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Wrong decisions will always result negative outcomes.
Well, trying to be positive that some wrong decisions might turn to blessings but it's true that most of the time if we're deciding wrongly we will have bad results.
That’s oddly optimistic lol.
Kind of odd but that is hope.  Grin

But I guess it is better than being pessimistic about everything and being overly depressed when things do not go your way. I think it’s always better to do prevention than cure. So we should avoid doing poor decisions or mistakes instead of trying to fix whatever mess we have made however if it’s already done then we have no other choice.
Yeah, it will just make the situation worse if you're going to be pessimistic with what you're dealing with. But I guess it differs per person because some don't see some slight hope when they've been into the worse and terrible situation. While some, they can turn the tides and still able to think positively even they're on a bad situation.
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I mean both have their points, It is not a good thing to not focus on your future, like savings, investments, insurance, etc. but at the same time if you are not going to get enjoyment at all it seems that there is no point at all to work if your not happy at all, you do work hard every day not just to survive but as well to buy something that you wanted, and eat something that you wanted, not just eating enough food. It just going to defeat its purpose or probably gonna be some kind of slave of money. In my opinion, the main issue here is buying something that you can't really afford, for sure there will always be limitations with that, I mean you surely could buy sometimes things and eat food that you want, but not really to the point where it just takes a huge percentage of your money or savings. Just like you said he's probably buying a lot of things that make him happy because he has money in his bank which I think is okay since he did have savings so he could buy things that he wanted.

Still buying things that you couldn't afford is going to be different because you are on the road to being broke meaning you're not saving anything, investing anything something like that because all of it is just going through spending, which is surely going to be a bad decision in the long run. If you want to achieve financial freedom, having a solid financial foundation is just really important, like savings, investment, insurance, and emergency funds. etc. As well as having assets and passive income. I mean you could get to the point where you could build your wealth if you are starting to earn already, but if spending all of it and not saving anything you surely not going to save anything in the end in your future.
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Wrong decisions will always result negative outcomes.
Well, trying to be positive that some wrong decisions might turn to blessings but it's true that most of the time if we're deciding wrongly we will have bad results.

That’s oddly optimistic lol.

But I guess it is better than being pessimistic about everything and being overly depressed when things do not go your way. I think it’s always better to do prevention than cure. So we should avoid doing poor decisions or mistakes instead of trying to fix whatever mess we have made however if it’s already done then we have no other choice.
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Some people behave impulsively without considering their consequences. They're foolishly spending their money as they make it, assuming the good times will never end. Your buddy, he's a prime example; cruising on high, eyes glued to the rearview mirror of "had I known." Honestly, this is about acknowledging, not knowing. Knowing that every dollar spent in foolishness today undermines their future

Your friend's reply? "What's money for if not enjoyment?" Classic yet disastrous. It's like braking a runaway train, not bothering or preaching. High inflation, asset sales, couch-surfing? That's mismanagement, not luck

Who can blame you for considering severing ties? Energy vampires take your money, spirit, and peace as well as your blood. It's a lifestyle, not simply financial smarts. Your absence might be the most profound advice. Let them bear the consequences of their choices without you
Exactly. No need to be around with them and reject your advices as if all those were useless. Let them learn their lesson on their own  because that’s the best way they will encourage to take changes. Now, if they won’t change despite of their struggles, that’s already their problem. But at least you know, you have done your best to advice people like them, it’s just that they don’t care believing on you. It’s their loss actually.
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Wrong decisions will always result negative outcomes.
Well, trying to be positive that some wrong decisions might turn to blessings but it's true that most of the time if we're deciding wrongly we will have bad results.

It’s not that you can easily regain all the money that you have carelessly spend, except if you invested in highly potential investments that are sure to guarantee you massive profits in the future just like what bitcoin can do for us.
If the loss is totally okay and you're going to recover from there, that's your own take on it. But any amount that comes from losses shouldn't be just thrown away freely even if you're capable of doing that. Unless, that's your attitude towards money.
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It's a bad habit, and many people like the OP mentioned, especially people who rely solely on their parents' wealth.
It's all because parents don't teach their children to be responsible with money, and people like this don't give advice easily because they think they have a lot of money, and when the money runs out and falls. He will be aware and aware of the words or advice said by friends or other people before, but it will be too late.
And I also have several people with that type, and I judge because these people are blinded by money. And they don't think that money will run out over time if they don't have a job or business that makes money or a stable income to cover their expenses.

And I think people like that just ignore it, later they will realize and regret it when it's all over and that will be a valuable lesson for them. And realize that a luxurious life must be supported by a decent income or more, and must be responsible and disciplined in using or managing money.
I guess this happens to a lot of people most especially to those who have never experienced living being poor. They won’t waste time thinking on how to grow their money and multiply them while they can, but instead they focus on enjoying every penny they earn and spend like there’s no limit. Unfortunately, when their money is used up due to luxuries living, that’s when they realize that they could have save a little and learn to invest so that they will be able to maximize the opportunity while they are earning well.

