Both points are valid, people nowadays specially those parents are busy taking care of their child needs I mean physical needs but in terms of good guidance most of the time parents allow children to use mobile devices, bringing those devices to lessen the time that they need to spend with their kids, in terms of friends that's the after effect if parents don't have the time for their kids, they will be closer to their friends and the risk that they may be encourage to do something that not going to be good in the eyes of their parents.
And with that statement regarding with parents showing that they are participating in gambling, that alone can influence kids that they are doing the right things and it's not bad imitating that same activities.
That is why parents must really supervise and pay attention to their children, especially in their relationships, because in this day and age, with easy access to the internet and the freedom to view anything on the internet, it can make children uncontrolled. But if there are parents who always accompany them in using the internet, their children can get a good understanding of using the internet and children also don't abuse the internet for unnecessary things. For interactions with friends, parents may also need to know their friends and who their parents are so they can communicate with each other and supervise their children. In this way, every parent can give more attention to their children. This attention is not intended to limit children's social interactions but rather to protect their children from taking the wrong path.
Parents also need to pay attention to their activities so that if parents want to gamble, they have to gamble elsewhere so that their children do not see their gambling activities. This is to prevent their tendency to imitate what their parents do.
Actually, it's not because of a lack of parental love, but because of several factors and there are no parents who don't love their children, perhaps because of work factors that make children feel a lack of love. The reason is, currently married couples choose to work to meet their living needs and other needs, thus making their children feel less love.
And for this problem, it would be better for a mother not to have to work outside so that she can always control her child well, including using gadgets. And a housewife can also make money even if she has to stay at home, with work related to online, selling or so on.
And if parents like to gamble, they should hide it from their children.
Yes, maybe it's not a lack of love but the parents are too busy with their work so the parents don't pay enough attention to their children. And if children prefer to be close to their friends where their friends still need attention from their parents, problems may occur that could develop into serious problems.
Apart from that, parents also need to supervise their children's use of gadgets because with the internet and the ease of using internet access, their children can abuse the internet if their parents do not supervise them. Indeed, this requires attention from parents so that they can continue to look after their growing children so that they do not take the wrong path.