Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 28. (Read 8273 times)

The gambler who get addicted to the gambling will do the gambling in front of his wife and daughter.But the normal gamblers will not say their gambling game and the gambling addiction to their wife.Because if their husband not give money for any month for the monthly expenses,which may cause the gamblers to get into trouble.Because his wife ask the first question,he had loss the money in the gambling site.So the kids may not interested in his father game,because he may be engaged with his own game in the real life.So my opinion is different to this thread.Because the gambler will play in the separate room from the kid.

As a parent then we are really that responsibility for us to raise them well on the path on which it is really that something to be that good and beneficial to them. As much as possible we shouldnt really be letting them to see and get involved into those things that we are doing specially with gambling. They might be able to encounter it out naturally because of online world or social media but it would be better that you should be avoiding them to see at all cost. If ever it would be that possible then having those simple explaination telling gamblings cons and negative effects
could really be that something will really be helpful to them on later into their own lives or on the time that they become independent.

Avoiding gambling in front of my children or any other teenagers is the most crucial rule I follow. if kids witness us gambling, they can be motivated to do the same. In my opinion. due to their youth and immaturity, it could negatively affect their future. Kids always tends to follow their elders. So I don't want my kids to catch up my bad habits.

This does not call for much debate. It is purely illogical to gamble in the presence of your kids. If you do, they will learn with it whether intensionally or unintentionally. Kids are spirits, they learn by seeing, perceiving and by intuition. So, to be very safe is to eradicate everything gambling and not make the children have an idea of it.

If they have an idea of it but not do it, whenever to go to play with their friends, they will ask their friends about it and those may likely push them into it. Whatever you don't want your child to copy, do not do it before them.

Everything with children is delicate, things have to be done very calmly, one cannot be very advanced nor will it delay them in their learning, they handle most of the internet, they have cell phones, PCs, tablets, anything that they need. will say what they do , so Children must know how to talk to them, warn them of all the dangers, it is always good to know first from parents than from friends , third parties, there are so many dangers that there are , so this type of thing is sometimes a delicate issue because We have to be aware of how the child may be in his Environment, but as in some homes the family is not so united because children learn these types of things on the street, or as I said before friends who have more open senses and they They say things, So when that's the case , it's Better for them toKnow things from what they are Parents to than from Others.


When we are seeing what is only best for a child, or the children are delicate because there is no format to follow to raise children, one always wants the best for them, and one always tries to protect them from all danger, which as Father will always be like this, so in this Order of ideas I have him shown or not Shown the Game of chance, they will Probably have already been there and already know about the casino , because things are like that , I fixed on my 8 year old boy, he knows a lot of incredible things , and yes, he knows about casinos and he told me that he didn't get involved because it was a waste of money and that the only thing he gave up was to buy caralmelso candy There are things like that and because he Always wants to buy newer and newer Soccer balls, of models that he likes, then this type of things is something that Children , or the Majority of them, already handle this type of information, what happens is They Must be mature Enough to Identify that in some way this could lead them to harm themselves, since children are not Stupid.

Yes, because there is basis that the child will be curious about what we do.
Memory and the power to know are very high and it must happen to all children everywhere.
Children will not only do what is heard from parents. However, they will also do what their parents do.
For that, be a good example for children.

It is understandable, that drinking alcohol or smoking near children is bad not only because they can take is as a habit, but it makes an impact on their health (smoking) from childhood. Smoking and alcohol can make an impact on health. However this is very personal. For example Joe Cocker, singer, smoke 2 pack of cigarettes a day and was a heavy drinker. Died at age of 70 (however from lung cancer). And there are people who have healthy life and live till 60.

But what harm can gambling bring to a kid that saw his parents gambling?

Will he immediately run and start to gamble? No.
Will he become addicted? Yes, no, maybe. No one can tell that or forecast his future.
Will he get curious what his parents do? Yes, but we cant tell if he would have a huge interest in gambling after founding out what it is.
Will he spend all his money on gambling? No, he would rather spend it on toys, candies, fast food, video games.
Will gambling harm his health? No

When there is so many no, so unclear what his future will be, why so many are against gambling in front of kids? It does not mean that parent will force kids to watch and learn to gamble, when we speak about gambling in front of them. Also people never gamble 24/7. So what is bad from seeing mummy or daddy gambling once a while? The kid wont stand next to parents still, being hypnotized and watch without moving. He will take a look, ask few questions and run away.

