Topic: Not everyone deserves to hear of your winning in gambling. - page 16. (Read 2605 times)
I totally agree that it's not everybody that deserves to hear about your big win in gambling, whether it's a fellow gambler or any other person. We live in a wicked world and you don't know if the person that you're sharing your success story with is happy for you, some might be happy while others can become envious of you, to the extent that they'll plot your downfall. Again when you anounce your big win, some family and friends will think that it's a free money and they're entitled to a share of it, they'll be coming to ask you for unnecessary financial helps or borrowing. These set of people will not stop until their sure that the won money is finished and you're back at their level. It's good to share your success story, but be very sure that you know the true character of people that you tell about your finance, so you won't regret your sincere action.
Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit.
Also for your safety, don't share your story as you might expose yourself to harm from kidnappers or friends that don't want to see you win. Hide your wins and live your life to the fullest, when your network isn't known you can live freely and enjoy your money without having to be scared about your environment or things happening to your love ones. Some individuals are very evil and don't want to see others winning when they're not the ones winning.
Your story could also make the other individual that you're telling the story get into depression as they're not winning but you're. From the depression, they can do things to harm themselves or harm you. Only your very closed family members that are benefiting from your victory that you are allowed to tell you story and after that you can also give them some money for their upkeep.
Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
I'm not sure about it though, I might hear someone win big, but that is, I'm not a free loader. I think it's ok though, I mean of course everyone is going through phases in life specially in gambling. But gamblers have to face that, if you can't take it, then stop for a moment so that it won't affect you mentally.
Or do something that will let you forget about gambling. And if by chance you tell someone then they are depressed or something, it's not going to be your fault though. I met other gamblers throughout that boast of their winning but that it's, no consequences whatsoever.
Instead of announcing our victory, I often give gifts to those closest to me as a celebration of my victory. if they ask I just answer this is the result of my work. They will definitely be happy if we share rather than showing off our wealth in front of them. because winning is still closely related to luck. if they are not as lucky as the winner then they will only be sad or disappointed.
Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
I understand the problem of people being easily manipulated by greed to manipulate their emotions, giving someone a vague belief is like destroying them, being realistic about helping and every outcome is not easy it is the real. There may be many stories in life like someone's success in a field where they don't know that their hard work pays for it but failure is rarely mentioned, so I feel satisfied. When I hear anything about a formula for success, I have my own way of evaluating these issues and looking at what people around them are enjoying from that perspective. So trust does not always apply to any source, just verify it yourself and go back and see the truth to what extent. 
Never mind gambling, whatever profit you get from anywhere, if it's big then I'm sure many will be jealous of you and want to bring you down. Moreover, this is about gambling, gambling is always bad in the eyes of many people, so it is very wrong to show victory to them, I always hide anything about gambling from the people closest to me. This is just a matter of how we have to avoid what they know about our gambling.
Not all stories can be motivational, it depends on the person's point of view in understanding them.
Gambling addiction is not based on other people's stories, he will be addicted naturally.
Whether we talk about winning no matter how much it will not affect anything, because what the winner feels is not necessarily what he feels. Because it's all just a story.
He will continue gambling until the maximum point where he has to stop, whether he runs out of money or whatever the factor is.
Gambling addiction is not based on other people's stories, he will be addicted naturally.
Whether we talk about winning no matter how much it will not affect anything, because what the winner feels is not necessarily what he feels. Because it's all just a story.
He will continue gambling until the maximum point where he has to stop, whether he runs out of money or whatever the factor is.
That's hard. Why not if a gambler is too happy about his winnings?
There's a choice for every reader to avoid reading a good story about success in gambling or not. If he/she thinks it will affect him then just close the damn article and go on with their lives.
It's not like a writer is forcing it on everyone, it's called "sharing" for a reason. Some readers will find this a boost in their motivation while others will think this is a step to their failure.
Do imagine if no one shares their multi-wins? Will we even believe that we can hit those kinds of numbers if there are no testimonies about it? I mean, it's the proof that there are people who got lucky and got a win that could be impossible for others. Then, what about the streamers? Should they be stopped too because they are showing multi-wins in their videos? I don't think that will be fair for them.
