Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 63. (Read 12692 times)

It a little strange, but this is the first time I've heard of an experience like this because most gamblers hide their gambling activities from family members completely and you actually let your wife and children find out and even invite them to play poker with monopoly money.
If indeed these children have no interest in gambling then that is good but in the future there must always be supervision and education so that undesirable things don't happen to them.
Maybe now they are more busy with video games and drawing but when they get bored with all that they will definitely want to try other games such as the gambling games that you have shown.

I admit that you are great because you can minimize everything well, but child attitude cannot be predicted and something unthinkable will always happen.

That's true, it's also a very delicate topic because we don't know if it will affect some people's way of seeing things with children, but I think that children now are very Advanced , they are too intelligent, I think they come with a software metnarl too high, personally I would think that things when it comes to how to have a better vision of raising children , is quite Strong, on the one hand if information is hidden from them, they know it, because they are obviously very researchers, even though in the very games they have, all these things come out of the casinos , that is something that cannot be avoided, if you as a parent play in front of them, it is not bad either, because you take the opportunity to explain to them that this type of pes games for adults, because it has to do with money, and unfortunately when it is with money things go the other Way.

When I play, sometimes my Oldest son is there, he is 8 years old , and he is a child who understands many things, he knows that it is a game where you can lose money, however, he understands that this game is played very little so that he does not stay The person who plays it has no money, and even so he told me that he already knew that game because it was advertised on the phone that his mother bought him, which I agreed with, but since his mother takes care of him and is on his own On the other hand, I believed it in a way that I don't approve of certain things, but that's why I have to talk to him or something because somehow he knows things, that for his age he shouldn't Know , so in this order of things, I don't I want him to have a phone or anything like that, because I want him to have a childhood like mine where the only Thing he did was study and play sports, but his mother doesn't have that vision, now the one who is currently my Wife , She does Have that vision. and my little girl who is now 2 years old, well we want to get her into a Sport as soon as She can, so that she can take Advantage of that and learn languages, with that she stays away from things like these where the Internet takes her on other paths.

As a parent it is your duty to keep them away from things that they aren't supposed to do. I think instead of say no you could have taught her about every pro and cons about gambling. Human minds are always curious and will pursue things that they are told not to. Simply saying no will let them to being more curious about it and they will choose path which will lead to problems.

I am not a parent and I don't have kids so I don't know how to handle them. As you are the parent of your kid you should know them better. Maybe that was the right choice for you but is it going to play out as you have planned in the future? Children or teenagers are like clay and the way you shape them they will grow out to be like that. Be friendly and explain why it is bad and why it is required to have a legal age in order to gamble. Or you can give them an option where putting money in stake isn't necessary.

Let them enjoy the game but take out the part of gambling. They should play it as a game and not as gambling.

I agree with your last opinion, if we really want to tell our children about gambling, it's better to tell them about the bad effects of gambling and continue to provide lessons that show that gambling is really bad and even though we can't supervise them 24 hours at least provide continuous explanations about gambling. will give him a mindset that is more like fear of approaching gambling.
Because usually when minors are told about something terrible they will always be afraid to find out about it.

Why it is "not like that" ? Make it simple - change gambling into working at PC all the time, make it even more simpler, you are a freelancer or coder that works remotely. The kid see you spend all the time behind PC. Does it means he will become a coder or freelancer when he grows up? Not always. So why in case with watching gambling all of you say that kids gonna become addicted, and in case of kids watching parents do other things, they dont become addicted to doing that?

Yes, that's because they think it's okay to do it in front of children and don't think about the impact on their mental health. There is a tendency for today's children to imitate what their parents do when they see these things more often and start doing it without their parents realizing it. And if there is no supervision from their parents, their children feel free to imitate what they have seen so that they feel that it is normal to do what they see. And if it is left unchecked, it can have an impact that may extend to their children's lives and carry over into their future.

Every parent should not practice any forbidden thing in front of their child. But it is very sad that most guardians in my country practice harmful habits like alcohol, gambling, and smoking in front of their children. By doing this, children later try to master these habits of their parents by following them. Every parent as a guardian should not practice any forbidden bad habits in front of their children so that children do not acquire these harmful habits.

Nowadays there are many young men/young women who can access the gambling sites by the help of internet so if we gamble in front of our children then after that out of curiosity they will find those site and once they can access on it they will try and play and that time they involve in gambling and once they feel good in it or let say once they feel comfortable then they will hiding from you and gamble all they want . So it's better  to stay away from our children once we gamble

Going deeper to that statement, yes, curiosity will push those young minds to seek for more, and it's not good since we can't monitor them 24/7 and with that interest that can be build inside them, that's dangerous, better not to allow them or not to share them your participation, if in case you need to explain what gambling is, better to show all the worse things that can be the outcome and prevent providing things that can give them the interest to push for seeking for more information.

Not like that.
Basically, children's characters will instinctively follow what they see. It's not a problem that they will immediately become addicted to gambling. but they will see what their parents do, and they will record it in their memory. And if it happens regularly and they encounter or see it often, then the effect will be in the long term. It will be easier for children to record that thing and activity, and imitate it one day. Because they remember that their father did this too and can earn a lot of money. Maybe this won't happen immediately at that time, but their memory will remind them easily at certain times, especially when they can open gambling applications or platforms, or see gambling advertisements and so on.

because of this, to avoid negative things that might happen, it would be wiser if parents did not gamble in front of their children.

