Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 65. (Read 12692 times)

In the current era, with the progress and rapid development of technology. everyone can access it easily surfing the internet. without exception, underage children can also do the same things as adults. there is a lot of information that we can get, whether it is useful or not. However, what is certain is that not all of the information presented is a reliable and quality source.
related to this thread, actually for parents it is not only gambling that is a frightening threat. either they see their parents, or they get it themselves from various information available on the internet and in the social environment. Preventable or not, in most cases children now understand it, especially in my country. one of the factors, the social environment and internet information.

But actually, what worries me is not about the gambling. Usually, a child will not be very interested in the gambling activities carried out by his parents. there are many factors, firstly, they don't really understand, secondly, they don't have the funds to carry out gambling sessions, lastly, most children are interested in challenging types of games and one example is PvP type games. The most dangerous thing for me is the vulgarity of pornographic information on the internet. and this, should not be shown to young children. So, it's not just gambling. there's something more dangerous than that, IMO.

Well, this is our role as parents, to pay attention to the behavior, movements, relationships of our children. with education tailored to their age, a persuasive approach, this can instill noble values ​​or attitudes in our children in the future. Even if our child grows up, he is fully responsible for whatever he does as an adult, including if he likes gambling.

I think the same, the parents can hold the responsibility for the actions of their kids when they are young, but once they reach adulthood they need to take their own decisions, and if that includes gambling a little bit that is fine.

However thanks to the internet and other technologies kids can access all kind of casinos at a very early age and begin to gamble, not understanding how dangerous this can be for them, and once they develop a problem it will be very difficult to overcome it.

The same thing can be said to us by the older generations that we shouldn't get into gambling. We care for the welfare of the children and that's what matters and is important.

And when they grow up, it's no longer our obligaton if they will get involved in gambling just as how we're separated from gambling when we were kids.

But when we've grown up, we've seen the reality of life.

The gambling should not be reached to the next generation,because they can’t had the capacity to mange the loss from the gambling sites.The nature of the game itself the addictive one,but the gambler should control them from the gambling addiction.The kids can have some other games like Cricket,football and outside games.By seeing the game of yours,the kids will learn the gamblig without knowing by you.But the kids always had their attention in the learning the game.

Children learn very fast and if we are nit aware that they will choose to copy us in some special things that amazed them a lot as having us as a father or uncle. Gambling can be very addictive like we know and it is very important for us to keep it away from children since they might want to copy the way we bet and emotion can take them to a level where might be very dangerous to them. Gambling is not for children and because of that, it is necessary for us to keep it away from our family so it will not make them to see gambling as an option because we are gambling.

Whatever things that you've been doing in front of your kids would really be totally a right thing for them to follow and this is why it would really be that wise that as a parent then you should really be that careful on what you are dealing with. Never ever gamble in front of your kids on which i could say that it would really be just that right on having this kind of parenting on which it is really just that
that normal that you wont really be putting up your kids into potential addiction because of what you are doing. You would really be needing yourself to adjust and if you are really that interested on
playing gambling then it should be done privately because knowing that your kids would really be that seeing on the things you are doing then it would really be just that right.
You would really be that trying to avoid into their eyesight on the things that you've been doing.

What they say is very good, in fact the moral lesson is great, but I think that a child, depending on his age, is most likely to be curious or not about an activity that a parent is doing, if it is a parent who has obviously spoken to him. to his son about money, about how to make money, about what finances are like, that to do a business you need certain skills, and certain skills, something like that the father is or has been talking to his son about those things about finances. , indirectly it is giving them financial education, so when you get to the point where money can be spent deliberately it is obvious that you have to touch on the subject of casinos, so children must prepare for all of that, many of them will say, yes but so very young, they don't learn that right now, but that's not the case, children must learn honest education from a young age, because when they exist and see their father or mother being like this, they themselves will realize the magnitude of the risk they face. They are sinking and they shouldn't do it because first of all they don't have the age or the maturity or the money.

When a child sees the games, the games will obviously make him curious, he will want to play and try them, but that is where the parent has to act, and start educating him, saying that it is a game for adults, that is only played when is 18 years old, then for me everything depends on how the education of your children is being carried out, because education does not specifically teach that to all children, but rather education at a global level is focused in another direction, and this is good to bring it to them because They come Across this on the internet and they will know what to do, how to refuse and why, well argued that they should not get involved until they are old enough to become adults, that's why I don't see it as bad that they see it, at some point if we We didn't show them, we didn't talk to them, they will see it on their own through advertising or things where they have access, it's better to talk to us before the internet.

Children in imitative families begin to imitate their parents behavior soon after the child is born as parents are the children's closest companions. Children pick up on the good behavior of their parents as well as the negative aspects very quickly. Many children grow up to face various problems due to lack of knowledge of common literature. For this reason, parents should be especially aware to make their child an ideal human being. If parents see them gambling every day they too will one day learn to pay attention to their own behavior before regretting it.

It's good if your child asks you for permission before using it. I saw that even children dared to use other people's things as their toys. And this is a matter of educational beliefs that parents teach their children. And if children of that age aren't interested in gambling, maybe you shouldn't show them gambling because we don't know how they will control themselves when they are familiar with gambling. They are also better off playing or doing other activities that can benefit them when they grow up.