Again, this will depend on the reader or the watcher. It may not look cool for them or the effects will be different but it's on them. Maybe they need some help because they ain't thinking straight anymore.
There's a choice for every reader to avoid reading a good story about success in gambling or not. If he/she thinks it will affect him then just close the damn article and go on with their lives.
It's not like a writer is forcing it on everyone, it's called "sharing" for a reason. Some readers will find this a boost in their motivation while others will think this is a step to their failure.
Do imagine if no one shares their multi-wins? Will we even believe that we can hit those kinds of numbers if there are no testimonies about it? I mean, it's the proof that there are people who got lucky and got a win that could be impossible for others. Then, what about the streamers? Should they be stopped too because they are showing multi-wins in their videos? I don't think that will be fair for them.
Again, this will depend on the reader or the watcher. It may not look cool for them or the effects will be different but it's on them. Maybe they need some help because they ain't thinking straight anymore.
Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
People who are addicted and not winning might even be envious of that person that is winning while they are not, except the addict that is very close to you and won't see your winning to be spite on him but want to be encouraged to continue striving for his own win then he can learn the rope of how the winning is happening to you.
Usually it is not a good advise to keep exposing your winning to third parties because you can become target of attack.
Success stories in gambling can vary based on the context. Sharing success stories, especially those involving responsible gambling practices, can be valuable. Emphasizing the importance of playing with amounts one can afford to lose and highlighting positive experiences can contribute to a healthier gambling culture. Encouraging responsible behavior and showcasing that success isn't solely about winning every time can positively impact fellow gamblers and promote a more balanced perspective on gambling.
I felt it was better to hide the story of my big win. Maybe I'll still share the small wins I've had. But it's not as frequent as others. Yes, I don't want to make other gamblers look depressed because they can't win. After all, I've felt that way.
But it depends on each gambler. If they can restrain themselves and not think too much about other people's wins, they will not be depressed or frustrated. They will stick to their original goal in gambling. And if they want to win, they can still try. But they also have to remember that gambling will not always give them a win.
If they could understand it, they wouldn't be so deep in gambling. They can use gambling as intended and not try to make money from gambling. We can share our success stories with the right people so they don't feel sad or jealous of our wins.
But it depends on each gambler. If they can restrain themselves and not think too much about other people's wins, they will not be depressed or frustrated. They will stick to their original goal in gambling. And if they want to win, they can still try. But they also have to remember that gambling will not always give them a win.
If they could understand it, they wouldn't be so deep in gambling. They can use gambling as intended and not try to make money from gambling. We can share our success stories with the right people so they don't feel sad or jealous of our wins.
Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
It depends on the kind of success stories, some success stories in gambling needs to be shared with other gamblers, expecially the ones that are having serious addiction. A gambler that is not addicted and plays with amount that he can afford to lose can share his success story about his win so that fellow gamblers will understand that gambling is not about playing games all the time trying to win by all means. Their are still good gambling stories that we need to speak out, it can encourage or change one how they go about gambling. Playing gambling with an amount one can afford, even if it comes out to be lose is a success story. 
Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
But sometimes this is the objective of those winner to attract another gamble to play more because of His success .and also this is how streamers do , pretending they are winning constantly so gamblers will take that as opportunity to go with them in same place but sadly in different path , streamers are being paid gamblers are being losers.
lets not lure them to gamble more instead hide our winnings from those people that we knew are addicted so we are not giving them hints to play more and try their luck after losing.
Don't tell me you want those winners to adjust to that situation. How is that even possible?
You can't dictate what others have to do. If you can't go with the flow, then gambling is not for you.
If you don't find that comfortable, then just ignore those. You can't control someone to brag or show their winnings. Others just feel glad that they won big. It's part of the gambling environment. Aside from that, not everyone will have the same reaction towards those winning stories. Some will be inspired and some will just take it as a bragging rights by the winner.
You can't dictate what others have to do. If you can't go with the flow, then gambling is not for you.
If you don't find that comfortable, then just ignore those. You can't control someone to brag or show their winnings. Others just feel glad that they won big. It's part of the gambling environment. Aside from that, not everyone will have the same reaction towards those winning stories. Some will be inspired and some will just take it as a bragging rights by the winner.
