Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 21. (Read 10336 times)

The importance of the role of family, no matter how bad it is for us to gamble, don't ever leave your family, let alone not be honest with them that you are a gambler, no one cares about your life, everyone may only be able to give advice and even that may be difficult for you to accept, because addicts will not can be cured only with advice without encouragement from those closest to him. for example, his family is very important.

I know how the process of healing gambling addiction is because I saw my friend do it himself because he had exceeded his normal limits as a gambler so he had to start from himself without having to involve other people, his family only gave him encouragement so that he could recover from his addiction. Finally, after several years, he managed to recover. Now he enjoys life without gambling and is happy with his family.

That is why gamblers who want to consult a therapist must be open enough to talk about their problems in their gambling activities. However, many don't want to admit that they are addicted to gambling, so this makes it difficult for those who want to help because there are always obstacles to starting the process. An experienced therapist will definitely know how to start a conversation with the addict because they already know that each addict's approach will be different, so that the therapist will use different methods too. They will not go straight to the heart of the problem, but they want to get to know the gambling addict first while finding out his background and what the problem is. The therapist will make the gambling addict feel comfortable in his place and will not realize that he is actually undergoing a therapy session. If it succeeds in attracting their attention, gambling addicts will not feel bored or uncomfortable seeing their therapist, and perhaps they will even ask to consult with their therapist when the therapist is not busy. It will create a close relationship between the therapist and the gambling addict so that it will make it easier for the therapist to start other therapy sessions to cure the gambling addict.

Gamblers should be able to rest their minds and bodies from gambling for a few days so that they don't remember what they have experienced. But unfortunately, that only applies to some gamblers, while others still choose to continue gambling so that they will only experience bigger losses. There is clear evidence that they actually have a gambling addiction, but they deny it and say that they are still fine. But if the gambler can resist the urge to return to gambling for a few days and can do other things, he can prevent the gambling addiction because his mind tells him that he must do other things so as not to think about the problem of gambling. He will also realize that he can return to gambling a week later or even a month later, and that is his way of avoiding gambling addiction.

If they can accept reality and admit that they have a gambling addiction, maybe healing will be easier because he has admitted their gambling addiction, and they need help to cure their gambling addiction. It also seems like he would have gotten more help if he had looked worse, so his therapist would have used a different approach as well.

A gambler should have the desire to heal himself. If someone else asks for it, maybe they won't react or won't accept it because there will be rejection from them. But if he accepts reality, he will definitely be willing to try to undergo therapy sessions. Even if he hasn't visited a rehabilitation center, maybe he will want to do something with the people around him to recover from his gambling addiction.

If better understanding and acceptance of their gambling activities dominates then the chance of coping back and trying to recover from this situation may take place, more on how gambler will react and accept his addiction, without that kind of thinking there's difficulty to adjust and to work on it to removed it from your daily activities.

It's your will to move forward and keep that gambling addiction away from you as a gambler, a self-resposibility that only you can fix in terms of completely skipping away.

Actually most of the gambling addicted person can't understand their addiction to the gambling sites after their big loss to the gambling sites.When the loss was happened in the gambling sites,the gambler should pause the game for few days and get the mind away from the gambling for few days.Once their mind was away from the gambling addiction and emotion was controlled.The gambler may start the gambling with small amount of the dollars,So he can understand the current time for the gambler was good or bad.If the gambler possess good time,he can increase the gambling bets,if he again possess the bad luck,it's better to hold for the certain period of time in the gambling.The rehabilitation center was not the good option to get away from the gambling addiction.

If gambling addicts are not aware that they have a gambling addiction that is endangering their lives, they may still return to gambling as usual. There is a possibility that they will gamble more often than usual. But if they are willing to think that what they are doing in gambling has made their lives a mess and are willing to accept that they are addicted to gambling, maybe it won't be too difficult to get them to a rehabilitation center or at least make them want to start doing something that can reduce the level of his gambling addiction. If they can accept and are willing to accept the invitation to change their gambling habits, maybe they don't need to go to a rehabilitation center and just make changes in their life to cure their gambling addiction. But it still requires hard work from the gambling addict and the people who will help him because the temptation of gambling can make him return to gambling again. But if not, the people who help him can advise him to go to a rehabilitation center to get the right treatment for him so that he can immediately do the necessary things to cure his gambling addiction.

