While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.
In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.
A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.
How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?
And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.
He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me affected with his negative possesed energies.
How someone spends his money is out of your business. In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.
A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.
How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?
And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.
He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me affected with his negative possesed energies.
What of you if he likes to splurge his paycheck? You said it yourself, he has a sizable amount of savings in his bank account that he's confident of, no need to call him out on how he spends his money. It's money he's worked hard for and didn't ask of anyone for anyway. It doesn't matter how much money he's losing or whatever. Now that he's lost everything the same thing can be said, you shouldn't care about his money, or the lack thereof. He made his bed, and now he must sleep in it. Doesn't matter if it's your dear friend.
The only thing you can really assist his with at this point is provide him the opportunity to make money, not the prospect of money itself. He needs to work for his own dough and work his way up back to his old life, and he could only do this if he perseveres for himself. After that, disassociate with him all you want. You don't want people who are spendthrift anyway.
But at the end of the day, you can't lecture everyone about how they spend their shit, a lot of us here grew up not having any and are thus healing our inner children with the purchases we make. We need that.
