Topic: Our decision making is responsible for the outcomes in our ways (Read 1701 times)

What you're talking about is discipline, and this doesn't just apply to being late to work. Moreover, discipline will be even more useful to you when you decide to leave your job, because you will need to be able to organize yourself, which may not be easy at first, but without this it will be very difficult to achieve success. It's a good idea to imitate successful people, but it's even better if you have the opportunity to communicate with successful people, and so that they can tell you how to act in the best way in your business.

Life isn't always easy for people who think for others. I have been in quite a big financial trouble lately, and even in my current situation I try to help others and that makes it even harder for me. I should stop thinking about others and start thinking about myself, which would have solved my issue long time ago, but loved ones are loved ones and without helping them it makes it quite hard for me.

I think the best thing that could happen for us would be just focusing on our own financial troubles first. Of course, if you get rich and be wealthy then you can help anyone you want, you can even donate to charity, you do not have to make it work any other way, just do whatever you want to do, and it will be a great situation for sure.

Of course, and I once heard a story from one of the people who has now achieved success in my country, where initially he was a person who had a dire financial situation or was on the poverty line and every week he always set aside a small portion of the remaining money he needed which was The money was used to go to a luxury cafe where rich people rest or spend their free time. His goal was very simple, where he said that he just wanted to see how rich people dressed and how rich people spoke directly in front of his eyes.

I can't say in detail about what the person I told you about at that time got it, but what is certain is that he followed everything that rich people do, whether it be from the style of dress, style of speaking and attitude as well as other personalities that It is in a rich person that he applies all these things to himself, and in the end he can really become a successful person by owning many big businesses. On the other hand, I was quite moved when I saw the method he was doing, even though it looked simple, it really had an influence and had a positive impact on his personality where everything he saw succeeded in opening up his insight and knowledge. This means that if you have passion and intention and are strong and work hard then you will think of doing various things even though they seem unreasonable or useless from other people's point of view in order to make your dreams come true.

Deciding to follow the habits of other people who have achieved success is certainly a very good thing to do and this is not easy to do, of course it requires a strong desire and consistency in doing it to get satisfactory results. If you work in an office, of course you have to be very disciplined in managing your time. and it is also very important for you to wake up early so you can get to your office on time, because if you don't wake up early of course when you go to the office you will be late and also this will be a big problem if you can't change this habit, but for Those who work are not bound, of course they can build according to their wishes and most importantly they can carry out their work according to their responsibilities.

If we follow the daily lives of those who are already successful, maybe our insight will open up, because from the way they wake up in the morning when people are still sleeping to taking the time to pray and not forgetting to exercise before going to the office, it feels hard, but it turns out that if you get used to it then you no longer look heavy, and your body can be fit so that it has an impact on maximum work results

If we follow the daily lives of those who are already successful, maybe our insight will open up, because from the way they wake up in the morning when people are still sleeping to taking the time to pray and not forgetting to exercise before going to the office, it feels hard, but it turns out that if you get used to it then you no longer look heavy, and your body can be fit so that it has an impact on maximum work results

That's true and that is something that someone has to change, such as lifestyle, if for example they have a glamorous lifestyle such as often wasting the money you have only on something that is basically not very important or not really needed then clearly avoid it and change these habits, we can see that rich people have good management and always make decisions wisely, one of the small things is like buying something, if they don't feel they need it then they won't buy it.

People who have now succeeded in achieving wealth in their lives have different principles and mindsets, especially they have good firmness and discipline towards the use of money, they are frugal and that doesn't mean they are stingy, because usually most of the money they have is used for something. which has the potential to be profitable in the future rather than buying everything that is not important and does not have commensurate or greater reward value in the future. And yes, it is true that achieving wealth is not as easy as turning the palm of your hand, everyone wants to be rich but not all of them are able to go through the process of difficulty, and having financial management is the first step to moving on to the struggle stage.

We have to change our lifestyle mindset from now on if we really want wealth, but we have to remember that when we want to be rich, we have to work hard and keep trying as hard as possible to reach the point we want, because it is not easy to achieve good wealth, no there is instant wealth, it takes a long process to become rich, and we have to plan something that we want and we achieve the desires we want one by one, there must be a dream in every desire we have, we must achieve it by trying and working hard, and we must we are good at managing our finances, we have to balance our expenses and income so that we can organize our finances better.

