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legendary
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April 14, 2024, 11:48:32 AM

I’m definitely doesn’t feel hat you mention here but I do gambling privately because I don’t want someone staring at me while I’m playing because it’s annoy me for some reason.

Personal reason but yeah that's also valid as everyone has his own way of treating this venue of entertainment, if you don't want someone to stare and watch you while playing, better to keep it as secret so no one will annoy you while enjoying your game.

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Gambling is a form of entertainment. It’s not illegal or something immoral that you need to hide just to avoid criticism. In fact you should be proud because you have the luxury to do it while others afraid of taking risk with their money.

I like that treatment, it's a luxury when you have that money to risk with your gambling activities, nothing is wrong as long as you are not annoying anyone and you are using your own money.

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Just like drinking beers or hitting cigarettes, gambling is a hobby that gives you satisfaction.

something that will give you that pleasure when you address the lust inside you when playing or betting with the game that you love.
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April 14, 2024, 11:03:47 AM
Some people hide their gambling habits due to feelings of shame, guilt, or embarrassment about their behavior. They may fear judgment from others, worry about the consequences of their actions, or feel unable to control their gambling urges. Hiding allows them to avoid facing the reality of their addiction and the potential negative repercussions it may bring to their relationships, finances, and overall well-being.

It's true, mate.
I am convinced that most gamblers - 95% - with gambling addiction problems hide their weakness from others. They secretly move money away, deceiving loved ones and sinking deeper into a bottomless pit. For them, money ceases to matter, only serving as a source for new bets. Stories about how they steal valuables from family and friends are not uncommon. This sad phenomenon requires attention and support to help them get out of this vicious circle.

Negative thoughts are a fine line between addicts and non-gamblers, both always think that one party is doing something wrong. The addict thinks the non-gamblers would blame and criticize him, and the non-gambler thinks the addict will go about stealing and abusing his life for money. Hence, the gambler wouldn't have any other option than to hide from the non-gamblers around. However, that's a wrong move from both parties. Gambling is not something that should be hidden from our friends or family. Provided that they're adults and can decide for themselves what they want. Although not everyone is meant to know. Especially those who could get carried away and would like to try out gambling ignorant.

However, there exist multiple factors why gamblers do hide their gambling habit. Which include the ones mentioned above, stigmas. But, from the recent evolution of gambling, people can easily do it in their rooms. With nobody being aware. So, the player only needs to focus and at some point, wants to surprise his loved one. Hoping that he could win big someday and take them on a cruise or fun events. Those dreams of such gamblers get deterred by the unforeseen troubles that erupt from gambling. While gambling secretly is not fine, non-gamblers should learn not to develop stigmas on gamblers around their vicinity.
hero member
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April 14, 2024, 10:20:46 AM
I was walking down my street this evening I saw some group of guys in a hidden corner of an uncompleted building playing WHOT games ordinarily I felt they are just spending usual time as friends and that they are playing the WHOT game to keep themselves busy while discussing.

But when I got closer to them I discovered that there was a dirty container close to them and inside the container is money they bet for the game they are playing , and if not careful observed you will never believe that they are playing bet games .

My curiosity led me closer to them I was interacting with one of them and at same time observing what they are doing , one thing I observed was that they stake with huge amount and they don’t give you change even when your money requires change instead you will use it and bet for another round.

So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.
Gambling is considered as a vice by a lot of people, especially those outside the circle, to us it may seem like it's just a full on hobby we do every now and again when the classic hobby choices of ours just don't do the trick, but to other's it's the devil's work and you should stay away from it. Leading some of us to gamble in hiding, in fears of being called out and ostracized even by their family or friend groups for gambling.

In some cases it's because it's the other way around, they think their families will hate them if they found out that the person is gambling, so to make sure that they keep the figure of a man who's got his ducks in a row and is smart with his decisions, he's gambling in hiding,

Lastly, there are people who are good at this, especially when it comes to skill-based games like poker and blackjack, in fear of losing their money from people who are out to get them and their wads of cash, or sometimes just so they don't risk getting banned in the casino, they seclude their identities and make sure they let on as little information about them as possible.
I now see both sides. Some people raise their heads and act like they're better than everyone else. Others dont like being judged. The truth is that some people can handle it. They know how to play, especially when it comes to games like poker where planning is important. People hide because of that reputation, though. Being sneaky all the time is not a good way to live. I think its time to try something new. Im not saying that you should do anything dangerous, but we need to talk about ethical gambling in an open and honest way. Its about being in charge and knowing your boundaries. Stop keeping things secret, put more emphasis on education, and support smart plans. Thats the move that wins.
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Dimon69
April 14, 2024, 09:37:36 AM
Some people hide their gambling habits due to feelings of shame, guilt, or embarrassment about their behavior. They may fear judgment from others, worry about the consequences of their actions, or feel unable to control their gambling urges. Hiding allows them to avoid facing the reality of their addiction and the potential negative repercussions it may bring to their relationships, finances, and overall well-being.