Celebrating and showing off your winning is a actually a personal thing and we can not decide for others what they choose to do after winning their bet but if you read the post properly, the poster is not against the showing off but he's concerned about the effects or rather influence it will have on others. Perhaps, the person you are sharing your success and winning story with might be an addict struggling to make a change to their life. There's no doubt that only few will survive that temptation and the rest will be triggered by your winning with the hope of winning like you.
Even when you choose to share your winning with others, you should always try to consider how your actions might affect others and most importantly, you should focus on the process of achieving the success rather than the outcome itself. Talk about the hard work you put in and the lessons you learned along the way so that they should not assume it to be an easy ride without sweat.
Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
People who are addicted and not winning might even be envious of that person that is winning while they are not, except the addict that is very close to you and won't see your winning to be spite on him but want to be encouraged to continue striving for his own win then he can learn the rope of how the winning is happening to you.
Usually it is not a good advise to keep exposing your winning to third parties because you can become target of attack.
Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
In fact, everyone must be responsible for everything, be responsible by sharing the winnings by telling us how it is something that is difficult to obtain, and vice versa, if we are the ones who see the post, don't overreact to it and play along because we think it will be possible to get it without us knowing the story behind the winning result, because every gambler who manages to win must have gone through many things including how much money he has bet and it is definitely not the first attempt so it is possible that the results obtained are not commensurate with the money that has been spent for the gambler to achieve the results obtained. 
You're just overthinking stuff OP, you can tell someone about your wins to someone and if they're really depressed, talking to you about anything and everything is probably a good thing for them to not succumb to that disease. And also, if that's the thing that you'll talk about someone, shouldn't it be your responsibility to treat them on something to celebrate the win? That's a good way to talk about your wins without looking like you're an asshole but at the same time, don't make it a habit that the talks will only be about you and your wins, check up on them if they're really depressed.
Every story you tell someone can either be a motivation or something to get them depressed. I have been thinking about this and I'd like to pass this advice to every serious gambler in this platform who has won a substantial amount of money from gambling, not to share their success story about winning to everyone and in every place. You do not know the story of every gambler, and on the face some gamblers may just look alright but in deep down they are in debt, some depressed due to addiction to gambling that is destroying them and has made them plan to quit. Your success story when shared indiscriminately may trigger and motivate this addicted gambler battling to stop to want to keep gambling, having the believe that their time is close. Be careful who and where you talk about your success in gambling, you may just be encouraging an addicted gambler to continue.
the bad impact when we tell other people wrongly about our victory is that they can become jealous and we will be shunned by them.we often see this common thing wherever we are because it is related to big wins which can always make other people feel heartbroken when they hear it and feel discouraged and feel like they can't be like us who get big wins and this is the bad impact of something like this.
another thing that has a bad impact from telling stories about winnings is that many people will come to you to borrow money and if you dont give them a loan, they will make you enemies because they feel that you have a lot of money from your gambling winnings.
from this problem I concluded that how important it is for us to hide every activity in gambling, whether it is a win or a loss, we don't need to tell anyone, just ourselves who know. because there are so many risks and negative impacts if we tell the wrong person, so I only tell about my victory to my wife who I trust.
I get OP's point, but exposing someone to these kinds of stories is inevitable when gambling is accessible to most people due to online gambling and others would even use it as a way to promote their casinos. Some gamblers can't help but share their gambling experiences because they don't have someone they can share these stories with. I appreciate reading the winning stories of gamblers because it can be interesting to know the twists and turns they've made before winning. Instead of encouraging cautiousness, the victims should put in more effort when they have more control over the issues that affect them.
There is always a process that goes through before winning, as is generally the case in gambling, gamblers must go through several losses before winning. Telling other people stories of success in gambling is like opening the door for those who often lose to lend you the money you have just won to gamble.
Their obsession with wanting to win like the one you just got, very often happens when someone tells their success story to other people, it always ends in borrowing. You need to consider before telling other people about the winnings you have just won, including where the money will be used.
Their obsession with wanting to win like the one you just got, very often happens when someone tells their success story to other people, it always ends in borrowing. You need to consider before telling other people about the winnings you have just won, including where the money will be used.
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