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December 08, 2017, 10:33:38 PM
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I'm one of that history, a gambler who are in debts. I  use to be an addict gambler before even l almost a loser for straight 2 months l used to go back gambling until I have a lot of debts. It's like lm a Criminal people hunting me because of my debts. I'm hiding anywhere like no where to run. Until my aunt help me to get out of this situation. I feel so shame to all people especially in our community because my father is a barrangay official. That's the biggest embarrassing moment in my life that give me a lesson in life.
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December 08, 2017, 09:10:30 PM
We are always responsible of our actions or decisions. In gambling we always bear in mind that its a game of luck. Its a high risk investment. However, human as we are tend to become overwhelmed in the events that we have lots of winnings. And human as we are, has the attitude of being unsatisfied. We want to compete and dream more. The worst thing is when its beyond our means. Personally, I think we just need a self discipline and self control. Its so easy to say it but we really need it. To lookback and think twice before we decide. Specially for the times when we get overwhelmed.

self discipline and self control is the important thing that we should have. but if we are in debt, I don't think that we can risk the money from our debt to playing gambling. there is no guarantee for us to win more money with that money. and if we don't have good control and discipline, we can use that money to playing gambling.
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December 08, 2017, 08:27:55 PM
We are always responsible of our actions or decisions. In gambling we always bear in mind that its a game of luck. Its a high risk investment. However, human as we are tend to become overwhelmed in the events that we have lots of winnings. And human as we are, has the attitude of being unsatisfied. We want to compete and dream more. The worst thing is when its beyond our means. Personally, I think we just need a self discipline and self control. Its so easy to say it but we really need it. To lookback and think twice before we decide. Specially for the times when we get overwhelmed.
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December 08, 2017, 03:36:36 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Some people who do this kind of stuff totally end up mistaking gambling for a way to earn a living. You are right, there are so many people like this and the painful part is that they keep running from debt into debt when they could just use the funds to do something tangible with their life rather than trying to chase or recover losses.
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December 07, 2017, 09:38:34 PM
Wouldn't it be more of a problem if you state that you are in debt from gambling too much?
People would be putting it more into prospective for themselves.
Which could cause it to be a problem for them to accept if they truly are in a problem state because of gambling.

I wouldn't like to say if I am or not.

Gamblers didn't proclaim themselves on having addiction on gambling, much more telling that they are in debts, it's not new that they keep on denying such situations but they should realize the effects it can gives once their into much debt, they might lise everything so better have control.
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December 07, 2017, 07:29:40 PM
Wouldn't it be more of a problem if you state that you are in debt from gambling too much?
People would be putting it more into prospective for themselves.
Which could cause it to be a problem for them to accept if they truly are in a problem state because of gambling.

I wouldn't like to say if I am or not.
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December 07, 2017, 07:27:01 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.

Some people are really addict on gambling that they will do everything just to get some money and using money that comes from a debt is not really good for this purpose. Lots of people are doing bad things to other people just to have money so they can gamble and worst cases they killed people. If you don't want to end up like this, then stop doing bad things just to gamble.

Addicted gambler always in a debt, because he never know about his limitation in gambling, he use money and lost, again he use money and lost and then he borrow money to others, also he used his borrow money in gambling. This situation is continue and in the end his hand is empty but his hand full of debt.   
All the gamblers I know are in debt and I think they are used with the life they have. I think if they will not stop gambling they will never be out of debt its sad that they come to that point, gambling is supposed to be fun and not a problem.
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December 07, 2017, 05:25:36 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.

Some people are really addict on gambling that they will do everything just to get some money and using money that comes from a debt is not really good for this purpose. Lots of people are doing bad things to other people just to have money so they can gamble and worst cases they killed people. If you don't want to end up like this, then stop doing bad things just to gamble.

It's really a big problem having a debt as long as to have a capital for gambling, very impractical.They do as there bad habit which also being part on there life. It makes there life ruin and financial as well, they didn't discipline there self. I would say much better let there self go in the rehabilitation so that they can be discipline enough on the different program of rehabilitation center. Also, being a gambler will create struggle as a breadwinner that makes there financial support didn't met the budgeted amount for there daily needs.
If you are a family man then you are really putting your family on a ruined future since when it comes to financial aspect it would really be mainly affected due to such addiction into gambling. Debt is normal for those people who are on this state which they wouldnt care if they would borrow others money to play gambling and serve as a capital without even thinking on the possible risk or outcome later on.
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December 07, 2017, 05:14:40 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.

Some people are really addict on gambling that they will do everything just to get some money and using money that comes from a debt is not really good for this purpose. Lots of people are doing bad things to other people just to have money so they can gamble and worst cases they killed people. If you don't want to end up like this, then stop doing bad things just to gamble.

