I think every country has the government it deserves, maybe not always true for dictatorships but often true for other countries.
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Why exclude dictatorships? Obviously the people chose the dictator, or the previous government (which was not a dictatorship) failed to stop the dictator, etc., etc. They brought it on themselves
How 'bout them Germans?
North Korea could have been a really nice state without dictatorship, they are smart and hard working, they would likely have prospered like the other Asian Tigers.
Germans like order and authority, this mania for order also had some bad side-effects, but it's a logical consequence of a social-Darwinist mindset.
But education and culture are very important and they are the mainstays of our society. Humans are not animals, They can change, evolve and choose other values.