Can I ask why people are not honest. As in, why is it that people don't keep to their words even when they can do so? Can't I just do business with someone without signing papers and get lawyers and witnesses and still keep to my words? Can't we get trustworthy people anymore?
Trust is hard to earn and easy to lose. Early in the days, yes there was the gentlemen agreement, or the samurai code and so on. Those were the times, people and society was differently structured, but in our days, capitalism help to be a disloyal man. Everything is for the money and incomes, assets and so on, it doesn't mater any more the person, his deeds and so on, except perhaps Japan. I remember a footage from a worker in telecommunication, after the tsunami, that they were at their work station voluntarily and when they were asked why are they at work and not home with their family (it was an European reporter) she answered that if she doesn't do her job thing gets worst. Can we find this kind of answer in the mainland?? Exactly, that is the problem but 10x God, we are bot all the same:) so you have to be positive, there are nice serious and loyal people out there, not many but they exist.