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Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.
And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.

You know that's not true, right? There are tons of ways to lose your money and gambling is just one of them. You can invest in sh*tcoins, you can invest in some shitty stocks or you can buy property that will lose it's value with time. And with all those things you actually can lose much more than with gambling if you are a responsible gambler.
Risks could really be everywhere no matter what kind of venture that you would really be dealing with. The main difference when dealing up with gambling is that you could lose those big amounts
in a blink of an eye comparing into those investments that you have mentioned except with investing with a project that rugpulled which we know that it do only last for a few minutes.
When it comes to blaming then it is really indeed part of human instinct on finding up those things on where they could really be able to blame out specially on the time of frustration on which it would really be just that so common action that you would really be having on the time that you are on such condition on which we know that it isnt really just that right that you should really be
putting up blame to people.

When you do gamble then you should really be expecting something like this on which those big loses, this is something very normal on gambling field.
You wont really be that making yourself that getting that exemption since everyone could be able to experience it no matter how well you do gamble.
Being lucky? It is really that something that totally random, doesnt matter whether you are dealing with luck based or strategic based on which
everything would really be depending on that.
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Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.
And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.

You know that's not true, right? There are tons of ways to lose your money and gambling is just one of them. You can invest in sh*tcoins, you can invest in some shitty stocks or you can buy property that will lose it's value with time. And with all those things you actually can lose much more than with gambling if you are a responsible gambler.
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Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

You are correct with your submission. If you are reckless with gambling then you will have to keep complaining about losses. You can't gamble rightly with minimal bankroll and you keep complaining about the bad omen. A gambler with minimal stake has better control of his game more than that gambler that throws in all he has at once going for the winning without considering that he would be losing all of the money if he didn't win.

It is better to have some gambling limit so that when you are not getting it right then you can easily withdraw yourself and wait for the next time game to try hitting back, continuous trying to win is a ticket to addiction because you are losing your control.
Having your own rules or having limits before deciding to carry out gambling activities is very necessary and must be done by a gambler because only in this way can a gambler have self-control not to chase wins or losses too much because we are used to these limits so we won't may violate this limit.
Indeed, having limits like this is not easy to do, but as long as a gambler has a strong desire to bet safely, he will certainly easily learn little by little to obey the rules that have been made.

Yes, indeed, a gambler who always bets with the smallest amount can always have strong control and never experience deep disappointment because the money he has lost has been planned and will not feel like he has lost because the budget used is money he can afford to lose.
In the past, at first I wasn't used to limits like this, but as long as I tried consistently not to make the same mistakes, I managed to have good control, even when I bet on Black Jack when I lost once, I chose to wait until the right time to bet again so that not too emotional and enjoy the bet more.
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Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.
Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe

Usually this type of people put the blame on other people or casino so if we don't want to experience those bad words to them by trying to stop or advice them much better if we just let them experience about other negative consequences that will happen to them.

yeah that's true, it's better for them to experience the things that don't fit their plan so that they can learn and experience it early so that they can avoid doing it the next time. When you give advice to someone even if it hasn't happened yet, it used to be like spoon-feeding them, so maybe we shouldn't lead the time.

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Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.
Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe

People need to stop giving sympathy to those people who are not willing to receive some advice or suggestion, since for sure they will not take any words we give to them and they feel bad since provably this people will just think about we spoil the fun and not letting them to win then feel bad about us. That's why sometimes they need to learn a lesson on hard way so that they realize that what they do is totally not good for them and might they correct those mistakes done. Usually this type of people put the blame on other people or casino so if we don't want to experience those bad words to them by trying to stop or advice them much better if we just let them experience about other negative consequences that will happen to them.
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Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.
Yes, no matter how other people would really be telling that they shouldnt really be doing this but still it wont really be that enough for them to be stopped on what they are doing.
This is why it would really be better that letting be on what they are gonna going to do would really be just that fine. They are the ones who would really be messing up their lives on the time that they would really be making out such bad decision on which it will really be affecting their lives later on. We do know that on the time that we are unlucky then we do love on having those kind of blaming
into other people or with the platform itself. You wont really be finding yourself that getting contented and would be going into other people to be blamed on.
You wont really be blaming your own self no matter what. hehehe
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Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.

You are correct with your submission. If you are reckless with gambling then you will have to keep complaining about losses. You can't gamble rightly with minimal bankroll and you keep complaining about the bad omen. A gambler with minimal stake has better control of his game more than that gambler that throws in all he has at once going for the winning without considering that he would be losing all of the money if he didn't win.

