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So my question is this,as a gambler what mistake have you made when gambling that prevented you from winning big.
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I don't know if I understand you correctly but in the long run it doesn't matter, in your context, since I don't see it as a mistake, if you win it's not a mistake, I ask you, the point is that they are
decisions and those
decisions should be treated as gains or losses.
Then in the post-game (Or bets) you try to improve by seeing which bets you won could have gone wrong, and which bets that went wrong were not mistakes.
So, basically you learn to live with the results, as the phrase says; "no regrets..." or its equivalent in the idea; "... I lost was a mistake, " or the classic; "I won, what luck".
On reality, yes! There are both conditions, mistake anda lucky but you have to be professional or just admit that nothing happens, it is simply; next bet. And review previous results as I mentioned.
But there are individuals who cant really just accept those mistakes and would really be keeping on blaming themselves basing up on what they had done or those choices that they had made earlier.
If you are that someone who do have that kind of behavior on trying out to blame yourself and doesnt accept the usual outcome on gambling where results neither win or lose then it is really that
normal that you will really be having those questions in mind on what you have done wrong?. It will really be that a never ending kind of question that you have in mind.
Also, sometimes in our gambling activity on which there are really moments on which intuition do really kicks in, everything is already that aligned and final and then suddenly here comes a thought
that you do have and altering out your decision and it losses then regret is there but once you do already accept on what are those probabilities then these things wont hurt that much.