Wrong decisions will always result negative outcomes. It’s not that you can easily regain all the money that you have carelessly spend, except if you invested in highly potential investments that are sure to guarantee you massive profits in the future just like what bitcoin can do for us.
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I won't encourage to disassociate yourself from him because to every lifestyle there's is always a lesson to learn from them, reason because without you experiencing those attitudes from him you won't know how to make and take the right decisions for yourself. People doesn't always make the right decision when everything seems to be okay all their decision are right and good for them untill they encounters difficulties making them to have a rethink of their life, people doesn't always take correction or learned from what happened to other people all less it happens to them before they would take corrections.
life is like examination so anything happen for good and for benefit of us to learn and understand our fault what you said is good and then when you follow the strategies of what you said the person will make well that is why I always promote this community because here we teach you both good and here we also teach you the thing that you have to know for your life so I have nothing to say down to compliment just your statement because you have spoken my mind and I have nothing to say again
You are right and there is nothing hidden about what you said, examination you said is truly a thing to say and i will say we have to examine ourselves to know if actually what we are doing is right or not but even as that we have to also crip down our ego for us to be able to learn and unlearn things from people. At some point we might be thinking that we are all right at all cost but most times could be negatively affected by our characters and attitudes which we don't know how it's hurting the next person even if they don't speak out their minds at those point but could harboring some negative taught about you towards your actions in their lives.
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A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

I think it's natural and possible that at that time your friend still has the upper hand in terms of finances and does not want to be disturbed by anyone, including you, plus your questions that are limiting for him.

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life..

Everyone will be aware when it comes with the pressure of needs that are increasing day by day, especially when we have a family. Someone who used to live an all-round life when the decline may be very unprepared to run it. The increase in personal debt automatically occurs at various points, once or twice it is possible that someone comes to help, but if many times come with the same condition it may no longer be true and the saying goes if remember we are safe.
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I won't encourage to disassociate yourself from him because to every lifestyle there's is always a lesson to learn from them, reason because without you experiencing those attitudes from him you won't know how to make and take the right decisions for yourself. People doesn't always make the right decision when everything seems to be okay all their decision are right and good for them untill they encounters difficulties making them to have a rethink of their life, people doesn't always take correction or learned from what happened to other people all less it happens to them before they would take corrections.
life is like examination so anything happen for good and for benefit of us to learn and understand our fault what you said is good and then when you follow the strategies of what you said the person will make well that is why I always promote this community because here we teach you both good and here we also teach you the thing that you have to know for your life so I have nothing to say down to compliment just your statement because you have spoken my mind and I have nothing to say again
legendary
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Anything that we do now would affect our future, and all of what we are experiencing or have right now is the result of what we did in the past.
We need to grow up and think about not just our future but also our family, for me I learned it the hard way but I am trying to make a better future for my kid.
I also used to spend on unnecessary things to enjoy, and regret it so now that I learned my lesson I started to invest my excess money to crypto.

It is never too late to invest on anything. So long you are living, you have the chance to alter your lifestyle to improve your financial status. It is only a matter of time before you will see the rewards of your decision. This is the very reason also why you can't say, it is too late to join in crypto market. This is just about your entry and exit points. If you are selling above your buying price, then, I would say, you are already doing good.

And at some point in our lives, we will indeed contemplate on things we are doing with our life. As long as you know how to change your route for the better, you have the chance to improve your life. Not only for you but for your immediate family as well.
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Anything that we do now would affect our future, and all of what we are experiencing or have right now is the result of what we did in the past.
We need to grow up and think about not just our future but also our family, for me I learned it the hard way but I am trying to make a better future for my kid.
I also used to spend on unnecessary things to enjoy, and regret it so now that I learned my lesson I started to invest my excess money to crypto.
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It takes a time for someone who knows about Bitcoin and also who knows about investment to make a good plan to utilize any money that it generate from any investment it make utilizing your money is based on your ability to think both positive and the negative because there's some people that does not know what is the responsibility there's some people who doesn't go down to think of the future because they are seeing a weekly and the monthly money so if you are opportune to see a weekly and the monthly money you have to know that there will be a time such money will not be flowing the way you think so it is better for you do it like the money by strategizing in different ways of investment
There's more to Bitcoin than chasing green candles on a screen. This voyage is wild and will rock you if you're not mentally and financially prepared. More than just reacting to numbers, you need a strategy. Think long-term. BTC is a long-term investment. Diversifying is essential. To handle market fluctuations, diversify your investments. Instead than allowing the market dictate you, take charge

Many people get caught up in short-term gains, but then get burned. Bitcoin's main power is changing our money mindset over time, not getting rich immediately. Use this opportunity to build something, not just make money. As you walk, realize that your actions now effect your future. Think stability, not immediate wins. Smart move: sustainable growth
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I won't encourage to disassociate yourself from him because to every lifestyle there's is always a lesson to learn from them, reason because without you experiencing those attitudes from him you won't know how to make and take the right decisions for yourself. People doesn't always make the right decision when everything seems to be okay all their decision are right and good for them untill they encounters difficulties making them to have a rethink of their life, people doesn't always take correction or learned from what happened to other people all less it happens to them before they would take corrections.
Most people don't put their self in the shoes of others. They only judge unknowingly, ignorantly and without any justification. they don't really care what is happening with the person, they will just be making noise on what they don't know much about. And the most funniest thing about these group of people, is that, after saying all they have to say, they don't care of adjusting themselves or correcting themselves, or taking very careful cautious of not landing in to commiting such mistake. They will just be living their life  mindlessly until such things happen to them. and when it happens, some will still not take heed. They will just continue with finding wrong excuses for themselves.