It is better to have some gambling limit so that when you are not getting it right then you can easily withdraw yourself and wait for the next time game to try hitting back, continuous trying to win is a ticket to addiction because you are losing your control.
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Let them do what they want OP, these people that are blaming themselves aren't going to stop anytime soon just because they're constantly reminded that it doesn't do anything to the game and that blaming leads to nothing, I think that it's best to let them do their thing. This kind of people will almost always come to their senses on their own and they'll stop eventually, if we don't want to be like this, the easiest solution would be to stop gambling, that's the easiest I think. Think of this as someone who believes in luck, there are some things that they can just explain so they leave the explanation as fate or luck, much easier that way, it's the same with these people blaming the game, they want some outlet for their frustrations.
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I believe that before one make a decision in life, they should've already weighed the consequences of making the right or wrong choice, then put their fate on luck coupled with their little knowledge concerning what they're about to decide on, so why complain and play the blame game when things go wrong? "Share your thought on how gambling has come through for you if you got any".
Indeed. Before we use our money in gambling, it's crucial to know what we are getting into especially the consequences if the outcome is not favor in you. Chances to lose in gambling are very high, therefore we should be prepared for that situation. Because it's a big problem if you play and didn't take time to research and worse you use the money that you can't live without. That's the usual mistake of gamblers who don't have self control. They just go with the flow, placing wager without even thinking then will blame gambling if it didn't go as planned. Hence, if you want to gamble, make sure that you are aware how gambling works. Learn to have discipline so you'll not go beyond your limit. Lastly, be responsible enough to face the consequences of your action because no one force you to use your money in gambling. It is your own decision thus don't blame gambling or others if you happen to be in such situation.
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Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.
And the people that are coming back to it just to gamble again is also enormous. As long as you're aware with what you are up to, and specifically with gambling.
If you are unlucky, it's not gambling's fault but your fault because you chose to gamble and from there, you're not going to lose if ever you haven't gamble at all.
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Responsible gambling patterns and methods can be learned, however, they can't be practiced by everyone unless they are generally responsible with everything they do in their lives. It's all about being responsible by your nature, and if you don't have a responsible nature, even if you learn how to become a responsible gambler, you will still end up doing things that make you an irresponsible gambler because that thing isn't inbuilt in you.

So I don't think that it can work this way but one can still give it a try. A person might learn and take suggestions from others and create a budget for their gambling activities, but when they lose that budget very quickly, they might go ahead and make another deposit which isn't what a responsible gambler would do.
They should be able to learns responsible gambling patterns if they don't wants to see losing control. Even if that's difficult, they must still learned for their own good. Playing gambling with responsible is difficult and that's why must always practice and if necessary, we practicing with the other things and not just in gambling. Having responsibility will helps you prevents something bad that can arise so you can avoided without giving more problems. A gambler who doesn't have responsibility when they gambling can't hold themselves and will lose their money sooner or later.

We must still learn and practice to be gambler that have responsibility in gambling because gambling have temptations that will always change. If we don't have good responsibility, we will only loses the money without realizing what we have done and there is a chance to lose control because of our mistakes.
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It's okay if you blame yourself for your bad luck, because that is a normal response to this bad reality. What is not permissible is when someone blames himself too much for his bad luck, to the point where he curses himself and considers himself useless. That is a complete no-no. Because gambling is related to luck and gamblers must be prepared for all possibilities that they could lose at the gambling they play. And when their expectations do not match reality, it means they have to accept reality with a humble heart.
I have been friends with some people who were addicted to drinking alcohol but when they decided to change, they also changed their habits to raising livestock and crops they enjoyed it a lot this time and they also helped others as well when they wanted to join their club.
Since habits are human creations, man can quickly overcome these habitual problems if he so desires. There are some gamblers in gambling who never want to loss themselves even if they lose they hesitate to accept it. When they blame others without any reason, they lose the acceptance of people towards them. The gambler must learn to simply accept the outcome of gambling. A gambler cannot always win. He must be defeated. For those who fail to accept defeat, gambling becomes more negative than successful. People who have such habit problems should quickly come back from that position. If one tries to understand well before doing any work and then engages himself then he will be successful. After learning about gambling, try to understand and keep their wins and losses to themselves will never blame others.

Let's think that things are like this, I wouldn't blame anyone or Anyone because the money is mine, the things that I manage in the casinos are always the best, but I only say that when one wins then the responsibility is one's Own, but in In the event that someone gives us advice, or tells us how to play perhaps, it is something that can be very decisive, I am a person who will Always say that things when they try to do in some case are unique and exclusivity responsnaibidla ours, then those people blame someone for their losses because it is real immaturity, I don't see it that way, but honestly the people do it because I think they have to mature a lot and Given these things, they have to be distressed by things like that. As they are , I personally am very determined about that, however, things change when they are done in Society , which I do not recommend.