Funny how my kid knows my smartphone passport, can easily get access to crypto accounts and confirm banking transaction. Yet the kid only uses it when iPads battery is dead and always asks my permission if it is allowed to watch cartoons. I think it is a matter of education and trust. Or I just hope that it is trust, but not lack of experience in making transactions So far I havent seen any interest in gambling from kids 6 to 14 who I know, who I know more than just a name That is why I am so against hiding fact of gambling. The kids I know just dont care about gambling.

It's true what you say because by looking at what is on our smartphone and it turns out to be a casino site, they will easily find a game that interests them. It is a mistake to leave parents' smartphones unlocked so their children can use them easily. If they go on YouTube, maybe it won't be a problem but children should be taught about asking permission to use something that isn't theirs so it doesn't carry over into adulthood. Every parent should pay attention to this when educating their children so that their children can understand what they can and cannot do.

"The fruit will never fall far from the tree" do you know about this proverb? a child will not be far from the attitude of his parents, this proverb is widely known by people, but in my opinion there are some children who even turn away from the attitude of their parents, of course parents will set a good example for their children in any case, but it cannot be denied that it will also eventually return to the child himself when he grows up, he may change with the circumstances of his surroundings and relationships. Of course it is not recommended to gamble in front of children, because this will have a bad impact when they grow up. As we know they have a fairly high memory in anything they have ever seen, therefore it is better and best not to let you or them gamble in front of your own child, even though maybe you think there will not be any impact, but it will be possible when the thing that is feared later really happens.

Well that's right, maybe some of us have realized this that usually children will imitate more about what we do than some advice for them, because as I said their visual memory is still very strong and also of course has a high level of curiosity. So it's best to just avoid it, it's better to prevent than cure, that's all.

Yes that's right. Children are good imitators, so be a good example at their age. Gambling is not a good thing for children, as parents you must also set an example of good behavior, even if you gamble at home, you should not gamble in front of your children, it will damage their minds in the future.

Children must be exemplified by good behavior so that during their growth and development they become children who are responsible for themselves. Because it is easier for children to model real actions from their parents rather than just verbal advice. Don't let yourself regret it later if he grows up to become a gambling addict.

The way you say it is very wise and I also agree with an early approach to our children and providing clear insight every day in a harmonious and relaxed way. I think the mindset of small children will obey everything we say even though we often bet but we always try to hide it. as well as keeping it away from our children and there are many more ways to prevent our children from gambling as long as we are able to have the right way to provide understanding slowly.

Yep, upbringing does play a great role in shaping the future of the children. Parents who make sure that their children only do or see things that can be good or productive for them when they grow up are the best parents because they make sure that their children are not watching bad stuff, getting involved in things that aren't suitable for them at their age, and making sure that their activities are all good and harmless so that they grow up to be good and responsible human beings.

I agree that parents shouldn't do things in front of their kids that aren't good for children to see, but it is also important for the parents that once their children reach a certain age, they start teaching them about what is good and what is bad in the society so that the children can have them in their minds.

If kids really are able to do that, to use adults or parents devices with their notice to get benefits, then there is little to do with gambling, and this is called bad education or parenting. Because if they take  that device, gambling page or account will be one of last things they would seek, as they simply will either play games or watch videos (if they are still kids) or get confirmation for a transaction they might try to make (if they are into stealing money).

It will only trigger curiosity in our children to try to find out more about gambling and they will probably find out about gambling using methods they already know about. What's sad is that if they ask their friends who have played gambling, they can start gambling with their friends without their parents knowing and if it has become a habit, it will be a hassle for their parents when they find out.

We as parents must really pay attention to what they are doing and not leave our computers or smartphones open and there are casino sites that we have used before. They can easily use our computers or smartphones for many things. If we don't have to look after our children, who will? After all, they are our children who we want to always look after and pay attention to.

Yeah that's true because having a discussion with our friends about gambling in front of our kids is very wrong and there could be a possibility of the child to say, since my dad and his friends always talk about gambling all the time and use to make money so let me try it out to see I will make money the way they do, and from there they became influenced in gambling and as a child the possibility of becoming an addict will be certain.

Because this has been the source of problem for most of the kids that has turn out to be gamblers now, so even playing the gambling online we should be very careful not to allow our kids to see the gambling website because they have a very sharp memory of easily remembering things because on your absence they could use your phone or there computer to access the gambling website.

Third flash of light in this topic Slowly, people start to realize that kids not always copy their parents life. It was only in past, people do same thing in generation (I am a driver, my father was a driver, my grandpa was a driver, his father was a driver and etc). People are more individual now. There are so many things to do today, that kids grow up much different than their parents.

I am 100% sure, that if I gamble in front of 1000 kids unstoppably, many will quickly lose interest in watching what I do, and only few will raise some interest to what I am doing. And even among them, when they realize that I need to check things, calculate, predict, make plans, many will find it boring.

Just observe, how many kids stay focused on something for more than 30min if it is not a video game, cartoon or a toy. Gambling addicted - that is the one who gamble regularly and for hours. Ever seen kid hitting one button for hours, or does calculation (for blackjack for example) for hours day to day?

So if you are a parent, who does not inspires kids with "one day you will become millionaire from playing poker", does not talk about gambling 24/7 and on purpose sit your kid next to you when gamble, then your kid wont become gambling addicted and there is nothing to worry about much.

Children can copy their parents, this is a normal phenomenon, but not all parents think about the consequences of their habits. It is not so easy to be an ideal father, but some basic rules must be observed in front of children, and gambling may well be such a rule, at least until the child reaches adulthood. And children do not always become like their parents, they will have their own interests.