An attacker is an attacker, it doesn't matter how a lawyer puts it, if someone attacks another person then they should be in jail because they are a threat to society, if they have mental hospital then they should be in a there own separate cell with care. Also if someone breaks into your home to attack you then that's just another case of self-defense, he's trying to attack you, you can defend yourself, it's when you shoot him and then shoot him again while he's running that I would make that against the law because then you're just murdering him.
You didn't say anything here I disagree with. Shooting someone while they are running away is not self defense, that is murder.
Shooting someone dead who breaks into your house with clear intent of bodily harm is self defense.
Scenario #1:
For example, hearing noises in your house in the middle of the night, you go to investigate, armed and prepared for the worst. You find an intruder, aim your gun and tell him to drop to the ground and keep his hands where you can see them.
If he turns, and starts to pull a gun, you shoot, he dies, self defense.
If he turns, and starts running toward you with a knife drawn, you shoot, he dies, self defense.
If he turns, sees you means business, slowly raises his hands and gets down on his knees, then belly, with his hands outstretched, you'd better do nothing other than call 911, and hope he didn't come with a buddy.
Scenario #2:
Wake up in the middle of the night to the sound of your daughter screaming for help. You investigate and find someone molesting your daughter. You point your gun and tell him to stop.
If he turns and runs towards you. You shoot, he dies, self defense.
If he stops, and runs away, you'd better leave him alone, even though you're seething that someone was molesting your daughter.
Scenario #3:
This one actually happened not too long ago. Your 12 year daughter is home alone. Some stranger knocks at the door. She wisely leaves it alone. He goes around back and starts pounding on the back door. She calls 911, then you. You tell her to get the family gun and hide. She does just that, hiding a closet. He breaks in, and she can hear him going through the house searching for her. He comes to the room she is in, and starts to open the closet door she is in. She fires. Clear self defense. In this case he got away wounded. If she had chased him down, that'd be murder. If she had killed him with the first shot, that'd be self defense. If he didn't run after being shot and started to assault her, and she manages to get another shot off that ends his life, self defense.
I hope this proves my point that your statement about "not killing your attacker" doesn't fly. Changing it to "killing your attacker is clear self defense is fine, otherwise you're no better off than the attacker" would be better.
The key is clear intent of bodily harm.
M
Edit: Put another way, if I have every reason to believe it's going to me (or family member), or the attacker, I going to do my best to make sure it's the attacker that loses.