I’m definitely doesn’t feel hat you mention here but I do gambling privately because I don’t want someone staring at me while I’m playing because it’s annoy me for some reason.

Gambling is a form of entertainment. It’s not illegal or something immoral that you need to hide just to avoid criticism. In fact you should be proud because you have the luxury to do it while others afraid of taking risk with their money. Just like drinking beers or hitting cigarettes, gambling is a hobby that gives you satisfaction.
sr. member
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April 14, 2024, 09:35:22 AM
I don't see how they were hiding, if you could see them, it means anyone walking on the street could see them as well which isn't how one hides. However, people who hide when gambling locally probably do it so that people from their society don't see them doing it because gambling might not be considered a good habit in their locality or maybe they don't want any of their family members to see them gambling as many families don't allow their members to gamble.

We can often see such gamblers sitting somewhere around the city gambling either with cards or any other game, some would be playing games for fun but some would be betting with money to make it more engaging, some might do it to earn some money but you can't earn a lot in such gatherings, to be honest.
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April 14, 2024, 09:30:39 AM
Some people hide their gambling habits due to feelings of shame, guilt, or embarrassment about their behavior. They may fear judgment from others, worry about the consequences of their actions, or feel unable to control their gambling urges. Hiding allows them to avoid facing the reality of their addiction and the potential negative repercussions it may bring to their relationships, finances, and overall well-being.

It's true, mate.
I am convinced that most gamblers - 95% - with gambling addiction problems hide their weakness from others. They secretly move money away, deceiving loved ones and sinking deeper into a bottomless pit. For them, money ceases to matter, only serving as a source for new bets. Stories about how they steal valuables from family and friends are not uncommon. This sad phenomenon requires attention and support to help them get out of this vicious circle.
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April 14, 2024, 08:17:17 AM

So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.

Even if we hide with gambling, that doesn't matter as long as you don't bother relatives or even family members with gambling capital you had.
It's an independent decision that we choose to have for each and everyone in this world of cryptocurrency.
Moreover, in crypto currency not all individuals has the knowledge about it most of them only got an idea from physical money or fiat money betting which circulated online on most online casino and not crypto casino.
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April 14, 2024, 07:59:02 AM
Not every country or every society welcomes gambling. There are some countries or some societies where gambling is an illegal activity and those who gamble are looked down upon by the people of the society. I am a gambler and if someone else knows about my gambling then if I have problems in society or people in the society look down on me then why should I share my gambling issues with everyone to make me feel bad. I think it is always the right decision because there is no need to make the family look bad in the eyes of the society where a little privacy is not a problem. If gambling is to be done in secrecy then it should be done in order to preserve one's self-respect.

It is true that there are several countries that prohibit gambling because it violates the law or something else. In my opinion, many people have a bad view of gambling because of the many cases that have occurred because gambling has ruined the life of someone who does it. However, what is the problem in my opinion. , with many people having a bad view of gambling, they respond wrongly to gambling, where they respond to gambling with disdain. because gambling itself is not bad if it is done within reasonable limits, with them experiencing many losses and various life problems, I think they themselves gamble excessively so they experience many losses and problems.

Now with countries that legalize gambling, when countries allow gambling, more and more people will gamble, because winnings at gambling are said to be promising but in reality they are not. after that the problem is with themselves, if they themselves cannot control themselves in the sense that they gamble excessively then the same thing, their lives will be ruined because of gambling.
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April 14, 2024, 07:39:28 AM
Some people hide their gambling habits due to feelings of shame, guilt, or embarrassment about their behavior. They may fear judgment from others, worry about the consequences of their actions, or feel unable to control their gambling urges. Hiding allows them to avoid facing the reality of their addiction and the potential negative repercussions it may bring to their relationships, finances, and overall well-being.
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April 14, 2024, 06:35:58 AM
So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.
Gamblers generally prefer places where there is no noise or disturbance for betting. Some of its advantages are that a gambler has to pay full attention while gambling. If a gambler loses focus then he will not have a comfortable gambling environment. There could be several reasons for this but one of them is that gambling is not yet socially accepted. Moreover, there are still many countries that consider gambling as illegal. If someone finds out about their gambling, that person is exposed to a variety of questions that many prefer to keep quiet to avoid. If gambling is done in a suitable environment, one can enjoy the real pleasure of gambling there. I am sure they were gambling in such an environment that no one else would bother them. Since gambling is not legal everywhere, many will try to hide it. I myself prefer to gamble alone when it comes to gambling.
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April 14, 2024, 01:26:30 AM
This is a case of street gambling and the gamblers can do it at a place where is more comfortable for them, I am not sure to tell you if those guys were hiding or not but even in school, guys will leave a very noisy and busy place and they will go into a hide out or a very quite place, then they will do different gambling games. These students can also do this activity in the school premises where anyone can see them without question them, but the reason why they look for a quiet place is because they don't need distractions from any body. Some people can hide to gamble but it's not usually everyone that hide to gamble. Street gambling can be done any where that those street guys finds suitable for them.
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April 14, 2024, 01:24:54 AM