I think you dont have kids. If you had them, you would notice, that kids prefer to run sneak away, do things that they are interested in, instead of being or standing close to parent all the time. Because the kid his own interests, and we, adults have ours.

This is true because I have seen it myself in several children who want to see their parents' activities every time their parents are using their smartphones. And the danger is if the parents are playing online gambling and suddenly the children want to see their parents gambling. This will make them curious about what they are playing and their children will also be curious and want to try playing it. Especially nowadays, children are very used to using the Internet and can search for what they want easily. They can learn about gambling games, so it is the role of parents to guide their children to use their smartphones well. They still need supervision from their parents even when they are teenagers.

OP, I love what you did by advising her not to think of such for now, since her age is not ripped for that, ordinarily some people wouldn't have done that, kids are very sensitive, any thing you are doing in their present should be something that will teach them morals, people should very mindful of what they do around there children, not only gamble but other things like smoking and taking alcohol, when you are not around or when they don't sight anyone coming they will be moved to practice what they learned or see someone doing, some people are careless to the extent that they care if they are doing the right thing or not, op I thank you once more for such act of yours kudos.

Everything that is in favor of protecting children is something that should always be considered, I can say that when it comes to protecting children, well, there I am, I have my two small children, one of 8 and another girl of 2, and For me they are everything, it is obvious that now children are very advanced, they can handle electronic devices even without knowing how to read, the truth is they are very good, but I think that things when it comes to casinos and this, they should be restricted, Because I see that they can easily access a site, register and play, even if something is available out there so they can pay, credit cards or something like that, even more so for them, but you have to be very careful, they are very smart, and they can access things that, even for their ages, should not be allowed, nor are they allowed, we must be very responsible, first of all, do not leave them with a phone alone, because not only can they enter casinos, we do not know that there are sick people who want to harm them for the webm, there are many cases where you see ugly things, that should be avoided.

As responsible parents, if a child has a tablet, phones, we must know what they do, what they write, everything, nothing about having privacy for them, because they are minors and can be easily influenced by other things, so We must be very cautious, they are innocent, very smart, even though they are innocent children, and when they are at other ages, it is different, things will change and they will be able to see themselves in a different way, personally the adolescents, who are 12 -17 years old are already more mature, on the surface they know that almost everything they should know, but even so things with them should be even more careful because they are almost adults, who learn things that are above their age, and they can still be influenced, this is just that they must be protected, for me all this is very important.

Children's curiosity is certainly quite high, if they often see their parents' activities when playing online gambling, of course they will ask to know about the game.  That's why we have to avoid children when gambling online, because most children today can easily access the internet via their cell phones.  Gradually, they will find out about it through various advertisements on social media or other things and match the games they have seen when their parents gambled anywhere.

its very necessary to get conscious about kids & their activities. Gambling is kind of thing where mature people also get out of control even get addicted with it while kids are innocent and hard to control them while they want to have anything once in their mind. So undoubtedly i want to go with op what he thought, is definitely valid point. Gamblers also need to maintain discipline and so for their kids to make them safe and should give them healthy environment by not doing any kind of unwanted things which could badly effect on kids in future

You need to be more careful when dealing with something that you also understand that may trigger interest in your kids. What they see is what they will do thinking that it is okay. It's tough since we need to be more cautious, as we don't want them to be involved in something that we know that might put them in danger or risk, though kids, as we think of them, have nothing to do with our activities, but inside them, when they keep seeing things it will develop interest.

With curiosity, we're silently influencing them with the way we react, especially when we are enjoying ourselves. With that kind of reaction, kids will be alarmed thinking that they can also duplicate those things that they are witnessing from us that we are enjoying.

Why refrain, if the best option would be to talk, show, teach and make them understand, if you say they dont know what gambling is? Important, I advice to do that not prepare them for gambling, but to prepare for future life and consequences.