It's really a big problem having a debt as long as to have a capital for gambling, very impractical.They do as there bad habit which also being part on there life. It makes there life ruin and financial as well, they didn't discipline there self. I would say much better let there self go in the rehabilitation so that they can be discipline enough on the different program of rehabilitation center. Also, being a gambler will create struggle as a breadwinner that makes there financial support didn't met the budgeted amount for there daily needs.
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December 07, 2017, 01:17:16 AM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.

Some people are really addict on gambling that they will do everything just to get some money and using money that comes from a debt is not really good for this purpose. Lots of people are doing bad things to other people just to have money so they can gamble and worst cases they killed people. If you don't want to end up like this, then stop doing bad things just to gamble.

Addicted gambler always in a debt, because he never know about his limitation in gambling, he use money and lost, again he use money and lost and then he borrow money to others, also he used his borrow money in gambling. This situation is continue and in the end his hand is empty but his hand full of debt.   
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December 07, 2017, 12:32:55 AM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.

Some people are really addict on gambling that they will do everything just to get some money and using money that comes from a debt is not really good for this purpose. Lots of people are doing bad things to other people just to have money so they can gamble and worst cases they killed people. If you don't want to end up like this, then stop doing bad things just to gamble.
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December 06, 2017, 09:46:20 AM
Something that bothers me so much, is hearing people who aren't actual gamblers, brag/glamorize the whole gaming industry....  As if its fun, cool, etc....


I know they say it not understanding, but as a person who is excluded from 14 casinos in 3 different states, I will never understand how it became acceptable, yet drugs and alcohol are universally looked at as bad...


It's  a shame....


but anyways....

Good luck everyone
You really cannot blame anyone for the life they have chosen and the truth is that it amuses me too when I see people considering gambling as fun.

Gambling is just like a way to get all your funds sucked up and the only people benefiting from it are those who own the casinos, both offline and online while those who see it as fun or are trying to make quick money from it are just trying to manage with the little they have and end up dashing it all out to those who already have more than them. However, like I said, it is the world we live in and different strokes for different folks.
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December 06, 2017, 07:07:42 AM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Yes, it oftenly happens if a person is already addicted in gambling, much more if his capital is compromise and he continue back to play for his loses and the tendency is he was burry in debt just aiming to win back. So to avoid this situation then we should always put a limit or control in gambling and think always that gambling should not be our first priority.
Yes, Everything is good in limits but if you are crossing the limits, sooner or later you are going to get into some big trouble. People often don’t understand this thing and in order to win back their losses, they gamble too much but unfortunately they keep losing money.

Usually they borrow money from others in order to recover their losses and keep going in debt in this way. The only way to avoid this situation is to put some limits on yourself while gambling.
When you loose in gambling there is big possibilities that you cannot recover your money or may be a very slim opportunity, because  I've hear lot of  story about life ruin because of gambling addicting. one factor that would stop you from being gambling addict is self control you set limitations in your self, you set priorities in your life. but once a person is in a worst gambling addiction in which he or she in debt. the best thing that we should do is to seek a professional help like psychologist that can do counseling.


Always it is being said that only play with the amount that one can actually lose. But there are so many people who are so addicted to this that inspite of losing the big amount they still take loan or borrow money from friends and relatives to win the lost amount in gamble.  This happens to those who does not have any control on themselves.

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December 06, 2017, 05:42:25 AM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Yes, it oftenly happens if a person is already addicted in gambling, much more if his capital is compromise and he continue back to play for his loses and the tendency is he was burry in debt just aiming to win back. So to avoid this situation then we should always put a limit or control in gambling and think always that gambling should not be our first priority.
Yes, Everything is good in limits but if you are crossing the limits, sooner or later you are going to get into some big trouble. People often don’t understand this thing and in order to win back their losses, they gamble too much but unfortunately they keep losing money.

Usually they borrow money from others in order to recover their losses and keep going in debt in this way. The only way to avoid this situation is to put some limits on yourself while gambling.
When you loose in gambling there is big possibilities that you cannot recover your money or may be a very slim opportunity, because  I've hear lot of  story about life ruin because of gambling addicting. one factor that would stop you from being gambling addict is self control you set limitations in your self, you set priorities in your life. but once a person is in a worst gambling addiction in which he or she in debt. the best thing that we should do is to seek a professional help like psychologist that can do counseling.
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December 06, 2017, 02:39:34 AM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Yes, it oftenly happens if a person is already addicted in gambling, much more if his capital is compromise and he continue back to play for his loses and the tendency is he was burry in debt just aiming to win back. So to avoid this situation then we should always put a limit or control in gambling and think always that gambling should not be our first priority.
Yes, Everything is good in limits but if you are crossing the limits, sooner or later you are going to get into some big trouble. People often don’t understand this thing and in order to win back their losses, they gamble too much but unfortunately they keep losing money.

