We created them....
I rarely disagree with you, but you're wrong on this one. The US and the USSR went out of their way to create this mess for over 80 years. One easy example being Saddam Hussein, who's Ba'ath revolution was almost entirely financed via CIA arranged pipelines. This is pretty well documented and public knowledge. Another one, the Shah of Iran.
Prior to the British Mandate, the Arab nations pretty much restricted themselves to killing each other. Not good, but not a global issue. They though Westerners were strange, but bought oil by the shipload, so they tolerated us. It would probably have turned out a lot different if the US and USSR weren't playing "let's you and him fight" all over the world. ...
You are reciting the anti-neo colonial rhetoric. Here's the problem. To note how we encouraged various dictators in that area and such does not equate to distorsions of history which makes, somehow in it's twisted logic, "the West" responsible. For example a prior poster's assertion...
most of those countries' dictators responsible for the frenzy killings and the terrorists organization have been totally created financed and helped by the Western countries? ....
We "consider the Saudis our friends" but there originates the Wahhibi extremist sects. We give massive foreign aid to Egypt and prop them up, but fundamentalists in Egypt are our enemies. "Propping up structure" and encouraging stability is not "being responsible for all the killings
In fact, there's nothing wrong with attempting to prop up unstable regions that are always going to be chock full of dictators with some that are allied with us or our interests. Thinking otherwise is exactly what created/is creating the stupid mess in Libya and Syria. Thinking otherwise was the primary cause of the mess in Lebanon.
Maybe it's just my view, but there can be benevolent dictators. There can also be areas which can only be ruled with an iron hand, whether it is that of a secular dictator or a religious one.
Take your pick and live with the consequences.