We have to change our lifestyle mindset from now on if we really want wealth, but we have to remember that when we want to be rich, we have to work hard and keep trying as hard as possible to reach the point we want, because it is not easy to achieve good wealth, no there is instant wealth, it takes a long process to become rich, and we have to plan something that we want and we achieve the desires we want one by one, there must be a dream in every desire we have, we must achieve it by trying and working hard, and we must we are good at managing our finances, we have to balance our expenses and income so that we can organize our finances better.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

We have to change our lifestyle mindset from now on if we really want wealth, but we have to remember that when we want to be rich, we have to work hard and keep trying as hard as possible to reach the point we want, because it is not easy to achieve good wealth, no there is instant wealth, it takes a long process to become rich, and we have to plan something that we want and we achieve the desires we want one by one, there must be a dream in every desire we have, we must achieve it by trying and working hard, and we must we are good at managing our finances, we have to balance our expenses and income so that we can organize our finances better.

If you really want to be successful in life, you need a very strong mindset, discipline and endurance During the process. What you always think about is what you become. But still, you don't just think about it, but also act upon it. You need a very good knowledge of it. Some people just think and continue thinking until it becomes pressure to their heart and blood and cause some deadly sickness to them. Some even say it after thinking about it, but don't act upon it.
So many people wish to be rich but still they keep on getting poor because they are just wishing to become what they don't and not working for.

I mean both have their points, It is not a good thing to not focus on your future, like savings, investments, insurance, etc. but at the same time if you are not going to get enjoyment at all it seems that there is no point at all to work if your not happy at all, you do work hard every day not just to survive but as well to buy something that you wanted, and eat something that you wanted, not just eating enough food. It just going to defeat its purpose or probably gonna be some kind of slave of money. In my opinion, the main issue here is buying something that you can't really afford, for sure there will always be limitations with that, I mean you surely could buy sometimes things and eat food that you want, but not really to the point where it just takes a huge percentage of your money or savings. Just like you said he's probably buying a lot of things that make him happy because he has money in his bank which I think is okay since he did have savings so he could buy things that he wanted.

Still buying things that you couldn't afford is going to be different because you are on the road to being broke meaning you're not saving anything, investing anything something like that because all of it is just going through spending, which is surely going to be a bad decision in the long run. If you want to achieve financial freedom, having a solid financial foundation is just really important, like savings, investment, insurance, and emergency funds. etc. As well as having assets and passive income. I mean you could get to the point where you could build your wealth if you are starting to earn already, but if spending all of it and not saving anything you surely not going to save anything in the end in your future.

Living this life certainly requires a good balance in terms of earning money and enjoying income from the work they do and by considering the long-term consequences of course we will be more careful about the decisions we make in the life we ​​live, when other people give us advice. about making decisions in life, of course we have to be able to accept them, of course this will be very useful, by evaluating what we have decided in the past, of course this will make us know the advantages and disadvantages of the decisions we have made and this is very important to done after we do something about our future.

Therefore, we need a balance in living life between personal enjoyment and sustainable growth. While it's important to enjoy life, it's also important to consider the long-term consequences of our actions. We must be open to receiving suggestions and even knowledge provided, and utilize resources wisely as well as evaluate and self-reflect on the actions we have taken, so that it can help us identify which areas we need to improve and make the necessary changes.

Life isn't always easy for people who think for others. I have been in quite a big financial trouble lately, and even in my current situation I try to help others and that makes it even harder for me. I should stop thinking about others and start thinking about myself, which would have solved my issue long time ago, but loved ones are loved ones and without helping them it makes it quite hard for me.

I think the best thing that could happen for us would be just focusing on our own financial troubles first. Of course, if you get rich and be wealthy then you can help anyone you want, you can even donate to charity, you do not have to make it work any other way, just do whatever you want to do, and it will be a great situation for sure.

Each person's perspective, thoughts, and emotions are unique, and shaped by their experiences and nature. Empathy and sensitivity can be both a blessing and a curse, as you've observed. Having a soft heart allows you to deeply understand and connect with others, share their joys and sorrows, and offer comfort and support. However, it also makes you more vulnerable to emotional pain and potential harm.

I have also observed that soft-hearted people think for others more than themselves. So, sometimes it is good that you are thinking only for your family especially when you have less budget or can only do it for yourself so that your family and you live in comfort. But if you have so much that you can give to others, then I would prefer that helping is a good act, so we should help our relatives and the people around us.

While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.