Before answering this question, I will like to ask some few vital questions, as follows;
1. Who the children school fees and house rent? Men or Women... Men, right?
2. Who provides food for the family?.. Men, right?
3. Who pays for most of the major bills in the family?.. Men, right?
So if all these are been done by men, then how do you expect him to be economical when he has to pay for school fees, house rent, provide food for the family and pay major bills. And that doesn't mean I disagree with the fact, as women are created to be caregiver and home builder/manager.
Surely, You haven't seen a family where women earn most of their income. You are talking about most families but not all families. Men do not always make money. Sometimes, his wife works, and the husband takes care of their kids. Sometimes, both of them work and make money for their family. So, when most of the money comes from a woman, who pays the bills?
It just varies from family to another family. Maybe in your family, you make money; maybe I earn money for my family. But, it does not apply to every family. If you talk like this, you are not on the right path. You have to see both sides.
I am witnessing 2 families whose economy depends on the wife instead of the husband, one family is near my house and the other is my cousin's family. Both husbands are housewives and take care of the children, while the two wives are the economic breadwinners of the family.
Not in every family, the man will be the breadwinner, the one who earns and spends everything. And that doesn't mean we look down on men who take care of the housework for their families. What's more interesting is the two families I'm talking about, they are very happy families and have no quarrels like my family
. There is no discrimination between wives and husbands.
Gender is not a measure to say who will earn more money or who will be the breadwinner for the family in today's modern world.