I was actually confused of what exactly to answer myself, I wasn't sure if money was what I wanted from gambling, or whether I was just playing to have fun, or whether I was gambling for both money and fun.
And honestly, I am still confused, because I've thought of money being what I wanted, then "what is my actual target?, what amount will be enough?" is the next question I asked myself, and I realized I didn't actually have any amount in mind, and this made me conclude that money wasnt really what I wanted, but it's not fun either, cus I cant have fun if I am not winning, like I would always say, " there is no fun in losing money".
So, I thought I should throw this question to the gambling community here, maybe I could draw some ideas from your ideas and contributions.
1. What exactly do you want from gambling? Say it, even if it's something you don't think is possible to achieve.
2. What steps have you take to see if you can achieve that which you want from gambling?
Or
Are you like me? Gambling with no sense of goal, direction?
Let's have a healthy discussion.
Bro, don't forget that times before now, you have once argued in other topics that gamblers are gambling not because of fun but rather to make money. Like you will always say, "no fun in losing money," that's right, but what is notable in losing money in gambling is how often you gamble and how much you are gambling with.
If, for example, you gamble three times a week and only spend $10 each week, in 48 weeks (one year), you will spend $480. If you are earning $380 every month, that is $4,560 per annum, minus your total money that was gambled off, and you will notice that it is not really having a huge impact.
But there are people who are losing more than that per year while they are not even earning up to that amount per year. These are people who really gamble for more than just fun, but rather as a means to earn more money.
Why did I get into gambling in the first place? That was because I saw my people making money with it, and I thought it was a means to earn money, so my friend started to put me through. I kept gambling because I wanted to get lucky and make a little money most of the time. I had little or huge wins that were helpful to me back then, but if you ask me why I am still gambling today, I will tell you it's because I want to have fun (winning is not the top priority) .
I have said it before that I have friends who are deeply into gambling, and sometimes they will book a game and send the code to me, asking me to make sure I stake a huge amount because the game will definitely go as predicted, but I don't really get moved by it again. I gamble when I want, when I feel like it, or maybe I just want to while away time or quicken my mind.