblers reckless and careless, so wins should be of our primary concern. To summarize, you should take utmost care of your wins lest you should lose control over your losses

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Gambling money is the easiest way to become rich and to become poor and most of the time is Poor because you will not win here especially if you are addicted already.
Like if you will win now tommorow not, and you need to find money again to gamble and this will ruined your life because of addiction you can sell your house, car, jewelry and many more which will not good because you already destroying your life and don't deny because this is already happen.

That's why gamble responsibly and don't make this as main source of money. Because you will never win here!

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Quote from: koinsever on March 01, 2020, 10:07:21 AM

gambling is really attractive. so interesting. have so many things to destryo you. every time, every strategies which you follow seems "that ll work this time" you believe that. but finals always the same. failure is waiting at the end.

then i supposed that play with e percent off your bank.

Losing can't be avoided in gambling, it doesn't matter what approach or strategy you are going to use, because losing in gambling is inevitable. You will always get the total package in gambling whoever you are, or even how rich you are, the gambling house only cares about your money for their bankroll. So, yes, gambling without a doubt will just destroy most of our lives if we are going to believe in our mindset that we are not going to lose and other nonsense things that is in our mind whenever we play gambling.

The wisest thing that anyone could do is to love himself first, that way, or maybe, he could literally quit playing gambling for the sake of his future.

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Quote from: koinsever on March 01, 2020, 10:07:21 AM

gambling is really attractive. so interesting. have so many things to destryo you. every time, every strategies which you follow seems "that ll work this time" you believe that. but finals always the same. failure is waiting at the end.

then i supposed that play with e percent off your bank.

That is why many people fall into gambling without a chance to get out. They don't realize the danger of playing gambling, and they still playing even if finally, gambling will ruin their life. But we can prevent that by controlling ourselves in gambling, and always remember that everything will not always work for us, so we need to stop gambling and leave for a while. Or we can leave gambling forever if we think that we can not get out from gambling.

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gambling is really attractive. so interesting. have so many things to destryo you. every time, every strategies which you follow seems "that ll work this time" you believe that. but finals always the same. failure is waiting at the end.

then i supposed that play with e percent off your bank.

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Quote from: quarkfx on February 29, 2020, 05:55:22 AM

first we should not be addicted to gambling

But that is not easy! I was addicted in the past so I know how hard it is. I just cried every night at that time since I don't want my wife to leave me. I can't stop gambling, in fact until now I am still gambling despite the fact that I am addicted in the past. I just can't stop though I can control myself the thing is that I can't remove gambling that easily in my life, that is how hard it is.

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Quote from: Danslip on February 29, 2020, 06:11:04 PM

It is ironic but leaving gambling means to ignore one part of your psychology for the random reasons. I have read the bad stories about the gamblers who lost everything in one side and my friends always talk tempting about the insane gains of risk loving gamblers. The guy who has put whole life on the red side of roulette table is the picture came to my mind after finish reading your post: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGCdBsOIKYA

That was one of the stupidest things to do, imo. I mean, even the guy himself said it in an interview:

Quote from: https://edition.cnn.com/2004/SHOWBIZ/TV/04/12/roulette.win/

REVELL:
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But you know, never again. I mean, that's -- it was mad.

But I wouldn't say Ashley Revell "put whole life on the red". He was a healthy young man, 32 years old, at the time of betting, with loving family, mum and dad, and friends. It wouldn't be the end for him, if he'd lose.

However, I'd like to say the following to all gamblers around:

If you don't want to give gambling a chance to destroy you, you should never, ever risk more money than you can earn in one day. And if you gamble frequently, your max bet should not exceed 10% of your daily income.

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Quote from: Botnake on March 01, 2020, 09:07:52 AM

It's okay to come back as long as you are already in control, besides why would we stay away on something that could give us some enjoyment, for some gambling is bad because it could result to addiction but for us who had experience it would always say that it is not as long as we are a responsible gambler. It's not only you who experience addiction, there are many of us but what's important is we learn from our mistakes and start doing the right thing.

I'm interested to see what has OP said gambling is for fun. This tag line/intention will keep your live is fine although you have a hobby to play gambling. Unless, you made gambling as an income which I think he should leave gambling and never come back again then it will be good.

As for a control, indeed it is very needed. But as long as you want your money back then I'm sure with 100% you will be hard to control to manage your money. So, just in my opinion when you play gambling maybe you will be good to use money that you can afford to lose. No matter how much you come back and you use money that you can afford to lose then you will be fine.

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Quote from: MCobian on February 29, 2020, 06:36:27 PM

I admit that leaving gambling is not as easy as imagined. Several times I tried to leave gambling but always wanted to come back again.
Indeed gambling makes us addicted, it's a fact that cannot be denied. We must have a strong desire in ourselves to be able leave gambling.
And also must be accompanied by increasing our activities in the real world, so our minds can be distracted from the world gambling.

I also decided or try to leave gambling but I can't do that and after several months I started again gambling and on my first day I try to control my self and until now I control my self and Im happy to came back again in gambling.

For sure many times of people who try to stop gambling but they come back if you are that person you can minimize and control and gambling will not destroy your life.

It's okay to come back as long as you are already in control, besides why would we stay away on something that could give us some enjoyment, for some gambling is bad because it could result to addiction but for us who had experience it would always say that it is not as long as we are a responsible gambler. It's not only you who experience addiction, there are many of us but what's important is we learn from our mistakes and start doing the right thing.

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Quote from: MCobian on February 29, 2020, 06:36:27 PM

I admit that leaving gambling is not as easy as imagined. Several times I tried to leave gambling but always wanted to come back again.
Indeed gambling makes us addicted, it's a fact that cannot be denied. We must have a strong desire in ourselves to be able leave gambling.
And also must be accompanied by increasing our activities in the real world, so our minds can be distracted from the world gambling.

I also decided or try to leave gambling but I can't do that and after several months I started again gambling and on my first day I try to control my self and until now I control my self and Im happy to came back again in gambling.

For sure many times of people who try to stop gambling but they come back if you are that person you can minimize and control and gambling will not destroy your life.

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