The choice to gamble is of the gambler itself. So anybody to blame in themselves. Now it is a common human defense mechanism to shift the blame on another person or object or concept. The moment a gambler realizes this, they will understand their mistake and stop gambling, which does not happen and they continue blaming others.
It is a vicious cycle and but it can be controlled right at the early stage with professional help. Luck does not come with superstition, it comes on its own and in gambling luck will only favor the casino and not the player.
Topic: stop the unnecessary blame on gambling whenever you get unlucky - page 2. (Read 2066 times)
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April 07, 2024, 06:06:51 AM
April 07, 2024, 05:51:49 AM
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And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.
It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.
Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.
Gambling can be tough, but you're in control. Taking responsibility for actions is a powerful tool to have a right mindset on how to have good experience in gambling. Gamblers need to apply some strategies to stick on limits of money and time. Having excuse and blaming others are anxiety that could keep haunting in mind. that is not a healthy situation to have.
Gambling is indeed a realm where personal responsibility and mindset play crucial roles. Acknowledging that each bet, win, or loss is a result of one’s own decisions is crucial. It’s easy to place blame elsewhere, but true growth and enjoyment in gambling come from owning our choices.
In essence, the journey to being a responsible gambler is about embracing accountability, learning from our experiences, and continuously striving to make informed, conscious choices. It’s a mindset that not only applies to gambling but to many aspects of life, fostering a sense of empowerment and resilience.
April 07, 2024, 05:20:31 AM
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And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.
It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.
Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.
Gambling can be tough, but you're in control. Taking responsibility for actions is a powerful tool to have a right mindset on how to have good experience in gambling. Gamblers need to apply some strategies to stick on limits of money and time. Having excuse and blaming others are anxiety that could keep haunting in mind. that is not a healthy situation to have.
April 07, 2024, 04:36:33 AM
Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.
We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
That is basically human nature, not everyone is like that of course but there are many people who are like that of course. This is why I believe that we should be careful with what we are doing, and try to not hurt anyone else.We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
The most common one is towards casinos, most people think that they were scammed because the casino is rigged, but the reality is that casinos ARE rigged, with house edge, a legal way that they let you know before you even start gambling. That house edge literally means you will lose, and people are still shocked that they lose, what did they expected? In the end, let them say whatever they want to say when they lose, there is really nothing to do and we should be considering this as normal.
April 03, 2024, 04:40:02 PM
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Can I blame your nickname ?
I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier and quicker is to blame, then to think.
And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.
It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.
Blaming others is not a good practice of being a gambler, you need to be accountable on your own deeds because no one force you to do that in the first place. Blaming others while you already know that you were the one who failed and you were the one who didn't follow your own rules, you became rash in your actions without knowing what the consequences would be is just a reflection of being an irresponsible gambler for me, you can't admit to yourself the mistakes you made.
April 03, 2024, 05:07:07 AM
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Can I blame your nickname ?
I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier and quicker is to blame, then to think.
And hence the nickname. Always assume are betting wrong, be ready for that, be ready to lose your bet. Enjoy the game, not the potential win. And then maybe, if Lady Luck will smile at you, you can win. But don't count on that.
It is a truth universally acknowledged, that blaming others for our losses is a bad practice. We all know that, but we forget about it sometimes.
March 31, 2024, 09:40:06 AM
Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.
We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
Well, that's what happened all along. They easily blame other people for what they get from gambling. They say that this is because other people do not agree with them.We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
We will not be able to change their attitude like that. They will just be like that and will continue to blame the people around them if they lose. Just leave them like that and we should avoid them. I also avoid people like that just because I don't want to be blamed by them.
They should immediately realize what they are doing. Otherwise, they will lose out on what they do. No one would want to be around them if only to be blamed.
There might still be a chance for these blamer gambler to change, most especially if we talk about their problem and suggest them things that they can do about it. They need a help, so we should not avoid them even though it can be hard for us at first, if we are not used to being blamed.
March 27, 2024, 06:11:24 AM
I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".
It should be like that. But as you know, most gamblers never really think about the consequences that will happen to them when gambling. I agree with the OP that there are some gamblers who can win at gambling and open a business. But look how many gamblers there are like that? How many gamblers think carefully and understand the risks when gambling? I have several friends who are in debt and destroying themselves because of their gambling addiction. But I also have friends who are wise gamblers who gamble just for fun. Unfortunately, I don't have any friends who are successful from gambling and can open a business.