We gamble freely when we have nothing to lose. Hiding gambling activities is understandable, you never might have a knowledge and recognition of top influential men in the society, maybe seen pastor gambling, how will you feel? You will quickly assumed the pastor uses tithes and money generated for church projects to gamble, that's the actual sense of your reasoning, that's why we should become more careful with our day to day activities and ensure they're been discreet.

You have brought a twist to this part of the discussion with your example. You will be surprised that some people who stand on the pulpit to preach about Jesus Christ still do gambling in their secret place then forgetting that Jesus chased away gamblers from the synagogue with anger to signify he doesn't like it to be done by those who are suppose to show examples to others. The point is that people actually gamble in secret to conceal themselves from people criticizing them because of the way they are known.
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April 14, 2024, 01:07:16 AM
Not every country or every society welcomes gambling. There are some countries or some societies where gambling is an illegal activity and those who gamble are looked down upon by the people of the society. I am a gambler and if someone else knows about my gambling then if I have problems in society or people in the society look down on me then why should I share my gambling issues with everyone to make me feel bad. I think it is always the right decision because there is no need to make the family look bad in the eyes of the society where a little privacy is not a problem. If gambling is to be done in secrecy then it should be done in order to preserve one's self-respect.
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April 13, 2024, 06:35:49 PM
I was walking down my street this evening I saw some group of guys in a hidden corner of an uncompleted building playing WHOT games ordinarily I felt they are just spending usual time as friends and that they are playing the WHOT game to keep themselves busy while discussing.

But when I got closer to them I discovered that there was a dirty container close to them and inside the container is money they bet for the game they are playing , and if not careful observed you will never believe that they are playing bet games .

My curiosity led me closer to them I was interacting with one of them and at same time observing what they are doing , one thing I observed was that they stake with huge amount and they don’t give you change even when your money requires change instead you will use it and bet for another round.

So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.
Gambling is considered as a vice by a lot of people, especially those outside the circle, to us it may seem like it's just a full on hobby we do every now and again when the classic hobby choices of ours just don't do the trick, but to other's it's the devil's work and you should stay away from it. Leading some of us to gamble in hiding, in fears of being called out and ostracized even by their family or friend groups for gambling.

In some cases it's because it's the other way around, they think their families will hate them if they found out that the person is gambling, so to make sure that they keep the figure of a man who's got his ducks in a row and is smart with his decisions, he's gambling in hiding,

Lastly, there are people who are good at this, especially when it comes to skill-based games like poker and blackjack, in fear of losing their money from people who are out to get them and their wads of cash, or sometimes just so they don't risk getting banned in the casino, they seclude their identities and make sure they let on as little information about them as possible.
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April 13, 2024, 05:38:56 PM
Since gambling is not a crime i see no reason to why they should hide before gambling or while doing it, that shows that anyone engaged in this kind of act has something he is hiding, this may be from the public or from other people around where he is gambling, i don't know what other dirty secrets we keep away from people, but we should clearly have the understanding of this that gambling is all about having fun and nothing more than this, it's not a crime to do so in a country where its being accepted as a legal thing to do.
We gamble freely when we have nothing to lose. Hiding gambling activities is understandable, you never might have a knowledge and recognition of top influential men in the society, maybe seen pastor gambling, how will you feel? You will quickly assumed the pastor uses tithes and money generated for church projects to gamble, that's the actual sense of your reasoning, that's why we should become more careful with our day to day activities and ensure they're been discreet.
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April 13, 2024, 05:30:55 PM
My curiosity led me closer to them I was interacting with one of them and at same time observing what they are doing , one thing I observed was that they stake with huge amount and they don’t give you change even when your money requires change instead you will use it and bet for another round.

So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.

