Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 21. (Read 9750 times)

It's actually not an easy task to make a gambler quit his gambling activities especially the addicted gamblers because not matter how you try to make them see reasons why they should stop gambling, they'll still want to gamble more. I've seen a gambler who was sent to the rehabilitation center before but still went back to gambling immediately he regained freedom from the rehab he was sent to.
Now that's why I think it's more necessary to convince  addicted gambleyr to accept that their addiction isn't good and would be very detrimental to their future. Make them see enough reasons to understand that gambling isn't good for them, accept to do away with gambling before sending them to a rehab facility to finally talk them out of gambling while engaging in other more meaningful things that'll help them forget about gambling

That is the first thing,knowing when to stop and acknowledging that you are addicted,that will serve the first purpose to try and to solve that problem of addiction.When a gambler acknowledges that he has problem and that he has fallen into addiction it would be easier for him to break out of the addiction than someone else who does not realize that he is addicted.For these later type of addicted persons only rehab centers are their only hope to get out of addiction,that is the only difference between heavily addicted persons and persons who has just acknowledged that they are addicted.It is easy to get out once you acknowledge things.

When a therapist can make a gambling addict feel something different from undergoing a healing session, maybe slowly, there will be changes in the gambling addict so that they will feel that what they are currently doing is working and making a difference, even though it is not very significant. The therapist also needs to grow the self-confidence of the gambling addict so that he can see that everyone has a second chance, which must be used well so that when he starts undergoing therapy sessions, he can feel that the second chance has started to come to him. He must use it as well as possible. -good. With the support of his family, who continues to accompany him throughout the therapy process, it is what can give him new enthusiasm to be able to quit gambling forever. He could also see genuine concern from everyone who helped him through the therapy sessions, and if he had questions, he would ask someone who understood and would get the answers. He could feel the sincere and warm love of his family waiting for him to return home.

The issue is mainly recurrent issues, like being left behind as kids, not being attended to when they wanted something as a child. If they can be turned to believe that they're good enough, showing them, their idea matters etc. The gambler's sense of good humor will be restored. These are the few things that makes therapy easy for both the client and the therapist. In the sense that if the gambler who wants to quit is not allowed to express properly his feelings. He won't have a close relationship with the therapist. Also the therapist must also make effective responses to the ideas of the client. To make the client feel belonged and also open a space in his heart to see the therapist as his friend. Once this is achieved the whole process of changing a gambler gets simpler. If his family is caring enough to follow him to his therapy sessions it'll be a good move. Just to be sure he's going there. But, it's still rare to find such a caring home. Most families barely care about being this kind. And it worsens the gambler's situation. It also gets worse when the therapist doesn't know the right question and answers that'll bring the gambler to trust him with their problems. And open up to discuss further about how it all began. But, if he's lucky enough to find one that asks contributing questions that can change the perspective of the gambler to a better one. Then, the gambler will do his best to change and become a better person for his family and friends.

But help and support from the family is really needed by gambling and drug addicts because from there, they can see that their family will always be there for them and want to accompany them during their recovery period. Those who are addicted to gambling and drugs will also have the enthusiasm to continue to persevere during their recovery period, so perhaps this will speed up the therapy process because the addicted person will see that they have the opportunity to cure their addiction. They will not doubt themselves and can change things for the better. That is why the presence of his family can add to his enthusiasm for life because he sees that his family always accompanies him during therapy sessions and waits for him outside after he finishes his therapy period.

There's a rehabilitation center for those addicted to every thing especially drugs and gambling related addiction, It is helpful to a person who don't have a family to take care of them and You're right! If a person is willing to get better, He will put his best to avoid every thing that may affects him to become obsess in a thing. It's easy to be said but we can't say that in order to become responsible gambler, people should learn to have a self control but in reality, once you're in the situation, You can't control it.

Your friend is a good example that other drug addicts should emulate so that they realize their mistakes, are willing to change for the better, and have a strong desire to cure themselves of drug addiction. He is lucky that his family really supports him in curing his drug addiction. If there is a person who is addicted to gambling and has a family who continues to give him encouragement and support to heal himself, that person will see that there is a family who has not abandoned him and continues to help him to cure his gambling addiction.

If more gambling addicts realize their mistakes and want to stop their addiction, more gambling addicts will be able to recover from their gambling addiction. It will definitely reduce the number of gambling addictions that exist in one place, and it will definitely be an example for other cities in dealing with gambling addiction.

Good practice will allow you to add enjoyment to what you do, participating in gambling most of the time ends up losing your money, if you manage to make some and call for the day then it's  a good win for you, it's not always that you can make money so better to make a good use of that opportunity to enjoy and to celebrate using that winning amount.

Right! Just like myself whenever i do make out some profits or wins on gambling for about $100 or more then i would really be calling it a day and never ever would be considering on continuing to play
because we do have that reality about that house do always win at the end on which on the time that you would really be making out some further gambling for the hopes of winning more
then you might really be losing all of those winnings back into the casino which it isnt really that great to feel at. Gambling isnt bad as long you do make yourself that responsible on what things you've been doing because if you do just simply ignore the risks and tolerate out your addiction then it would really be bringing up some disaster.