March 27, 2024, 05:29:32 AM
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~After all gambling is a profit-making activity that stands behind the word "chance or possibility" which means you can be in one of the outcomes at the end of the session between winning or losing, and also gambling is an activity that is always at risk which means however you can never avoid losing and if you lose then it is normal because gambling is not an activity to make money but nothing more than an activity to have fun when you have boring free time. Simply put if you lose it means you are unlucky or vice versa, therefore the act of blaming others for the losses we experience is ridiculous.
Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.
Can I blame your nickname ?
I lose only when I place wrong bets, bet wrong, Betwrong People were always blaming others and will continue to do that because a person must have huge balls to admit that he was wrong. Besides, people are mentally focus on the win only. Losing is not an option, and when they lose, there must be a reason for that. Reason in someone or something, but not in themselves. Futhermore, people are lazy to think about consequences that lead to a loss. Easier and quicker is to blame, then to think.
March 27, 2024, 05:20:15 AM
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~After all gambling is a profit-making activity that stands behind the word "chance or possibility" which means you can be in one of the outcomes at the end of the session between winning or losing, and also gambling is an activity that is always at risk which means however you can never avoid losing and if you lose then it is normal because gambling is not an activity to make money but nothing more than an activity to have fun when you have boring free time. Simply put if you lose it means you are unlucky or vice versa, therefore the act of blaming others for the losses we experience is ridiculous.
Right, if you to blame something for your losses, then blame you luck, blame the stars or whatever, but don't blame other people. It's actually bad for your mental health, blaming the others. You will become unstable and it can affect your day to day life in negative way.
March 27, 2024, 12:27:04 AM
A lot of people have been clamoring about how gambling has ruined their life but same gambling has set some people up for life, just like every other form of investment there must always be a profit or a loss. And life is so balanced that what works for Mr A might not be the same that works for Mr B. Likewise in gambling, while some are crying about their loss they are some who are smiling and celebrating their win.
Gambling has been seen as a very dangerous thing base on some people's point of view here in the forum whereas in reality it has given some people the capital to start what ever business they want to do. My point in this post is that we shouldn’t just paint gambling all black because some people have fail to stick to the discipline of gambling.
I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".
March 27, 2024, 12:20:33 AM
Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.
We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
Well, that's what happened all along. They easily blame other people for what they get from gambling. They say that this is because other people do not agree with them.We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
We will not be able to change their attitude like that. They will just be like that and will continue to blame the people around them if they lose. Just leave them like that and we should avoid them. I also avoid people like that just because I don't want to be blamed by them.
They should immediately realize what they are doing. Otherwise, they will lose out on what they do. No one would want to be around them if only to be blamed.
March 26, 2024, 08:53:20 AM
In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.
Yeah.In gambling, many blame the casino if they lose, but at the same time praise themselves if they win. In fact, all this is just an accident. It is important to learn to accept these phenomena and not forget that gambling is a risky activity, and no one can guarantee victory. The main thing is to enjoy the game process and not forget about possible losses.
In gambling, we should not blame other people for our losses. We have to know that winning and losing are things that always change when playing gambling. We must understand that if we don't want to experience loss, we don't need to gamble. We can still look for other fun activities that don't require a lot of money to get that pleasure.
We also have to remember that you only need to play gambling in moderation and don't need to use a lot of money. By always making restrictions, we can enjoy gambling as it should. We must always remember that gambling is just for fun in our spare time.
Its just the attitude of people is so harsh towards their acceptance on their loses since they usually find people to blame and they didn't take the full accountability on the action they done. That's why its hard to celebrate a win together with this people who have this attitude since when they lose they point the blame on us around them since they maybe say that he's out of focus because we are disturbance on his side. I encounter a lot of people like this that's why I usually avoid them.
We should not really blame people towards what we experience since at the end we are the one who held accountable on all actions we do.
March 26, 2024, 08:49:27 AM
In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.
Yeah.In gambling, many blame the casino if they lose, but at the same time praise themselves if they win. In fact, all this is just an accident. It is important to learn to accept these phenomena and not forget that gambling is a risky activity, and no one can guarantee victory. The main thing is to enjoy the game process and not forget about possible losses.
In gambling, we should not blame other people for our losses. We have to know that winning and losing are things that always change when playing gambling. We must understand that if we don't want to experience loss, we don't need to gamble. We can still look for other fun activities that don't require a lot of money to get that pleasure.
We also have to remember that you only need to play gambling in moderation and don't need to use a lot of money. By always making restrictions, we can enjoy gambling as it should. We must always remember that gambling is just for fun in our spare time.
March 26, 2024, 08:42:47 AM
In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.
Yeah.
