I knew a guy who had the same problem as you. He came asking me to loan him money so gave. When i demanded him to pay me back after a while he was giving me excuses every time. Then he opned up to me and told me about his problem. He was i serious problem because his depts were too high and he couldn't pay back since he is jobless and thought gambling will provide him money. He lost most of his properties and he still haven't collect enough money.
His life became such a mess and i did what i could to help him by giving him advice. We lost contact now. Too bad to see gambling leeds to that kind of situation.
Topic: Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ? - page 6. (Read 3416 times)
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I had also faced the same situation and was in very bad debt but after coming to bitcoin and sports betting i started to recover my loss and now earning decent bitcoin through lot of tasks.
Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.
I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .
Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.
I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him.
but this would be impossible
because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering
except for his parents who helped him
and this is real happening,
friends can only help morally.
this may be of little help to us
and for the next we must be able to try to get out of debt.
and I'm a little suggesting here to keep our own effort without asking anyone to help pay off the debt.
because if we can get out of debt by own business of course we will be happier when that time happens
A gambler needs attention from friends or any family member, that's why it kept on a recurring situation that they went on debt most of the time. They've seek attention most of the time from their reliable sources, and borrowed more money just to satisfy their gambling motives. Getting out of a debt will not happen if a gambler doesn't change his attitude and never cut the gambling activities he had in his life.
meaning gambling is not suitable for the job
the best advice is to avoid and get out of gambling.
but all of this will come true when many people support it mentally.
because the gambler must be approached emotionally.
so that they realize that gambling will only make them miserable in life
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
Be smart and accept if you loss in a certain day because you still have a chance to win tomorrow, what's necessary is to always spend based on your limit as gambling is a big risk game that does not guarantee a win.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
Be smart and accept if you loss in a certain day because you still have a chance to win tomorrow, what's necessary is to always spend based on your limit as gambling is a big risk game that does not guarantee a win.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
Be smart and accept if you loss in a certain day because you still have a chance to win tomorrow, what's necessary is to always spend based on your limit as gambling is a big risk game that does not guarantee a win.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
If it's difficult to get the money back why then gamble for fun? Because yo are going to loose more gambling for fun that is why I agree with your earlier statement that he shouldn't repeat the same mistake by gambling with a borrowed money because that makes us irresponsible as gamblers.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
If it's difficult to get the money back why then gamble for fun? Because yo are going to loose more gambling for fun that is why I agree with your earlier statement that he shouldn't repeat the same mistake by gambling with a borrowed money because that makes us irresponsible as gamblers.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I think it's strange (not impossible) that you can basically go from being addicted to gambling to gambling casually.
Once you're a problem gambler, it's so difficult to even quit and nearly impossible to not become addicted again once you start gambling 'for fun' again.
There's a good reason why alcoholics for example need to quit drinking altogether and can't have another drink anymore after they've gone into rehab or whatever.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
Probably, the main problem of gambling is, people forget the basic rule, only gamble what you can afford to loose, those people who enjoyed playing gamble, but they also suffered and struggled their debt. The salary isn't enough for the family to provide, that's why more loans was overdue because of the gamble is giving more priority rather than family necessities. There's nothing wrong with gambling if you intend to do just for fun and always be mindful of every amount you gamble.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?
This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I think staying away from gambling is the best thing to do, because thats what I did when I was in debt but not that much, around $5,000 and I sold some of my appliances. No matter what, dont ever sold or pawn your house. While when I was in debt I was looking for a way to double or atleast make half of my income every month, I also talked to the person that I owe. I work hard for it, and staying away from gambling as much as possible , Then slowly I was paying for my debt till I finished paying.
Its up to a person whether he wants to recover as early as possible or stay losser forever. We have different mindset with different personality. Recovering from debts is the only way to regain their happiness. Stay away from gambling for a while now, he can go back from gambling after he recovered but with extreme precaution and self control.
In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.
Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.
I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.
Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.
Gambling is not a life of happiness but just one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then, there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. We have to know better about ourselves so that we could be calm and realized if how gambling affects to our life if we going to debt of its.
I lost a lot but never came to a big debt into where I cant recover no more.
But I have some advice with those who have those problems in gambling.
They may need to create a new hobby just so they will forget to gamble for a minute, an hour or a day.
If that certain hobby could be found then it might go well.
That is all I did. Returned to playing online games until I realize I am not gambling to a larger extent anymore.
But I have some advice with those who have those problems in gambling.
They may need to create a new hobby just so they will forget to gamble for a minute, an hour or a day.
If that certain hobby could be found then it might go well.
That is all I did. Returned to playing online games until I realize I am not gambling to a larger extent anymore.
You are one of them, which i like, i like your type of gambler. If everyone understand it, then only we play gambling for fun and have a skill to control ourself but people have greediness. It is not a fault if we are greedy, its human nature, we want more and then more, then gambling is money game, we see money then pneumatically we become greedy, but sensible gamblers have a skills to control it and save ourself from debt.
I lost a lot but never came to a big debt into where I cant recover no more.
But I have some advice with those who have those problems in gambling.
They may need to create a new hobby just so they will forget to gamble for a minute, an hour or a day.
If that certain hobby could be found then it might go well.
That is all I did. Returned to playing online games until I realize I am not gambling to a larger extent anymore.
The main problems are that they lose everything they have in their wallets. Even they lose not only their profits from bitcoin but also their investments if they have any, because the gambling is very worst thing and those who are addicted of gambling never stop till they win or lose everything. Many people I have seen in my life became mentally disturbed due to gambling because they have lost everything. But I have some advice with those who have those problems in gambling.
They may need to create a new hobby just so they will forget to gamble for a minute, an hour or a day.
If that certain hobby could be found then it might go well.
That is all I did. Returned to playing online games until I realize I am not gambling to a larger extent anymore.
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