There is nothing easy so we need to make good decisions that would help us to be a better persons than just betting and having the mindset of winning something bigger. Betting is merely difficult and if we know how to find our way and bey with consistent winnings, then we are lucky and being skillful if we are using gambling strategy to bet and make winnings for ourselves. The people that could see gambling as an easy way to make money are people that have strong experience in gambling and that had made lots of profits.

If happens that you got lucky, it'sway better to quit and enjoy your money, becuase if you will continue and will try to add more chances that you will lose it all again is possible, call for the day and enjoy your earnings, practicing that kind of mindset will allow you make sure that you are in control and there's nothing that will lead you to any potential addictions.

Left gambling is not easy. Those who started gambling that person know the starting journey. Journey isn't easy we have to learn a lot gain more experience invest a lot of time. Sometimes faces a amount of losses after all of that those person who stay in it. Again do practice after all of that a person learn gambling. It's not easy journey to learn That's why quit gambling it's too hard because the learning journey is not easy and after learning this this is a great income source.

The path is difficult but not lonely. Family support can do much in this fight. We must remember that everyone's healing process is distinct. Family support is crucial, but addiction experts, therapists, and support groups can also help. These tools provide systematic guidance for recovery with family support.

Also, provide an environment where people may talk and trust one other. Families must understand addiction to support their loved ones. To know what makes them struggle and what sends them off, you must go beyond telling them their duties.

Your friend was right to ask his family for help. Gambling addicts must first recognize they need help. Creating a family and professional support system may lead to long-term healing. Getting over an addiction entails starting over with your life, not just quitting.

This can be deceiving at first glance. In gambling it is better to never say the word “never”. Surely there are players who also thought that everything was for fun, and then there was a click in the head or something triggered (this could be failures in life or increased stress at work or in a relationship with your wife). I still continue to listen to interviews with gamblers and never cease to be amazed at this fine line and the frivolity of how they decided to bet everything on their lives.

You are wrong,  gambling addiction destroys the brain, if you don't know, you should know now.
Anybody in their normal self can think, come up with healthy ideas of what they can do to make money, like a business, a job or anything that is completely legitimate.

But a gambling addict, who is short of money to gamble can never come up with a legitimate way means of making money, rather, they will think of ways to make really quick money so they can bet on the next game, which is what drives many of such people into stealing from other people, this in a sane society can not be considered as a method of recovery, but a method of further destruction.

And yes, addicted gamblers becomes dumber by each and every passing day, since they no longer think of anything else, aside from gambling, being addicted to gambling is not something anybody involved should be proud of, for it completely destroys.

yep, you managed to understand what I said and all this is just about how the family tries and how the gambler tries to recover from his addiction and if he has a strong desire he will continue to respect whatever his family suggests and I remember a closer example of a friend I was addicted to drugs and in prison when he was released from prison he realized his bad habit of using drugs and finally he had a commitment to recover and told his family to help cure his addiction and asked his family for help if he did the wrong thing and had to be reminded.

In the scenario that I am telling you, this could be an example for gambling addicts. If they already have the awareness to stop their addiction, it would be better to ask for help from the family, tell me honestly and I am quite sure that no matter how bad it is, the family will be happy to provide help.

Imo, instead of "destroying humans intelligence" it instead triggers human brain to create new and new methods to recover losses and where to get extra money for gambling. Addicted gamblers dont become dumber, instead they became creative in search for new money, because simple asking other for a loan might no longer work. Their brain work on 100% and with time such people burn, became broke and crazy.

If a gambler gets too addicted to gambling then he should quit gambling at that time but if we can keep our control over gambling and keep our profit and loss then I don't think gambling is harmful for us. I am not addicted to gambling but choose gambling only as a fun and alternative site for income. Since most of the gambling has a high profit margin for me, I am not deciding to quit gambling at the moment. 
I will stop gambling when it feels wrong to me but I still don't think gambling is wrong so I will continue to gamble. I would advise those who need to borrow money from others to gamble to avoid gambling. Those who gamble with their earnings and who have control over their gambling can continue to gamble.

If we continue to indulge in gambling then we will not be able to manage the risks in gambling, the reactions of winning and losing as you mentioned above have an impact on behavior that is not recommended in gambling because if you win you will chase other wins and if you lose you will add more money to can recover losses on the next bet, if you always do these activities it will result in gambling addiction and the solution is to apply limits on the use of funds to limit gambling activities, if you are lucky to get a win or jackpot then it is better to stop betting to withdraw all the funds, if you bet again tomorrow then use funds according to the limit for daily gambling.

Just like I already mentioned in one of the thread that have a similar title to this one on how to exit gambling addictions and how it is better to avoid getting hit by addiction since getting out is not an easy task for the addicts but it is better to protect yourself from sliding into addictions at some point.

A lot of gamblers have become uncontrollably addicted and this has resulted in a lot of negative outcomes in their life and how they relate to their immediate environments,  such that some have run bankrupt even though it could been easily avoided such outcome.