Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ? - page 9.

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Quote from: EdenHazard on September 25, 2017, 11:22:10 AM

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Quote from: iram3130 on September 22, 2017, 10:11:29 AM

Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.

The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything.

I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss.

i think it is still could give you addiction problem no matter you are living in a country where gambling are banned , you can easily access it through online gambling , don't you do it now? i don't believe if you never gamble online as you said you have won a lot in gambling.

you will always try to make money through the same instant way. and to get loan are your shortcut way when you run out of money.

This is true,we can freely access gambling sites with the use of VPN which no one would able to trace us that we are playing gambling online even if our government would really restrict us on playing it.
Having debts is just a common problem on most gambler which some of them end up on suicide because they cant repay those debts.

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If anybody is in debt because of gambling the it's your fault and no one else, not the community and surely not the site you play but its basically because of lack of self control. When I hear people run into debt because of gambling, I just imagine how that is possible if there is self restraint.

I don't think I can get involved to the point of betting all that I have, and then still go out to borrow from people to still play. When someone do something like that, they should be sentenced to remand homes for the rest of their lives because they have not only fail themselves but also failed humanity and so they lose the morality to live among rational thinking individuals.

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Quote from: justdimin on September 24, 2017, 01:35:35 AM

Quote from: iram3130 on September 22, 2017, 10:11:29 AM

Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.

The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything.

I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss.

i think it is still could give you addiction problem no matter you are living in a country where gambling are banned , you can easily access it through online gambling , don't you do it now? i don't believe if you never gamble online as you said you have won a lot in gambling.

you will always try to make money through the same instant way. and to get loan are your shortcut way when you run out of money.

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Quote from: justdimin on September 24, 2017, 01:35:35 AM

Quote from: iram3130 on September 22, 2017, 10:11:29 AM

Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.

The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything.

I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss.

i think it is still could give you addiction problem no matter you are living in a country where gambling are banned , you can easily access it through online gambling , don't you do it now? i don't believe if you never gamble online as you said you have won a lot in gambling.

you will always try to make money through the same instant way. and to get loan are your shortcut way when you run out of money.

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Quote from: Jasad on September 18, 2017, 11:07:52 AM

If we are depressed by debt, maybe we can do a smart little cunning way. Let's borrow money from friends, siblings or anyone else to pay off your old debts. Maybe you still have a debt but at least you have more time to pay.

This is no solution to any debts we are just building more debts for yourself if you want to clear a debt you need to sell of your assets or find a better job taking another loan to pay a previous debt will keep on increasing and finally you will have no option but to quit your life or go to the jail

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in my opinion, when gamblers lose in gambling and they still want to keep playing, they will do various ways to keep playing. one of them is by way of debt. they dare to debt, because they believe will win and can return their debt. but in my opinion, if lost at the moment, it is better to just retreat, dont continues the gambling with the way of debt.

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Quote from: iram3130 on September 22, 2017, 10:11:29 AM

Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.

The problem with gambling addiction is that you end your life and whatever but as you get any funds you will do the first thing called as "gambling" again because of the simple fact that you just want to win back everything.

I have myself been a gambling addict but what happened good to me was I used to win a lot. Then came a time that our country banned gambling and that actually saved me from potential loss.

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Quote from: majdoso on September 22, 2017, 08:18:34 PM

Debt is really a big trap. A smart gambler have to be careful and control him self to not get addicted and drown i debts. Paying back people is not easy especially when they owe you big amount of money.

that's why its not advisable to borrowed money when you are going to play gambling, its really a risky move coming from a gambler, he can't focus
he's mind thinking if how can he pay it if he lose it there, i still believe that we should treat gambling as a sort of entertainment so we can only use
our owned money something that we can afford to lose.

You know that is really wrong to get a loan for the sake gambling.
But still you do it however right? It is an addiction which drive you to always doing the same mistakes .
You cannot really handle it unless if you do have a babkroll management and selfcontrol in every single day you do gamble.

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Quote from: majdoso on September 22, 2017, 08:18:34 PM

Debt is really a big trap. A smart gambler have to be careful and control him self to not get addicted and drown i debts. Paying back people is not easy especially when they owe you big amount of money.

Gambling is a fun activity so if anyone can't afford to play these games then there are many other options to get a fun without spending money. But people who addicted to these games and wants a fast money will do these mistakes of gambling with borrowed money and put them in a deep shit. One shouldn't do this big mistake and put all other family members also in trouble.

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Quote from: KuromaYoichi on September 23, 2017, 08:31:03 AM

Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I know one guy (my friend's friend) who had a lot of debt because of gambling. He's very lucky because his family still care about him, they sold their property to paid the debt. Now he's stopped gambling and help his mother selling vegetable.

That's the problem here, a person won't be able to learn how good profit is but they neglect the opportunity of money to be used for another passive income aside from a gambling investments. Not all family can accommodate you with all your needs, specially when the money isn't enough to paid all the debts you had; how lucky is your friend having that kind of family even though they've lost their property due to gambling debts.

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Quote from: majdoso on September 22, 2017, 08:18:34 PM

Debt is really a big trap. A smart gambler have to be careful and control him self to not get addicted and drown i debts. Paying back people is not easy especially when they owe you big amount of money.

You also need to consider that most gamblers' perspective towards gambling is that they can be successful without paying the cost at the end. Now, the result of their decision based from their gambling addiction is being drowned in debt and they still gamble because they believe that gambling can answer all of their financial problems. Being addicted to something destroys all negative implications of the user because what matters to them is the satisfaction that they experience. Why would they change their ways if they feel satisfied? That is one of the problems of most gamblers who cannot control their addiction which needs to be addressed at the quickest time possible.