It's more of a peer to peer collaboration. The addict must be willing to open up with the therapist, to be able to give him the chances of changing him gradually. The healing process like you said is slow, that's why they'll need to create a friendship bond. Such that they'll never get tired of each other. During this period of emotional relationship, the therapist can know the gambler's dos and don't. Which will help him not to piss him off on the long run. Then causing more problem to the gambler, who may begin to think that nobody truly loves him. But if the therapist is able to understand his questions and make reasonable responses that will convince the gambler that he already understands right from the beginning the genesis of their problem. They'll be good to go. Like discussing freely about this and then offering advice to the gambler gradually. Mistakes that therapists make while trying to change addicted gamblers is that they begin to prescribe advice like it's drug to the addict. Instead of working on building a strong conversation with the addict. Nobody wants to be given numerous advises. It makes them feel less important. The addict only needs a person they can share their problems with and who can contribute the way the addicts wants to hear it. This is the only way, the addict can keep visiting the therapist, whenever he has a session. As he already enjoys the relationship bond he's created with the therapist. We all love having new friends, not just a new one, but a friend that seem to be better than all other friends in terms of changing our bad behaviors. That's the primary aim of a therapist on changing the lives of gambling addicts.

The gambler will stay in the gambling,when they had continuous luck in the gambling,but the gambling was the game.So the gambler who had enough knowledge in the gambling will wait for the good luck in the later game.But the gambler who doesn't know how to handle the loss in the gambling will do the quit of the gambling without informing the co-gambler of the gambling site.The prediction was key for the gambler to complete the winning in the upcoming game,because the random prediction was the negative outcome in the gambling sites.So the gambler who was new to gambler will quit at their first loss into the gambling sites.The practice only help the gambler to made the exact bet into the gambling sites.So the gambler should spend time for the random bet into the gambling sites.

It's actually not an easy task to make a gambler quit his gambling activities especially the addicted gamblers because not matter how you try to make them see reasons why they should stop gambling, they'll still want to gamble more. I've seen a gambler who was sent to the rehabilitation center before but still went back to gambling immediately he regained freedom from the rehab he was sent to.
Now that's why I think it's more necessary to convince  addicted gambleyr to accept that their addiction isn't good and would be very detrimental to their future. Make them see enough reasons to understand that gambling isn't good for them, accept to do away with gambling before sending them to a rehab facility to finally talk them out of gambling while engaging in other more meaningful things that'll help them forget about gambling

That is the first thing,knowing when to stop and acknowledging that you are addicted,that will serve the first purpose to try and to solve that problem of addiction.When a gambler acknowledges that he has problem and that he has fallen into addiction it would be easier for him to break out of the addiction than someone else who does not realize that he is addicted.For these later type of addicted persons only rehab centers are their only hope to get out of addiction,that is the only difference between heavily addicted persons and persons who has just acknowledged that they are addicted.It is easy to get out once you acknowledge things.

When a therapist can make a gambling addict feel something different from undergoing a healing session, maybe slowly, there will be changes in the gambling addict so that they will feel that what they are currently doing is working and making a difference, even though it is not very significant. The therapist also needs to grow the self-confidence of the gambling addict so that he can see that everyone has a second chance, which must be used well so that when he starts undergoing therapy sessions, he can feel that the second chance has started to come to him. He must use it as well as possible. -good. With the support of his family, who continues to accompany him throughout the therapy process, it is what can give him new enthusiasm to be able to quit gambling forever. He could also see genuine concern from everyone who helped him through the therapy sessions, and if he had questions, he would ask someone who understood and would get the answers. He could feel the sincere and warm love of his family waiting for him to return home.

The issue is mainly recurrent issues, like being left behind as kids, not being attended to when they wanted something as a child. If they can be turned to believe that they're good enough, showing them, their idea matters etc. The gambler's sense of good humor will be restored. These are the few things that makes therapy easy for both the client and the therapist. In the sense that if the gambler who wants to quit is not allowed to express properly his feelings. He won't have a close relationship with the therapist. Also the therapist must also make effective responses to the ideas of the client. To make the client feel belonged and also open a space in his heart to see the therapist as his friend. Once this is achieved the whole process of changing a gambler gets simpler. If his family is caring enough to follow him to his therapy sessions it'll be a good move. Just to be sure he's going there. But, it's still rare to find such a caring home. Most families barely care about being this kind. And it worsens the gambler's situation. It also gets worse when the therapist doesn't know the right question and answers that'll bring the gambler to trust him with their problems. And open up to discuss further about how it all began. But, if he's lucky enough to find one that asks contributing questions that can change the perspective of the gambler to a better one. Then, the gambler will do his best to change and become a better person for his family and friends.

