This is absolutely correct especially in Africa societies. The system is very unfavorable to men because of lots of responsibilities. In fact, in a family where women are taking care of some responsibilities are being referred to as unserious family and the men will not respected in the society. And honestly, that's what we are trained to believe and I personally will not be happy to see my woman providing for the family while I'm around. Being a man in Africa society is another term for responsibility ranging from providing for your woman, children, parents and your siblings. These lots of responsibility is the reason why Africa is still underdevelop because women are contributing almost nothing to the society rather than being a consumer. In short, is either you spend or you spend, you have no choice than to spend.