I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.
It's normal that gamblers deny that they're addicted on gambling, as much as they can they will keep it secret or pretend that they can still manage it, even they are in debts they will keep on playing it.As I've said gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts and they need to realize that it will not cause good on them. 
Topic: Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ? - page 7. (Read 3416 times)
I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.
It's normal that gamblers deny that they're addicted on gambling, as much as they can they will keep it secret or pretend that they can still manage it, even they are in debts they will keep on playing it.As I've said gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts and they need to realize that it will not cause good on them.
I lost a lot but never came to a big debt into where I cant recover no more.
But I have some advice with those who have those problems in gambling.
They may need to create a new hobby just so they will forget to gamble for a minute, an hour or a day.
If that certain hobby could be found then it might go well.
That is all I did. Returned to playing online games until I realize I am not gambling to a larger extent anymore.
But I have some advice with those who have those problems in gambling.
They may need to create a new hobby just so they will forget to gamble for a minute, an hour or a day.
If that certain hobby could be found then it might go well.
That is all I did. Returned to playing online games until I realize I am not gambling to a larger extent anymore.
I never tried to gamble someone else money. Even if i am addicted to gambling and even i lose my budget for 1 month in gambling i never thought of borrowing money to someone just to gamble the reason is that i know the risk in gambling and if i lose that money that i owe to someone i will be increasing my problem and for me it is hard to fix too many problems.
What your doing is right because even after you know these games are very risky shouldn't borrow money to play these games. But people like you may be very less because most of the addicted gamblers don't think about the future but for that movement they need a money to play these games so they will tell all kinds of stories to raise funds from others and after losing that money then they will realize their mistake when need to face other kinds of issues.
I never tried to gamble someone else money. Even if i am addicted to gambling and even i lose my budget for 1 month in gambling i never thought of borrowing money to someone just to gamble the reason is that i know the risk in gambling and if i lose that money that i owe to someone i will be increasing my problem and for me it is hard to fix too many problems.
What your doing is right because even after you know these games are very risky shouldn't borrow money to play these games. But people like you may be very less because most of the addicted gamblers don't think about the future but for that movement they need a money to play these games so they will tell all kinds of stories to raise funds from others and after losing that money then they will realize their mistake when need to face other kinds of issues.
I never tried to gamble someone else money. Even if i am addicted to gambling and even i lose my budget for 1 month in gambling i never thought of borrowing money to someone just to gamble the reason is that i know the risk in gambling and if i lose that money that i owe to someone i will be increasing my problem and for me it is hard to fix too many problems.
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.
Here is some tips from me, hope it will fix you :
- do not gamble with the money you cannot afford to lose
- do not make gamble as your priority
- go get a real job, and do not use gambling as your job
- always know that there is always a possibility of cheater
- if you already in debt, you must find a job to pay it
- you must realize that gambling cannot pay your debt
- gambling only make your debt worse, unless you are lucky
- do not depend your life on luck
- etc
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.
Sadly, there are problem gamblers who haven't realized that and they keep on playing gambling hoping that winning in it will solve all of their financial problems. But of course, it is not like dreams because in reality, the possibility of losing many times is greater causing that problem gambler to lose more money and worsts, to have more debts.
Stopping on playing gambling is not as easy as we say it especially if it became a habit already.
That is indeed a sad truth, but it is not anyone's fault but the gambler himself. Sometimes our judgement is clouded by our problems and that further causes a lot more problems for us. When we are in debt especially, we become really desperate and we try all crazy things like gambling to try our luck and see if we would be able to get out of our financial problems only to realize that it will just further bury us in debt.
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.
Sadly, there are problem gamblers who haven't realized that and they keep on playing gambling hoping that winning in it will solve all of their financial problems. But of course, it is not like dreams because in reality, the possibility of losing many times is greater causing that problem gambler to lose more money and worsts, to have more debts.
Stopping on playing gambling is not as easy as we say it especially if it became a habit already.
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is really important to stop gambling. It will be impossible to change or "fix" your(his) life if that person will keep gambling. It's possible to pay every debt though, it just takes time. He should find a job so that he would have monthly income first.
If anybody is in debt because of gambling the it's your fault and no one else, not the community and surely not the site you play but its basically because of lack of self control. When I hear people run into debt because of gambling, I just imagine how that is possible if there is self restraint.
I don't think I can get involved to the point of betting all that I have, and then still go out to borrow from people to still play. When someone do something like that, they should be sentenced to remand homes for the rest of their lives because they have not only fail themselves but also failed humanity and so they lose the morality to live among rational thinking individuals.