Things in Society are not recommended, because if one person agrees with another to gamble in a casino and they put the money in and the bill is Handled by both of them , I think that Each movement has to be expressed to the other, or to me But one person has the right to spend an amount But for the rest we have to be very mature in what we Want and in the things we must Assume , in a casino things have to be assumed, Whether you Win or lose.
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Accepting the blame is the first step to rearranging your overall experience and future risk accessibility because most of the gamblers who have lost so much in the past all did that because they failed to take responsibility for what their current and previous outcome was and maybe shifting the blame on others or even the casino who doesn't allow them to have a self-exclusion.
But then also we have to put in some extra effort to conclude who to blame even if we are not in a good frame of mind because by accepting the blame, you are taking the lesson alongside the pain.
Lessons learned by losing are always temporary for most gamblers.  Grin You will see a gambler losing a bunch of money today, abusing the casino, himself, and people around him, and doing all sorts of things out of frustration and anger, they would even say that they aren't going to gamble anymore. Fast forward a week, and you will see them in the casino again, lol Grin. That's how gamblers are, they are unpredictable with their regrets and remorse.

I have seen a lot of gamblers losing a lot of money and raging out of anger but then gambling again after a couple of days, some wouldn't even wait more than one day before they start gambling again because they just can't control the urge to gamble which makes them forget what happened earlier.
Temporary? Heavily agree on this one because once that those anger and disappointments would be wept away then they would really be starting to play again and the cycle continues
just like on what others been saying on here that human beings are naturally loving to paste up those blamings of their loses into other people as if it seems that they are the sole
reasons on why they are experiencing those unfortunate condition on which it is really that laughable.

We do know that when it comes to loses then people do really always loving on having to say, not all but majority will really be having that kind behavior.
Some might be easily to move on but there are ones who do love to have those blaming.
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It's okay if you blame yourself for your bad luck, because that is a normal response to this bad reality. What is not permissible is when someone blames himself too much for his bad luck, to the point where he curses himself and considers himself useless. That is a complete no-no. Because gambling is related to luck and gamblers must be prepared for all possibilities that they could lose at the gambling they play. And when their expectations do not match reality, it means they have to accept reality with a humble heart.
I have been friends with some people who were addicted to drinking alcohol but when they decided to change, they also changed their habits to raising livestock and crops they enjoyed it a lot this time and they also helped others as well when they wanted to join their club.
Since habits are human creations, man can quickly overcome these habitual problems if he so desires. There are some gamblers in gambling who never want to loss themselves even if they lose they hesitate to accept it. When they blame others without any reason, they lose the acceptance of people towards them. The gambler must learn to simply accept the outcome of gambling. A gambler cannot always win. He must be defeated. For those who fail to accept defeat, gambling becomes more negative than successful. People who have such habit problems should quickly come back from that position. If one tries to understand well before doing any work and then engages himself then he will be successful. After learning about gambling, try to understand and keep their wins and losses to themselves will never blame others.
There are really indeed people who do really make those kind of thinking that they could really be able to take those 100% winning rate or simply being a perfect gambling on which we know that it cant really be just that possible for someone to have that kind of thing on which we know that there are ones who are really that be able to realize those things and there are ones who cant be able to do such thing.
Blaming out others is something that a very common gambler behavior on which you would really be thinking up that on the loses that you are experiencing is caused by those factors on which you do have in mind
but we do know that these things are just simply that kind of none right thing since you are thinking or skeptical that they arent fare at all.
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It's okay if you blame yourself for your bad luck, because that is a normal response to this bad reality. What is not permissible is when someone blames himself too much for his bad luck, to the point where he curses himself and considers himself useless. That is a complete no-no. Because gambling is related to luck and gamblers must be prepared for all possibilities that they could lose at the gambling they play. And when their expectations do not match reality, it means they have to accept reality with a humble heart.
I have been friends with some people who were addicted to drinking alcohol but when they decided to change, they also changed their habits to raising livestock and crops they enjoyed it a lot this time and they also helped others as well when they wanted to join their club.
Since habits are human creations, man can quickly overcome these habitual problems if he so desires. There are some gamblers in gambling who never want to loss themselves even if they lose they hesitate to accept it. When they blame others without any reason, they lose the acceptance of people towards them. The gambler must learn to simply accept the outcome of gambling. A gambler cannot always win. He must be defeated. For those who fail to accept defeat, gambling becomes more negative than successful. People who have such habit problems should quickly come back from that position. If one tries to understand well before doing any work and then engages himself then he will be successful. After learning about gambling, try to understand and keep their wins and losses to themselves will never blame others.
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being a responsible gambler is it's difficult, they have to keep learning it because it is the key to being able to gamble comfortably and not encounter various kinds of problems that have made many gamblers end up falling deeper into gambling.
Responsible gambling patterns and methods can be learned, however, they can't be practiced by everyone unless they are generally responsible with everything they do in their lives. It's all about being responsible by your nature, and if you don't have a responsible nature, even if you learn how to become a responsible gambler, you will still end up doing things that make you an irresponsible gambler because that thing isn't inbuilt in you.