Usually they borrow money from others in order to recover their losses and keep going in debt in this way. The only way to avoid this situation is to put some limits on yourself while gambling.
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December 04, 2017, 01:57:07 AM
Ive been there. Being addicted in gambling, had debts and forgot my responsibilty to my kids as a parent. I managed to overcome those dark past by moving on with the help of my family. I had to go out of town and stay in the province for almost a year while my parents repaid my debts. I got a job when i get back and things are going smooth, all went well and i paid my parents for my debts. Now im still playing but fully aware of how far should i go. I gamble for fun and i learned from the past. Now i have job, business and btc investment. I wont do the same mistakes again. Dont dwell in the past and think of a way to overcome your agony.
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December 03, 2017, 06:10:31 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.
Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.

If you're already in debt because of gambling addiction, then you're in poor condition and have no money. Usually people who are addicted to gambling are people who have a lot of money or just a rich person who can enjoy gambling. But if you're already in debt, that means you have to realize that gambling is not going to make your debts get paid off. Gambling will only exacerbate your debt, and you have to find a real job that can pay off your debt. Stop gambling, and relieve all your mistakes in the past, now is the time for you to be realistic and make your family happy.
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December 03, 2017, 05:38:18 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Yes, it oftenly happens if a person is already addicted in gambling, much more if his capital is compromise and he continue back to play for his loses and the tendency is he was burry in debt just aiming to win back. So to avoid this situation then we should always put a limit or control in gambling and think always that gambling should not be our first priority.

For some people, gambling provides a temporary respite from their problems so they make ways to keep on gambling. Imagine for example, you're depressed and gambling is one of the things that can comfort you but you don't have money. Ita normal that these people do something and go as far as even stealing just to fund their gambling

That's the worst thing any gambler could  do, how can you gamble to solve your problems? You loose and you compound it unless money isn't a problem else i agree with you that they are easily plunged into addiction and could end up stealing and taking loans to fund their gambling games.
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December 03, 2017, 05:30:39 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Yes, it oftenly happens if a person is already addicted in gambling, much more if his capital is compromise and he continue back to play for his loses and the tendency is he was burry in debt just aiming to win back. So to avoid this situation then we should always put a limit or control in gambling and think always that gambling should not be our first priority.

For some people, gambling provides a temporary respite from their problems so they make ways to keep on gambling. Imagine for example, you're depressed and gambling is one of the things that can comfort you but you don't have money. Ita normal that these people do something and go as far as even stealing just to fund their gambling
Everyone of us has our own way of coping and dealing with our problems so if someone prefer to do gambling just to divert or forget whatever they are going then we can't really tell that person not to do gambling. I think the best advice we can give them is try not to get addicted in gambling, I guess if the sole purpose of gambling is just for fun then getting addicted in gambling will not be that problem.

Oh yeah, even how many people hear there different advices it will still end up on your own decision. Gambling is game that might ruin your financial aspects that will can have more debts and loan everywhere in order to survived the daily needs. Being addicted in gambling is not easily to cure, if you can't control anymore much better let yourself go to rehabilitation in order to cure enough. Lastly, if you don't want to ruin your financial just stop gamble or else it will end up a misery status of your life.
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December 03, 2017, 02:09:31 PM
The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

Not also addictive gambler but also problem gambler. Losing on gambling is really bad and with debt on it will make it worst. The person can easily go suicide if this happened, because they have nothing left. The sad is there are many people like this, using debt on gambling and hope they can win to payback the debt.
Yes, it oftenly happens if a person is already addicted in gambling, much more if his capital is compromise and he continue back to play for his loses and the tendency is he was burry in debt just aiming to win back. So to avoid this situation then we should always put a limit or control in gambling and think always that gambling should not be our first priority.

For some people, gambling provides a temporary respite from their problems so they make ways to keep on gambling. Imagine for example, you're depressed and gambling is one of the things that can comfort you but you don't have money. Ita normal that these people do something and go as far as even stealing just to fund their gambling
Everyone of us has our own way of coping and dealing with our problems so if someone prefer to do gambling just to divert or forget whatever they are going then we can't really tell that person not to do gambling. I think the best advice we can give them is try not to get addicted in gambling, I guess if the sole purpose of gambling is just for fun then getting addicted in gambling will not be that problem.
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