Topic: Why do people hate? - page 14. (Read 21454 times)
I have been aloof to someone right now, but it doesn’t mean I hate her. I distant myself, for her to realized my worth. People hate maybe because of insecurities, a person is not contented with his life if he is full of hatred. He is not happy, and he always think how hateful he is to someone, and stress himself to hatred.
Nobody is born with hatred. It's through repeated mistreatment which hatred arises, or at the very least the perception of mistreatment. It's the natural response towards detriments to one's own existence; I hate these flies that always buzz right by my fucking ear when I'm trying to concentrate, I hate all the traffic on the road when I'm trying to get home from a long day, I hate it when people lie to me esp. when I know they're lying to me, I hate it when I stub my toe. I could explain why I feel the way I do about these things--and the list is quite extensive--but it should be evident as to how these things can be a detriment to my existence, even if only marginally.
I think the allegory of the two wolves is a very two-dimensional understanding of relationship ethics. You are going to experience a wide range of emotions in your life and they are all there to help direct your behavior towards something productive for yourself, assuming you don't try to discard them under the false pretense that certain emotions are always inappropriate to hold. If you hate something, you would do better to understand why you hate, rather than throwing the emotion away under the pretense that it's replacing another emotion you could be having. Through understanding the hatred, you learn more about yourself and your own needs, you better understand what you want out of this life. Hatred repels you and love attracts you: both are necessary to guide your behavior, two faces of a coin.
I think the allegory of the two wolves is a very two-dimensional understanding of relationship ethics. You are going to experience a wide range of emotions in your life and they are all there to help direct your behavior towards something productive for yourself, assuming you don't try to discard them under the false pretense that certain emotions are always inappropriate to hold. If you hate something, you would do better to understand why you hate, rather than throwing the emotion away under the pretense that it's replacing another emotion you could be having. Through understanding the hatred, you learn more about yourself and your own needs, you better understand what you want out of this life. Hatred repels you and love attracts you: both are necessary to guide your behavior, two faces of a coin.
When you stop to hate you can start to love people. Hate will only destroy you and the one you hate.
This is a wellknown story:
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
I think that is hated only by wicked people. Reason of it to find it is difficult, probably they had what - that problems in childhood. It is sincerely sorry me such people, they are very unhappy.One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
Childhood upbringing can have a major effect. I am not denying that. But there are other factors as well, such as the level of education, past experiences with different people, intelligence level, interaction with different people.etc.
This is the first time i've encountered that story and its a very good one that can pretty much sums up how we should be with others and wih our emotions. Its normal for us to hate but how we act on that hate is what would differentiate better people from weak people.
This is a wellknown story:
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
I think that is hated only by wicked people. Reason of it to find it is difficult, probably they had what - that problems in childhood. It is sincerely sorry me such people, they are very unhappy.One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
Childhood upbringing can have a major effect. I am not denying that. But there are other factors as well, such as the level of education, past experiences with different people, intelligence level, interaction with different people.etc.
This is a wellknown story:
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
I think that is hated only by wicked people. Reason of it to find it is difficult, probably they had what - that problems in childhood. It is sincerely sorry me such people, they are very unhappy. One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
Hating could be from envy. When people don't seem to achieve like the other man, they may resort to hating. It also could be as a result of attitudinal dislike for someone .
Jealousy is one of the reasons why people hate each other. Usually, it is the losers who hate others. Someone who is having everything he wants in his life has absolutely no reason to hate others.
People hate because they are insecure, while at the same time lacking compassion. The ability of being able to put themselves in the shoes of others. Realizing that the pain they feel hurts just as much as the pain the other person feels. That's why I don't even get excited if I made money in a pump and dump, because I feel the pain of those who possibly lost.
Hating is inherent to human nature..
So it is only normal for people to hate...
And i see no problem about that..
As long as you know how to cope up with it....
So it is only normal for people to hate...
And i see no problem about that..
As long as you know how to cope up with it....
Hating could be from envy. When people don't seem to achieve like the other man, they may resort to hating. It also could be as a result of attitudinal dislike for someone .
You can waste your time and energy hating others if you want.
I'm too busy with my own life to hate anyone really.
Haters gonna hate.
I'm too busy with my own life to hate anyone really.
Haters gonna hate.
You are so right.
Healthiest thing is to let it go and move on.
Right. Sometimes you hate because of mistakes which you cannot take. Forget, forgive and move forward.
It can be an act of self-defense but from inside. This is how we reply to a rejection
Hatred can be a form of self-defense, if someone is living in a hostile environment and is afraid of his neighbors. For example, I have been to remote villages where the crime rates are sky high. The people are in general hostile to strangers. They are suspicious of the outsiders, as they can't trust them.
It can be an act of self-defense but from inside. This is how we reply to a rejection
This is a wellknown story:
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
Hatred, as well as love, and also other feelings, is given to the man from birth. not everybody will be able to muffle in itself sense of hatred of other, for example more successful man. One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people.
He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all"
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil - he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego." He continued, "The other is good - he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, "Which wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed".
http://www.psychologymatters.asia/article/65/the-story-of-the-two-wolves-managing-your-thoughts-feelings-and-actions.html
But why do we so easily succumb to feed the evil wolf? Why do we hate and feed it and react hatefull towards others?
It is just normal for a person to hate someone, as normal as when we are loving someone...
Hating is totally not weong at all.. for me it will only be wrong if we succumb to it...
We must learn how to overcome these attitude..
Learn to forgive, and maybe someday you will then forget the reason why you hated someone...
Hating is totally not weong at all.. for me it will only be wrong if we succumb to it...
We must learn how to overcome these attitude..
Learn to forgive, and maybe someday you will then forget the reason why you hated someone...
People is making it too hard for us to be good. It doesnt matter which one you fed, in case you fed the good one other people will still push you through your limit and will still feel hatred , anger and etc. because we are humans.
We feed the wolf of hate unintentionally, energy is contagious. What give off is what we get and vise versa. The reason people feed this wolf is because if their energy takes a shift due to someone else's energy not being in control, they do not have control over it because it is not their energy. we have to be careful who's energy we take on; most of us are walking around with each other's energies.
Because most of us are not they same attitude, They have silent person and angry person and others attitude of the person. When it comes to they are not same way they are hating each other. Just like when you are a baby all you want to do is to play but your mother is she want is to sleep you but you not want to sleep so thats why you hate your mother and also your mother hate you because you not to sleep.
Basically you are correct. We hate someone whom we do not like because we have different attitude. That what always the cause of our hatred to that person of that person is being rude, boastful, nasty, or argumentative. Worst thing why would we hate was because we are jealous to one person. We are envious about one person or we are selfish enough that we do not want other person to become successful.
theres a lot of reason why people are hating... I think because of their atittude the way they communicate to other. We have different atittude and want in our life. Because the way they are and the other people dont want them.. The way they socialize to other..
Hating others makes people feel better about themselves.
It's included in our human-pack. It's natural, but some ppl abuse of hate.
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