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Quote from: PokerFace3 on September 23, 2017, 12:04:37 PM

Quote from: 2hot2handle on September 22, 2017, 11:02:50 AM

One of our family member is in debt right now because of gambling and as much as I want to help out of it I want him to learn from his mistakes and hoping the one day he will not let his gambling addiction in control of his life. He lost every property he have now and I really feel bad about it.

I feel sorry for him but if possible please get him a job even if you have to pay him from his own pocket, I have seen that when people get busy they actually forget about their addictions. It's not likely to talk here but one of my friends had a terribly habit of smoking and gambling and I was literally helpless as he was a true friend and I could not help him unless we find him a job.

That's too bad mate. you already did what you have to as his friend. It's up to him on how his going to handle his own problem. Because all of us can do is to give advice and help them stay away from addiction but at the end it's still up to them if they are willing to give up their addiction problem.

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Quote from: 2hot2handle on September 22, 2017, 11:02:50 AM

One of our family member is in debt right now because of gambling and as much as I want to help out of it I want him to learn from his mistakes and hoping the one day he will not let his gambling addiction in control of his life. He lost every property he have now and I really feel bad about it.

I feel sorry for him but if possible please get him a job even if you have to pay him from his own pocket, I have seen that when people get busy they actually forget about their addictions. It's not likely to talk here but one of my friends had a terribly habit of smoking and gambling and I was literally helpless as he was a true friend and I could not help him unless we find him a job.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I know one guy (my friend's friend) who had a lot of debt because of gambling. He's very lucky because his family still care about him, they sold their property to paid the debt. Now he's stopped gambling and help his mother selling vegetable.

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Quote from: majdoso on September 22, 2017, 08:18:34 PM

Debt is really a big trap. A smart gambler have to be careful and control him self to not get addicted and drown i debts. Paying back people is not easy especially when they owe you big amount of money.

that's why its not advisable to borrowed money when you are going to play gambling, its really a risky move coming from a gambler, he can't focus
he's mind thinking if how can he pay it if he lose it there, i still believe that we should treat gambling as a sort of entertainment so we can only use
our owned money something that we can afford to lose.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I experience it before I have so many percentage debts.Because of my husband vises,addicted to gambling.He buy what he wants no limitations even he can afford.He will barrow money just to get what he wants.I think thats the beggining when we started not to understand its other until our relationship is not healthy anymore.It ended to separation.When it comes to financial problem of course mother most be worried of it.So I catched all those problem.Until now as a single mom I still own alone my problem.

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Quote from: iram3130 on September 22, 2017, 10:11:29 AM

Some of my friends are in great debt because of gambling and I have seen how far it'll go if they won't be able to return their loans. One of them tried to end his life but fortunately his family saved him and he's fine now. But still think of gambling and it's really hard for him to leave.

It was a very bad choice to decide to commit suicide, maybe it was because of solitude, I mean it might be because he did not tell his friend or family that he had so much debt and kept it alone. Or has run out of ways to pay off the debt he has. My advice maybe you can help him, you and your friends leave the money and give it to him, maybe help pay off his debt.

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Quote from: bajing on September 10, 2017, 08:16:44 AM

Honestly there is no way for help those who have this problem, that's why we always tell to other people better not to loan money for gambling because you will be in problem. maybe the only way for you to keep alive, easy never think if you had lose much money in gambling

It is a sad and harsh reality indeed. They could have been saved if they were at the verge of destruction but they are already destroyed so nothing much can be done for such people. Goodness can only save them. However, it can be a lesson for other gamblers, specially the new ones.

Gambling is very addictive and fatal. It is very funny to see people digging their graves by their own hands by gambling with all the wealth. Above that, they speed up the process by burrowing money from others. It is like adding fuel into fire. I hope people understand that how much harmful gambling can be for them and their close ones.

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Debt is really a big trap. A smart gambler have to be careful and control him self to not get addicted and drown i debts. Paying back people is not easy especially when they owe you big amount of money.

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Quote from: Rinsend on September 05, 2017, 12:02:24 PM

Quote from: michkima on September 05, 2017, 11:53:54 AM

Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him.

it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had,
but this would be impossible
because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering
except for his parents who helped him

IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help.

and this is real happening,
friends can only help morally.
this may be of little help to us
and for the next we must be able to try to get out of debt.
and I'm a little suggesting here to keep our own effort without asking anyone to help pay off the debt.
because if we can get out of debt by own business of course we will be happier when that time happens

A gambler needs attention from friends or any family member, that's why it kept on a recurring situation that they went on debt most of the time. They've seek attention most of the time from their reliable sources, and borrowed more money just to satisfy their gambling motives. Getting out of a debt will not happen if a gambler doesn't change his attitude and never cut the gambling activities he had in his life.

What you said is the correct solution to get rid of gambling habit and further more loss. Just forget what you lost and start life new and try to work harder and be happy with what you got.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him.

it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had,
but this would be impossible
because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering
except for his parents who helped him

IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help.

and this is real happening,
friends can only help morally.
this may be of little help to us
and for the next we must be able to try to get out of debt.
and I'm a little suggesting here to keep our own effort without asking anyone to help pay off the debt.
because if we can get out of debt by own business of course we will be happier when that time happens

A gambler needs attention from friends or any family member, that's why it kept on a recurring situation that they went on debt most of the time. They've seek attention most of the time from their reliable sources, and borrowed more money just to satisfy their gambling motives. Getting out of a debt will not happen if a gambler doesn't change his attitude and never cut the gambling activities he had in his life.

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