So I don't think that it can work this way but one can still give it a try. A person might learn and take suggestions from others and create a budget for their gambling activities, but when they lose that budget very quickly, they might go ahead and make another deposit which isn't what a responsible gambler would do.
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True, the awareness and acceptance that you mentioned is indeed very important and must be applied in everyone when they are involved in gambling, not least because it is by having good acceptance that it will help you to minimize the possibility of uncontrolled emotions when you are in a losing situation and this will be useful to minimize the possibility of significant losses that should not be done, and also you can more easily do or decide on precautions like this when you are in a level of awareness.

By being a responsible gambler then this will help you to avoid the possibility of addiction which is indeed the point where a person experiences a lot of problems especially in his finances, not only that because it is very likely that you also experience depression or stress due to not being able to withstand the pressure of various problems that come and the rest I strongly agree with the idea of your statement that acceptance and awareness is one of the keys to avoiding the possibility of addiction.
Becoming a responsible gambler must be achieved by many gamblers to avoid more losses and avoid addiction because this is a problem that is often faced by gamblers who lost their responsible while they are gambling, even being a responsible gambler is it's difficult, they have to keep learning it because it is the key to being able to gamble comfortably and not encounter various kinds of problems that have made many gamblers end up falling deeper into gambling. They cannot be responsible gamblers at all because they have lost their sense of responsibility in gambling and their gambling goals have changed and make them only want to chase more wins.

That is why awareness and acceptance of whatever results you get from playing gambling are absolutely necessary so that you will not try to chase wins or recover losses, because that will only cause you to experience more losses. If someone is aware of this and can accept their losses well and will not think about recovering their losses by immediately stopping the gambling game, they can avoid losing more money because they don't see any chance of winning. Moreover, the chances of winning will only decrease if we continue gambling while we have already experienced several defeats. If we could realize what we have experienced, we would not try to continue gambling because it could result in losing money that we would not be able to accept.
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Actually you have a point but we can't even say if they are really honest with their customers, because there are instances that if you observe, it seems like there is fraud going on, especially the slot machines in a casino house. I'm not sure if it's really just bad luck but it's surprising if every day you play, there are only losses and no wins. Wouldn't you be surprised if that happened to you?

Yes I would be surprised. Actually it happened to me just recently: I played a new slot be pretty famous provider and from the very beginning I was losing constantly, I'd lost like 50 times in a row and I thought "This is definitely a rip off!", but the next day I started winning on the same slot and realized that it was just a coincidence that when I only started playing it I lost 50 times in a row.

But you are talking about in-house games. Can you name on, that I'd try it out myself?
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Accepting the blame is the first step to rearranging your overall experience and future risk accessibility because most of the gamblers who have lost so much in the past all did that because they failed to take responsibility for what their current and previous outcome was and maybe shifting the blame on others or even the casino who doesn't allow them to have a self-exclusion.
But then also we have to put in some extra effort to conclude who to blame even if we are not in a good frame of mind because by accepting the blame, you are taking the lesson alongside the pain.
Lessons learned by losing are always temporary for most gamblers.  Grin You will see a gambler losing a bunch of money today, abusing the casino, himself, and people around him, and doing all sorts of things out of frustration and anger, they would even say that they aren't going to gamble anymore. Fast forward a week, and you will see them in the casino again, lol Grin. That's how gamblers are, they are unpredictable with their regrets and remorse.

I have seen a lot of gamblers losing a lot of money and raging out of anger but then gambling again after a couple of days, some wouldn't even wait more than one day before they start gambling again because they just can't control the urge to gamble which makes them forget what happened earlier.
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Cocaine is associated with so much negativity but clinically it also has its usefulness as it can be used as an anesthetic in surgical procedures. The same thing can be said about gambling, it may have some deleterious effect on some persons but it has also changed some lives for good. Why people most times condemn gambling is because the number of player's lives it has wrecked apart is far more greater than those it has helped. But with caution and the right approach, one can avoid being wreckless.
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