I find it hard to understand why parents always choose easy mode called ban, prohibition, taboo? Instead of teaching, spending time, checking if kids understand. You have mentioned money. Then its parents duty to earn more, so kid wont have an idea to earn now (they will have plenty of work when they grow up) to help parents. You have mentioned strong emotions - parents should warn kids about that, give examples, try to substitute them with emotions they could get from elsewhere.

Parents easily destroy kids vision of life with a little word "NO". Hard to understand when you do something, but if kid wants to do it also or ask about it and parents just say NO. Easy to say NO. Hard to explain and wait till kid understand your point agrees to that.

This is a very correct idea, because children always copy the behavior and activities of their parents, and only then they understand the meaning of what they are doing. In fact, they rely entirely on their parents' activities, adopting them, and do not know whether they are doing something good or something bad now.

Therefore, it is better to refrain from gambling of any kind with children, it is too early for them to deal with such money and such strong emotions.

It is true that thanks to the internet parents are not really the main influence on their kids anymore, and their friends or even a stranger living in a different country could have more influence than their parents.

But at the same time if parents take care of their kids and they have an idea of what they are doing online, they can prevent their kids from watching inappropriate content with the help of filters that may not allow those topics to be viewed or simply by guiding their kids and keeping them away from gambling, as it is clear they are not ready to undertake gambling at such an early age.

Yes I mean that is the best option for now, here in country or at least where I live we rarely gamble in front of everyone, we just keep it for ourselves because in here when someone sees we do gamble they gonna judge in a bad way and also police might arrest you https://nasional.kompas.com/read/2023/08/31/11345031/warga-diimbau-tak-main-judi-online-bandar-dan-pemainnya-bisa-kena-pidana this is the news but in Indonesia language.

So even your relationship sometimes doesn't know you do gamble  so its good choice to keep it secret especially with the kid. the curiosity of kid is at high level

We have to be careful with this because the social interactions of today's children are very different from those of a few years ago. With the ease of Internet connection that children can get, it triggers them to find out about many things that they don't even deserve to see. We must be able to guide children well and correctly so that our children are not influenced by what their friends do and so that our children can get along well. If we as parents can give them an understanding of the negative impacts of gambling and they can understand, they will not want to try it and will even continue to avoid it. Even if his friends invite him to gamble, they will not want to follow him and choose to stay away from those who want to gamble.

As parents, we can try what you do to supervise and guide children so that they can develop well without having to experience problems like other children face. You are lucky to be able to work from home, so you can also supervise and be close to your children, so you know what they are doing. We as parents must always try to be close to them so that they can tell us many things and ask questions only to us as people they trust. We have to keep them away from gambling, and if we want to place bets, we should do it when they are asleep or not at home. Children now tend to have a high curiosity, so they will try to ask their parents or the adults around them. And if we are not nearby while they want to ask, they will probably ask someone else, and the answer may need to be understood by them. That's why we as parents must always be careful with the activities we do and don't make them curious about what we are doing, especially when we are gambling, and they see it accidentally.

As a parent I always try to be aware of those things, what they watch, the attention they need, and everything that could possibly affect their social skills.
I work at home and my kids always see what I do so as much as possible I need to be careful with what I watch, what I do, and all that browse on the internet.
Gambling is part of that. I always bet on sports, but they don't see it because usually, I input my bets at night when they are in bed already. Although, in the morning they will listen to how I react while watching the game. Well, it will just look like I love the sport so much that I react in a way that I cheer loudly for the team that I bet for. They won't know that there's money on the line because they didn't see that I made a bet.
Every little thing that we do can be big for them. There will be times they will ask questions because those are curiosity that is natural with kids and we should answer them as best as we can without damaging their innocence.
It's not easy being a parent and we must be careful when they should know things, slowly at the appropriate age so they won't end up doing things unnatural for kids.

I also think that with their age, which has not been monitored if they are still under 18, they know, if they have entered at the age of 20, maybe they will know for themselves what gambling is because the current association must also know a lot about online gambling which is currently busy in the community, so if you gamble, don't gamble in front of children who are not old enough, because it could dominate them, they will do it later.

In their adult age they will know about gambling by themselves, so if we gamble in front of children there is a possibility that they will do it later, but if they know by themselves at an adult age, I think they can choose which things are good and which halls are bad for themselves and their future. So if we like to gamble, don't gamble in front of children, it's better to hide it.