Topic: Do you care about what people say about you gambling? - page 8. (Read 4188 times)

Passion for strange things makes us become eccentric in the eyes of many people, especially these people become bees, flies, constantly prying and pointing, even causing trouble to our daily habits, instead of saying that the spread of gambling habits is embarrassing, we should admit that this disclosure is more annoying because the outsider's perspective is too different from this passion. Ignoring others can't defeat one's curiosity, a part of habit and privacy should become a secret, even if close, there will be moments of saying the wrong thing and creating more trouble.

I, on the other hand, do not tell anyone that I gamble at the casino online. Then what does it matter to others if someone plays gambling, they can be warned but it is the scope of the decision that is not right. Because it is really our choice to play at the casino.

Now, if it's really me, I'll take my gambling to myself, instead of telling or telling others, at least they won't say anything to me because they don't know that I gamble.

I don't spread the words about my gambling practice over the street but if I did this I would not care about  strangers' wording relevant to my passion. However I care about this in my close circuit ^{(like close relatives,  family and friends)}. Probably I'm lucky one , because in this circuit I am not meeting difficulties to discuss this soft spot in my life which makes me feel that I'm not on a wrong track.

In other words, you are interested in whether other gamblers are embarrassed about their passion for gambling, right?

As long as the gambler is lucky and manages to win, he has no reason to worry about the opinion of others about him, on the contrary, others will envy him. But as soon as the streak of luck ends, the opposite effect appears: condemnation, reproach and reproach appear in the eyes of others.

In fact, the gambler should learn to abstract from the surrounding "noise" so that it doesn't interfere with the game process. And the best thing is to gamble alone without unnecessary attention from others and the problem with "what people says or sees you as when gambling" disappears by itself.

Indeed, if the criticism comes from important people in our lives, it's a different story. If we continue to ignore harsh criticism from people who matter to us, then the problem is clearly with us, not them.

Also, I find it confusing that most people say they don't care what other people say about their gambling habits or what's going on in their lives, but they are the ones who love to give advice to others. Many people even criticize harshly when others do not think the same way they do. It is unfair when we ignore other people's advice but always want to impose our thoughts on others.

If you want others to respect you, you must first respect them, we should not be so selfish as to only want others to follow our own will.

I love this response, it's 100% in line with my philosophy of life. If you fall/fail today, it's people who will mock you regardless of whether or not you follow their advice, so why not just live your life and be proud of yourself for what you are living all by yourself? Caring too much about how people feel about you or what they will say will make you make mistakes and want to always be conscious, so where is the self-respect and confidence? The only consideration here is for me to live a good life, a life that is worthy of emulation and respect. Doing things responsibly is always the way out here, especially if it's a risky activity like gambling.

Most of the comments I have red so far are mostly saying they don't care about what people do say about their gambling habits and for awhile I feel for some of them it's because they have not really been in a position where they had to face intensed criticism and some important persons in their lives who they really care about is yet to make a comment in that regards, the main question comes after these set of persons express some concerns, let's see if you really wouldn't care.

Yes, we don't have to think about what people saying about us especially if we don't disturb them or make them angry to us. As long as we can be responsible with all things that we do, we can enjoy our life without thinks about other people. We don't have any business with those who speak up about us especially if they talk a bad thing about us. If we argue with them, we just waste our energy and that can impact to our day and we can have a problem with them. That will never end because they will defend their saying and still telling many more bad things about us so we can not do what we need to do.

Personally, I don't care about what they say because I only monitor my game, besides I don't think I will disturb people around me because I play with my cellphone, I will try to make the people around me as comfortable as possible, because we actually have privacy, even if we see it, we just have to be quiet without having to comment on what we are doing because we are not disturbing them, especially if we don't know the person

This is only true if they are not our loved ones because they may just be jealous of our lives but if those words come from our parents or wife, we should not ignore them. Because they just want us to get better, they don't want us to fall into the trap of addiction or out of control gambling .  We should take the time to explain to them and listen to their contributions to improve ourselves because sometimes there are things that outsiders see but insiders do not realize .

But if you are so stubborn that you ignore everything, even what your parents or wife say ,  and always think that what you do is right, then it's okay .  But you will soon find yourself in a similar situation where your wife and children do not listen to you and ignore all your advice . So in my opinion , it depends on the person giving the advice and we need to be flexible in how we respond .