In gambling, many blame the casino if they lose, but at the same time praise themselves if they win. In fact, all this is just an accident. It is important to learn to accept these phenomena and not forget that gambling is a risky activity, and no one can guarantee victory. The main thing is to enjoy the game process and not forget about possible losses.
March 26, 2024, 08:34:14 AM
In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.
I wonder how such people will raise their child, because you need to teach your children how to accept their mistakes as theirs in other for them to learn from it and grow, people who put their own blame on other people or other things won't be able to realize their mistakes.
Gambling is a game of luck, unfortunately not many people accept this, they believe it's their misfortune that makes them lose in gambling, when the chances of winning are already too thinly in gambling, I try to always avoid people who don't like accepting their mistakes, such people are dangerous.
It is better to still have your life, your home, and your happiness after you fail to have some good luck in gambling than to ruin your life over because of gambling and have nothing to go back to, do not over risk your money because of gambling, I will keep saying it, that its more likely to lose money in gambling than to win.
March 25, 2024, 06:37:27 PM
Topics like this reminds me of the various accusations created by people who always try to find loopholes in a casino's terms and conditions. I'm talking about those who apply for self-exclusions and then creates other accounts to play again. They complain after losing the money claiming that the casino should have blocked their deposit to the second account.
March 25, 2024, 06:35:01 PM
In gambling if we win, then this is our merit, if we lose this is due to someone else fault. People never accept failure or defeat. And I dont know how to change such attitude. There is no course or medicine that removes such feeling. Imho we are left simply to accept that fact and dont pay much attention to those who blame others or in their failures.
I agree with it. Its reflects a common cognitive bias known as the "self-serving bias." This bias leads individuals to attribute success to their own actions and failures to outside influences. Changing such attitudes can be challenging because they're deeply rooted in human psychology. However, fostering self-awareness, promoting responsibility for one's actions, and emphasizing learning from failures can help shift this mindset.
March 25, 2024, 06:22:24 PM
People need to understand that they need to make up their minds before they start gambling that if they lose, they are going to blame themselves for it and if they can't do that, they shouldn't gamble in the first place. You take all the credit when you win, so why not take the blame when you lose?
Those individuals blaming others when they're losing are those that'll keep losing when they're gambling as they're not learning anything from the mistakes that they're making. Gambling should be for entertainment and when you lose, you should accept your losses and instead of blaming others you should take the responsibility and work on the things that made you to fail as greed and not being very careful of what you're doing can make you to lose as gambling isn't for every individuals.
There are some individuals that they'll always lose when they gamble but they don't stop gambling as they believe that they can win one day but they have being playing for a very long time yet they're not winning. Before Gambling always, try to taste the difference types of games available at the casino so you can know which game that you're lucky at and always gamble with that game to increase your chances.
March 25, 2024, 05:41:59 PM
Individuals who are constantly searching for someone or something to blame for their losses are not mature. Blaming won't even make up the money you lost; accepting responsibility for your actions is the best course of action. Additionally, I dislike those who criticize or even assign blame, even when their acts were the cause. And the reason they place the blame is that they always strive to appear flawless, as though they never make mistakes, and when professionals falter, it speaks more well of common people.
When the time comes when they will be unable to place the blame anywhere, they will turn their attention to finding ways to make up for their losses. They fail to see that there is no shame in losing. No one would hold me responsible for introducing them to gambling because I don't even introduce people to it, and even if I did, why would you hold me responsible when it was all a question of choice? Not a single cause to assign blame. Either they blame the casino or say anything it won't change anything.
When the time comes when they will be unable to place the blame anywhere, they will turn their attention to finding ways to make up for their losses. They fail to see that there is no shame in losing. No one would hold me responsible for introducing them to gambling because I don't even introduce people to it, and even if I did, why would you hold me responsible when it was all a question of choice? Not a single cause to assign blame. Either they blame the casino or say anything it won't change anything.
Some individuals naturally are good at holding an external factor for any misfortune in there life. When they have fortune they take the glory and boast that the fortune is as a result of self effort. Personally, I don't see such people as immature as you noted because some people see it as a big deal accepting failure and so instead of accepting failure they prefer to apportion the blame to a factor so that people will not see them as been misfortune. To them, their concern is not about making better choices next time but to control how people will view their actions.
Unfortunately, such way of living doesn't change anything. If you are unlucky and then blame it on gambling, the fact that you are unlucky haven't changed. My humble advise is that instead of blaming gambling efforts should be made to make corrections subsequently because you function for yourself and so you need to make life worth living for yourself and so should blame gambling at all when things doesn't go as desired.
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