Topic: Our decision making is responsible for the outcomes in our ways - page 7. (Read 1700 times)

For many people to achieve their goals, the money they earn must constantly increase. Needs never end, on the contrary, they constantly increase and you have to increase your money to meet these needs.

Being financially mature should be one of the most important elements that can be discussed on this subject. Financial maturity is something that is hard earned but provides great benefits when achieved. Many people experience many things to gain this maturity, and financial maturity can occur as a result of these experiences. It is not something that happens all the time, but when it happens, it is very beneficial to the person.

Making money has to be a continuous process, This is why even the wealthiest of men are still trying to establish more businesses and more investments to keep their income steady. Any individual who gets comfortable when they have some money to last them for a short time is not content but financially immature, because money needs to be spent in the pursuit of more. Any moment that you become financially comfortable, you indirectly are becoming ready for poverty.

Making money has to be a continuous process, This is why even the wealthiest of men are still trying to establish more businesses and more investments to keep their income steady. Any individual who gets comfortable when they have some money to last them for a short time is not content but financially immature, because money needs to be spent in the pursuit of more. Any moment that you become financially comfortable, you indirectly are becoming ready for poverty.

While others have learnt their lessions of not utilizing their incomes when they had a stable source for their income flows, some others are paying adamants and ignorant to learn from what has happened to others because they feels they are not of the same calling to be affected with what happened to others.

In life some persons just do what pleases them and doesn't tolerate with any piece of advice from anyone at the times they feels to had acquired the heavens on earth. And yet they are not Concious that as the more they grows their incomes for multiplications is also how it could depreciate to a zero value if not utilize productively for continues growth.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before  leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.

He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me  affected with his negative possesed energies.

This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

We're live in a world full of lies, if you didn't lie, you won't able to build relations with a lot people because when you show your true character, there are someone like you and someone don't like you. If you become a liar and try to do what they like, they will like you and you might be successful because you have more relations.

Most people don't like to get advice or limit with something that they likes.

Isn't it that the word appropriate for this is “accountability”? It's his fault that he is doing what he can and you, trying to point out his making a problem is what a friend should do. You shouldn't tolerate what you think is not right because you are enabling them to still do it.

What kind of a friend would you be if you let it? Think about it.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.

How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?

Isn't it that the word appropriate for this is “accountability”? It's his fault that he is doing what he can and you, trying to point out his making a problem is what a friend should do. You shouldn't tolerate what you think is not right because you are enabling them to still do it.

What kind of a friend would you be if you let it? Think about it.

The fact that people have the choice to choose those actions shows freedom, but there are issues surrounding life that cause disagreements. Just do what you want, evaluating everything around you only reflects a small part of our thinking and perspective on life. I don't complain much about someone's actions being right/wrong, as long as we are aware of our imperfections and choose to be satisfied/grateful for everything around us, even if it causes discomfort uncomfortable.

There were a few situations in the past that I faced when I tried to impose my personal thoughts on someone, and realized that they are not me, each person has their own life and experiences. We can see that the action is silly and help that person realize their mistake, but they haven't experienced it enough to be aware of it, so there's no need to argue harshly and just let things happen naturally.

He live an extravagant live but he bothers his friend by borrowing his friend's money, he doesn't consider that his friend also need the money. If he want to live an extravagant live, then he should earn enough money so he doesn't give bad financial influence to his friend by asking to borrow money, I didn't mean he is like evil, he just a bad friend, that is just bad enough for me to stay way from that kind of friend. At least by staying away from him I wouldn't need to loan him some money, and by not loaning him some money he might be able to reconsider his spending because he can't no longer borrow money from me, he might find someone else, but then that's other people problem and decision.

I think there are people like this who will always squandered all that they have before looking for ways to earn more money.
People like this don't understand the term 'save for a rainy day' because to them their enjoyment comes first.
The problem is there is no convincing such people, only life can teach them a lesson that's if they will ever learn.
You can only keep advising him as a friend but the rest is up to him to figure out.

A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be  accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.