I very rarely notice that someone says something about me, or I simply do not pay attention to it. What I do, what I wear, where I work and everything else is only my business, my well-being will not change from someone's opinion, I will not live better just because I will try to please others, and if they do not like something about me, then it is not my problem. I perceive someone's opinion about gambling in the same way, I know that there are many people who consider gambling to be something bad, I will not argue with this, everyone sees what he believes.

Its never new on having those bad impressions and views towards gambling because they would really be that usually be focusing or spotting into its cons rather into its actual usage or main purpose of its existence
on which its not really that shocking that they will really be putting up some focus into its cons on which there's nothing we can do about it. It will really be just that depending on how a certain individual would really be treating up on gambling in the first place. If you do mind off too much on others peoples words on what they would really be gonna saying towards you then it will really be just that up to you whether you will really be that minding too much or wont really be caring at all. There would really be those individuals who would really be that too sensitive whenever they will really be able to hear out something from other people.

In my case, then i dont really just that care at all on whatever i would be doing with my money since its not theirs then its non of their business on how i would really be dealing up with things. People cant really just that stop nor able to avoid on telling into someone whenever they have observe something negative. There would really be those individuals who do really loves on involving into other peoples lives
and instead on minding their own business. For you to be able to avoid such possible conflict and stress then it will really best that you should ignore those people around you on whatever they've been saying.

I don't give a damn about what they say..really.

Yes, there are still those who think gambling is a bad thing. Well, it's because both gamblers and casinos are showing irresponsible things that made the news or a trend in social media, and that makes a person think that gambling won't do anyone good.
Gambling addiction, many gamblers now are being affected by this because they are shown possibilities of a high multiplier win in slots or in parlays.
With this kind of negative news spreading in social media, those who hate gambling will hate them more and those who gamble will be hated by those who have not even tried gambling yet.

I remember that one guy who shared his experience in gambling and he had a brand new bike, but in the caption, it says at the end that he had a motorbike before, but he sold it because of gambling that's why he is now riding a cheap bicycle only. That gained a lot of attention and many told their opinions of how bad gambling is.

If you care about what people say as pertaining what you do you'll end up with their own decisions but in the aspects of gambling I would say when people's opinions should matter to you will be when your gambling habits is getting out of hand and then someone had to come in to say hey this way you're going isn't good and profitable so back off, when this is the subject of the day should be when you follow suits, I know of a truth some don't like anyone saying or contributing to anything that pertains them gambling but for me I don't care what people say cause I act responsibly with my gambling habits.

What people say doesn't really matter, as long as you know that you are on the right track and not addicted to gambling then there's absolutely nothing to worry about. The society has a way of stereotyping those that are into gambling it doesn't matter whether they do it moderately or not which is why gambling is something that should be done privately without any one knowing what you are up to. Gambling has caused more harm than good to a lot of people in the society that's why people would easily classify those that engage in it as irresponsible.

That's right my friend, indeed around us there are still many people who cannot accept or reject this gambling activity because according to them gambling is a bad activity and can cause big problems in someone's life.
I agree with you, letting other people say bad things about us about the activities we have done, namely gambling, is something important because after all we are certainly ready to accept all the risks and what is important is that we use the betting money with the money we have ourselves, not from borrowing or asking.

People who are addicted certainly cannot be compared to those who gamble but are not yet addicted, because those who already have an addiction will definitely see gambling as the main thing they will do every day of their life until they forget about other jobs even though other jobs are much better than just gamble. So it is very normal for someone who is addicted to find it difficult to stop because as long as there is still capital that he can sacrifice, that person will always gamble non-stop.

Sometimes there are even many people who are not happy or don't like the things we do, whether because of envy or whatever, but that definitely happens in life. I myself don't care what other people will say about the gambling I do, what's more, I do it using my own money and there are no losses that happen to or involve other people, so it's not a problem. Even though gambling is prohibited in my country, I will do it if I really want to and the point is that it doesn't harm other people.
Apart from that, as long as I gamble within normal limits or under control, it's fine, I don't think we need to listen to what other people say, but it's a good idea to respect it properly if the purpose of what other people say is to raise awareness. us or remind us not to do it too much, then I will accept it happily, not even oppose it, because even though gambling is done by one's own desires, there is no harm in accepting advice from other people.

If a person who has been addicted to gambling for a long time is going to give up gambling, it will be difficult for him to quit gambling. Because it is very difficult for those who are once addicted to gambling to give up gambling. Maybe we all know that gambling is the reason.  Many people become addicted to gambling almost constantly despite knowing these serious harms.