I agree with pinggoki, you can't force other people to have a same life like you because what you think good isn't always good for him.

Yeah I know I have a same perspective like you, saving is a must for me, but some people think when they die, they won't able to bring their wealth to heaven, so why they need to save and we can't even know how long we can live.

Even if my best friends spend too much money for unnecessary stuffs, if he didn't ask about money management, saving or investment, I won't comment anything.
And with all these your perspective, I think I am you because of the way my thoughts are same as yours. I rigidly agree with you. How can you force someone that has his brain separate to think like you do? even your child some time you can not Force him or her to do some of the things you want him or her to do.
If you don't want to be a beggar, then better save for your future. because even if death over took, your children can't be going from house to house looking for who to help them with money. instead, you will leave them with happiness. And after you have gone, they will be happily praying for you. So for those talking about not going to heaven with money, that is why they don't save, these people should try and have a rethink wisely and deeply.
Yes, these days, it's not always advisable to put mouth on issues that do not concern you.
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It takes a time for someone who knows about Bitcoin and also who knows about investment to make a good plan to utilize any money that it generate from any investment it make utilizing your money is based on your ability to think both positive and the negative because there's some people that does not know what is the responsibility there's some people who doesn't go down to think of the future because they are seeing a weekly and the monthly money so if you are opportune to see a weekly and the monthly money you have to know that there will be a time such money will not be flowing the way you think so it is better for you do it like the money by strategizing in different ways of investment
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However, in low-income households, one household member needs to implement an escape mechanism that has provided success for others. Such individuals must rely on the sound research and reliability of the framework prepared by the Researcher. Otherwise, any effort or group of efforts made by an individual from a low-income household to rely on his judgment to achieve success in life will be in vain.

 I think responsible decision making is a person's ability to make choices related to personal behavior based on ethics, security and safety considerations, and norms social. As we know it. The life we ​​live now is the result of decisions we have taken before. Whatever decision has been taken, we must be ready to accept and implement the consequences of that decision.
 
 To make a decision is not an easy thing. The consideration factor that underlies decision making is one of the important things, which we should use as a guide.
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I think you should always have a balance between spending fearlessly and having a calculative expenditure. Your siblings are also dependent on you so you do not only have your future to secure you have many other lives too. Yes you should enjoy the weekend and spend a little because that's what you have been working so hard but it shouldn't go beyond limits.

If you do not do calculation you'll end up in these type pathetic conditions where you will starve then. Just go and have some words with guys who are more financially stable and they also look pretty happy with their lives they'll tell you the secret of how to stay happy while spending the amount you can easily afford to spend.
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To me I believe that to whom brain is given, sense is expected, but it's a very sad reality that not everyone has sense, 

You!re right and I have actually made it a habit to remind myself that there is no such thing as common sense. Most People might say that there are things that everyone should know but we have to understand that we were all raised in different environments and different ways. Something so common might not be as common to other people. Thinking about this prevents me from saying someone is stupid. They’re just raised differently than the way I was raised but they can still change their ways and learn new things.
I believe that every person born in this world has a different shape, different gender, and different characteristics and intelligence. This is also included in our life principles because everyone has control over their own lives. Every problem that befalls us has our own way of dealing with it and finding the best solution. There are those who always put their heart first when making decisions and there are also those who always use logic when they have to make decisions. If these two points of view become one and conflict with each other, it could be said that the person will experience a condition where his logic and heart are not in sync with each other, and this is where reason is needed to think. Likewise, when making decisions about our future lives, we are more responsible for the results we obtain.
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While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

To me I believe that to whom brain is given, sense is expected, but it's a very sad reality that not everyone has sense, 

You!re right and I have actually made it a habit to remind myself that there is no such thing as common sense. Most People might say that there are things that everyone should know but we have to understand that we were all raised in different environments and different ways. Something so common might not be as common to other people. Thinking about this prevents me from saying someone is stupid. They’re just raised differently than the way I was raised but they can still change their ways and learn new things.
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While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

I actually think this story of yours is not a new thing in our society today, it happens countless times among people in the state, and you need to understand that we all have eyes, and we look at life and things, but we all see differently, not everyone here or out of this place have common sense, because I believe that, it's what money cannot buy.

To me I believe that to whom brain is given, sense is expected, but it's a very sad reality that not everyone has sense,  in this life that we found ourselves, our decision making either improve our lives or reduce the quality of life we are living now,  because any decisions we take now, we will surely live with it, regardless of if it favourable or not.
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However, in low-income households, one household member needs to implement an escape mechanism that has provided success for others. Such individuals must rely on the sound research and reliability of the framework prepared by the Researcher. Otherwise, any effort or group of efforts made by an individual from a low-income household to rely on his judgment to achieve success in life will be in vain.
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