I will get around to re-posting the conversation I had with gmaxwell here, I can show you exactly where this fundemental disagreement lies. I do actually agree with you though. Core can implement whatever they want to implement regardless of what the economic majority wants, however it is important that the economic majority knows that they do have this choice, and that they do not adhere to more totalitarian philosophies in regards to Core. This is a question of our political culture within the Bitcoin community, which I still think is going through a awakening and self realization. Which is why I also keep quoting RIP Rowan about how we can only lose our freedom if we become convinced to give up it. The same is true for pre-existing political theory, power always comes from the people, ultimatly it is the people that choose to give up their freedom, and once surrendered it is not as easy to regain.
To answer your question brg444, I will continue to support the Bitcoin network and respect the proof of work consensus. Bitcoin unlimited and Bitcoin XT still operate on the same blockchain as Core does, without a mining majority BIP101 will also not fork the network, we are still both part of the same economy. Therefore in the absence of BIP101 forking the network through proof of work consensus, I still de facto support any blocksize increase Core implements.
We must have different definitions of totalitarian. I don't find an open source project repository that allows for pull requests from anyone , Complete transparency in code, advocates for competing implementations and the right for people to ultimately choose, encourages participation, criticism and testing to be
totalitarian. I don't understand how you square those polar opposites.
To be fair the closest I have seen to be "totalitarian" like behavior is some censorship here and on reddit. Spotty censorship that appears to have lessoned, but that wasn't coming from any devs.
I suppose we can be clearer by keep repeating to people Bitcoin is open source protocol where people can come and go as they please and select their implementation they prefer over and over again ad naseum. Would that suffice, or what do you expect?