Kids can be very impressionable and the more they admire you, the more likely they are to try and copy things you do. There's a reason that gambling is restricted to 18+ out in public in many countries and a large part of the reason is stopping children, who might be more susceptible to falling into addictive habits like gambling, from getting involved too early in life. They already have enough to worry about in a world of loot boxes, pay to play and expensive decorative accessories that are bombarding them with so many games these days. Many kids will also not appreciate or understand the value of money, so are more likely to part with whatever amounts they have access to, so should be spending it on more productive things quite frankly.

Aside the authority a parent must have in the home over their wards, if you don’t want your kids learning gambling from you, I don’t think it’s a good idea to gamble in front of your kids. Gambling addiction isn’t formed in children by just watching the parents gamble. It rather could form an interest in the child as the child would want to do as he had seen his father do. The parent is the first role model of any child and would, even without meaning to, emulate the words and actions of the parents.
Even with the authority on the children, the child would still find a way to practice what he has seen the father regularly do. If you actually don’t want your kid to start gambling, it’s much better not to gamble where they could see you doing it.

It should be always that a fun stuff but you should really be that careful on dealing with it on active manner yet you wont really be noticing that it is really that already affecting you in terms of financial spending and this is one of the most common risks on the time that you would really be dealing up with gambling.It isnt really that bad as long you do make yourself that responsible or wary about on the tendency of such possible scenarios or situations. Not all would really be having that kind of common sense and good decision making skills but rather they would really be sticking into something on whats up into their minds. You know people would really be that always loving on earning money on fastest way as possible on which we do know that this is a common or known human behavior
on which do really love easy money. Gambling in front of your kids or together with your kids? Its likely that children of yours would really be doing on the same stuff on the time that they do grow up.

Still I think it's not good in the long run because maybe a father tells about gambling to his child and even tries to play together and for the father the child doesn't have a serious interest in gambling that's very wrong because we don't know what he will do after that because as parents will not accompany their children 24 hours, of course when they are quiet, their children will definitely find out about gambling because minors have great curiosity.
So whatever the circumstances, never tell about gambling to minors, it will ruin their future and what's worse is if the child will try to gamble secretly and steal money from their parents and this is just the impact of all that.

Well you have a good point as long as you are there and always looking at your child. I also know someone who is like you, he even plays with his son sometimes. I believe that it's really up to the parents, how they introduce them to gambling in a good way of course. Because we know that gambling is really fun.

Just my two cents.

I have been gambling in front of my wife and kid. Not just once or twice. I have taught them rules of most popular games. We have even play poker for fun with monopoly money. I havent blocked any gambling content on iPads or iPhones. I dont rush to switch TV channel once flashy ad about gambling appears. In the end, we have zero gambling addicted persons in the family. Strange, isnt? According to what people say, the kid must have been already strongly addicted. I dont worry about addiction, because I see the kid shows zero interest to gambling. In fact, I see the kid is busy with video games, drawing and pottery. And shows low interest to money and how to "earn them without struggling much".

When the children are seing their parent gambling, they will think that it's a means of making money to earn a living and from there they begin to develop their own interests on how to become a gambler despite the fact they they don't have an idea of what it means then, there are certain limit we should learn to maintain with our children, they must not be exposed to some things just because we are into it, children have to go in the right pattern of how they should be brought up, parents need to be careful, just as drinking alcohol is uncalled for in the presence of the children, same we should exhibit caution by not gambling in front of our children for any reason.

But this is not an authority in the eyes of the family or child and it is also not about gambling addiction just from watching their parents gambling, but rather about child curiosity when they see their parents playing some casino games.
You definitely know that children have high level of curiosity and they tend to want to try everything they see.
Gambling games provide feeling of pleasure that is quite addictive, even adults always come back and are addicted to gambling games let alone children who only think about fun and games.

I don't agree with your opinion but that is the right you have to express your thoughts.
If you are also father, you can feel what it like to educate children and avoid all forms of activities that have negative impact on their future.
Indeed, they can see gambling on various social media but it is your job to supervise and provide good education.

This actually greatly depends on the kid and parenting. My kid saw me playing video games multiple times. The kid is old enough to read emotions on my face, so it was clear that I was having fun playing video game. The kid also likes to play video games, but to my surprise, I was never asked what is the name of game I play and if it is possible to play with me or just to play my game. That is actually strange, because it was a platformer, like Super Mario, the game kid plays frequently. But there was maybe 1% of interest to that game... That is why I find it strange that "kid will copy what parent do" does not apply to me/us.

Yes exactly one cannot leave the way in which there are huge money and in such way they ignore its risk but those who are wise individuals will concentrate more on its risk than its benefits. One can be a gambler in front of his parents if parents are also a part of gambling because their parents cannot advice to them as individuals are shadow of their parents and have impact of activities performed by their parents.

I witnessed numerous children who for the first time gamble just for fun but they assume gambling as a successful field and continue this process until they loss everything. After this they want to stop to gamble but they cannot because they want to recover all their losses which is not possible with the help of gambling.