You know, I was really trying to help because my intention for this is good and to be tied up and accused of different stuff feels so demotivating. It just made it feel even sadder and harder to defend if all they see is the negative ones and not praise the ones that have been done already.
As they say, it can take years to build a stellar reputation but only seconds to ruin it. There have been many people throughout history who've done a lot of charity work and other good works for people only to have it sullied by a scandal. Bernie Madoff is the first example that comes to mind, but I could probably list a dozen others if I thought about it for a few minutes.
In addition, good intentions count for little if the accompanying behavior isn't good--the road to hell is paved with them, to use another old saying. So you shouldn't be surprised that this charity, the members behind it, and how the funds donated were spent are all being scrutinized with critical eyes. You've been a member of the forum long enough that you should know that reputations are destroyed in an instant and it doesn't matter what a person's history was. Ultimately this is the internet and more importantly this is bitcoin. It's very easy to scam with due to its pseudo-anonymous nature, and the whole bitcoin space is full of scammers and always has been.
You know the sad thing about this is that once you thought of somebody not logging in, it’s already a burned account or something but that’s not always the case.
Again with your feelings, just like cabalism13. I don't know about anyone else, but the feelings of the three of you are irrelevant. The receipts and how the money was spent are. And again, you've been a member of bitcointalk long enough that you ought to know how members tend to think when it comes to someone not replying to a scam accusation while still being active on the forum.
Well you suggested this few days ago so I am not surprised, but I think it's a bit harsh and especially doing this during holiday season.
I don't know if it was so hard for you to wait few more days after new year.
What does the holiday season have to do with any of this? Should anyone care more about the emotional feelings of three members who are being questioned by the community about some very serious matters? And on top of that, there's been ample time for all of them to respond in this thread.
I supported both flags thus far.
we had much worse situation with official bitcointalk forum donations and new forum software that never happened.
I don't think that anyone was tagged or received negative feedback for that.
That's a case of "whataboutism" if I ever saw one, and those examples have nothing to do with
this thread. I hate to say this (and I'm not attacking you, but your argument), but you're being far too lenient on these three members and perhaps a bit naive as well.