Since gambling is not a crime i see no reason to why they should hide before gambling or while doing it, that shows that anyone engaged in this kind of act has something he is hiding, this may be from the public or from other people around where he is gambling, i don't know what other dirty secrets we keep away from people, but we should clearly have the understanding of this that gambling is all about having fun and nothing more than this, it's not a crime to do so in a country where its being accepted as a legal thing to do.

Sometimes the reason why they hide it, is because maybe the people around them don't really attest to them being gamblers and that's why hiding it is mandatory. Like for example not every woman would like for her husband to be a gambler and possibly resulting to addict so I guess she will try every means possible to stop him from gambling that's if the relationship is mutually enough to let that actually happen.
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April 13, 2024, 05:23:40 PM
I know some people who hides their gambling activity, I asked why they hide it and they told me that they don't want people around them to know it because they would either be criticize or when the people around them found out that someone win on gambling they tend to tease them to ask for treat, so basically they are just hiding the amount they lose or win on gambling.
And there are also some who hides because it is illegal, some place are strict that they don't tolerate gambling games (Cards, mahjong or other forms of gambling games) even if it is being done indoors or in your backyard.

There are several reasons why they hide gambling from family, relatives and friends, the main factor is that gambling is not supported by environmental behavior which is still viewed negatively or gambling is still illegal in some countries, another factor is because they consider gambling to be private so that it is not known to other people. So there are various reasons people hide gambling but it all depends on their individual goals because if you win at gambling then they will be very close to you but when you lose big then they blame you for being too greedy and they will not help with loans to gamblers without collateral.
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April 13, 2024, 05:13:41 PM
I was walking down my street this evening I saw some group of guys in a hidden corner of an uncompleted building playing WHOT games ordinarily I felt they are just spending usual time as friends and that they are playing the WHOT game to keep themselves busy while discussing.

But when I got closer to them I discovered that there was a dirty container close to them and inside the container is money they bet for the game they are playing , and if not careful observed you will never believe that they are playing bet games .

My curiosity led me closer to them I was interacting with one of them and at same time observing what they are doing , one thing I observed was that they stake with huge amount and they don’t give you change even when your money requires change instead you will use it and bet for another round.

So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.
I know some people who hides their gambling activity, I asked why they hide it and they told me that they don't want people around them to know it because they would either be criticize or when the people around them found out that someone win on gambling they tend to tease them to ask for treat, so basically they are just hiding the amount they lose or win on gambling.
And there are also some who hides because it is illegal, some place are strict that they don't tolerate gambling games (Cards, mahjong or other forms of gambling games) even if it is being done indoors or in your backyard.
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April 13, 2024, 04:47:07 PM
I was walking down my street this evening I saw some group of guys in a hidden corner of an uncompleted building playing WHOT games ordinarily I felt they are just spending usual time as friends and that they are playing the WHOT game to keep themselves busy while discussing.

But when I got closer to them I discovered that there was a dirty container close to them and inside the container is money they bet for the game they are playing , and if not careful observed you will never believe that they are playing bet games .

My curiosity led me closer to them I was interacting with one of them and at same time observing what they are doing , one thing I observed was that they stake with huge amount and they don’t give you change even when your money requires change instead you will use it and bet for another round.

So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.

We do know that we are living in a world on which almost everyone have that kind perceptions and views towards gambling on which it is something that really looks bad or automatically treating up that all of those individuals who are engaged on it would be considered addicted person on which it would really be that a normal or something which is in default in speaking about peoples views.This is why on the time that you would really be able on having that dealing then you would really be that tending to hide it from others on which there  are people who are really that not liking on making others do talk bad about them and there's some that don't really care about other people's saying as long they are having that kind of fun on their gambling activities.

There are really just those common judgmental inputs or insights in regarding about dealing with gambling on where there are people who can't just bare up with those kind of shit insights on what they are doing and just that not that not liking for them to hear about.
So it would really be just that depending on a certain person.
sr. member
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April 13, 2024, 03:47:35 PM
So at this point I decided to bring it here to know or see different views from different intellects here on why do some people hide just to gamble or if it is the best way to gamble ?.
There are people who know that there are people who consider others who gamble as irresponsible, and because these people still care about the opinions of those people, they tend to keep their gambling a secret and hide their gambling from others who are especially not gamblers. Then there are others who know that they should not be gambling, maybe because they are underaged, not financially in that position, or even their religion, these people will hide whenever they are gambling.
Probably they are not hiding at all, or they are just playing on their meeting place where they consider this as their bonding but yeah people are hiding when it comes to gambling for some reason, maybe because gambling is illegal on their place, or their family will not allow them to do this and their only option is to gamble secretly. Well, if you are doing illegal things that is not good at all, and if you don’t want to get caught better to gamble online because your friends might put you down later on because of this kind of activity.
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