I think that's taking it way too far, science hasn't even figured out why some people get addicted while others do not. I don't think I can get involved to the point of betting all that I have, and then still go out to borrow from people to still play. When someone do something like that, they should be sentenced to remand homes for the rest of their lives because they have not only fail themselves but also failed humanity and so they lose the morality to live among rational thinking individuals.
You should have some sympathy for people who are suffering to addiction, I know they do a lot of damage to their environment and/or family, but I don't think it's 100% due to 'lack of self control'.
People should who are that addicted to gambling should have the chance to get treatment for their addiction and have a chance to recover and pay everything back or file for bankruptcy.
I once told my cousin to get help recently cause he kept thinking he would win all he has lost from gambling back and he kept losing them all still. Most people who are gambling and addicted to it today did not start gambling for fun but they thought it will make them rich over night and that is just being lazy.
Make money outside gambling as there are so many ways and get out there to have fun if you wish. It is just like habit and it totally depends on the person to realize that they need help.
I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.
I have seen people confessing their difficulties on this forum. If you will open some previous pages, you will definitely found some stories. There are people who have come to the verge of committing suicide because they have no money and above that they have to pay debts. Without any income source, the only way they see out of all problems is to kill the relation between their bodies and souls
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed.I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it.
This type of consultancy relating your future would help you recover the losses and change the darker side of life into something beautiful and colored.
I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.
It's normal that gamblers deny that they're addicted on gambling, as much as they can they will keep it secret or pretend that they can still manage it, even they are in debts they will keep on playing it.As I've said gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts and they need to realize that it will not cause good on them. I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.
It's normal that gamblers deny that they're addicted on gambling, as much as they can they will keep it secret or pretend that they can still manage it, even they are in debts they will keep on playing it.As I've said gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts and they need to realize that it will not cause good on them. 
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
To all people who have been experiencing this kind of situation I am sincerely want you to know that you can still get up and go back on track on life. As For me, I didn't get a loan for gambling, everything that I've wasted on gambling is hard earned money that's why the emotional suffering is very long and tiring but it is only a simple decision that changed my life and that is to STOP and from that decision everything changed.I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
For the people who are in debt. Decide to stop playing, find a regular job and slowly pay your debts, yes it is really hard but i assure you from that decision you will start to change your life slowly, it will be worth it.
It's kinda weird to link the lost of money to lost of love ones. I would say they are quite different. No matter what you do, you cannot bring back a dead loved one. But if money is lost, there is always a chance you can get it back and likely a lot more can be had. I dont think it is a good analogy to compare money with love ones. That's just sad.
You lose close ones, you will suffer and suffering is same, just painful and also losing someone does not mean to lose his body or physical appearance. Moreover, there are gamblers who have committed suicide that means recovering from it is not very simple.
I doubt if there is anybody who will admit that he is a problematic gambler who is in debt as a result of that. If we have such individual then the is need for therapy because its obvious he has not stopped to be here. I gamble as well but not to the point of using someone else's resources for that purpose and even my own money, there is a limit that I can go to gamble with it. When that is known before hand, problem and troubles will be avoided.
It's depend on gambler's religion and family support since that the most important in order to recover their mental before getting worse
Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
That's true. If we have a healthy mind, we can have a better life. Getting worse is also depend on a person if they are not determine to stop in gambling. They get buried in debt because of their addiction in gambling. If we have a good mind, we will not going to think of having a loan just to play gambling.Of course , it's need some time to pay their debt but with healthy mind, everything will go smooth later
They did not give up by the way , just keep tryimg to recover it.
That was a bad decision indeed , they are getting addicted , lost so much but cannot stop to play.
Gaining happiness from big loss isn't an instant thing, it's a process that someone needs to go through. The feeling of being a depressed gambler is hard to deal with.
If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.
They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.
It is true that most of us go through such phases in our life when we have been into something really awful turning into a huge loss at the end. This is something quite common nowadays. If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.
They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.
The only thing that could change the worst scenario of feeling regretful into something bearable is that your parents provide you emotional support to go through it in quite a better way than facing the hardship alone.
Gaining happiness from big loss isn't an instant thing, it's a process that someone needs to go through. The feeling of being a depressed gambler is hard to deal with.
If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.
They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.
It is true that most of us go through such phases in our life when we have been into something really awful turning into a huge loss at the end. This is something quite common nowadays. If you are aware on this feeling or you are experiencing this right now, you must go seek your parents as they are the one that will understand you and will never blame you with your wrong doings.
They are the best people that can give you happiness, trust me.
The only thing that could change the worst scenario of feeling regretful into something bearable is that your parents provide you emotional support to go through it in quite a better way than facing the hardship alone.
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