But help and support from the family is really needed by gambling and drug addicts because from there, they can see that their family will always be there for them and want to accompany them during their recovery period. Those who are addicted to gambling and drugs will also have the enthusiasm to continue to persevere during their recovery period, so perhaps this will speed up the therapy process because the addicted person will see that they have the opportunity to cure their addiction. They will not doubt themselves and can change things for the better. That is why the presence of his family can add to his enthusiasm for life because he sees that his family always accompanies him during therapy sessions and waits for him outside after he finishes his therapy period.

There's a rehabilitation center for those addicted to every thing especially drugs and gambling related addiction, It is helpful to a person who don't have a family to take care of them and You're right! If a person is willing to get better, He will put his best to avoid every thing that may affects him to become obsess in a thing. It's easy to be said but we can't say that in order to become responsible gambler, people should learn to have a self control but in reality, once you're in the situation, You can't control it.

Your friend is a good example that other drug addicts should emulate so that they realize their mistakes, are willing to change for the better, and have a strong desire to cure themselves of drug addiction. He is lucky that his family really supports him in curing his drug addiction. If there is a person who is addicted to gambling and has a family who continues to give him encouragement and support to heal himself, that person will see that there is a family who has not abandoned him and continues to help him to cure his gambling addiction.

If more gambling addicts realize their mistakes and want to stop their addiction, more gambling addicts will be able to recover from their gambling addiction. It will definitely reduce the number of gambling addictions that exist in one place, and it will definitely be an example for other cities in dealing with gambling addiction.

Good practice will allow you to add enjoyment to what you do, participating in gambling most of the time ends up losing your money, if you manage to make some and call for the day then it's  a good win for you, it's not always that you can make money so better to make a good use of that opportunity to enjoy and to celebrate using that winning amount.

Right! Just like myself whenever i do make out some profits or wins on gambling for about $100 or more then i would really be calling it a day and never ever would be considering on continuing to play
because we do have that reality about that house do always win at the end on which on the time that you would really be making out some further gambling for the hopes of winning more
then you might really be losing all of those winnings back into the casino which it isnt really that great to feel at. Gambling isnt bad as long you do make yourself that responsible on what things you've been doing because if you do just simply ignore the risks and tolerate out your addiction then it would really be bringing up some disaster.

There is nothing easy so we need to make good decisions that would help us to be a better persons than just betting and having the mindset of winning something bigger. Betting is merely difficult and if we know how to find our way and bey with consistent winnings, then we are lucky and being skillful if we are using gambling strategy to bet and make winnings for ourselves. The people that could see gambling as an easy way to make money are people that have strong experience in gambling and that had made lots of profits.

If happens that you got lucky, it'sway better to quit and enjoy your money, becuase if you will continue and will try to add more chances that you will lose it all again is possible, call for the day and enjoy your earnings, practicing that kind of mindset will allow you make sure that you are in control and there's nothing that will lead you to any potential addictions.

Left gambling is not easy. Those who started gambling that person know the starting journey. Journey isn't easy we have to learn a lot gain more experience invest a lot of time. Sometimes faces a amount of losses after all of that those person who stay in it. Again do practice after all of that a person learn gambling. It's not easy journey to learn That's why quit gambling it's too hard because the learning journey is not easy and after learning this this is a great income source.

The path is difficult but not lonely. Family support can do much in this fight. We must remember that everyone's healing process is distinct. Family support is crucial, but addiction experts, therapists, and support groups can also help. These tools provide systematic guidance for recovery with family support.

Also, provide an environment where people may talk and trust one other. Families must understand addiction to support their loved ones. To know what makes them struggle and what sends them off, you must go beyond telling them their duties.

Your friend was right to ask his family for help. Gambling addicts must first recognize they need help. Creating a family and professional support system may lead to long-term healing. Getting over an addiction entails starting over with your life, not just quitting.